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So what age gap is too much? What is ideal ? Does it matter ?
Have you had grief for an age gap relationship? |
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"So what age gap is too much? What is ideal ? Does it matter ?
Have you had grief for an age gap relationship? "
It should not matter as long there is connection and attraction
After all we are here to satisfy each others needs... |
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over a year ago
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7 yrs is perfect  |
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over a year ago
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I'm watching this one for now  |
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Age is just a number as long as you’re both comfortable with it then it’s fine. I’ve got two girls 18 and 20 so personally don’t look at younger than 25 |
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"I'm watching this one for now "
Your looking great for your age great profile xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares as long as it’s not underage? |
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I think when one is below 25 it matters. After 30 most people are fully who they are and have the life experience to not be taken advantage of so it doesn't much matter after that point.
Obviously people mature at different rates so those are ballpark numbers. Some are naive children in their thirties and forties, and some are mature adults in their twenties, but generally if someone 40+ consistently seeks people younger than 25 it throws up some red flags for me. |
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"Age is just a number as long as you’re both comfortable with it then it’s fine. I’ve got two girls 18 and 20 so personally don’t look at younger than 25"
If age is just a number, why not younger than 25? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am rarely attracted to younger but have been massively turned on by women right up to 70s/80s if they still feel sexy themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always gone for a few years minus my age or anything above up to 10-15 years.. it seems OK in my mind to like older ladies but a bit wrong to look at ladies in their 20s.. societal pressure maybe |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
My ex husband was 18 years my senior, we were together 20 years I met him when I was 27. |
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"Age is just a number as long as you’re both comfortable with it then it’s fine. I’ve got two girls 18 and 20 so personally don’t look at younger than 25
If age is just a number, why not younger than 25?"
That’s the age I won’t go below due to my kids and the thought of older men all over them |
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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago
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I have met some very mature younger people and some very immature older people who should know better age is no signifier of anything ,, its a biological clock with lots of variable and errors |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm watching this one for now
Your looking great for your age great profile xx"
Thank you |
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"Age is just a number as long as you’re both comfortable with it then it’s fine. I’ve got two girls 18 and 20 so personally don’t look at younger than 25
We totally agree we you. Trouble is our eldest is 45 so we are a bit more restricted
If age is just a number, why not younger than 25?
That’s the age I won’t go below due to my kids and the thought of older men all over them"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bigger the better  |
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"Bigger the better "
Age or cock size? |
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"I think when one is below 25 it matters. After 30 most people are fully who they are and have the life experience to not be taken advantage of so it doesn't much matter after that point.
Obviously people mature at different rates so those are ballpark numbers. Some are naive children in their thirties and forties, and some are mature adults in their twenties, but generally if someone 40+ consistently seeks people younger than 25 it throws up some red flags for me."
I completely agree with this. 25+ people, not quite so naïve and vulnerable.
It's just really creepy when anyone seeks out those much younger than themselves. |
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Surely it’s how you feel about a person if looking for relationship, there’s 22 years between us. Suppose for a meet on here it’s about looks and personality? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For someone younger it would all depend on how mature she is and for older id probably not have a specific age limit, just depends on connection |
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As long as its legal we have no issues with any age gap |
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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago
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My partner is 12 years younger than me so we try to cater for him too....if there is an attraction there then we certainly wouldn't pass them by. |
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Not got a problem with age gaps. I Mr have generally dated a fair bit older than my age over the years.
However I'm not in the camp that as long as someone is over 18 it's OK. People do mature and understand themselves at different stages. So just because a large age gap sexual relationship is legal doesn't make it healthy. I have in my time seen a few iffy situations with a very young person with a significantly older person. Especially when it's an older guy younger girl. Sometimes a dimension and power dynamic that vibes predatory and almost pseudo legal, if you know the vibe I mean. Not always but I've experience it a fair few times over the years and it feels really dodgy. It's not saying young women are daft just there are often playing in a different league of life experience from guys who may use their experience, assets and game to their own manipulation and unhealthy aims.
