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"A I'd say as gf is a bbw and love everything bout bbw's " Billy | |||
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"Maybe option D: none of the above??????" Explain lol | |||
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"A I'd say as gf is a bbw and love everything bout bbw's " "Like" | |||
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"B " Interesting | |||
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"How do men and women differ when describing a bbw? I would say as a size 18 I am a bbw, but some men say no way, some women say I can't be classed as one unless I am over a size 20, so my dilemma is... go on a diet, eat more cake or stay as I am and not bother about what people think. " Lol !!!!!! Brill xx | |||
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"I like bbw's xxxxx" Soz should have asked the ladies too xxx | |||
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"Maybe option D: none of the above?????? Explain lol" lol Not a turn off defo not Not a passion Not a gulty pleasure So it is something else then Some will turn me on just for who they are ( personality ) and not their size. Some won't | |||
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"How do men and women differ when describing a bbw? I would say as a size 18 I am a bbw, but some men say no way, some women say I can't be classed as one unless I am over a size 20, so my dilemma is... go on a diet, eat more cake or stay as I am and not bother about what people think. " The last one The term bbw and its various meanings is simply a state of mind I think. I use it to let people know I'm fat and let them make the decision to message me or not. It's up to you how you describe yourself. If you think you are a bbw then you are, if you find the term doesn't sit well with you then don't use it. | |||
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"Maybe option D: none of the above?????? Explain lol lol Not a turn off defo not Not a passion Not a gulty pleasure So it is something else then Some will turn me on just for who they are ( personality ) and not their size. Some won't " Good answer | |||
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"Lol getting hot in here looking at all these bbw's. xxx" Hehe | |||
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"The same can be said of guys I suppose, I am really not attracted to very slim/skinny guys just as not all guys are attracted to me, it's just personal preference. We are all sexy to the right person. x" V true | |||
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"All depends on the person. Could look beautiful but be a right twunt. Same as slim people could look beatiful but be a twunt. Each to their own. P.S can it not turn into a fat v skinny thread please. " The first one of 2013 | |||
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"A and B Even better with big tits to fuck. X " If it's a turn on, why is it a guilty pleasure? | |||
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"All depends on the person. Could look beautiful but be a right twunt. Same as slim people could look beatiful but be a twunt. Each to their own. P.S can it not turn into a fat v skinny thread please. The first one of 2013 " Shhh didnt want to remind people | |||
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"wht does bbw mean " Big bastard wanker I think | |||
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"why not just bin lables.. cant a person be someone who is an erotic and sexual being in their own right.. just a thought.. " Tut. Now youre just being silly suggesting such an idea | |||
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"why not just bin lables.. cant a person be someone who is an erotic and sexual being in their own right.. just a thought.. " Thanks you wise lady xx | |||
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"why not just bin lables.. cant a person be someone who is an erotic and sexual being in their own right.. just a thought.. " Because there will always be labels like it or not.. The OP just asked a question with an answer of A B or C .. Not for people to straight away jump to the defensive,and try turn the thread into a fight like normaly happens with these threads | |||
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"why not just bin lables.. cant a person be someone who is an erotic and sexual being in their own right.. just a thought.. Tut. Now youre just being silly suggesting such an idea " Ta, its me new years resolution thingie to be sillier than Mr silly the Mayor of silliville at the annual gathering of silliest people.. | |||
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"why not just bin lables.. cant a person be someone who is an erotic and sexual being in their own right.. just a thought.. Because there will always be labels like it or not.. The OP just asked a question with an answer of A B or C .. Not for people to straight away jump to the defensive,and try turn the thread into a fight like normaly happens with these threads" Why thank you for explaining that.. and whom in your opinion is trying to turn the thread into a 'fight'..? | |||
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"why not just bin lables.. cant a person be someone who is an erotic and sexual being in their own right.. just a thought.. " No, now answer the bloody question | |||
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"why not just bin lables.. cant a person be someone who is an erotic and sexual being in their own right.. just a thought.. Thanks you wise lady xx" Wise...Moi!! | |||
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"why not just bin lables.. cant a person be someone who is an erotic and sexual being in their own right.. just a thought.. No, now answer the bloody question " | |||
