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Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ? |
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"Most humans are bi-sexual, it’s generations of “straight” influencers that have tried to make us believe same sex fun is wrong."
Interesting point, I know that sexuality isn’t black and white and there are plenty of grey areas, maybe the best way is saying that there is a spectrum of sexuality ?? |
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"Most humans are bi-sexual, it’s generations of “straight” influencers that have tried to make us believe same sex fun is wrong."
Indeed. Bisexuality was pretty normal in ancient Greek and Roman times. |
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"Most humans are bi-sexual, it’s generations of “straight” influencers that have tried to make us believe same sex fun is wrong."
THIS!
Whenever I see a man saying how they are 100% straight I see someone not secure in their sexuality. |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ? "
Does it matter? |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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If you plan on doing it regularly then yes bi curious i'd say.If you want to have a go again maybe pop something on your profile about it,that way you're being totally upfront .
People say it shouldn't be labelled ,but I think it's important others are honest about how they play,then there are no unwanted surprises.
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I personally don’t think it matters that much.
I’m the same as you and a cock in tights can make me think all sorts of thoughts. I’ve also sucked a cock and been sucked by a man (it was a couple and we were all wearing tights) and would again very gladly.
However the problem arises when you have to choose what to put in your profile. Does that make me bi? No, as I’m not turned in by men in normal life, don’t want to kiss one and have only rarely thought about giving or receiving anal with a man.
Would I suck a cock again in the right circumstances? Hell yeah!
I suppose you just have to spell it out on your profile and hope someone bothers to read it - however, so many guys don’t! |
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"Love the answer above.
The moment felt right. Doesn’t mean it also will be the case. If open to such play, this opens up more opportunities for you if comfortable in bi fun."
Thanks for the reply, yeah I guess it does make things a bit more open to possibilities |
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ?
Does it matter? "
Not really I guess, however reaching my late forties and then finding I’ve handled a cock and like it was kind of a surprise |
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"If you plan on doing it regularly then yes bi curious i'd say.If you want to have a go again maybe pop something on your profile about it,that way you're being totally upfront .
People say it shouldn't be labelled ,but I think it's important others are honest about how they play,then there are no unwanted surprises.
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Not sure if I plan on anything, I suppose I ought to be honest on my profile and at least say I’m bi curious in the right situation |
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Most are.
Congratulations for moving ahead of the ones that are still classifying themselves as 'situationally bi', 'hete exible', and whatever other moniker they can come up with in an attempt to cling to 'heteronormative' status. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honestly right who cares.. I see so many guys asking this.. in my opinion everyone has tendencies to same sex fun. Whether they acknowledge it or not.
Its not wrong, it's not dirty. In fact it's all natural so just get on with it |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"Honestly right who cares.. I see so many guys asking this.. in my opinion everyone has tendencies to same sex fun. Whether they acknowledge it or not.
Its not wrong, it's not dirty. In fact it's all natural so just get on with it"
Not everyone does ,
Some people really are straight.
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"Honestly right who cares.. I see so many guys asking this.. in my opinion everyone has tendencies to same sex fun. Whether they acknowledge it or not.
Its not wrong, it's not dirty. In fact it's all natural so just get on with it
Not everyone does ,
Some people really are straight.
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Maybe but not in my experience. I'm speaking g specifically about blokes |
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Honestly OP I think more guys are bi curious than admit. Good for you for posting about this. I'm not sure if it's down to it been more acceptable for females to be bi than males. Never really understood why. I've even seen single female profiles where they state they are bi but won't meet bi guys. At the end of the day if you enjoyed it, which it sounds like you did. The. Good for you. Plenty of bi couples out there looking for guys like you.
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"I’d maybe not worry about what to label yourself and just enjoy the dick if you fancy a go on one. "
Totally this.
Classifications restrict you and stop you having fun.
Suck dick, wear lingerie, reject pigeon holes.
Enjoy yourself.
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"I’d maybe not worry about what to label yourself and just enjoy the dick if you fancy a go on one.
