You just got to get on with it and deal with it  . Not everyone will say yes. And if they say no then that means no. I have heard a few woman say it is just easier to block rather than reply so they dont end up getting a load of abuse back after rejecting people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A kid wants a shiny new toy they thrown a tantrum , realise they can't have it and move on , they don't take it personally. Kids are smart
Refuse to label it as rejection. It is most probably a compatibility issue not personal dislike.
If some one rejects me I immediately lose interest because why the fuck would I want to be with someone who doesn't enthusiastically want me. Just no |
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I think many have given similar opinions. But don’t view it as rejection. If they’re not as enthusiastic as you are it wouldn’t be a great experience so nothing lost. We all like what we like and sometimes we’re simply not someone’s cup of tea.
That may be due to pics, it could be something in the profile or it could quite simply be that they’re not feeling it or in the mood at that particular time.
It helps me to remember as a single guy that women and couples here receive a huge amount of attention so just be sure to enjoy the connections you are lucky to make |
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Generally, I only really really want someone once I've got to know them. In the getting to know them I tend to get a fairly good grasp of whether or not they're into me at all, and if they're not, I don't find myself that drawn to them. I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't want to be with me. |
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As others have said, if someone isn’t interested then stuffem! Easier said than done, I know. Bear in mind also that their online persona may well have been completely different in real life so, chances are, you’re not missing what you think you’re missing.
Imagine walking into a busy bar and chatting to everyone you fancied. How many do you think would be interested in you based on first impressions? It’s the same here only magnified exponentially.
You’ll only be attractive to a few of the people to whom you’re attracted. Add in supply & demand, preferences, age, location and message content, you’re only ever going to click with a tiny minority.
The sooner you become at one with all the above, the sooner you’ll resolve your conflict with rejection.
Best of luck OP! |
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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago
Northwich |
I (he) can honestly say I have never been rejected by a woman but then again, that was always in the real world, and my wife has a 100% hit rate also.
As a swinging couple, we have only ever been approached by woman twice but that was the other half of couples we have met and the lady's were clearly the swinging driving force.
Men and women having problems getting together is a 21st century problem, because people think that the Internet is the solution, whereas really its the problem! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just figured out I’m not good with rejection when it comes to women I REALLY want. How do you handle it?"
You've only just figured it out, do you mean here in fab or in real life ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s harder if you have an underlying insecurity as you then tend to think that’s the reason for the rejection. That in turn just exacerbates things in one’s mind. |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
Kingsbridge |
Obviously takes all sorts and very hard to get across your real persona in a few lines of text and a piss poor pic! If they can’t see past that they probably don’t deserve you anyway! And of course….plenty more fish etc.! |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
You can't have someone that doesn't want you. So it's understanding that it's not just about oneself
Never had an issue
But most of my friends are female away from the site and at times wish it's was more but I respect our friendship
So maybe consider respect |
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Most men on fab aren't good at dealing with rejection. Most get aggressive or ignore the rejection and try again a week later. When i get rejected, I make an excuse for them and just think it wasn't meant to be and move on. Plenty of fish in the sea. Rather be with someone who wants me more than i want them rather than the other way round. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Just figured out I’m not good with rejection when it comes to women I REALLY want. How do you handle it?"
I think maybe you’re investing too much in something before there is something.
Rejection as you mean isn’t something that happens to me. I’ve never been rejected by a woman. That doesn’t mean women that I like the look of all wanna fuck me, far from it !
But I wouldn’t get to the point of rejection , I would read the signals and not get invested
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think this site is the place to frequent if you can’t handle rejection. "
Pfft! It's the Internet. I doubt anyone cares.. And of they do? They might need a word with themselves |
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