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"Maybe option D: none of the above?????? Explain lol lol Not a turn off defo not Not a passion Not a gulty pleasure So it is something else then Some will turn me on just for who they are ( personality ) and not their size. Some won't " I couldn't agree more | |||
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"why not just bin lables.. cant a person be someone who is an erotic and sexual being in their own right.. just a thought.. Because there will always be labels like it or not.. The OP just asked a question with an answer of A B or C .. Not for people to straight away jump to the defensive,and try turn the thread into a fight like normaly happens with these threads" Indeed x | |||
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"I dont mind having a label, its easier to say I'm a bisexual BBW, than pussy footing around trying to explain I love women and I'm fat! For me, I love to play with women of all sizes, but I'm very drawn to ladies who are much larger than myself....just love to explore their bodies " agree with that but from a mans point of view | |||
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"All the people who put B, or more importantly A and B, why do you say it's a guilty pleasure? This really does interest me.....not liking to start a fight, I promise. " It seems some are definitely A absolutely adore BBW's but there are people who really want to play with BBW's but would never admit wanting to hence their guilty pleasure x | |||
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"wht does bbw mean Big bastard wanker I think " why thanku thats helpfull i was serious | |||
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"I've always thought of myself as a bbw and I'm always being told I'm not, as they say we put ourselves in the brackets most suited coming on here I've found I'm more average in size but I'm always happy with myself In terms of guys I've always liked the buff athletic guys but found myself really attracted to a guy in the last week who's very overweight and admits it himself I actually felt really Cain and horrible telling him that whilst I was attracted to him and found him attractive I couldn't be sure sexually if I'd fancy him and felt really bad for admitting that but he took it in the chin and we've spent some time together, whilst I'm not looking at him and thinking wow it's very much a deeper attraction, whether or not it will last who knows but for now I'm enjoying spending time with someone I like being with " Oops wrong button post again lol | |||
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"wht does bbw mean Big bastard wanker I think why thanku thats helpfull i was serious " Big Beautiful Women | |||
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"why not just bin lables.. cant a person be someone who is an erotic and sexual being in their own right.. just a thought.. Because there will always be labels like it or not.. The OP just asked a question with an answer of A B or C .. Not for people to straight away jump to the defensive,and try turn the thread into a fight like normaly happens with these threads Indeed x" Ok, for the record i was'nt jumping to anything nor trying to turn the thread into a 'fight'.. anyone who may garner that from what i posted quite frankly is possibly either stirring it or fails to understand that any question will expand... especially one such as this where something as fundamentally important as a persons 'personality' and sexual confidence will be something most people will think of.. ALL threads on these forums tend to diversify and expand.. merely giving an opinion and making a suggestion.. OP if my post has caused you to think what you have agreed with, then i apologise.. and i would ask you the same question i asked 'Cap d'agde cpl' ...? | |||
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"wht does bbw mean Big bastard wanker I think why thanku thats helpfull i was serious Big Beautiful Women " thanks hun i thought it was somthing along those lines xxx | |||
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"wht does bbw mean Big bastard wanker I think why thanku thats helpfull i was serious Big Beautiful Women thanks hun i thought it was somthing along those lines xxx" You are more than welcome xxx | |||
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"Bbws are a turn on, very sexy!" | |||
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"I have a question... How do you become happy in your own body? Some are saying as long as you're happy in your skin it doesn't matter what you are. I'm not happy with my size, don't think I've ever been and I'm always on some sort of diet but the fact is I love food too much. I'd love to know how I can be happy with my size " Tried to reply privately but it wouldn't let me well when I ditched all my old underwear and started buying new undies sexy lacy well fitting I started feeling better I bought a larger mirror and started doing my own catwalk for myself taking photos for myself not for anyone else and knowing every day I'm wearing beautiful sexy underwear under my clothes gives me a little boost xx I guess realising that I'm Not trying to impress anyone made me feel better and getting down to my underwear with my friends most of whom are skinny and we all pointing out what we do t like and tbh I do actually look alot sexier than most of them in my undies and they all love my bum and my boobs realising that very few people are happy and not so many people really care helped me come a long way to where I am now yes I'd live to be slimmer but if I was really that bothered I would do something about it | |||
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"Right oh ladies and gents, I choose option D: " I was right to suggest option D... | |||
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"Right oh ladies and gents, I choose option D: if I get on with said lady her size bears no relevance. If passion more to love If guilty pleasure more fun to be had Turn off personal choice" Well said | |||
