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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "Im down to chill & spend good quality time, doesn’t have to always be sex… | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "Maybe 0.00001%  | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "Needle in a haystack lovely! You have a strong profile, quality forum presence, great pics, positive outlook... And you'll still struggle to find a decent match on here... I've made a poly connection that suits, but it's took nearly 2yrs,& if his partner disagrees it ends.... | |||
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But I think it those who stubble across each other vs seeking a comrade x | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "Maybe try another site? I find it hard on here too, there are so many women but so few suitable and most of the good ones have more than enough lovers already | |||
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"I get what you’re saying OP it’s one of the reasons I stopped meeting one on one and now only go to clubs, if they want to say something like that now, they have to be face to face, they’re a lot more polite and respectful when others can hear too oddly enough " Pretty much same here, we pretty much only meet guys at clubs...although deep down quite a few of them are still just after the same, they just don't say it out loud... Ps. I always have a bottle of Prosecco and a Thorntons mini selection box in my underpants, so maybe you would be inteessted   | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "The only part of all those that sounds self-centred to me is 'who is going to empty my balls'. Those guys rarely, if ever get meets. I see you're looking in our area, there's a few nice ones around but you have a fair few 'conditions' so it's of course not gonna be easy for you to match someone to all of those. Hope you find a decent one for your visit | |||
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"I mean, the end result for all guys on here is to "empty their load". This isn't e-harmony. " Wow! Aren’t they on the wrong site then? It’s certainly not for me or many of the guys I know. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "Me. I like to explore mutual, kinks, dantasies and desires, love to cos/role play, enjoy outdoors and soo much more. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "I think we all, to some extent, fail to question why a lot (not all before the fragile egos start to shatter) of men are on here. Yes there are some who want to explore great sex with women who aren’t looking for anything too heavy and find that in the vanilla world they are just too damn attractive and charismatic for that to be a possibility, however these are massively outnumbered by the men cheating on their other half, and even more so by the men who can’t attract a woman in their every day life and think it will be different on here. Finding someone you really click with on a level that is more than just sex in the ‘real’ world is hard, it’s going to be even harder on here. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Maybe try another site?
I find it hard on here too, there are so many women but so few suitable and most of the good ones have more than enough lovers already "What site is available and good though? I tried two similar to Fab but there's hardly any 'traffic' so chatting to someone was as bleak as meeting them. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "We find those terms gross, not in the action, but the self centred implications. It's not what fabbers can do to me, but what I can do for fabbers, is the ones more likely who'll get our attention. Each to their own, but that's our schtik. | |||
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"I mean, the end result for all guys on here is to "empty their load". This isn't e-harmony. Wow! Aren’t they on the wrong site then? It’s certainly not for me or many of the guys I know. " Err no. What I meant is yeah you'll get guys that just want sex, don't care who with and shite and you'll get guys that want the connection and the sex. Same end result is what I was getting at. But there are decent guys on here that aren't dickheads who are also dam hot. I think so anyway. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Maybe try another site?
I find it hard on here too, there are so many women but so few suitable and most of the good ones have more than enough lovers already
What site is available and good though? I tried two similar to Fab but there's hardly any 'traffic' so chatting to someone was as bleak as meeting them."Maybe tinder is better? Sure there’s lots of rubbish but they can’t message you until you match. I can get through 200+ likes so fast just by looking for 1 second , leaving maybe 10-15 potentials , then look at them properly and maybe there’s 1-2 worth sending a message. Do this every few days and you can meet 2-3 decent people a week | |||
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"I mean, the end result for all guys on here is to "empty their load". This isn't e-harmony. Wow! Aren’t they on the wrong site then? It’s certainly not for me or many of the guys I know. Err no. What I meant is yeah you'll get guys that just want sex, don't care who with and shite and you'll get guys that want the connection and the sex. Same end result is what I was getting at. But there are decent guys on here that aren't dickheads who are also dam hot. I think so anyway. " Yeah I think people assume the end result is the all the same but it isn’t. There are men and women on here happy to meet, date, make friendships and sex isn’t at the forefront of there mind. Often it doesn’t happen or takes a year even and that’s ok, that’s my experience anyway | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "Isn't a conventional dating site like POF what you're really looking for? Sex sites do tend to be for sex. | |||
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"The guys who want to empty their loads may just be talking about their washing machines. They could just be hinting they're v clean & tidy chaps. "mrmanslut has multiple verifications from women saying he's got the biggest cock they've ever seen - but he hasn't got a single photo. Now who said Fab is full of egomaniacs? Round of applause for a modest man, I say!  | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "I know exactly where your coming from OP I've giving up looking so just chatting | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Isn't a conventional dating site like POF what you're really looking for? Sex sites do tend to be for sex. "Some people want to meet human beings for sex. Not just a wet hole or drippy pole.  | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Isn't a conventional dating site like POF what you're really looking for? Sex sites do tend to be for sex. "I thought the same
Most profiles I’ve come across are looking for NO strings attached | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Isn't a conventional dating site like POF what you're really looking for? Sex sites do tend to be for sex.
I thought the same
Most profiles I’ve come across are looking for NO strings attached "Bondage fans love strings attached, though. | |||
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"Those phrases turn my stomach “Empty my load” “Milk my cock” “Drain my balls” Every time I read those it genuinely makes me feel nauseous. There’s something a bit gruesome and medical sounding about it." Oh and bonus gross points when they state how long they’ve been storing it… “7 day load needs draining” Make me imagine stale semen. Bleugh. | |||
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"You sound so nice but very naive. This site is not the site for you at all my dear. Here is holes for use only." Lol I'm sure plenty of women will agree with you but I certainly do not. Good luck | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Isn't a conventional dating site like POF what you're really looking for? Sex sites do tend to be for sex. "Obviously haven't read the thread. No pof is dire and i am looking for sex but not into men who just wants to empty their load, they need to pay for it. | |||
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"You sound so nice but very naive. This site is not the site for you at all my dear. Here is holes for use only. Lol I'm sure plenty of women will agree with you but I certainly do not. Good luck " your profile and verufications still imply you basically want sex, if not why not have a permanent relationship with a person wanting same, will admit i skipped through s lot of the looking for, far too long and waffle. | |||
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"You sound so nice but very naive. This site is not the site for you at all my dear. Here is holes for use only. Lol I'm sure plenty of women will agree with you but I certainly do not. Good luck your profile and verufications still imply you basically want sex, if not why not have a permanent relationship with a person wanting same, will admit i skipped through s lot of the looking for, far too long and waffle. " You can just enjoy great sex with like minded people without wanting to be used or treated badly | |||
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"You sound so nice but very naive. This site is not the site for you at all my dear. Here is holes for use only." I beg to differ there Not everyone is looking for holes only | |||
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"I think a lot of replies are presuming the OP wants a partner not a random fuck, but I don't think that's what she meant. I have the same experience of Fab unfortunately - hundreds of men who want to use my body like a living fleshlight. I don't want to fall in love on here, what I do want is to fuck people who actually give a shit about it feeling nice for me - not people who think my body is simple something for them to essentially wank in to, as that's what that selfish kind of sex is really. All the "drain my sack" men are almost certainly guaranteed to be a dull fuck." You're reply is actually closest to what i thought this site was about. Obviously for a man orgasm is a major part of the sexual act, you hope the woman experiences it too, but know for some its not possible. The women I've had the pleasure to play with ive treated well and never made them feel as if they're just a hole to fill, excuse the term. Its nice to have the fun and enjoyment, smile and chat possibly, then on our way. For me it was different experiences with new people/bodies. | |||
