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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So obviously when you go away the chances of meeting others swingers are few and far between. You’ve met a couple who you’ve been spending a bit of time with and enjoying each other’s company, how do you approach the subject to see if they’d be up for taking things a bit further? |
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First step is we gauge our audience. Are we getting a fun and open minded vibe or indeed maybe even swinger vibes. If the vibe is right next step:
Step two. We conveniently drop into the conversation that we're swingers. Surprisingly most couples don't run for the hills. Maybe this is testament to our skill with step one. Most of the times couples are intrigued and want to know more. We talk a little bit about what we do and what we get out of it as individuals and as a couple. In return once we have a rapport try and gauge where they're at, what they're open to and their intrest. Although if it turns out they are swingers you can skip most of this stage (obviously).
Step three try and initiate a bit of carefree playful fun and messing about. Often a little kiss with each others partners. Then basically see how it goes and take it from there.
Never really had anyone run for the hills. Generally it's well received and a couple of times we've evangelised vanilla couples. A notable mention was a couple Mrs Misfit was talking at the bar in a Hotel at a function. Anyways we got to know each other a bit and they were very interested. Never done anything like that before. Later on they bought a bottle of vodka from the bar and invited us up to their room. It was very hot and just worked, great chemistry. In fact it worked so well we arranged to do it again a few months later (which was also a hot night).
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"First step is we gauge our audience. Are we getting a fun and open minded vibe or indeed maybe even swinger vibes. If the vibe is right next step:
Step two. We conveniently drop into the conversation that we're swingers. Surprisingly most couples don't run for the hills. Maybe this is testament to our skill with step one. Most of the times couples are intrigued and want to know more. We talk a little bit about what we do and what we get out of it as individuals and as a couple. In return once we have a rapport try and gauge where they're at, what they're open to and their intrest. Although if it turns out they are swingers you can skip most of this stage (obviously).
Step three try and initiate a bit of carefree playful fun and messing about. Often a little kiss with each others partners. Then basically see how it goes and take it from there.
Never really had anyone run for the hills. Generally it's well received and a couple of times we've evangelised vanilla couples. A notable mention was a couple Mrs Misfit was talking at the bar in a Hotel at a function. Anyways we got to know each other a bit and they were very interested. Never done anything like that before. Later on they bought a bottle of vodka from the bar and invited us up to their room. It was very hot and just worked, great chemistry. In fact it worked so well we arranged to do it again a few months later (which was also a hot night).
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Love this, quite similar to our experiences |
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I’ve just been away with my friend. We’ve found that she’ll usually catch a women looking at her. She’ll talk to her and broach the subject. She’s not shy though haha. It’s a good tule of thumb though. If your lass finds someone attractive it’s smooth sailing from there |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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"First step is we gauge our audience. Are we getting a fun and open minded vibe or indeed maybe even swinger vibes. If the vibe is right next step:
Step two. We conveniently drop into the conversation that we're swingers. Surprisingly most couples don't run for the hills. Maybe this is testament to our skill with step one. Most of the times couples are intrigued and want to know more. We talk a little bit about what we do and what we get out of it as individuals and as a couple. In return once we have a rapport try and gauge where they're at, what they're open to and their intrest. Although if it turns out they are swingers you can skip most of this stage (obviously).
Step three try and initiate a bit of carefree playful fun and messing about. Often a little kiss with each others partners. Then basically see how it goes and take it from there.
Never really had anyone run for the hills. Generally it's well received and a couple of times we've evangelised vanilla couples. A notable mention was a couple Mrs Misfit was talking at the bar in a Hotel at a function. Anyways we got to know each other a bit and they were very interested. Never done anything like that before. Later on they bought a bottle of vodka from the bar and invited us up to their room. It was very hot and just worked, great chemistry. In fact it worked so well we arranged to do it again a few months later (which was also a hot night).
Love this, quite similar to our experiences"
Now there's inspiration! A particular fantasy of mine and I'm quite sure Mr wouldn't be adverse  |
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