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"I have a question... How do you become happy in your own body? Some are saying as long as you're happy in your skin it doesn't matter what you are. I'm not happy with my size, don't think I've ever been and I'm always on some sort of diet but the fact is I love food too much. I'd love to know how I can be happy with my size " I don't think I can answer your question as I don't think there is a simple answer to it. Everyone has different reasons for what are, in effect, insecurities, whether it's related to body size, or something else. What I can say is that from looking at your pics you look amazing! | |||
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"A all the way :D" Great pics guys btw x | |||
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"I know others have said this but I just use fat. Some have told me I am too small to be a BBW and, frankly, I am hardly beautiful to most. Others tell me that I am big enough but that my bottom isn't big enough. It's all subjective. A lovely man on here and I decided I could go with VPW - voluptuous pretty woman - without breaching any trades descriptions." Like that | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. " So so very wrong fitter than most small girls naturally as carry more weight FACT !!!!!!!!!!! | |||
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"Agree there having sex with a size 24 isnt athletic at all although i like bbws but up to a point" Obviously never met me!!!! Lol Everyone is entitled to there opinion tbh | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. " Tbh everyone entitled to their own opinion but I never had any complaints & have LOTS of awesome energetic dirty fun with amazing people so regardless I'm a very happy bunny | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. So so very wrong fitter than most small girls naturally as carry more weight FACT !!!!!!!!!!!" So BBW's regularly compete in athletics, sporting events and are fit and healthy? No of course they don't and are not. Britian has a huge obesity problem, and I am willing to bet that on a bmi scale, most so called BBW's will be clinically obese. Anyway, we all like different shapes and sizes. It makes us individual. Different strokes for different folks and all that | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. So so very wrong fitter than most small girls naturally as carry more weight FACT !!!!!!!!!!!" Got to disagree on that point, small framed women are fitter than bigger framed women, take any sport you like and a smaller framed woman will out class a bigger framed woman on fitness. | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. " We don't waste cake dear There are truths in your experiences, obviously we do sweat more and I personally am very unfit but I also sweat because I like to make an effort when shagging.....I do not lie there and wait for you to climb on board, no siree!!! | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. " i have to agree I used to be a size 24, till i joined fat camp and lost over 7 stone, im now a size 14 so still big just not as big but my fltness level have boosted already, sex is so much better now i dont have 3 bellies getting in the way. i dont get out of breath as easy and i dont have to stop and make an effort to change possition like i used to, they just flow Loosing weight has definitely improvedmy sex life and im hoping it will get even better when ive lost the last of my weight its a proven fact that the less weight you carry the fitter and healthier you are so stands to reason you will go longer in bed | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. " I dont lie in a heap or just bend over, lol! That made me chuckle I'd rather eat my cake, rather than fling it | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. We don't waste cake dear There are truths in your experiences, obviously we do sweat more and I personally am very unfit but I also sweat because I like to make an effort when shagging.....I do not lie there and wait for you to climb on board, no siree!!!" Go girl !!!!!!! Xx | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. i have to agree I used to be a size 24, till i joined fat camp and lost over 7 stone, im now a size 14 so still big just not as big but my fltness level have boosted already, sex is so much better now i dont have 3 bellies getting in the way. i dont get out of breath as easy and i dont have to stop and make an effort to change possition like i used to, they just flow Loosing weight has definitely improvedmy sex life and im hoping it will get even better when ive lost the last of my weight its a proven fact that the less weight you carry the fitter and healthier you are so stands to reason you will go longer in bed " Well done on such a huge weight loss I lost 4 stone last year, but its not my weight that is an issue for me, its my arthritis and other health problems that get in the way. I've had the best sex ever since joining this site and I'm very lucky to have an understanding swinging friend. | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. " U r very right.. Not as bendable and not sure about the sweating tho.. Sex seems to make some people sweat more than others regardless of fitness.. | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. So so very wrong fitter than most small girls naturally as carry more weight FACT !!!!!!!!!!! Got to disagree on that point, small framed women are fitter than bigger framed women, take any sport you like and a smaller framed woman will out class a bigger framed woman on fitness. " Can totally understand some are but some of us do 4 classes a week so are fitter than others so more stamina! | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. We don't waste cake dear There are truths in your experiences, obviously we do sweat more and I personally am very unfit but I also sweat because I like to make an effort when shagging.....I do