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"I think a lot of replies are presuming the OP wants a partner not a random fuck, but I don't think that's what she meant. I have the same experience of Fab unfortunately - hundreds of men who want to use my body like a living fleshlight. I don't want to fall in love on here, what I do want is to fuck people who actually give a shit about it feeling nice for me - not people who think my body is simple something for them to essentially wank in to, as that's what that selfish kind of sex is really. All the "drain my sack" men are almost certainly guaranteed to be a dull fuck." WonderWoman - spot on. I'm on this site for long hot mind blowing sex with multiple people that I can also have a decent conversation and a laugh with before, during and after. I have been fortunate enough to find some of those experiences on here but a lot of guys want the "blow and go" encounter which many of women find mind-numbingly tedious and sexually unfulfilling. | |||
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"I think a lot of replies are presuming the OP wants a partner not a random fuck, but I don't think that's what she meant. I have the same experience of Fab unfortunately - hundreds of men who want to use my body like a living fleshlight. I don't want to fall in love on here, what I do want is to fuck people who actually give a shit about it feeling nice for me - not people who think my body is simple something for them to essentially wank in to, as that's what that selfish kind of sex is really. All the "drain my sack" men are almost certainly guaranteed to be a dull fuck." Absolutely this! Most men would be better off looking at aduIt work etc to find someone to “drain their balls”. I met my partner on here and before he never believed what kinda messages women get or how some men speak to us or what they put in their statuses. Now he had access to my inbox and is mindblown! | |||
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"I think a lot of replies are presuming the OP wants a partner not a random fuck, but I don't think that's what she meant. I have the same experience of Fab unfortunately - hundreds of men who want to use my body like a living fleshlight. I don't want to fall in love on here, what I do want is to fuck people who actually give a shit about it feeling nice for me - not people who think my body is simple something for them to essentially wank in to, as that's what that selfish kind of sex is really. All the "drain my sack" men are almost certainly guaranteed to be a dull fuck. WonderWoman - spot on. I'm on this site for long hot mind blowing sex with multiple people that I can also have a decent conversation and a laugh with before, during and after. I have been fortunate enough to find some of those experiences on here but a lot of guys want the "blow and go" encounter which many of women find mind-numbingly tedious and sexually unfulfilling." I'm surprised. One, by the fact, that if this is true, so many men are satisfied with whip it in whip it out encounters Two, that so many men are such selfish or perhaps incompetent partners But also.. Three, that people are unable to establish the massive gap in what the man and woman are looking for in any encounter... Before they take clothes off. | |||
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"I think a lot of replies are presuming the OP wants a partner not a random fuck, but I don't think that's what she meant. I have the same experience of Fab unfortunately - hundreds of men who want to use my body like a living fleshlight. I don't want to fall in love on here, what I do want is to fuck people who actually give a shit about it feeling nice for me - not people who think my body is simple something for them to essentially wank in to, as that's what that selfish kind of sex is really. All the "drain my sack" men are almost certainly guaranteed to be a dull fuck. Absolutely this! Most men would be better off looking at aduIt work etc to find someone to “drain their balls”. I met my partner on here and before he never believed what kinda messages women get or how some men speak to us or what they put in their statuses. Now he had access to my inbox and is mindblown! " Messages men get arent much better sometimes, breed me, empty my full sacks, want to ride your daddy cock are just a few. | |||
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"Well I wrote a respectful intro on this subject to the OP and she straight blocked me. There's no pleasing some people." HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Omg. Thanks for such a great laugh to start my day. Wonderful. | |||
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"Well I wrote a respectful intro on this subject to the OP and she straight blocked me. There's no pleasing some people." Maybe you’re not her cup of tea? Maybe the message was not as respectful as you think? | |||
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"Well I wrote a respectful intro on this subject to the OP and she straight blocked me. There's no pleasing some people. Maybe you’re not her cup of tea? Maybe the message was not as respectful as you think? " Oh the intrigue | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x" Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for. | |||
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"Well I wrote a respectful intro on this subject to the OP and she straight blocked me. There's no pleasing some people. Maybe you’re not her cup of tea? Maybe the message was not as respectful as you think? " Yeah probably, most of my messages are so bad that people can't even bring themselves to press the delete button. At least she made an effort here. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "I am sure there are a lot of decent guys on here but you won’t find them really, if you don’t go looking for them yourself. Often times, women are reactive in what they look for, i.e. you wait for people to approach and then you chose from the subset that has approached you. Instead, why not look at men’s profiles and find what resonates closely to you and reach out. Also, be realistic that some of the men that might tick all your boxes have a lot of attention from other women, of all ages, who want the same things you want. After all, women tend to go for the same guys, who are a small minority. So statistically, that man who gets all the attention, has a lot of women to go through and will never be able to give you all the attention you want on a regular basis. | |||
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"Well I wrote a respectful intro on this subject to the OP and she straight blocked me. There's no pleasing some people. Maybe you’re not her cup of tea? Maybe the message was not as respectful as you think? Yeah probably, most of my messages are so bad that people can't even bring themselves to press the delete button. At least she made an effort here." Did you PM her... Usually best to ask first. Replies should mostly be kept to the forums. | |||
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"Those phrases turn my stomach “Empty my load” “Milk my cock” “Drain my balls” Every time I read those it genuinely makes me feel nauseous. There’s something a bit gruesome and medical sounding about it. Oh and bonus gross points when they state how long they’ve been storing it… “7 day load needs draining” Make me imagine stale semen. Bleugh. " Shows how much they know any their own anatomy... It doesn't keep building up, it just reabsorbs into the body. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "You are clearly not finding the same guys that we are! Virtually all of the single guys we've met have been all over pleasuring BB and a high percentage of them didn't even make a deposit! This is despite many hours of playtime! No crudeness and no constantly beleaguering us with unwanted attention either! (That is not an open invite to change the situation BTW chaps) We can pass on some names if you like? Actually one particularly handsome photographer might be right up your street!!!! | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for. "That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
"If those requirements are in poor supply here given how many single guys there are on here it says more about the demographic than the requirements! | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "Winning dining what ever you wish my love. | |||
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"I think a lot of replies are presuming the OP wants a partner not a random fuck, but I don't think that's what she meant. I have the same experience of Fab unfortunately - hundreds of men who want to use my body like a living fleshlight. I don't want to fall in love on here, what I do want is to fuck people who actually give a shit about it feeling nice for me - not people who think my body is simple something for them to essentially wank in to, as that's what that selfish kind of sex is really. All the "drain my sack" men are almost certainly guaranteed to be a dull fuck." I think you’re right in what the OP is looking for I also agree that to have the best experience a connection is needed. Not looking to fall in love but meeting with people or ideally that one person who is/are determined to blow the others mind has to be the goal surely. I’m sure we’ve all had a phenomenal experience that goes far beyond a quickie round the back of the bike sheds (do they have those anymore?) that we’d like to aim for all encounters to be like. | |||