Not to say it doesn't happen with older ladies, younger guys but it's not so prevalent I think. I think that's down to the stark difference between the male and female experience in life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who cares as long as it’s not underage?"
This |
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"I think when one is below 25 it matters. After 30 most people are fully who they are and have the life experience to not be taken advantage of so it doesn't much matter after that point.
Obviously people mature at different rates so those are ballpark numbers. Some are naive children in their thirties and forties, and some are mature adults in their twenties, but generally if someone 40+ consistently seeks people younger than 25 it throws up some red flags for me.
I completely agree with this. 25+ people, not quite so naïve and vulnerable.
It's just really creepy when anyone seeks out those much younger than themselves."
Hmm I’ve felt quite able to make good decisions for my relationship for some time now. Maybe something magical Will happen when I hit 25…. |
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When I was 19 (oh, so long ago) I was in a relationship with a 57 year old woman.
So no... I don't think age matters. |
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I’m 56 and my FWB is 22. We have a great time together and the age difference is irrelevant. It’s two consenting adults enjoying themselves and the numbers don’t matter. |
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"I think when one is below 25 it matters. After 30 most people are fully who they are and have the life experience to not be taken advantage of so it doesn't much matter after that point.
Obviously people mature at different rates so those are ballpark numbers. Some are naive children in their thirties and forties, and some are mature adults in their twenties, but generally if someone 40+ consistently seeks people younger than 25 it throws up some red flags for me.
I completely agree with this. 25+ people, not quite so naïve and vulnerable.
It's just really creepy when anyone seeks out those much younger than themselves.
Hmm I’ve felt quite able to make good decisions for my relationship for some time now. Maybe something magical Will happen when I hit 25…."
lucky Fella |
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Half the older person's age plus 7 was the old rule of thumb. |
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over a year ago
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My miss is 29 nearly 30 she said if we do this she wants us to do it with a guy 40+ |
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Age isn't a kink for me. It also has absolutely nothing to do with looks or experience.
I joined here aged 52 with plenty of life experience but virtually no sexual experience and I'm well aware there are lots of men and women in similar situations.
I'm also aware there are people in their 20s and 30s who are much more sexually experienced than me but I don't see that as an attraction.
My current lower age filter is 41 and is specific to my daughters ages but in my time here I've never met anyone more than 10 years younger than me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age doesn’t bother me, it’s just a number xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ours is significant but honestly makes no difference. The only challenge on here is some couples the same age as MissRT won’t meet over 40’s so rule us out on my age |
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I’m not sure it’s specifically the age gap that can be an issue, it’s the age of the person at the bottom end. Yes it’s perfectly legal for 40-50 year old to sleep with an 18 year old but it says rather a lot about that person, and none of it good as far as we’re concerned. |
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Usually go for people 40 +
But met people in clubs, assumed they were in their 30s and actually were 28 and the connection was there. So from 28  |
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"Age is just a number as long as you’re both comfortable with it then it’s fine. I’ve got two girls 18 and 20 so personally don’t look at younger than 25
If age is just a number, why not younger than 25?"
My thoughts exactly! |
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"Half the older person's age plus 7 was the old rule of thumb. "
Who's rule of thumb was this? |
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"When I was 19 (oh, so long ago) I was in a relationship with a 57 year old woman.
So no... I don't think age matters."
Sadly had you been a female with a 57 guy some people on here wouldn't think it was creepy. |
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"As long as its legal we have no issues with any age gap "
This! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn't go with too anyone much younger than me ,I just don't find I have much in common with them in general.My other half is 3.5 years younger than me & that's fine .
Older I'd go up to 8 years ish ,I wouldn't go to extremes either way as age is more than a number to me.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
However some people don't mind a big gap & that's fine if that works for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a 20 year age gap!! We don’t care, if other people do that’s their problem not ours!
Age just a number!! |
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Interesting. Do you think it’s different in fab world to real world.
I’m 46. I really like someone that’s in his 30’s. I’m worried it’s too much.
