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How does it make you feel after watching your wife get fucked ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely still the Alpha, it’s like that feeling when you have all the best toy that everyone else wants to play with.
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I imagine it's like watching your favourite porn star in real life. It wouldn't make me feel any differently I'd still feel alpha too she's still mine  |
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over a year ago
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"It's knowing that other men want her plus she likes the attention
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Yes same here. She is highly sexed and loves to be centre of attention and loves the group bc aspect whereby she is pleasures by men and women, like Saturday night at Penthouse where she was taken with a massive strap on |
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"i feel happy that she has enjoyed her self as have i and dont feel any less a man"
This.
The whole experience is extremely erotic; the build up and anticipation, the initial touching and caressing, that delicious moment of penetration, her cumming repeatedly as she is fucked... and then we get to talk about it in detail later.
In relation to the OP's original question I suspect guys are more likely to feel 'unmanly' if they have security and confidence issues to start with.
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"i feel happy that she has enjoyed her self as have i and dont feel any less a man
This.
The whole experience is extremely erotic; the build up and anticipation, the initial touching and caressing, that delicious moment of penetration, her cumming repeatedly as she is fucked... and then we get to talk about it in detail later.
In relation to the OP's original question I suspect guys are more likely to feel 'unmanly' if they have security and confidence issues to start with.
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Exactly this  |
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So long as she as she enjoyed he would
Watching each other, especially female enjoy, watching her body move, curl, sensually enjoy the moment, that is hot, something you can't really appreciate unless you film and even with film there's something not as connecting or as hot.
So to answer... Yes  |
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Still the alpha. (Although, if you have to refer to yourself as an “alpha”, you’re most likely not an alpha)
But people need to understand, that if you get introduced to play, you’re a bit of meat, a glorified sex toy, for that couple |
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"Still the alpha. (Although, if you have to refer to yourself as an “alpha”, you’re most likely not an alpha)
But people need to understand, that if you get introduced to play, you’re a bit of meat, a glorified sex toy, for that couple "
The Alpha part had us thinking the same thing haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it , can’t wait to get my hands on her , see that smile , feel and taste that used pussy , give her a wee massage and kisses - the way a Hotwife should be treated
Then watch or look at any vids or pics whilst kissing and turning each other on
This kink can’t be beaten x |
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"Absolutely still the Alpha, it’s like that feeling when you have all the best toy that everyone else wants to play with.
I imagine it's like watching your favourite porn star in real life. It wouldn't make me feel any differently I'd still feel alpha too she's still mine "
This all the way dude  |
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"Absolutely still the Alpha, it’s like that feeling when you have all the best toy that everyone else wants to play with.
I imagine it's like watching your favourite porn star in real life. It wouldn't make me feel any differently I'd still feel alpha too she's still mine
This all the way dude "
No doubt at all Mrs Trav is by far my favourite Porn Star |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely love it. It’s really horny watching or hearing about her with another guy, and the different noises she makes from clearly enjoying it are out of this world |
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By *uto564Man
over a year ago
Widnes |
Love seeing her enjoying herself and having a couple of cocks to play with certainty does that… less manly defiantly not, horny definitively yes, and enjoy the experience….
Some guys need guiding on what she likes….  |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
Really strange mixture of emotions for me personally,
Firstly arousal - I am watching my own personal porn movie and she is the star, I also love that she is getting the sex that she needs and deserves but it is all tinged with a small bit of humiliation in that it isn't me making her cum as hard as she is. |
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A lot depends on your dynamic as a couple, it would be difficult to enjoy watching your wife/partner have sex with other guys if your head isn’t right about it !
For me as a cuck, it’s about watching the woman I love as my own porn star, watching her enjoy the sex she needs and enjoying more well endowed guys that can fully pleasure her. |
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We started to meet guys last year in club environments where we both felt safe and could have a conversation at the bar first whilst getting to know the person before moving to play. As the male partner in our relationship I love being fully involved whilst watching her being pleasured, she often talks during the play about how she loves being lusted after and seeing the guys all hard. This usually turns the guys on even more. With mirrors in the playrooms it does enhance the feel that you are in your own porn shoot which we also fully enjoy. We have progressed and most recently experienced mmmf at Le Boudoir. If everyone is comfortable, respectful and my partner is enjoying herself, it’s the best feeling for me. We both love reclaim sex and we talk for weeks after about what took place. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Great comments. Personally I wouldn't feel unmanly as alot described its like watching the sexiest women in the world in your personal porno and I'd get immense pleasure watching her  |
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By *P07Man
over a year ago
Coseley |
I met with with a couple at a hotel they were staying at, after a couple of drinks the wife and myself went to the room leaving the husband in the bar. Our time together was filmed for him to watch back later. |
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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago
n/wales |
like others have said like having your own private porn star and seeing her enjoy herself and good too watch it back too if vid taken of it also good knowing other guys want her now i wonder how the guys who have played feel the veris are nice to read too |
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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
It is amazing feeling to chat with guys who then you kiss and grope and get naked with and have amazing sex and feel a nice hard cock inside me and our hands on each other and the pleasure as making eye contact with my hubby as smiling and moaning x |
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Considering we did this for the first time on Saturday we absolutely love it. I love seeing her pleasured,I feel alpha afterwards as she's all mine afterwards. The reclaim sex was amazing for example. We just want more of it now to find nice friendly couples who want to indulge! We've relived the night every single day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel unmanly or do you still feel like the alpha and doesn't make you unmanly for sharing your wife with others ?"