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"Hope this isn’t too boring…. Almost a year ago I was away for work. I went to the hotel bar around 9:00 one night and saw two mature women sitting together. I started to chat with them when the more attractive lady said she needed to go and call her husband to say they’d be home in an hour or so. The other lady joked that she was divorced and would keep me company. Then she asked if it would be quieter if we took our drinks to my room. I told her that would be great, if she felt comfortable. When we were in the elevator I told her how much I liked her heels and placed my hand on the small of her back as we walked down the hall. I was already rock hard and ready when we got into the room. She asked me if I felt like having some fun, and I said I’m up for anything she is. We started to kiss standing and she Instantly felt my hard cock through my jeans with one hand while pulling my belt open. She told me to sit down on the couch, and I lowered my jeans. She started to blow me and after about a minute I asked her if she wanted to fuck me. She got up, took her panties off under her skirt hiked the skirt up and lowered herself as I held my cock still. I knew what was happened but wanted to feel her wetness against me. She went straight to work grinding my cock like I’ve never come close to before. Through my groans if pleasure I said I’m 100% Clean and snipped, but asked her if she was ok without a rubber. She said she’s completely clean and that it’s been so long since she’s had fun she got carried away. I told her if she didn’t slow done I wouldn’t be able to stop from cumming, so she went faster. I told her I was cumming a second later, and felt her push down hard and started throbbing inside her. After telling me how warm my cum felt she got off me and said she needed to go to the toilet before I saw her dripping. " Wrong thread mate | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
If those requirements are in poor supply here given how many single guys there are on here it says more about the demographic than the requirements!"What we are talking about is statistics here. tiny minority of the whole UK population (never mind the lifestyle) will meet those requirements. Not because they aspire not to, but there are certain aspects that you can’t improve on, like height. I would like to ride a unicorn someday, but if they don’t exist, no matter what my requirements are, they aren’t steeped in reality and so won’t be met. This is exactly why a lot of women are single and say they can’t find a life partner or a decent swinging partner, cos the requirements are sometimes not realistic, and it’s not because men can meet them but choose not to. It’s simply because some of those things can’t be met, like height and hinder hinder rather than help them find the partner they are looking for. | |||
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"Hope this isn’t too boring…. Almost a year ago I was away for work. I went to the hotel bar around 9:00 one night and saw two mature women sitting together. I started to chat with them when the more attractive lady said she needed to go and call her husband to say they’d be home in an hour or so. The other lady joked that she was divorced and would keep me company. Then she asked if it would be quieter if we took our drinks to my room. I told her that would be great, if she felt comfortable. When we were in the elevator I told her how much I liked her heels and placed my hand on the small of her back as we walked down the hall. I was already rock hard and ready when we got into the room. She asked me if I felt like having some fun, and I said I’m up for anything she is. We started to kiss standing and she Instantly felt my hard cock through my jeans with one hand while pulling my belt open. She told me to sit down on the couch, and I lowered my jeans. She started to blow me and after about a minute I asked her if she wanted to fuck me. She got up, took her panties off under her skirt hiked the skirt up and lowered herself as I held my cock still. I knew what was happened but wanted to feel her wetness against me. She went straight to work grinding my cock like I’ve never come close to before. Through my groans if pleasure I said I’m 100% Clean and snipped, but asked her if she was ok without a rubber. She said she’s completely clean and that it’s been so long since she’s had fun she got carried away. I told her if she didn’t slow done I wouldn’t be able to stop from cumming, so she went faster. I told her I was cumming a second later, and felt her push down hard and started throbbing inside her. After telling me how warm my cum felt she got off me and said she needed to go to the toilet before I saw her dripping. Wrong thread mate "Hahahaha
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"Hope this isn’t too boring…. Almost a year ago I was away for work. I went to the hotel bar around 9:00 one night and saw two mature women sitting together. I started to chat with them when the more attractive lady said she needed to go and call her husband to say they’d be home in an hour or so. The other lady joked that she was divorced and would keep me company. Then she asked if it would be quieter if we took our drinks to my room. I told her that would be great, if she felt comfortable. When we were in the elevator I told her how much I liked her heels and placed my hand on the small of her back as we walked down the hall. I was already rock hard and ready when we got into the room. She asked me if I felt like having some fun, and I said I’m up for anything she is. We started to kiss standing and she Instantly felt my hard cock through my jeans with one hand while pulling my belt open. She told me to sit down on the couch, and I lowered my jeans. She started to blow me and after about a minute I asked her if she wanted to fuck me. She got up, took her panties off under her skirt hiked the skirt up and lowered herself as I held my cock still. I knew what was happened but wanted to feel her wetness against me. She went straight to work grinding my cock like I’ve never come close to before. Through my groans if pleasure I said I’m 100% Clean and snipped, but asked her if she was ok without a rubber. She said she’s completely clean and that it’s been so long since she’s had fun she got carried away. I told her if she didn’t slow done I wouldn’t be able to stop from cumming, so she went faster. I told her I was cumming a second later, and felt her push down hard and started throbbing inside her. After telling me how warm my cum felt she got off me and said she needed to go to the toilet before I saw her dripping. Wrong thread mate "If only there was a laughter emoji | |||
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"Hope this isn’t too boring…. Almost a year ago I was away for work. I went to the hotel bar around 9:00 one night and saw two mature women sitting together. Wrong thread mate
If only there was a laughter emoji "Crap erotic fiction at it's best... | |||
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"Do you like owls I’d take you to a cracking owl sanctuary " If it’s the one near Livingston, I second that recommendation | |||
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"Hope this isn’t too boring…. Almost a year ago I was away for work. I went to the hotel bar around 9:00 one night and saw two mature women sitting together. Wrong thread mate
If only there was a laughter emoji
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"You sound so nice but very naive. This site is not the site for you at all my dear. Here is holes for use only. Lol I'm sure plenty of women will agree with you but I certainly do not. Good luck " I would certainly not agree with his statement either and I have met a few really good guys who did not see the site as a sex site. | |||
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"On top on the 6ft1, muscular and 8-9 inches? If you want a decent guy who doesn’t want to “empty his load”, you need to lower your standards. You’re already asking for above average guy and out of million profiles not hard to see why you can’t find one. Don’t mean to sound rude but the problem is you " She's definitely not the problem | |||
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"On top on the 6ft1, muscular and 8-9 inches? If you want a decent guy who doesn’t want to “empty his load”, you need to lower your standards. You’re already asking for above average guy and out of million profiles not hard to see why you can’t find one. Don’t mean to sound rude but the problem is you She's definitely not the problem" I’d agree, there’s nothing wrong with having exacting standards, though one does have to recognise that they will be hard to find as a result. Makes finding them all the more worthwhile however | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
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"Do you like owls I’d take you to a cracking owl sanctuary If it’s the one near Livingston, I second that recommendation "I wish I could find someone lovely with a big cock to take me to an owl sanctuary | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Maybe try another site?
I find it hard on here too, there are so many women but so few suitable and most of the good ones have more than enough lovers already "Define "suitable" and "good" from your perspective. | |||
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"On top on the 6ft1, muscular and 8-9 inches? If you want a decent guy who doesn’t want to “empty his load”, you need to lower your standards. You’re already asking for above average guy and out of million profiles not hard to see why you can’t find one. Don’t mean to sound rude but the problem is you She's definitely not the problem I’d agree, there’s nothing wrong with having exacting standards, though one does have to recognise that they will be hard to find as a result. Makes finding them all the more worthwhile however " This. The OP will simply have to be more patient. Good luck | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Maybe try another site?
