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Calling all North Eastern club folk Shhh/ClubF
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Let's face it folks. The two local clubs within easy reach of our locality are either Shhh, or ClubF. Looking to make a socially type thread folk might want to drop in to?... Of course there are the actual club threads. But though we could start a bit of local dip in/dip out banter to see who might fancy what/when?  |
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"We organise Party nights/ Events at ClubF check out our page Newbies always welcome.
Booty x"
Will it be straight refresh on my membership, as I haven’t been over since before Sue sold the club, or would I need to rejoin and bring id etc?  |
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We joined Shhh on Saturday and had a great night. It must be hard for single lads but honestly the staff are lovely and help you relax. We were nervous but got involved with things! We will get back as soon as we can. We are both bi looking to team with males females and couples ( eventually an orgy) |
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"Would work for me as I’d like to maybe go to a club but don’t feel confident enough to just go alone ? I’ll feel like a rabbit in the headlights "
exactly the way I felt the first couple of times I went to club f but if you make an effort and just talk to people there they're Great, very friendly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Mr have been to clubf recently on 3 occasions on my own as a solo male. Every visit I was made to feel welcome. Yes a few knew me as half of KJ from when we visit together but many didn't.
Each visit I was made to feel very welcome, talked to loads of people and enjoyed multiple play situations on every visit.
To single guys thinking about it, if your social skills are good then go for it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can someone please advise what the parking availability is like for Shhh please?
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If it's an evening / night visit we have always been able to park within a minutes walk of the club.
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Heading through in a few weeks with a day (probs Sunday) to spare. Which would be the better place for a single to while away the day/ Evenibg and where is the best place to find a room close to the club? Ty in advance for any advice |
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"Heading through in a few weeks with a day (probs Sunday) to spare. Which would be the better place for a single to while away the day/ Evenibg and where is the best place to find a room close to the club? Ty in advance for any advice"
You can book a room in Club f, it has hotel rooms upstairs. Think they used to do ‘crash’ too, if you take a sleeping bag. I would contact them beforehand (and in plenty of time)  |
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"We organise Party nights/ Events at ClubF check out our page Newbies always welcome.
Booty x
Will it be straight refresh on my membership, as I haven’t been over since before Sue sold the club, or would I need to rejoin and bring id etc? "
Membership just continues unless it's ran out and needs renewing |
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"Heading through in a few weeks with a day (probs Sunday) to spare. Which would be the better place for a single to while away the day/ Evenibg and where is the best place to find a room close to the club? Ty in advance for any advice
You can book a room in Club f, it has hotel rooms upstairs. Think they used to do ‘crash’ too, if you take a sleeping bag. I would contact them beforehand (and in plenty of time) "
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"We organise Party nights/ Events at ClubF check out our page Newbies always welcome.
Booty x
Will it be straight refresh on my membership, as I haven’t been over since before Sue sold the club, or would I need to rejoin and bring id etc? "
Straight refresh, which is £15, just bring ID  |
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"We organise Party nights/ Events at ClubF check out our page Newbies always welcome.
Booty x
Will it be straight refresh on my membership, as I haven’t been over since before Sue sold the club, or would I need to rejoin and bring id etc?
Straight refresh, which is £15, just bring ID "
Thanks for that, hope to get over soon and see what’s changed since I was there last |
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"Would work for me as I’d like to maybe go to a club but don’t feel confident enough to just go alone ? I’ll feel like a rabbit in the headlights "
Honestly mate, after the 1st time it's no bother, I'm a member of Clubf & occasionally visit Shhh on walk in Wednesdays.
Its like ripping off a plaster, take a deep breath & ring the bell.
You'll never look back |
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Heading to club F in June. Excited to be attending another well established club. Been to a fair few with Abfabs, Hellfire, cupids, Chams, Rios and Bristol gardens my current faves.
Hope everyone is freindly, meeting new people is always the best part of a new club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We regularly go to Shhh. We’ve tried a bigger club and wasn’t a fan and we were so grateful for having Shhh right on our doorstep. The staff and members are really welcoming and the club itself is clean and well presented. We are yet to try Club F though.
Also there’s on street parking by Shhh for those that asked and plenty of city centre hotels within a few minutes walking distance. The Holiday Inn is quite near by!
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"We've never attended Club F to be honest, we haven't been to Club Shhh in over a year, our last experience there felt a little cold which was sad as it was our first club."