not lie there and wait for you to climb on board, no siree!!!" You beat me to it | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. So so very wrong fitter than most small girls naturally as carry more weight FACT !!!!!!!!!!! Got to disagree on that point, small framed women are fitter than bigger framed women, take any sport you like and a smaller framed woman will out class a bigger framed woman on fitness. " Yeah i don't see how you figured this out also... If this is true why weren't the womans or mens athletic team all over weight ? | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. i have to agree I used to be a size 24, till i joined fat camp and lost over 7 stone, im now a size 14 so still big just not as big but my fltness level have boosted already, sex is so much better now i dont have 3 bellies getting in the way. i dont get out of breath as easy and i dont have to stop and make an effort to change possition like i used to, they just flow Loosing weight has definitely improvedmy sex life and im hoping it will get even better when ive lost the last of my weight its a proven fact that the less weight you carry the fitter and healthier you are so stands to reason you will go longer in bed Well done on such a huge weight loss I lost 4 stone last year, but its not my weight that is an issue for me, its my arthritis and other health problems that get in the way. I've had the best sex ever since joining this site and I'm very lucky to have an understanding swinging friend. " thats why i lost weight, i have arthritis in my knees and i was finding it hard to walk with my exess weight, i now get about a lot better so tho i didnt loose weight for a better shag it sure has helped, infact my my whole being has improved since i joined fat camp | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. So so very wrong fitter than most small girls naturally as carry more weight FACT !!!!!!!!!!!" Very much not fact! Yes we carry more weight but the fat inside upsets the muscle workings, hormone levels, heart function etc.. Overweight people have very bad tummy muscle tone! | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. So so very wrong fitter than most small girls naturally as carry more weight FACT !!!!!!!!!!! Very much not fact! Yes we carry more weight but the fat inside upsets the muscle workings, hormone levels, heart function etc.. Overweight people have very bad tummy muscle tone! " Again depends on the individuals excercise regime | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. So so very wrong fitter than most small girls naturally as carry more weight FACT !!!!!!!!!!! Very much not fact! Yes we carry more weight but the fat inside upsets the muscle workings, hormone levels, heart function etc.. Overweight people have very bad tummy muscle tone! Again depends on the individuals excercise regime" if an over weight persons excersise regime was that good they wouldnt be overweight!.. its all about healthy eating to that gains fitness.. | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. " u don tlook very big tbh.. | |||
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"BBW A mans - A) Passion B) Guilty Pleasure Or. C) Total turn off ????????? " I (Lee) love a womans body in all shapes and sizes. They are all beautiful in their own right | |||
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" if an over weight persons excersise regime was that good they wouldnt be overweight" im glad you said that cause i was thinking that same but didnt want to be the first to say it | |||
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"A definite C BBW's tend to sweat more with their size and weight they are carrying. They are also on the whole unfit, and tend not to be able to get in to really great positions. They tend to lie in a heap or simpy bend over.... The above is all in my personal experience. I hope nobody takes offence...and the resident BBW's don't start slinging mud, or cake. i have to agree I used to be a size 24, till i joined fat camp and lost over 7 stone, im now a size 14 so still big just not as big but my fltness level have boosted already, sex is so much better now i dont have 3 bellies getting in the way. i dont get out of breath as easy and i dont have to stop and make an effort to change possition like i used to, they just flow Loosing weight has definitely improvedmy sex life and im hoping it will get even better when ive lost the last of my weight its a proven fact that the less weight you carry the fitter and healthier you are so stands to reason you will go longer in bed " That's great going. Glad to hear that you feel so much fitter and enjoy sex more. It's absolutely true that the fitter you are the better you feel. You should be an inspiration to all other BBW's on here. The term BBW seems to have been invented to make overweight people feel better about themselves. What is a fat ugly person called BUG? Lol. BBW's, your health and quality life are both at risk. Eat healthy, exercise and enjoy life, instead of sitting on here justifying it, and looking for admirers. Anyway rant over, and no offence meant. | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. " I'd bet money on any skinny girl against a BBW in a race around a running track.. I also believe 99% would win.. Remember we are talking BBW here and not curvy,which is what you call yourself.. Hell of alt of difference between the 2 although plenty think that one means the other | |||