I find it hard on here too, there are so many women but so few suitable and most of the good ones have more than enough lovers already
Define "suitable" and "good" from your perspective."With a pulse. | |||
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"Do you like owls I’d take you to a cracking owl sanctuary If it’s the one near Livingston, I second that recommendation
I wish I could find someone lovely with a big cock to take me to an owl sanctuary "Now that would be a hoot | |||
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"Do you like owls I’d take you to a cracking owl sanctuary If it’s the one near Livingston, I second that recommendation
I wish I could find someone lovely with a big cock to take me to an owl sanctuary
Now that would be a hoot "Gonna be thinking about it owl night long now | |||
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"Do you like owls I’d take you to a cracking owl sanctuary If it’s the one near Livingston, I second that recommendation
I wish I could find someone lovely with a big cock to take me to an owl sanctuary
Now that would be a hoot
Gonna be thinking about it owl night long now"Share it on twit-twooter | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "Hugs. The dick pic or sex avatar doesn't bother me. Men are psychologically indoctrinated societally to be obsessed with sex and their penises. I have sex with husbands but with wives explicit permission. yes, I meet the wives. I'm looking for fun too...so... Most men love to be crude, especially on a site like this or in a male locker room. I work with men when it's a male-dominated day guaranteed banter and swearing. The reality is all men want to empty their balls. If they don't, they have low libido or are too stressed out. Even the most gentle shy quiet polite gentleman want to empty his balls. As for the meet now. Many men are overworked and overstimulated and basically only make time for actual sex when wanking isn't an option or isn't working. I've met some guys off the forum and I keep my search quite small. Most guys want to be decent. They say a lot of stupid stuff as male posturing. I reserve judgment until I've met them and seen how they interact in a club/party/social event with other people. there are always socials and clubs if you aren't getting anywhere on here. Good luck | |||
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"Sounds like owl be seeing you " Amazing. I don't want to go owl by myself | |||
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"Do you like owls I’d take you to a cracking owl sanctuary If it’s the one near Livingston, I second that recommendation
I wish I could find someone lovely with a big cock to take me to an owl sanctuary
Now that would be a hoot
Gonna be thinking about it owl night long now
Share it on twit-twooter"I will. Along with the news about the local drive by hooting | |||
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"Sounds like owl be seeing you Amazing. I don't want to go owl by myself " It’ll be fantastic, we can make it a free for owl | |||
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"Do you like owls I’d take you to a cracking owl sanctuary If it’s the one near Livingston, I second that recommendation
I wish I could find someone lovely with a big cock to take me to an owl sanctuary
Now that would be a hoot
Gonna be thinking about it owl night long now
Share it on twit-twooter
I will. Along with the news about the local drive by hooting
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"Those phrases turn my stomach “Empty my load” “Milk my cock” “Drain my balls” Every time I read those it genuinely makes me feel nauseous. There’s something a bit gruesome and medical sounding about it. Oh and bonus gross points when they state how long they’ve been storing it… “7 day load needs draining” Make me imagine stale semen. Bleugh. Shows how much they know any their own anatomy... It doesn't keep building up, it just reabsorbs into the body." Very true. Balls certainly don't need emptying other than figuratively and as I have observed many times before, they don't work like a rubber bulb water pistol. Maybe, however, the seminal vesicles might empty more impressively under the pressure of an enthusiastic 'Cowgirl'! | |||
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"Sounds like owl be seeing you Amazing. I don't want to go owl by myself It’ll be fantastic, we can make it a free for owl " Read owl about it you hootiful people. Let's wing it and and arrange that trip for nest week. I'll look forward to flying up there and getting you in my talons | |||
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"I mean, the end result for all guys on here is to "empty their load". This isn't e-harmony. But I don't know, I've found a fair few decent guys on here. I guess it depends what you're looking for and who you attract. Luckily I seem to attract the slightly mental hot as fuck guys so I'm all good. " Yeah I think most guys are here to ejaculate. Yes it may seem crude but it's a natural human response and I'm not going to dictate how a man describes his sexuality just as I wouldn't want them telling me behave virginal if I want it "deep and hard" It does take a while to find what you are looking for especially if you are looking for a personality match. yes it's not e-harmony but I need to be comfortable and relaxed to have sex with someone and them having a compatible personality with mine speeds that up. I want to treat them as a human being not a human dildo...unless that's what they want/need. I think every single woman on here attracts all types, you just have to be prepared to separate the wheat from the chafe and there is a lot of chafe. | |||
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"I get what you’re saying OP it’s one of the reasons I stopped meeting one on one and now only go to clubs, if they want to say something like that now, they have to be face to face, they’re a lot more polite and respectful when others can hear too oddly enough Pretty much same here, we pretty much only meet guys at clubs...although deep down quite a few of them are still just after the same, they just don't say it out loud... Ps. I always have a bottle of Prosecco and a Thorntons mini selection box in my underpants, so maybe you would be inteessted "I'll let Dark pour the prosecco over me next time at Ab Fabs. Lol! | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Maybe try another site?
I find it hard on here too, there are so many women but so few suitable and most of the good ones have more than enough lovers already "such as...fet life? or Kinkster? I like the social aspect of swinging too and believe it or not it's way cheaper than speed dating events!! | |||
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"Unbelievable to think that someone of your quality finds it so difficult to meet decent honest and reliable guys. We do exist. I can see from being at clubs that lots of single guys don’t quite know how to enjoy good company as well as socially sex positive but please don’t give up on us all and throw the baby out with the bath water. If you haven’t found a great meet by 4th I’ll drive down to Bournemouth and take you drinks and dinner and hopefully restore your faith because men like us need lovely ladies like you. " sounds like a plan. Read her profile carefully and put your best foot forward man! | |||
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"Sounds like owl be seeing you Amazing. I don't want to go owl by myself It’ll be fantastic, we can make it a free for owl Read owl about it you hootiful people. Let's wing it and and arrange that trip for nest week. I'll look forward to flying up there and getting you in my talons " That sounds more magical than ‘Hoodini’ We can get there and make plans on the fly, winging it as we go. And if you decide to grab me in your talons, seeing as you’re ‘hootiful’ I’ll smile hoping it’s to your love ‘nest’. Will certainly make smile smile ‘owl’ night long and have me ‘hooting’ out loud. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
The only part of all those that sounds self-centred to me is 'who is going to empty my balls'. Those guys rarely, if ever get meets.
I see you're looking in our area, there's a few nice ones around but you have a fair few 'conditions' so it's of course not gonna be easy for you to match someone to all of those.
Hope you find a decent one for your visit "Yeah I noticed the "conditions" too. Like all of my meets would fail the "conditions" But they are perfectly fun and intelligent and good lovers...who also want to empty their balls...often desperately so... | |||
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"Those phrases turn my stomach “Empty my load” “Milk my cock” “Drain my balls” Every time I read those it genuinely makes me feel nauseous. There’s something a bit gruesome and medical sounding about it." Hugs. It's really common male banter. And i've seen dommes use this language on their male subs...especially when edging and giving hand jobs. But you are valid if it makes you nauseous.. As a trauma survivor, I don't want anyone putting their hands around my throat. Nope that's a bad trigger. I know it can be really enjoyable but I'd have to find some other way to enjoy breath-play. No hands-on the throat and I can't do it to someone else either. We all have things that are not for us. | |||
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" I think we all, to some extent, fail to question why a lot (not all before the fragile egos start to shatter) of men are on here. Yes there are some who want to explore great sex with women who aren’t looking for anything too heavy and find that in the vanilla world they are just too damn attractive and charismatic for that to be a possibility, however these are massively outnumbered by the men cheating on their other half, and even more so by the men who can’t attract a woman in their every day life and think it will be different on here. Finding someone you really click with on a level that is more than just sex in the ‘real’ world is hard, it’s going to be even harder on here." I strangely click with a lot of people....but then I'm an expert autistic masker and omnivert. I've also had some intensive psychotherapy so I do try to get inside their heads and find out who they are as people and what makes them tick. Because it helps to get them to relax, feel valid as they are and enjoy the experience more. I try not to judge them because I've done some shitty things in my life and gone through some shitty things and normal dating (as in looking for a monogamous life partnership) makes me want to vomit. | |||
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" I just want to say Mel it's always a pleasure to read your posts and get your insight into many of the things discussed on the forums "Thanks and you're welcome. I'm just trying to give a different perspective and also learn and understand other people's' perspectives. It's a new skill for me that I learned in therapy last year. | |||
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"What's that saying about the first sign of madness.? Keep doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome. " Naughty! play nice. | |||
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" I just want to say Mel it's always a pleasure to read your posts and get your insight into many of the things discussed on the forums
Thanks and you're welcome. I'm just trying to give a different perspective and also learn and understand other people's' perspectives. It's a new skill for me that I learned in therapy last year."Well your a natural and your outlook especially regarding swinging, sex and life is very similar to ours as well. KJ | |||
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"The guys who want to empty their loads may just be talking about their washing machines. They could just be hinting they're v clean & tidy chaps.
mrmanslut has multiple verifications from women saying he's got the biggest cock they've ever seen - but he hasn't got a single photo.