Totally this.
Classifications restrict you and stop you having fun.
Suck dick, wear lingerie, reject pigeon holes.
Enjoy yourself.
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One of them I want to do and the other I love doing |
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"Most humans are bi-sexual, it’s generations of “straight” influencers that have tried to make us believe same sex fun is wrong.
THIS!
Whenever I see a man saying how they are 100% straight I see someone not secure in their sexuality."
Especially the ones who need to say multiple times in thier profiles lmao |
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By *D_MelTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Most humans are bi-sexual, it’s generations of “straight” influencers that have tried to make us believe same sex fun is wrong.
THIS!
Whenever I see a man saying how they are 100% straight I see someone not secure in their sexuality."
I always get these "straight" guys asking to meet me. |
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ?
Does it matter? "
Some folk want clarity, whilst others can openly chat n debate |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Most humans are bi-sexual, it’s generations of “straight” influencers that have tried to make us believe same sex fun is wrong.
THIS!
Whenever I see a man saying how they are 100% straight I see someone not secure in their sexuality.
I always get these "straight" guys asking to meet me. "
.. And when you meet them you find that they're not straight at all & very often actually want you to fuck THEM  |
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Finally admitted to myself that I was bi a couple of years ago.
I’d always liked looking at a nice cock but steadfastly stuck to the “I’m 100% straight line”.
It was only when I realised that life’s too short to miss out on trying things outside your comfort zone that I actually did something about it.
Now I just think great sex is great sex.
Actually had a great bj from a lovely tv just last night on the way home from work |
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I see a similar comment within this subject quite often.
It's something to the effect of
I'm not class as bi because I dokt fancy guys or want to kiss them
Tbh I think there's a good few ladies who dokt fancy ladies or want to kiss them but enjoys playing with each other and this in fab world labels ypu as bi and or curious |
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"I see a similar comment within this subject quite often.
It's something to the effect of
I'm not class as bi because I dokt fancy guys or want to kiss them
Tbh I think there's a good few ladies who dokt fancy ladies or want to kiss them but enjoys playing with each other and this in fab world labels ypu as bi and or curious "
Yep. On the flip, I don't fancy men.
But I certainly love the cock...
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Interesting to see several comments about most people being bi.
May be true in Fab Land but not in the real world in my experience, and I say that as a bi man. Sure there are ‘straight’ guys who visit saunas and shag other men. Yes it was common back in Roman times, but even in ancient Rome it wasn’t a majority position outside of those wealthy sections of society that engaged in orgies (aka the Roman version of Fab Land).
As for labels, people can label themselves however they like but I agree with MissMorgan that it needs to be clear on a site like this what the boundary is to avoid awkwardness during meets, and those boundaries should be respected. |
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ? "
This is exactly what I’m like
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By *rmrs95Couple
over a year ago
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ?
This is exactly what I’m like
Mr"
I'm the same, I call it bi-playful. As a couple we enjoy it so much more when everyone plays with each other, male or female   |
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ?
This is exactly what I’m like
Mr
I'm the same, I call it bi-playful. As a couple we enjoy it so much more when everyone plays with each other, male or female "
Yep, sometimes the mood takes and a dick gets sucked, couldn’t do bum stuff tho |
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Thanks all for the comments, an interesting topic, I guess it shocked me to be honest when the situation came up, I think it’s taught me a few things 1. Labels are just that 2. Sexuality can be varied and complicated 3. I shouldn’t be afraid to do something it it’s feels right
I think as a single male it’s complicated when you are in this situation, I’d like to meet more couples and have more fun, however as I wouldn’t rule anything out I’m not sure I am being honest if I said I was totally straight, however if I put bi curious in my details I can absolutely guarantee it would put some straight couples off…… |
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"Honestly OP I think more guys are bi curious than admit. Good for you for posting about this. I'm not sure if it's down to it been more acceptable for females to be bi than males. Never really understood why. I've even seen single female profiles where they state they are bi but won't meet bi guys. At the end of the day if you enjoyed it, which it sounds like you did. The. Good for you. Plenty of bi couples out there looking for guys like you.