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" if an over weight persons excersise regime was that good they wouldnt be overweight im glad you said that cause i was thinking that same but didnt want to be the first to say it " Well I do generally work that hard at it but I hav to things working against me I hav an under active thyroid n chronic asthma controlled by a high level of steroids so my hard work n healthy diet helps me to remain fit but my weight only seems to maintain itself I never seem to lose it I just refuse u use this illnesses as an excuse to sit around n get fatter! | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. I'd bet money on any skinny girl against a BBW in a race around a running track.. I also believe 99% would win.. Remember we are talking BBW here and not curvy,which is what you call yourself.. Hell of alt of difference between the 2 although plenty think that one means the other " Good point, I am talking, overweight and obese people. Not curvy! Curves on a woman, doesn't get much better. Overweight and unfit women, passing themselves of as a "BBW" doesn't get much worse. | |||
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"Regardless of how they may be. Someone is beautiful just the way they are. Thats all lol" Yes you are completely right everyone's perfect in their own way xxx | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. I'd bet money on any skinny girl against a BBW in a race around a running track.. I also believe 99% would win.. Remember we are talking BBW here and not curvy,which is what you call yourself.. Hell of alt of difference between the 2 although plenty think that one means the other " hum your crossing a thin line here now lol Im a size 14 and i class myself as a BBW, tho i have seen women on here bigger than me stating they are average or even athletic Just the prase BBW is a mind field in itself lol | |||
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"Well all I can say to the comments about and bigger women being fitter than the smaller women is its really opening my eyes, I have spent the last 30 years in the gym scene, I train 5-6 days a week and can honestly say I have never seen a BBW outclass a smaller framed lady. They are certainly not faster at running, they aren't as flexible, yes they can hit harder but that's a weight advantage not fitness, a good circuit session (body pump or combat) will see the bigger lady faulter before the smaller one. As a lot of said each to the own on the size issue but you cannot compare fitness levels. " Agreed. Case closed. | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. I'd bet money on any skinny girl against a BBW in a race around a running track.. I also believe 99% would win.. Remember we are talking BBW here and not curvy,which is what you call yourself.. Hell of alt of difference between the 2 although plenty think that one means the other hum your crossing a thin line here now lol Im a size 14 and i class myself as a BBW, tho i have seen women on here bigger than me stating they are average or even athletic Just the prase BBW is a mind field in itself lol" Size 14 isn't BBW! That's average body size isn't it? | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. I'd bet money on any skinny girl against a BBW in a race around a running track.. I also believe 99% would win.. Remember we are talking BBW here and not curvy,which is what you call yourself.. Hell of alt of difference between the 2 although plenty think that one means the other hum your crossing a thin line here now lol Im a size 14 and i class myself as a BBW, tho i have seen women on here bigger than me stating they are average or even athletic Just the prase BBW is a mind field in itself lol" Doesn't stop you getting lots of meets though! | |||
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"Well all I can say to the comments about and bigger women being fitter than the smaller women is its really opening my eyes, I have spent the last 30 years in the gym scene, I train 5-6 days a week and can honestly say I have never seen a BBW outclass a smaller framed lady. They are certainly not faster at running, they aren't as flexible, yes they can hit harder but that's a weight advantage not fitness, a good circuit session (body pump or combat) will see the bigger lady faulter before the smaller one. As a lot of said each to the own on the size issue but you cannot compare fitness levels. " when i was a size 24 i couldnt even do my own shoes up when i bent over my belly used to sit on my legs stopping me from getting down far enough, i cant see how a big lady can be flexible when they have rolls when they bend, i openly admit i wasnt, infact it was getting a handicap if im honest | |||
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"Well all I can say to the comments about and bigger women being fitter than the smaller women is its really opening my eyes, I have spent the last 30 years in the gym scene, I train 5-6 days a week and can honestly say I have never seen a BBW outclass a smaller framed lady. They are certainly not faster at running, they aren't as flexible, yes they can hit harder but that's a weight advantage not fitness, a good circuit session (body pump or combat) will see the bigger lady faulter before the smaller one. As a lot of said each to the own on the size issue but you cannot compare fitness levels. " As we see every January when the biggest loser is on TV ..If thats being fit i'd hate to see unfit .. | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. I'd bet money on any skinny girl against a BBW in a race around a running track.. I also believe 99% would win.. Remember we are talking BBW here and not curvy,which is what you call yourself.. Hell of alt of difference between the 2 although plenty think that one means the other hum your crossing a thin line here now lol Im a size 14 and i class myself as a BBW, tho i have seen women on here bigger than me stating they are average or even athletic Just the prase BBW is a mind field in itself lol Size 14 isn't BBW! That's average body size isn't it? " yeah but only cause women are getting bigger, it wasnt average 60 years ago lol | |||
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"Sorry for getting all ranty but if there is one thing I cannot stand it's someone preaching to me about how I live my life. " Don't apologise for ranting. It does seem this thread went from a lighthearted theme to lecture mode quite quickly. For the record I am neither a BBW or SBW. I am fitter than some and fatter than others. And guess what? I manage not to tell anyone that they aren't living their life the right way. Because its none of my business. | |||