Now who said Fab is full of egomaniacs?
Round of applause for a modest man, I say! "I suppose someone could say that about my verifications but I always say go look at the verifications I give back if you want to be smart. I mean if he does in fact have a huge cock, then they are just being honest?!! I dunno I'm not getting it must be my autistic traits. some women only want big cocks including the OP. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
I know exactly where your coming from OP I've giving up looking so just chatting "Try a club or non-sexual social event? One of the ladies who does the london social ones does one in manchester too. So you get to meet the men there in person and then message them on FAB. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Isn't a conventional dating site like POF what you're really looking for? Sex sites do tend to be for sex.
Obviously haven't read the thread. No pof is dire and i am looking for sex but not into men who just wants to empty their load, they need to pay for it."Pay?! Shudder. I personally do not want to make a man pay for my pleasure. Now if he's my life partner or it's a job ok. Otherwise, I'm not comfortable making demands on men....or anyone for that matter....I've had it done to me and it doesn't feel good. Sex is about everyone involved feeling good. if it doesn't feel good before, during or after...nope not for me. | |||
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"Lots of profiles instantly turn me off the person. I do 100% make an instant judgement on a person from how a profile is displayed almost review it like a CV... And I block a profile once it's something that's not my taste, as profile names are changed alot and over years I'm getting old and forget "Good thing I wrote mine like a CV....like the nerdy geek I am. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "Wonder how mine reads to you? You seem like an intelligent, sensuous kind of pairing so I’m sure the needle in a haystack will present itself given time. | |||
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"I think a lot of replies are presuming the OP wants a partner not a random fuck, but I don't think that's what she meant. I have the same experience of Fab unfortunately - hundreds of men who want to use my body like a living fleshlight. I don't want to fall in love on here, what I do want is to fuck people who actually give a shit about it feeling nice for me - not people who think my body is simple something for them to essentially wank in to, as that's what that selfish kind of sex is really. All the "drain my sack" men are almost certainly guaranteed to be a dull fuck. WonderWoman - spot on. I'm on this site for long hot mind blowing sex with multiple people that I can also have a decent conversation and a laugh with before, during and after. I have been fortunate enough to find some of those experiences on here but a lot of guys want the "blow and go" encounter which many of women find mind-numbingly tedious and sexually unfulfilling. I'm surprised. One, by the fact, that if this is true, so many men are satisfied with whip it in whip it out encounters Two, that so many men are such selfish or perhaps incompetent partners But also.. Three, that people are unable to establish the massive gap in what the man and woman are looking for in any encounter... Before they take clothes off. " That's why I have a 3-4 stage vetting process. | |||
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"I think a lot of replies are presuming the OP wants a partner not a random fuck, but I don't think that's what she meant. I have the same experience of Fab unfortunately - hundreds of men who want to use my body like a living fleshlight. I don't want to fall in love on here, what I do want is to fuck people who actually give a shit about it feeling nice for me - not people who think my body is simple something for them to essentially wank in to, as that's what that selfish kind of sex is really. All the "drain my sack" men are almost certainly guaranteed to be a dull fuck. Absolutely this! Most men would be better off looking at aduIt work etc to find someone to “drain their balls”. I met my partner on here and before he never believed what kinda messages women get or how some men speak to us or what they put in their statuses. Now he had access to my inbox and is mindblown! " | |||
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"Well I wrote a respectful intro on this subject to the OP and she straight blocked me. There's no pleasing some people." Hugs you know there are still others' who fancy the pants off you. ( me) | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for. "I didn't want to say it do glad you did mate...from a man's perspective. There were a lot of requirements. I have requirements but they are more about who the person is character/identity-wise and psychologically-wise mostly. because of who I am psychologically and character/identity-wise. The sexual stuff was because I suffered with low libido and need a bit of help sometimes getting turned on so a man who knows confidently how to do that is best for me. | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
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"There’s nothing wrong with having very exacting standards, complaining that no one reaches them, however…" aye Caramba. I do have high standards for a life partner which are hard to meet. But also as a trauma survivor, many men trigger me without even realizing it. That's my problem. lol! Swinging takes some of that pressure off, especially if I can go to a club or a social, have a laugh, a nude swim/jacuzzi before intimacy. I recently had a massage from a younger masseur and he made me feel so good and relaxed, that I was happy for him to give me the erotic massage and empty his balls all over my breasts. ( which he did after making me orgasm several times. I can't remember how many...lost count around 3) I think both of us were extremely satisfied and we had a good chat after. Hopefully, we can go to a club social together late this month. My FWB is obsessed with dirty talk which I'm guess the OP doesn't like. I have to be in the mood for dirty talk and I'm often not. Some men express their sexuality with dirty talk. I like to see, smell, taste, hear and feel men get pleasure and obvious relief, satisfaction and relaxation. And they won't be relaxed if they are worried about "am I tall enough for her am I big enough for her, did I entertain her enough and fed her cat correctly." Men face huge pressures already ( Male unaliving rate) and I don't think anyone should feel pressure before, during and after sex of any kind casual or with strings or in a life partnership. | |||
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"Do you like owls I’d take you to a cracking owl sanctuary If it’s the one near Livingston, I second that recommendation
I wish I could find someone lovely with a big cock to take me to an owl sanctuary "I'm sure you'll not be short of offers, you look like a real head turner! | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
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But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
You need to add and a breast cup size of no smaller than FF to a max of GG, must be aged 25 to 38, a none smoker and able to accommodate.
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Maybe try another site?
I find it hard on here too, there are so many women but so few suitable and most of the good ones have more than enough lovers already
What site is available and good though? I tried two similar to Fab but there's hardly any 'traffic' so chatting to someone was as bleak as meeting them.
Maybe tinder is better? Sure there’s lots of rubbish but they can’t message you until you match. I can get through 200+ likes so fast just by looking for 1 second , leaving maybe 10-15 potentials , then look at them properly and maybe there’s 1-2 worth sending a message. Do this every few days and you can meet 2-3 decent people a week "Funny enough I do meet guys on tinder who i also know from fab. It's ok tinder | |||
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"You sound so nice but very naive. This site is not the site for you at all my dear. Here is holes for use only. Lol I'm sure plenty of women will agree with you but I certainly do not. Good luck your profile and verufications still imply you basically want sex, if not why not have a permanent relationship with a person wanting same, will admit i skipped through s lot of the looking for, far too long and waffle. You can just enjoy great sex with like minded people without wanting to be used or treated badly " Well I think you are in the minority according to fab as most men here just want to empty the load. Plus from some of the comments, more evidence of it. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Wonder how mine reads to you? You seem like an intelligent, sensuous kind of pairing so I’m sure the needle in a haystack will present itself given time."Yes it does appear that way on fab... it's ok, I have plenty of patience. Been on here for many years. But seeing men wanting to empty their load all the time gets tad bit tiring. | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
If those requirements are in poor supply here given how many single guys there are on here it says more about the demographic than the requirements!