XX"
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I think few guys are 100 percent straight or gay. I don't fancy guys in the same way I like women but I enjoy playing with other guys in a sexual way in the right circumstances.
It really does make life a lot more interesting when you play on both sides of fence! |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"I think few guys are 100 percent straight or gay. I don't fancy guys in the same way I like women but I enjoy playing with other guys in a sexual way in the right circumstances.
It really does make life a lot more interesting when you play on both sides of fence!"
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In a recent youg*v survey 63% thought sexuality was a scale 
21% thought there was no middle ground, you are either hetero or homosexual.
The rest didn't know or maybe they were just confused lol |
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ? "
Labels are for tins.
Do what you enjoy as long as it is legal and consensual. |
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In a larger world you probably wouldn't want a bloke draped over you twiddling your nips
Getting horny doesn't label you &
You probably held Grandpa's hand bit better
Intimately I'd never label yourself at all, even if required |
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ? "
Did you have an incline he wouldn't mind,alot of the time in a straight situation asking that would stop the play |
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"Thanks all for the comments, an interesting topic, I guess it shocked me to be honest when the situation came up, I think it’s taught me a few things 1. Labels are just that 2. Sexuality can be varied and complicated 3. I shouldn’t be afraid to do something it it’s feels right
I think as a single male it’s complicated when you are in this situation, I’d like to meet more couples and have more fun, however as I wouldn’t rule anything out I’m not sure I am being honest if I said I was totally straight, however if I put bi curious in my details I can absolutely guarantee it would put some straight couples off……"
Why would you want to meet those types of straight couples who would hold any element of bi sexuality no matter how light or situation specific against you?
Surely those are the types of close minded people you wouldn't gel with anyway.
I wouldn't want to meet anyone who didn't accept me as I am.
The best bit is those only meet straight male couples often have veris stacked from guys who are also active on fab guys and bi nights in the clubs but put 100% straight on here anyway.
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ? "
You;ve just described the fantasy I'm trying to play out!
If you enioyed it.. as others have said, go for it! |
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In my opinion, you have to find both male and females attractive to be bisexual.
If a man sucks a dick it doesn't automatically make him bisexual.
Same as kicking a football doesn't make you a footballer.
Just my 2 cents |
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ? "
Theres not much more I can add that hasn't been covered already apart from my own take on your question. To answer I'd say there are different forms of bisexuality. I consider myself bi even though I dont find men attractive, have no intention of kissing another man and am not into anything anal. I do however find an erect cock very arousing. It just happens to be attached to a man.
In my 20s and 30s I would have considered myself 100% straight but over the last decade that has changed. I think once you get to a curtain stage in life its natural to be curious which is why I joined this site.
My first time was only a few months ago and I can totally understand the feelings you went through. Good luck mate and I hope you enjoy the journey. |
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"Evening everyone, not posted on here much, but have a burning question, I spent an evening with a Bi couple last year, they were very open and told me they play straight and bi, during play both hubby and I were either side of wife, wife was happily going between cocks which was great.
Now if I’m being honest I class myself as straight and have never had a big experience (although more than happy to be in close company of other men), however on this occasion I was so erotically charged that I just fancied touching his cock, I asked if this was okay and they were both totally fine with it, it felt great and wife loved it, I got so hard, his cock was a nice size and shaven, I wanked him a bit and then couldn’t resist and I took him in my mouth, it felt strange but boy of boy it felt so horny, his wife loved it and started sucking his cock with me.
Continue to now and I don’t fantasise about other men, but I do (when really horny) thing about that night and would definitely do it again with the right couple
Question is - am I Bi ? "
Hi OP.
Not that i can answer your question but wow, i love this. And how you let what felt right drive you. Absolutely hot. .i want to feel this kind of charge.
Just do what feels right. As someone else said, don't necessarily worry about labeling  |
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