We've all experienced those cold nights in clubs (Club Play in Blackpool easily my worst), and no two clubs or visits are the same. I haven't been to Shhh, but I have been to Club f several times, and would recommend you give it a try |
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"Have often thought of going but have always worried that I would feel like a spare part  "
Always a danger but in your own hands. Go with a view of chatting to and getting to know people and no expectations of anything other than a nice night, in a nice place surrounded by nice (and very often NICE  ) people.
I bet you will enjoy the evening whatever happens |
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By *aylamoonCouple
over a year ago
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"Never been to either. Curious but not sure how tv friendly they are and if there would be much interest in me? Also worried about the cleanliness of those kind of places "
ClubF is very friendly and inclusive towards everyone so I think you would be fine. Also very clean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really enjoy Club F but not been for some time it got very quite.
And now refuse to pay for new membership when everywhere else is life time membership..."
If you joined once you dont have to pay for new membership just renewal which is £15 to renew, given entry is £25 for a couple plus corkage and you bring your own drinks thats a real cheap night out. Especially nowadays. |
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"Really enjoy Club F but not been for some time it got very quite.
And now refuse to pay for new membership when everywhere else is life time membership...
If you joined once you dont have to pay for new membership just renewal which is £15 to renew, given entry is £25 for a couple plus corkage and you bring your own drinks thats a real cheap night out. Especially nowadays. "
At this point it's the principal of not having to renew not the money do not feel it was fair we had to renew after covid.
But it's your club you have to run it you're way. |
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I went to club f a good few years back ( first time alone to get a handle on the place, second with a lovely woman I met on here - sex with a decent audience is something you NEVER forget!).
I’m tempted by the shhh (much more local) but all the ID needed, long and short finance and general confusion makes it feel more like an investment rather than an experiment. |
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"I went to club f a good few years back ( first time alone to get a handle on the place, second with a lovely woman I met on here - sex with a decent audience is something you NEVER forget!).
I’m tempted by the shhh (much more local) but all the ID needed, long and short finance and general confusion makes it feel more like an investment rather than an experiment."
Try a Wednesday day time. No membership needed. |
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"Never been to either. Curious but not sure how tv friendly they are and if there would be much interest in me? Also worried about the cleanliness of those kind of places "
Very friendly towards TVs. They also play bi porn on the TVs which is really nice and inclusive.
Cleanliness wise, it's probably cleaner than most hotels! |
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"I'm considering attending Shhh, I was wondering how limited the spots are for single dudes? Be a pity to get dolled-up (teeth combed, ears syringed) just to get turned away on the door ..."
Wednesday day times I believe you're pretty much sorted. Thursday evenings probably aren't a great choice as it's greedy girls and from my experience mostly straight guys.
Weekends spaces are limited.
I've dropped you a message with some other details. |
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"I'm considering attending Shhh, I was wondering how limited the spots are for single dudes? Be a pity to get dolled-up (teeth combed, ears syringed) just to get turned away on the door ...
Wednesday day times I believe you're pretty much sorted. Thursday evenings probably aren't a great choice as it's greedy girls and from my experience mostly straight guys.
Weekends spaces are limited.
I've dropped you a message with some other details. "
Sorry for a single guy, Thursdays are the best option.
Misread your previous post! |
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"Wednesday day times I believe you're pretty much sorted. Thursday evenings probably aren't a great choice as it's greedy girls and from my experience mostly straight guys.
Weekends spaces are limited.
I've dropped you a message with some other details. "
That's really helpful, thank you! I am more attracted to the weekend, for being more exclusive, and probably more chill in some ways? But I can imagine Wednesday could suit me better in fact, for getting things sussed at first.
Thanks again for the help, it's appreciated! |
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Well,
Tried shhh for the first time on Friday (and have every intention of doing it again this week).
The place was rather quiet ,but I think that actually worked in my favour- (no one got to see me walk naked into the bar - was still learning  ) - simply chatting and getting a simpler view of the place made it all much less overwhelming.
(Admittedly, the sex bit was lacking, but with that few people, hardly surprising - jacuzzi was nice though)
Wish me luck for Friday |
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"Wednesday day times I believe you're pretty much sorted. Thursday evenings probably aren't a great choice as it's greedy girls and from my experience mostly straight guys.
Weekends spaces are limited.
I've dropped you a message with some other details.
That's really helpful, thank you! I am more attracted to the weekend, for being more exclusive, and probably more chill in some ways? But I can imagine Wednesday could suit me better in fact, for getting things sussed at first.
Thanks again for the help, it's appreciated!"