What we are talking about is statistics here. tiny minority of the whole UK population (never mind the lifestyle) will meet those requirements. Not because they aspire not to, but there are certain aspects that you can’t improve on, like height.
I would like to ride a unicorn someday, but if they don’t exist, no matter what my requirements are, they aren’t steeped in reality and so won’t be met.
This is exactly why a lot of women are single and say they can’t find a life partner or a decent swinging partner, cos the requirements are sometimes not realistic, and it’s not because men can meet them but choose not to. It’s simply because some of those things can’t be met, like height and hinder hinder rather than help them find the partner they are looking for."Just because I have ideals, doesn't mean I only seek them. But I'm definitely not looking for a guy who doesn't want to pay for it and put zero effort into a person. We are people after all. Not a disposable object. | |||
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"Unbelievable to think that someone of your quality finds it so difficult to meet decent honest and reliable guys. We do exist. I can see from being at clubs that lots of single guys don’t quite know how to enjoy good company as well as socially sex positive but please don’t give up on us all and throw the baby out with the bath water. If you haven’t found a great meet by 4th I’ll drive down to Bournemouth and take you drinks and dinner and hopefully restore your faith because men like us need lovely ladies like you. sounds like a plan. Read her profile carefully and put your best foot forward man! "Thanks for helping but I think we're doing just fine here. Surely he's just being polite and we can work it out between eachother. | |||
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"The guys who want to empty their loads may just be talking about their washing machines. They could just be hinting they're v clean & tidy chaps.
mrmanslut has multiple verifications from women saying he's got the biggest cock they've ever seen - but he hasn't got a single photo.
Now who said Fab is full of egomaniacs?
Round of applause for a modest man, I say!
I suppose someone could say that about my verifications but I always say go look at the verifications I give back if you want to be smart.
I mean if he does in fact have a huge cock, then they are just being honest?!! I dunno I'm not getting it must be my autistic traits. some women only want big cocks including the OP."So what if people have preferences? I'm not the type who just wants anything to "fill me up". Having a big cock isn't everything though, I would gotten alot more meets if I just focused on just getting someone with a big cock. For me it's the whole package. | |||
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"Lots of profiles instantly turn me off the person. I do 100% make an instant judgement on a person from how a profile is displayed almost review it like a CV... And I block a profile once it's something that's not my taste, as profile names are changed alot and over years I'm getting old and forget "Exactly we all have different preference, some are willing to share their preferences where others don't. I'm honest and upfront what I'm looking for. | |||
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"On top on the 6ft1, muscular and 8-9 inches? If you want a decent guy who doesn’t want to “empty his load”, you need to lower your standards. You’re already asking for above average guy and out of million profiles not hard to see why you can’t find one. Don’t mean to sound rude but the problem is you " Yes, the typical response is always the woman's fault. It couldn't be anyone else's right? I am very open about having standards and have met afew lovely fabbers in my time. But I will continue to stick to my beliefs of finding someone that suits me, not desperate to run to any guy because I want sex. As I look for compatibility. That's what makes a great fab meet. | |||
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"Well I wrote a respectful intro on this subject to the OP and she straight blocked me. There's no pleasing some people. Hugs you know there are still others' who fancy the pants off you. ( me) "Who wrote this as i can't find this comment. Last time i read this thread, only 48 comments which is more manageable. Who ever it was isn't really telling the whole story now .... | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
If those requirements are in poor supply here given how many single guys there are on here it says more about the demographic than the requirements!
What we are talking about is statistics here. tiny minority of the whole UK population (never mind the lifestyle) will meet those requirements. Not because they aspire not to, but there are certain aspects that you can’t improve on, like height.
I would like to ride a unicorn someday, but if they don’t exist, no matter what my requirements are, they aren’t steeped in reality and so won’t be met.
This is exactly why a lot of women are single and say they can’t find a life partner or a decent swinging partner, cos the requirements are sometimes not realistic, and it’s not because men can meet them but choose not to. It’s simply because some of those things can’t be met, like height and hinder hinder rather than help them find the partner they are looking for.
Just because I have ideals, doesn't mean I only seek them. But I'm definitely not looking for a guy who doesn't want to pay for it and put zero effort into a person. We are people after all. Not a disposable object."I have to ask again, youve mentioned this 'guy who doesnt want to pay for it' again. What exactly do you mean by that? | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
If those requirements are in poor supply here given how many single guys there are on here it says more about the demographic than the requirements!
What we are talking about is statistics here. tiny minority of the whole UK population (never mind the lifestyle) will meet those requirements. Not because they aspire not to, but there are certain aspects that you can’t improve on, like height.
I would like to ride a unicorn someday, but if they don’t exist, no matter what my requirements are, they aren’t steeped in reality and so won’t be met.
This is exactly why a lot of women are single and say they can’t find a life partner or a decent swinging partner, cos the requirements are sometimes not realistic, and it’s not because men can meet them but choose not to. It’s simply because some of those things can’t be met, like height and hinder hinder rather than help them find the partner they are looking for.
Just because I have ideals, doesn't mean I only seek them. But I'm definitely not looking for a guy who doesn't want to pay for it and put zero effort into a person. We are people after all. Not a disposable object.
I have to ask again, youve mentioned this 'guy who doesnt want to pay for it' again.
What exactly do you mean by that? "It's pretty obvious a lot of guys come to fab because the fail to meet women in the real world and are to tight or don't have the income to afford a pr0stitute. The see fab as essentially a free pr0stitute service that's how the view the women on here. This is blatantly the case for many guys when you spend anytime ready a woman or couples inbox on here. KJ | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
If those requirements are in poor supply here given how many single guys there are on here it says more about the demographic than the requirements!
What we are talking about is statistics here. tiny minority of the whole UK population (never mind the lifestyle) will meet those requirements. Not because they aspire not to, but there are certain aspects that you can’t improve on, like height.
I would like to ride a unicorn someday, but if they don’t exist, no matter what my requirements are, they aren’t steeped in reality and so won’t be met.
This is exactly why a lot of women are single and say they can’t find a life partner or a decent swinging partner, cos the requirements are sometimes not realistic, and it’s not because men can meet them but choose not to. It’s simply because some of those things can’t be met, like height and hinder hinder rather than help them find the partner they are looking for.
Just because I have ideals, doesn't mean I only seek them. But I'm definitely not looking for a guy who doesn't want to pay for it and put zero effort into a person. We are people after all. Not a disposable object.
I have to ask again, youve mentioned this 'guy who doesnt want to pay for it' again.
What exactly do you mean by that?
It's pretty obvious a lot of guys come to fab because the fail to meet women in the real world and are to tight or don't have the income to afford a pr0stitute. The see fab as essentially a free pr0stitute service that's how the view the women on here. This is blatantly the case for many guys when you spend anytime ready a woman or couples inbox on here.
KJ"Ok, but i dont want to pay for it either? Does that make me bad?? Im not following? Is a guy supposed to be willing to pay for it? Please dont tell me we're on about money here? | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
If those requirements are in poor supply here given how many single guys there are on here it says more about the demographic than the requirements!
What we are talking about is statistics here. tiny minority of the whole UK population (never mind the lifestyle) will meet those requirements. Not because they aspire not to, but there are certain aspects that you can’t improve on, like height.