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"And it starts......the preaching about being fat and losing weight! The cries of 'not every big girl is beautiful'. Of course they're not but I dint believe everyone who uses term believes they are either. It's just a label not a legally binding description up held by the trades description act! Just like not every VWE man is actually VWE Wish their was a like button here LIKE xxx This thread was going along so nicely, even some of the more 'vocal' bbw haters have actually been quite polite We are all adults who have brains and know the risks, live with the illnesses and abuse. We make our own decisions and live with the consequences. Just like smokers, just like drinkers, just like drug users. Sorry for getting all ranty but if there is one thing I cannot stand it's someone preaching to me about how I live my life. " | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. I'd bet money on any skinny girl against a BBW in a race around a running track.. I also believe 99% would win.. Remember we are talking BBW here and not curvy,which is what you call yourself.. Hell of alt of difference between the 2 although plenty think that one means the other Good point, I am talking, overweight and obese people. Not curvy! Curves on a woman, doesn't get much better. Overweight and unfit women, passing themselves of as a "BBW" doesn't get much worse. " So if bbw's are so unattractive to you how come you have slept with mote than one (as a previous post would suggest), desperate times??? Lol | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. I'd bet money on any skinny girl against a BBW in a race around a running track.. I also believe 99% would win.. Remember we are talking BBW here and not curvy,which is what you call yourself.. Hell of alt of difference between the 2 although plenty think that one means the other hum your crossing a thin line here now lol Im a size 14 and i class myself as a BBW, tho i have seen women on here bigger than me stating they are average or even athletic Just the prase BBW is a mind field in itself lol Size 14 isn't BBW! That's average body size isn't it? yeah but only cause women are getting bigger, it wasnt average 60 years ago lol " I think the uk average is a 16. Now on a tall women, say 5"9 or above that will look great. On a short woman at 5'2 it will be obese. It's all about the BMI. After checking your profile, on my opinion you are curvy and certainly not a BBW. In my opinion. | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. I'd bet money on any skinny girl against a BBW in a race around a running track.. I also believe 99% would win.. Remember we are talking BBW here and not curvy,which is what you call yourself.. Hell of alt of difference between the 2 although plenty think that one means the other Good point, I am talking, overweight and obese people. Not curvy! Curves on a woman, doesn't get much better. Overweight and unfit women, passing themselves of as a "BBW" doesn't get much worse. So if bbw's are so unattractive to you how come you have slept with mote than one (as a previous post would suggest), desperate times??? Lol " Think we all have a moment of madness at some point in our life. No different from sleeping with an ugly guy. Beer googles lol. Anyway as I have said, i dont want to cause offence to anyone. Peace.... Even to the BBW's lol x | |||
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"so not true about the bigger versus smaller Big girl here.. but I can run faster,punch harder, more flexible than 50% of the smaller girlies in my circuits class Bit of pigeon holing there.. I'd bet money on any skinny girl against a BBW in a race around a running track.. I also believe 99% would win.. Remember we are talking BBW here and not curvy,which is what you call yourself.. Hell of alt of difference between the 2 although plenty think that one means the other Good point, I am talking, overweight and obese people. Not curvy! Curves on a woman, doesn't get much better. Overweight and unfit women, passing themselves of as a "BBW" doesn't get much worse. So if bbw's are so unattractive to you how come you have slept with mote than one (as a previous post would suggest), desperate times??? Lol Think we all have a moment of madness at some point in our life. No different from sleeping with an ugly guy. Beer googles lol. Anyway as I have said, i dont want to cause offence to anyone. Peace.... Even to the BBW's lol x" Glad it you and not me !! I'm keeping zipped on this one ... | |||
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"Sorry for getting all ranty but if there is one thing I cannot stand it's someone preaching to me about how I live my life. Don't apologise for ranting. It does seem this thread went from a lighthearted theme to lecture mode quite quickly. For the record I am neither a BBW or SBW. I am fitter than some and fatter than others. And guess what? I manage not to tell anyone that they aren't living their life the right way. Because its none of my business." another voice of sense. Dont get these threads, surely its all preference? If you dont like move on. Im sure us larger ladies wont let our cake get soggy with our tears of rejection and helpful advice on how to live | |||