I think this is an insecurity my partner has |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot depends on your dynamic as a couple, it would be difficult to enjoy watching your wife/partner have sex with other guys if your head isn’t right about it !
For me as a cuck, it’s about watching the woman I love as my own porn star, watching her enjoy the sex she needs and enjoying more well endowed guys that can fully pleasure her."
Did you have your head right about it from the start ? |
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Love watching my lady get fucked especially in a group scenario then getting her back and making love to her or just fucking and filling with my spunk something that the guys that have just fucked can't do. |
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
Babbacombe Torquay |
"I rarely get the opportunity to watch, which works very well for us both.
Do you feel you’d struggle more if you watched? "
Good question.....no not really, I've watched plenty in the past, and dropping Jane off to one of her regular lovers adds an extra something to it all. |
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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago
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"I rarely get the opportunity to watch, which works very well for us both.
Do you feel you’d struggle more if you watched?
Good question.....no not really, I've watched plenty in the past, and dropping Jane off to one of her regular lovers adds an extra something to it all."
That must be soon hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel unmanly or do you still feel like the alpha and doesn't make you unmanly for sharing your wife with others ?"
I just feel horny and can't wait to have her myself |
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"A lot depends on your dynamic as a couple, it would be difficult to enjoy watching your wife/partner have sex with other guys if your head isn’t right about it !
For me as a cuck, it’s about watching the woman I love as my own porn star, watching her enjoy the sex she needs and enjoying more well endowed guys that can fully pleasure her.
Did you have your head right about it from the start ?"
We were quite young really and very early into our marriage and our first experience was a dogging experience with two older guys. I don’t know what I thought at first but after the initial shock of seeing her enjoying other guys cocks it’s something that we both sort of evolved into. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot depends on your dynamic as a couple, it would be difficult to enjoy watching your wife/partner have sex with other guys if your head isn’t right about it !
For me as a cuck, it’s about watching the woman I love as my own porn star, watching her enjoy the sex she needs and enjoying more well endowed guys that can fully pleasure her.
Did you have your head right about it from the start ?
We were quite young really and very early into our marriage and our first experience was a dogging experience with two older guys. I don’t know what I thought at first but after the initial shock of seeing her enjoying other guys cocks it’s something that we both sort of evolved into."
Do you think there was an element of adapting because it wasn’t like you could undo it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve always enjoyed sharing and watching my gf have sex with another guy. It happened a lot as a student when we shared a flat.
I never felt jealous or less of a man. It was all about optimising pleasure and was so horny chatting about it afterwards. What’s not too like !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We actually get quite tactile and maybe even a bit extra clingy for a couple of days after we've watched the other with someone else. It enhances our feelings for each other and really strengthens our bond - get your barf bags out but we didn't think it was possible to be more in love but we do each time lol |
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"We actually get quite tactile and maybe even a bit extra clingy for a couple of days after we've watched the other with someone else. It enhances our feelings for each other and really strengthens our bond - get your barf bags out but we didn't think it was possible to be more in love but we do each time lol"
^^^^ This!!  |
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Absolutely tingling euphoria that we’ll be discussing for days (or weeks) to come. There’s an indescribable closeness and of course, the intense passionate reclaim sex. Everything about it is incredible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We actually get quite tactile and maybe even a bit extra clingy for a couple of days after we've watched the other with someone else. It enhances our feelings for each other and really strengthens our bond - get your barf bags out but we didn't think it was possible to be more in love but we do each time lol
^^^^ This!! "
That’s lovely, I can totally relate to this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband loves seeing me with another man.
The closeness afterwards between us is magic we can’t keep our hands of each other.
I’ve never seen him with another women don’t think I’d like that though xx |
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"Absolutely amazing, there is no better sight than seeing the Mrs having a good time. The excitement after is just as good always ends in fun night for us and brings us closer together as a couple"  |
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it takes a big man to take the plunge and share his wife with another guy , its not about ho it makes you feel, for me to see and know my wife has had a great and very sexy time then great, its about enjoyment,, and once i have seen another guy have sexy with my wife i feel on top f the world and still a man at the end of the day, so what about the husbands who dont share and there wives go out and cheat, the husbands are missing out there wives are not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Really good question! First time for us I was actually worried about this a bit however didn't feel anything like that at all. We both love watching each other enjoy ourselves with others and the best thing is always the sex afterwards. |
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"Do you feel unmanly or do you still feel like the alpha and doesn't make you unmanly for sharing your wife with others ?"
I don't feel any more or less manly. To be honest, that's never really occurred to me. And I'm not sure I ever feel "alpha," as that's always seemed kinda silly to me.