I (m) don't usually go on a Thursday but Mrs does and I think it is chilled. The issue with weekends is its almost all couples. |
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"Let's face it folks. The two local clubs within easy reach of our locality are either Shhh, or ClubF. Looking to make a socially type thread folk might want to drop in to?... Of course there are the actual club threads. But though we could start a bit of local dip in/dip out banter to see who might fancy what/when? "
I've only been to club f and I know what you mean I was so nervous but they're very friendly and respectful if you have any problems just contact the staff, they're awesome I know it's different for a single woman maybe find a friend to go with you for support etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to club shhh every Wednesday daytime. Thoroughly enjoy it. Very friendly, laid back, and always have a laugh. It’s just a great chill out day. And I always have naughty fun every week too x
Been to club f a couple of times but I do prefer shhh, just personal preference that’s all and it’s closer to me x |
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I’ve thought about going but you can just never predict who’s going to be there, who’s going to be interested in using a tv? I just always think a nice hotel would be more comfortable but I could be tempted to try it one day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thinking about going Wednesday around lunchtime for the walk in Thursday what can I expect? What sort of demographic is usually there I'm pretty easy going and bi"
When we went on the Weds it was mainly men. |
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"Think I'll still give it a go, I'll be in the area and never been to a club so if it's quiet that'll help the nerves!"
Only been once on a Wednesday, later on in the day and it was quiet, but apparently it'd been much busier early on.
If you're bi and enjoy male play then I think Wednesday day time is perfect. We want to go back but work gets in the way. |
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BOOTY'S EGGSTRAVAGANZA @ Club F
Saturday 15th April 2023.
8pm -1.30am.
Please ensure you message for more details and to be added to the guestlist for this event.
It's an amazing venue with very friendly staff.
The buffet for the evening will be a hog roast.
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Booty xx |
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"Staying in Newcastle Town centre tomorrow, would Shhh be worth a visit? Is anyone else on here going?
Definitely recommend Thursday at Shhh for a guy. "
Do you mean Thursdays generally have more single ladies/couples looking to meet single guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"BOOTY'S EGGSTRAVAGANZA @ Club F
Saturday 15th April 2023.
8pm -1.30am.
Please ensure you message for more details and to be added to the guestlist for this event.
It's an amazing venue with very friendly staff.
The buffet for the evening will be a hog roast.
Guestlist in forums
Booty xx"
I can highly recommend this, they are always such brilliant nights |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Staying in Newcastle Town centre tomorrow, would Shhh be worth a visit? Is anyone else on here going?
Definitely recommend Thursday at Shhh for a guy.
Do you mean Thursdays generally have more single ladies/couples looking to meet single guys?"
Thursday's are non membership nights. So if you fancy a look in without joining then they're a good call |
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"Staying in Newcastle Town centre tomorrow, would Shhh be worth a visit? Is anyone else on here going?
Definitely recommend Thursday at Shhh for a guy.
Do you mean Thursdays generally have more single ladies/couples looking to meet single guys?
Thursday's are non membership nights. So if you fancy a look in without joining then they're a good call "
Ahh, I see. So Thursday is the only non-membership time a single guy can visit? I don’t mind paying a membership to a club I genuinely feel welcome in btw |
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"Staying in Newcastle Town centre tomorrow, would Shhh be worth a visit? Is anyone else on here going?
Definitely recommend Thursday at Shhh for a guy.
Do you mean Thursdays generally have more single ladies/couples looking to meet single guys?
Thursday's are non membership nights. So if you fancy a look in without joining then they're a good call
Ahh, I see. So Thursday is the only non-membership time a single guy can visit? I don’t mind paying a membership to a club I genuinely feel welcome in btw "
Wednesday day time too |
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Heading to club F in a month on my way North of the Wall in line with my MO of trying out all the venues I come across on my travels. What can I expect and Is it single male friendly? A night of chatting and a bit of flirting over a glass of something nice would be a fab night for me, being a social leper less so. Anyone tried it as a single ?
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
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I attended ClubF regularly as a single man for 18 months before lockdown. It deserves its reputation for being a friendly sociable place. If you're able to engage with people and not be creepy about it, you should enjoy the night.
That was with me being a regular. I'm the quiet and shy type, and it takes me a while to get comfortable with people and a place and build the connections. So going regularly was an important part of it. More outgoing people can probably get there a lot quicker.