I would like to ride a unicorn someday, but if they don’t exist, no matter what my requirements are, they aren’t steeped in reality and so won’t be met.
This is exactly why a lot of women are single and say they can’t find a life partner or a decent swinging partner, cos the requirements are sometimes not realistic, and it’s not because men can meet them but choose not to. It’s simply because some of those things can’t be met, like height and hinder hinder rather than help them find the partner they are looking for.
Just because I have ideals, doesn't mean I only seek them. But I'm definitely not looking for a guy who doesn't want to pay for it and put zero effort into a person. We are people after all. Not a disposable object.
I have to ask again, youve mentioned this 'guy who doesnt want to pay for it' again.
What exactly do you mean by that?
It's pretty obvious a lot of guys come to fab because the fail to meet women in the real world and are to tight or don't have the income to afford a pr0stitute. The see fab as essentially a free pr0stitute service that's how the view the women on here. This is blatantly the case for many guys when you spend anytime ready a woman or couples inbox on here.
KJ
Ok, but i dont want to pay for it either? Does that make me bad?? Im not following?
Is a guy supposed to be willing to pay for it?
Please dont tell me we're on about money here? "It seems pretty obvious that she means paying with effort and attention, some women like to be wooed after all. | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
If those requirements are in poor supply here given how many single guys there are on here it says more about the demographic than the requirements!
What we are talking about is statistics here. tiny minority of the whole UK population (never mind the lifestyle) will meet those requirements. Not because they aspire not to, but there are certain aspects that you can’t improve on, like height.
I would like to ride a unicorn someday, but if they don’t exist, no matter what my requirements are, they aren’t steeped in reality and so won’t be met.
This is exactly why a lot of women are single and say they can’t find a life partner or a decent swinging partner, cos the requirements are sometimes not realistic, and it’s not because men can meet them but choose not to. It’s simply because some of those things can’t be met, like height and hinder hinder rather than help them find the partner they are looking for.
Just because I have ideals, doesn't mean I only seek them. But I'm definitely not looking for a guy who doesn't want to pay for it and put zero effort into a person. We are people after all. Not a disposable object.
I have to ask again, youve mentioned this 'guy who doesnt want to pay for it' again.
What exactly do you mean by that?
It's pretty obvious a lot of guys come to fab because the fail to meet women in the real world and are to tight or don't have the income to afford a pr0stitute. The see fab as essentially a free pr0stitute service that's how the view the women on here. This is blatantly the case for many guys when you spend anytime ready a woman or couples inbox on here.
KJ
Ok, but i dont want to pay for it either? Does that make me bad?? Im not following?
Is a guy supposed to be willing to pay for it?
Please dont tell me we're on about money here?
It seems pretty obvious that she means paying with effort and attention, some women like to be wooed after all."Ok i didnt pick that up, that's why i asked the question instead assuming she meant money. | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
If those requirements are in poor supply here given how many single guys there are on here it says more about the demographic than the requirements!
What we are talking about is statistics here. tiny minority of the whole UK population (never mind the lifestyle) will meet those requirements. Not because they aspire not to, but there are certain aspects that you can’t improve on, like height.
I would like to ride a unicorn someday, but if they don’t exist, no matter what my requirements are, they aren’t steeped in reality and so won’t be met.
This is exactly why a lot of women are single and say they can’t find a life partner or a decent swinging partner, cos the requirements are sometimes not realistic, and it’s not because men can meet them but choose not to. It’s simply because some of those things can’t be met, like height and hinder hinder rather than help them find the partner they are looking for.
Just because I have ideals, doesn't mean I only seek them. But I'm definitely not looking for a guy who doesn't want to pay for it and put zero effort into a person. We are people after all. Not a disposable object.
I have to ask again, youve mentioned this 'guy who doesnt want to pay for it' again.
What exactly do you mean by that?
It's pretty obvious a lot of guys come to fab because the fail to meet women in the real world and are to tight or don't have the income to afford a pr0stitute. The see fab as essentially a free pr0stitute service that's how the view the women on here. This is blatantly the case for many guys when you spend anytime ready a woman or couples inbox on here.
KJ
Ok, but i dont want to pay for it either? Does that make me bad?? Im not following?
Is a guy supposed to be willing to pay for it?
Please dont tell me we're on about money here?
It seems pretty obvious that she means paying with effort and attention, some women like to be wooed after all.
Ok i didnt pick that up, that's why i asked the question instead assuming she meant money. "It seemed to me like she was talking about money. Doesn't want to pay for it (esc*rt) but doesn't want to put in any effort either. Fab requires effort in quite a big way. | |||
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"Well I wrote a respectful intro on this subject to the OP and she straight blocked me. There's no pleasing some people. Hugs you know there are still others' who fancy the pants off you. ( me)
Who wrote this as i can't find this comment. Last time i read this thread, only 48 comments which is more manageable. Who ever it was isn't really telling the whole story now ...."Sorry, twas me | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
That made me laugh
But there’s nothing wrong with what’s she after is there?
Guys are equally picky - over here I’m only interested in size 6-8 45-50kg and must be tight but can take a pounding by a big fat cock in all holes. I’m not compromising my standards or giving up my search
If those requirements are in poor supply here given how many single guys there are on here it says more about the demographic than the requirements!
What we are talking about is statistics here. tiny minority of the whole UK population (never mind the lifestyle) will meet those requirements. Not because they aspire not to, but there are certain aspects that you can’t improve on, like height.
I would like to ride a unicorn someday, but if they don’t exist, no matter what my requirements are, they aren’t steeped in reality and so won’t be met.
This is exactly why a lot of women are single and say they can’t find a life partner or a decent swinging partner, cos the requirements are sometimes not realistic, and it’s not because men can meet them but choose not to. It’s simply because some of those things can’t be met, like height and hinder hinder rather than help them find the partner they are looking for.
Just because I have ideals, doesn't mean I only seek them. But I'm definitely not looking for a guy who doesn't want to pay for it and put zero effort into a person. We are people after all. Not a disposable object.
I have to ask again, youve mentioned this 'guy who doesnt want to pay for it' again.
What exactly do you mean by that?
It's pretty obvious a lot of guys come to fab because the fail to meet women in the real world and are to tight or don't have the income to afford a pr0stitute. The see fab as essentially a free pr0stitute service that's how the view the women on here. This is blatantly the case for many guys when you spend anytime ready a woman or couples inbox on here.
KJ
Ok, but i dont want to pay for it either? Does that make me bad?? Im not following?
Is a guy supposed to be willing to pay for it?
Please dont tell me we're on about money here?
It seems pretty obvious that she means paying with effort and attention, some women like to be wooed after all.
Ok i didnt pick that up, that's why i asked the question instead assuming she meant money.
It seemed to me like she was talking about money. Doesn't want to pay for it (esc*rt) but doesn't want to put in any effort either.
Fab requires effort in quite a big way."Exactly it's refering to the guys who don't want to pay for it (zero effect needed when paying) who come on here and put zero effort in expecting free pussy to land in thier lap just because they signed up. The way the talk and interact with women and couples from thier opening message is if they are just a free fuck toy not an actual human being. KJ | |||
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"Well I wrote a respectful intro on this subject to the OP and she straight blocked me. There's no pleasing some people. Hugs you know there are still others' who fancy the pants off you. ( me)
Who wrote this as i can't find this comment. Last time i read this thread, only 48 comments which is more manageable. Who ever it was isn't really telling the whole story now ....