However, I do feel more in love with Alice and VERY aroused. Mainly incredibly in love though. |
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"It's knowing that other men want her plus she likes the attention
Yes same here. She is highly sexed and loves to be centre of attention and loves the group bc aspect whereby she is pleasures by men and women, like Saturday night at Penthouse where she was taken with a massive strap on "
We love fucking you guys
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Before we were together we were both very promiscuous people. That thrill of new experiences. Jane loves the attention of men and slutty feeling of taking new cocks.
Alex loves sex with other men and women and all the hot scenarios that creates.
As a couple, these shared sexual experiences make us even closer, we understand each other that little bit more each time.
This sounds really vomit inducing but Jane is my absolute goddess, she's elegant, beautiful and has the most incredible mind. I love to watch her enjoying herself and she always inspires me to be the best version of myself |
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"Before we were together we were both very promiscuous people. That thrill of new experiences. Jane loves the attention of men and slutty feeling of taking new cocks.
Alex loves sex with other men and women and all the hot scenarios that creates.
As a couple, these shared sexual experiences make us even closer, we understand each other that little bit more each time.
This sounds really vomit inducing but Jane is my absolute goddess, she's elegant, beautiful and has the most incredible mind. I love to watch her enjoying herself and she always inspires me to be the best version of myself "
Truely this. And at the end of a great night out be it a club or house party, or even a private meet. We know we are always going home together as a couple and get excited with each other over what we just experienced |
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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago
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"Really strange mixture of emotions for me personally,
Firstly arousal - I am watching my own personal porn movie and she is the star, I also love that she is getting the sex that she needs and deserves but it is all tinged with a small bit of humiliation in that it isn't me making her cum as hard as she is. "
Yes agree but all very exciting and horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Done it for the first time Saturday night and it was amazing loved watching how sexy she looked sucking and fucking another cock. Hopefully that’s just the first of many "
We are hoping to have our first meet soon. Any advice for the first time!!? |
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Absolutely fucking amazing. As someone mentioned above, it’s live porn with the person you find the most desirable in the word… and you get to join in.
Love kissing my wife or putting my cock in her mouth while another guy is inside her pussy.  |
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"Done it for the first time Saturday night and it was amazing loved watching how sexy she looked sucking and fucking another cock. Hopefully that’s just the first of many
We are hoping to have our first meet soon. Any advice for the first time!!?"
Make sure you communicate a lot beforehand and then… just enjoy it. It’s amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Done it for the first time Saturday night and it was amazing loved watching how sexy she looked sucking and fucking another cock. Hopefully that’s just the first of many
We are hoping to have our first meet soon. Any advice for the first time!!?
Make sure you communicate a lot beforehand and then… just enjoy it. It’s amazing."
Thanks, we have communicated about it a lot and are getting on the same page. Looking forward to giving it a go and watching her enjoy herself  |
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"Done it for the first time Saturday night and it was amazing loved watching how sexy she looked sucking and fucking another cock. Hopefully that’s just the first of many
We are hoping to have our first meet soon. Any advice for the first time!!?"
Just try to relax and enjoy it I know we were both very nervous before hand but soon as it began both of us we’re loving it and I think it’s key to communicate after. The best bit for us was the sex between us after |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Done it for the first time Saturday night and it was amazing loved watching how sexy she looked sucking and fucking another cock. Hopefully that’s just the first of many
We are hoping to have our first meet soon. Any advice for the first time!!?
Just try to relax and enjoy it I know we were both very nervous before hand but soon as it began both of us we’re loving it and I think it’s key to communicate after. The best bit for us was the sex between us after "
Thanks for the tips.
We have heard the sex afterwards is amazing so that is something else to look forward to! |
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"Still waiting to find out… some what nervous though "
Nervous excitement?
As long as you both know what you want just take it slow..they don't have to fuck straight away. See how you feel when they flirt, when they kiss etc |
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Incredible!
We went to Xtasia lastnight and I was so proud watching her morphe into the slut she is. Insatiable. Seeing her eyes roll back, her nails digging in as she grips hard and hearing her just lose herself... damn!
Makes me feel like the Alpha. Like, other get a taste and get to have fun but then I'm talking her home and reclaiming what's mine |
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"What’s the most nerve wracking part? "
None of it. The first time Alice was a little nervous that I would get jealous. And I was a bit nervous the other guy wouldn't be any good. But after that, I don't think there have been any nerves. |
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"Not Alpha and un-manly? Is that some of that Andrew Tate bollocks?
It's great. I'm no more or less manly than before.
Mr" exactly. With my FB, loved watching her have fun and joining in. And the reclaim sex is amazing |
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All of the above! Having had her fucked by 4 guys last night at a party, it's exactly that. Seeing her pleasured, but knowing she's 'mine' and that we are madly still in love after 17 years of marriage. She's amazing.
She loves to be centre of attention and gets off on getting other guys off as gives her confidence that she is wanted so much!! |
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"Incredible!
We went to Xtasia lastnight and I was so proud watching her morphe into the slut she is. Insatiable. Seeing her eyes roll back, her nails digging in as she grips hard and hearing her just lose herself... damn!
Makes me feel like the Alpha. Like, other get a taste and get to have fun but then I'm talking her home and reclaiming what's mine "
Were exactly the same  |
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