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"Well all I can say to the comments about and bigger women being fitter than the smaller women is its really opening my eyes, I have spent the last 30 years in the gym scene, I train 5-6 days a week and can honestly say I have never seen a BBW outclass a smaller framed lady. They are certainly not faster at running, they aren't as flexible, yes they can hit harder but that's a weight advantage not fitness, a good circuit session (body pump or combat) will see the bigger lady faulter before the smaller one. As a lot of said each to the own on the size issue but you cannot compare fitness levels. Well i always offered to assist with your shoes and bellies never got in the way but still i wasnt fit enough to shag ya when i was a size 24 i couldnt even do my own shoes up when i bent over my belly used to sit on my legs stopping me from getting down far enough, i cant see how a big lady can be flexible when they have rolls when they bend, i openly admit i wasnt, infact it was getting a handicap if im honest" | |||
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"Sorry for getting all ranty but if there is one thing I cannot stand it's someone preaching to me about how I live my life. Don't apologise for ranting. It does seem this thread went from a lighthearted theme to lecture mode quite quickly. For the record I am neither a BBW or SBW. I am fitter than some and fatter than others. And guess what? I manage not to tell anyone that they aren't living their life the right way. Because its none of my business. another voice of sense. Dont get these threads, surely its all preference? If you dont like move on. Im sure us larger ladies wont let our cake get soggy with our tears of rejection and helpful advice on how to live " +1 | |||
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"Sexy trim women anytime...over a lardy bum, with rugby players legs " cant beat getting snug in between a ladies thick thighs, mmmmmm just my preference though as is yours | |||
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"How many people on here have actually told others how to live their life?" i dont know how to live my own life, never mind telling others how to live theirs lol | |||
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"How many people on here have actually told others how to live their life? i dont know how to live my own life, never mind telling others how to live theirs lol" i agree with this | |||
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"How do men and women differ when describing a bbw? I would say as a size 18 I am a bbw, but some men say no way, some women say I can't be classed as one unless I am over a size 20, so my dilemma is... go on a diet, eat more cake or stay as I am and not bother about what people think. " i am a voluptious women with a confidence in myself i refuse to put myself in a box besides men and some women rarely look any further then my boobs anyways lol also id fall over if i was a skinny minny my boobs would keel me over be who u r and enjoy been u xx | |||
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"How do men and women differ when describing a bbw? I would say as a size 18 I am a bbw, but some men say no way, some women say I can't be classed as one unless I am over a size 20, so my dilemma is... go on a diet, eat more cake or stay as I am and not bother about what people think. i am a voluptious women with a confidence in myself i refuse to put myself in a box besides men and some women rarely look any further then my boobs anyways lol also id fall over if i was a skinny minny my boobs would keel me over be who u r and enjoy been u xx" But if you were thin it is very likley you would not have such big boobs. Breast are 70% fat. | |||
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"All depends on the person. Could look beautiful but be a right twunt. Same as slim people could look beatiful but be a twunt. Each to their own. " if BBW refers to a big beautiful woman then on that basis are large guys BBG's?? | |||
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"How do men and women differ when describing a bbw? I would say as a size 18 I am a bbw, but some men say no way, some women say I can't be classed as one unless I am over a size 20, so my dilemma is... go on a diet, eat more cake or stay as I am and not bother about what people think. " Don't worry about others think of you if you are happy with the size of yourself than you are happy and anyway why do we have to label people????? Men put WE or VWE does that mean men who are average are under achievers no way.....lol. I was a very big girl and had to weight to live but I was happy now am even happier as I am alive but hey ho horses for courses we are individuals not to be pidgeonholed for other peoples pleasure. BE YOURSELF AND LOVE YOURSELF!!!!!!! | |||
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"All depends on the person. Could look beautiful but be a right twunt. Same as slim people could look beatiful but be a twunt. Each to their own. if BBW refers to a big beautiful woman then on that basis are large guys BBG's?? " lol nah the guys are just labeled tubsters. guys get no love | |||
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"How do men and women differ when describing a bbw? I would say as a size 18 I am a bbw, but some men say no way, some women say I can't be classed as one unless I am over a size 20, so my dilemma is... go on a diet, eat more cake or stay as I am and not bother about what people think. i am a voluptious women with a confidence in myself i refuse to put myself in a box besides men and some women rarely look any further then my boobs anyways lol also id fall over if i was a skinny minny my boobs would keel me over be who u r and enjoy been u xx But if you were thin it is very likley you would not have such big boobs. Breast are 70% fat. " In relation to your comment of womens breasts are 70% fat that may be true but it is all down to genetics, my family are really large but have small boobs, I on the other hand lost 5 stone and only lost 2 cups sizes and still a 36 ff/g so where is the logic in that lol | |||