I still go there now, but not as a single man. One of the good friends I've made there became a lot more than just a good friend. I have a lot to thank ClubF for |
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"I went to club F few weeks ago. Would love to try out Sshh as well. Would be good to go out for a social in Durham or Newcastle if anyone is interested "
I went to Club f’s newbie night on Friday, but I would like to try a visit to Shhh too? I would be happy to meet you inside for a social night, as a pair of newbies together? |
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"I went to club F few weeks ago. Would love to try out Sshh as well. Would be good to go out for a social in Durham or Newcastle if anyone is interested "
Would be happy to accompany you to some of this ! xx |
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"I did Shhh as a single male a few weeks, on a Friday night, and was made to feel welcome and comfortable right from the off "
To receive three veris from the staff at Club Shhh speaks volumes about the club mate. I need to get myself there soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to get going but I've never before and I rang shhh up before they said not really taking new single guys plus parking and what not not v good for me |
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"I'd love to get going but I've never before and I rang shhh up before they said not really taking new single guys plus parking and what not not v good for me "
That's weird! Cos they're smack in the middle of the pink triangle. And the last time I went there was a load of younguns piling in off the back of a night out... Also parking is shite outfront. But you can park round at the Plaza hotel like 5min walk away all night |
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"I'd love to get going but I've never before and I rang shhh up before they said not really taking new single guys plus parking and what not not v good for me
That's weird! Cos they're smack in the middle of the pink triangle. And the last time I went there was a load of younguns piling in off the back of a night out... Also parking is shite outfront. But you can park round at the Plaza hotel like 5min walk away all night "
5 min walks abit far for someone with a user name like me.
I got the impression maybe it wasn't for me |
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"I'd love to get going but I've never before and I rang shhh up before they said not really taking new single guys plus parking and what not not v good for me
That's weird! Cos they're smack in the middle of the pink triangle. And the last time I went there was a load of younguns piling in off the back of a night out... Also parking is shite outfront. But you can park round at the Plaza hotel like 5min walk away all night
5 min walks abit far for someone with a user name like me.
I got the impression maybe it wasn't for me "
Oya, I had to LOL at this
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd love to get going but I've never before and I rang shhh up before they said not really taking new single guys plus parking and what not not v good for me
That's weird! Cos they're smack in the middle of the pink triangle. And the last time I went there was a load of younguns piling in off the back of a night out... Also parking is shite outfront. But you can park round at the Plaza hotel like 5min walk away all night
5 min walks abit far for someone with a user name like me.
I got the impression maybe it wasn't for me "
Both clubs have unavoidable stairs. however, Quest in Leeds is level access. |
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"I'd love to get going but I've never before and I rang shhh up before they said not really taking new single guys plus parking and what not not v good for me
That's weird! Cos they're smack in the middle of the pink triangle. And the last time I went there was a load of younguns piling in off the back of a night out... Also parking is shite outfront. But you can park round at the Plaza hotel like 5min walk away all night
5 min walks abit far for someone with a user name like me.
I got the impression maybe it wasn't for me
Both clubs have unavoidable stairs. however, Quest in Leeds is level access. "
I've been to f before 1x it wasn't v good. There was only about 5 people in |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd love to get going but I've never before and I rang shhh up before they said not really taking new single guys plus parking and what not not v good for me
That's weird! Cos they're smack in the middle of the pink triangle. And the last time I went there was a load of younguns piling in off the back of a night out... Also parking is shite outfront. But you can park round at the Plaza hotel like 5min walk away all night
5 min walks abit far for someone with a user name like me.
I got the impression maybe it wasn't for me
Both clubs have unavoidable stairs. however, Quest in Leeds is level access.
I've been to f before 1x it wasn't v good. There was only about 5 people in "
That’s…really quiet. I’ve only seen it like that twice, and neither of those were recent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd love to get going but I've never before and I rang shhh up before they said not really taking new single guys plus parking and what not not v good for me
That's weird! Cos they're smack in the middle of the pink triangle. And the last time I went there was a load of younguns piling in off the back of a night out... Also parking is shite outfront. But you can park round at the Plaza hotel like 5min walk away all night
5 min walks abit far for someone with a user name like me.
I got the impression maybe it wasn't for me
Both clubs have unavoidable stairs. however, Quest in Leeds is level access.
I've been to f before 1x it wasn't v good. There was only about 5 people in
That’s…really quiet. I’ve only seen it like that twice, and neither of those were recent. "
The staff helped me and they were great apparently there'd been something happening on the day before.
It'd abit of a trek for me to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m curious about going but not sure how popular tv’s are? Don’t want to feel like a spare part lol "
Club F hold a monthly event.
Look in the club reviews for information x |
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"I’m curious about going but not sure how popular tv’s are? Don’t want to feel like a spare part lol "
Often see at least one. It's a very bi and TS/V friendly club. For example nearly all the porn they play is male-bi which just makes being bi so much more relaxing. |
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