Sorry, twas me"What was the full story lol | |||
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"On top on the 6ft1, muscular and 8-9 inches? If you want a decent guy who doesn’t want to “empty his load”, you need to lower your standards. You’re already asking for above average guy and out of million profiles not hard to see why you can’t find one. Don’t mean to sound rude but the problem is you She's definitely not the problem I’d agree, there’s nothing wrong with having exacting standards, though one does have to recognise that they will be hard to find as a result. Makes finding them all the more worthwhile however " I'll point out that this site has a higher than average 8" plus cock size saturation, of those guys there's a bloody good percentage of those that are 6' tall (no one's gonna get a fuckin tape measure out) and most of those will be pretty ripped. The other requirements such as cat loving etc are changeable as in fact circumsition if you like them enough. The reason that the OP hasn't found what she is looking for in this crowd is nothing to do with the two cold hard physical attributes she likes but more to do with the soft attributes she desires. In a vanilla environment they wouldn't be viewed as unreasonable. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Wonder how mine reads to you? You seem like an intelligent, sensuous kind of pairing so I’m sure the needle in a haystack will present itself given time.
Yes it does appear that way on fab... it's ok, I have plenty of patience. Been on here for many years. But seeing men wanting to empty their load all the time gets tad bit tiring."Yes, there’s a couple of similar “asks” that are equally tiresome here as well, some I also find a tad problematic too. I guess you have to just best to apply a filter to it to use the site. I think it will always be here, on any site in this vein. But I do hope you find your needle in a haystack x | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load?
Wonder how mine reads to you? You seem like an intelligent, sensuous kind of pairing so I’m sure the needle in a haystack will present itself given time.
Yes it does appear that way on fab... it's ok, I have plenty of patience. Been on here for many years. But seeing men wanting to empty their load all the time gets tad bit tiring.
Yes, there’s a couple of similar “asks” that are equally tiresome here as well, some I also find a tad problematic too.
I guess you have to just best to apply a filter to it to use the site. I think it will always be here, on any site in this vein. But I do hope you find your needle in a haystack x"8 inch needle | |||
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"There’s plenty, just a shame you’re too far away, let me know if you’re ever in London, would love to take you out for a drink x Jay, have you seen her profile? Her ideal guy should be interested in tantric sex, particularly attractive, eve with 8 or 9 inches, 6ft 1, muscular, circumcised, non-smoker, circumcised, etc. in essence, she wants a man that is less than 1% of the 1% of the whole population of men in the swinging lifestyle. Oh, and did I mention you have to love mountain biking, cats and bondage role play? And if you miraculously meets all these requirements, guess what? You don’t even get old-fashioned anal or face fucking,
OP - no wonder you are finding it difficult to find these people, especially since you are looking for the same man that all other women, of all ages, are looking for.
I didn't want to say it do glad you did mate...from a man's perspective.
There were a lot of requirements.
I have requirements but they are more about who the person is character/identity-wise and psychologically-wise mostly. because of who I am psychologically and character/identity-wise. The sexual stuff was because I suffered with low libido and need a bit of help sometimes getting turned on so a man who knows confidently how to do that is best for me.
"Thank you. As a society, I think we have gotten to a place where we have unrealistic demands about each other due to media (social, Hollywood, etc.) influences which has resulted in a lot of people being alone, cos they have demands that have absolutely nothing to do with what it takes to have a long-term fulfilling relationship or have a partner that will make you happy. I agree that character, integrity and a sense of value and identity is what we should all be looking for in our long-term partners but when we are dwelling on the things that don’t really matter in this regard, we set ourselves up for failure. | |||
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"I thought it would be easier to search for men to find the right fabber but every time I do all I seem to see is millions of the following profiles: Dick or sex avatar, "married", titles saying "Looking for fun" and updates "who going to empty my load/balls?" or "meet now". To me it all sounds way to crude and too self-centred. I would like to find a decent guy looking for quality good times. Rather than go with what seems a guy who doesn't want to pay for it, wants it quick and free with zero effort
Any decent fabbers out there that doesn't just want to empty their load? "I'm sure there's decent guys on here near where you are, hopefully you find what you looking for | |||
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" Yes, the typical response is always the woman's fault. It couldn't be anyone else's right? I am very open about having standards and have met afew lovely fabbers in my time. But I will continue to stick to my beliefs of finding someone that suits me, not desperate to run to any guy because I want sex. As I look for compatibility. That's what makes a great fab meet." I didn’t say it’s always a woman’s fault because it’s not but I think your standards being that high is the exception. Never said you should because I know how many messages women get. That said, listing unrealistic standards in your bio is very of putting and you won’t find who you’re looking for. If you think you’ll find a 6’2 guy, who’s muscular and 8 inches? You watch too much porn because there’s no one like that. If there is miraculous one who’s to say you’re his type? | |||
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" Yes, the typical response is always the woman's fault. It couldn't be anyone else's right? I am very open about having standards and have met afew lovely fabbers in my time. But I will continue to stick to my beliefs of finding someone that suits me, not desperate to run to any guy because I want sex. As I look for compatibility. That's what makes a great fab meet. I didn’t say it’s always a woman’s fault because it’s not but I think your standards being that high is the exception. Never said you should because I know how many messages women get. That said, listing unrealistic standards in your bio is very of putting and you won’t find who you’re looking for. If you think you’ll find a 6’2 guy, who’s muscular and 8 inches? You watch too much porn because there’s no one like that. If there is miraculous one who’s to say you’re his type? " To be fair there are plenty of 6’2” men out there, fab does seem to attract the shorter men for some reason, so maybe not on here. | |||
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" I didn’t say it’s always a woman’s fault because it’s not but I think your standards being that high is the exception. Never said you should because I know how many messages women get. That said, listing unrealistic standards in your bio is very of putting and you won’t find who you’re looking for. If you think you’ll find a 6’2 guy, who’s muscular and 8 inches? You watch too much porn because there’s no one like that. If there is miraculous one who’s to say you’re his type? " What are you on about? “There’s no one like that”… “you won’t find what you’re looking for” ? Why so pessimistic? you’ll find there are plenty of men who are 6’2 and above, and well endowed too. If that’s what she likes then that’s what she likes. No need to pretend it doesn’t exist and no need to try to put someone down for wanting that. | |||
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" Yes, the typical response is always the woman's fault. It couldn't be anyone else's right? I am very open about having standards and have met afew lovely fabbers in my time. But I will continue to stick to my beliefs of finding someone that suits me, not desperate to run to any guy because I want sex. As I look for compatibility. That's what makes a great fab meet. I didn’t say it’s always a woman’s fault because it’s not but I think your standards being that high is the exception. Never said you should because I know how many messages women get. That said, listing unrealistic standards in your bio is very of putting and you won’t find who you’re looking for. If you think you’ll find a 6’2 guy, who’s muscular and 8 inches? You watch too much porn because there’s no one like that. If there is miraculous one who’s to say you’re his type? " I don't know what porn you watch but i hardly see tall men in porn. They seem to average around 5ft 10 which in Europe/uk is the average height. But there's plenty of men who are tall on fab. But even with my idealism, I don't just seek that. I am realistic too. It's his attitude and compatibility with me that I look for. Plus i have had fab meets with intelligent wve men on fab. I just feel when men criticize others for having standards, it's because it brings out their own insecurities. I'm not tall, blond or big boobed. But I get 100s of messages every day. It doesn't bother me so much I have to wait for the right man to come along. I'm not desperate and know exactly what I want, which from my experience on fab, many other women are similar to me. We shouldn't be blamed or knocked down because of it. This reminds me when you say no to a guy on fab and they reply with abusive messages saying it's your fault why you rejected them. | |||
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