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"How do men and women differ when describing a bbw? I would say as a size 18 I am a bbw, but some men say no way, some women say I can't be classed as one unless I am over a size 20, so my dilemma is... go on a diet, eat more cake or stay as I am and not bother about what people think. i am a voluptious women with a confidence in myself i refuse to put myself in a box besides men and some women rarely look any further then my boobs anyways lol also id fall over if i was a skinny minny my boobs would keel me over be who u r and enjoy been u xx But if you were thin it is very likley you would not have such big boobs. Breast are 70% fat. In relation to your comment of womens breasts are 70% fat that may be true but it is all down to genetics, my family are really large but have small boobs, I on the other hand lost 5 stone and only lost 2 cups sizes and still a 36 ff/g so where is the logic in that lol" Agreed on all counts! I lost 5 stone last year and went from a 38H to a 34J! whereas my auntie is much bigger than me and had to have a boob job to have even average sized boobs for her size... | |||
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" and another thing BMI shows nothing muscles weigh heavier than fat ask anyone who lifts weights, I have muscles in my legs that would make a footballer jealous and have been told by a specialist that because of my muscle mass my BMI is irrevelent. for the record it is 29 which is obese lol. " If you have muscles in your legs that'll beat a footballer,then i for one would dearly love to see the picture.. Your correct about BMI but not being funny if you look at someone who is fat theres a good chance you ain't going to see to much in the way of muscle .. | |||
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"I don't label myself as a "BBW" I absolutely hate the term, I'm fat and I accept this. If nobody doesn't like it, it's their problem as I really don't give a fuck. Everyone is beautiful in their OWN way, someone will find them attractive, someone won't no-one will have the same taste in people, shouldn't knock their confidence down though, I cannot stand arrogant fuckers. BMI is also a big pile of shit, just sayin' Of course big women sweat a shit load during sex, but all sizes sweat a lot during sex, you'd be worried if nobody sweated, it would be a crap sex session. These kind of threads never end well." | |||
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" and another thing BMI shows nothing muscles weigh heavier than fat ask anyone who lifts weights, I have muscles in my legs that would make a footballer jealous and have been told by a specialist that because of my muscle mass my BMI is irrevelent. for the record it is 29 which is obese lol. If you have muscles in your legs that'll beat a footballer,then i for one would dearly love to see the picture.. Your correct about BMI but not being funny if you look at someone who is fat theres a good chance you ain't going to see to much in the way of muscle .." ask any of my meets lol. they can verify the fact I could probably break their necks if I tried any harder lol. One day I will get pic of my legs posted just to prove it lol. xx | |||
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"I don't label myself as a "BBW" I absolutely hate the term, I'm fat and I accept this. If nobody doesn't like it, it's their problem as I really don't give a fuck. Everyone is beautiful in their OWN way, someone will find them attractive, someone won't no-one will have the same taste in people, shouldn't knock their confidence down though, I cannot stand arrogant fuckers. BMI is also a big pile of shit, just sayin' Of course big women sweat a shit load during sex, but all sizes sweat a lot during sex, you'd be worried if nobody sweated, it would be a crap sex session. These kind of threads never end well." Why I do agree with parts of your post, can I ask have you considered the health implications of carrying such excess weight? I am happy to offer advice on this subject if you wish to discuss this further. I guess you will choose not too, but its proven that obese people's quality of life is far poorer than those who lead a healthy lifestyle. It's all saying that you are happy with yourself and everyone is beautiful. This is true. I would never wish to knock anyone. My comments have been purely based on a health aspect. | |||
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"Just another bbw beating thread that's got nasty. Everyone has a choice who cares, if you do t like me because I'm big so what move on. I would rather be big than have the attitude of some of the posters on this thread. Perhaps some of you should get your heads out of your own arses and realise your not perfect, no one is. Personally for me bad attitudes towards others is a bigger turn off than what a person looks like. " | |||
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" and another thing BMI shows nothing muscles weigh heavier than fat ask anyone who lifts weights, I have muscles in my legs that would make a footballer jealous and have been told by a specialist that because of my muscle mass my BMI is irrevelent. for the record it is 29 which is obese lol. If you have muscles in your legs that'll beat a footballer,then i for one would dearly love to see the picture.. Your correct about BMI but not being funny if you look at someone who is fat theres a good chance you ain't going to see to much in the way of muscle .." are you joking, my legs have to support my body weight, often on 5" heels...they are solid as a rock!!! | |||
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"depends wheres shes packing her added weight my thing is a womans shape " Yep - I'd go with this. As a size 16 shortass some would class me as a bbw. However, I still have a definite in-and-out curve, so some would class me as 'just' curvy. Some men have messaged me with 'no-one above a size 14', 'no overweight women' on their profiles - when I've pointed this out to them that I don't fit into their wishlist they've said along the lines of 'yeah, but your pics are sexy'. Pffft! How a woman feels about herself goes a long way to how others may view them. | |||
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