I mean I don’t know if he gives a shit I haven’t asked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 37 and my gf is 23 and it’s going pretty well… im a lucky guy  |
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I agree as others have said - theoretically it shouldn't make a difference but relating to people wildly different in age can be difficult and get in the way. I did once have sex with someone half my age (30 and 60) but as she was the person who introduced me to Fab, we did have something in common as well as having been work colleagues. |
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"We have a 20 year age gap!! We don’t care, if other people do that’s their problem not ours!
Age just a number!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very well endowed 68 Yr old here, I love all ages, so any couples.or females Newcastle area and fancy mature company love to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always gone for at least a 20 year age gap. |
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If YOU feel uncomfortable about it...it's probably too.kuch.
Fuck everyone else. |
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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago
kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent |
definetely no more than a week either way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I'm 22 my regular fuck buddy is 53. Soooo... lol |
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"If YOU feel uncomfortable about it...it's probably too.kuch.
Fuck everyone else."
I don’t feel uncomfortable with it. I just wanted opinions on what others thought. |
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It depends on the person tbh but anything above 45 is a bit too much for us |
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Since being on here I have realised the age is irrelevant and has no influence on who I am attracted to. |
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"Interesting. Do you think it’s different in fab world to real world.
I’m 46. I really like someone that’s in his 30’s. I’m worried it’s too much.
I mean I don’t know if he gives a shit I haven’t asked. "
One of the ladies I meet is over 60 and stunning. |
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"Age doesn’t bother me, it’s just a number xx"
Well said |
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By *osy1983Woman
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
"Age is just a number as long as you’re both comfortable with it then it’s fine. I’ve got two girls 18 and 20 so personally don’t look at younger than 25
If age is just a number, why not younger than 25?"
He said why. He has daughters that age and obviously makes him feel weird. |
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"Age is just a number as long as you’re both comfortable with it then it’s fine. I’ve got two girls 18 and 20 so personally don’t look at younger than 25
If age is just a number, why not younger than 25?
He said why. He has daughters that age and obviously makes him feel weird. "
So age isn’t just a number after all. |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
"So what age gap is too much? What is ideal ? Does it matter ?
Have you had grief for an age gap relationship?"
Any is fine. None is "too much." It's between those within the relationship and nobody else. As long as everyone's a consenting adult age does not matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is just a number to me too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age only number...I firgetchow old I am at times when I look at girls or guys... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love our age gap |
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By *otdave75Man
over a year ago
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From personal experience for the last 20 years of my life, 10,year age gap is too much. But I think that’s more about personalities, because she’s a cunt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what age gap is too much? What is ideal ? Does it matter ?
Have you had grief for an age gap relationship? "
You tell me she was 18 I was 32 she was very dirty too |
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"I think when one is below 25 it matters. After 30 most people are fully who they are and have the life experience to not be taken advantage of so it doesn't much matter after that point.
Obviously people mature at different rates so those are ballpark numbers. Some are naive children in their thirties and forties, and some are mature adults in their twenties, but generally if someone 40+ consistently seeks people younger than 25 it throws up some red flags for me."
This is exactly my feelings towards it!!! - Xeno |
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10 to 15 years for me..younger men only |
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By *ursendr1Couple
over a year ago
ountryside |
The key to age gap relationships is the energy, they older must keep up with the energy of the younger ( or the higher energy if the older is more energetic)
My first wife was 10 years older than me and after 17 years together it became more obvious as she did not rase her energy to mine, she was getting to that age of just settling into life where I was still striving for success and the next big thing, and ultimately ended our marriage.
My new wife (Dr) is 7 years younger and is incredible our energies match and because of my previous experience I am so aware of ensuring this continues. Looking forward to a lifetime of fun, love, respect, laughter and a bit of naughtiness thrown in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A wise archeologist once said: “It’s not the years… it’s the mileage” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would you pm please to discuss this.x |
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Had 16 years younger at the end of last year and also had 13 years older.... Both were great fucks. It depends on the person / people. |
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It's the person, not the age that's important. |
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"Would you pm please to discuss this.x"
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only prefer older men as a rule. And I've gotten grief for it from friends and family. |
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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago
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We all have some sort of a specification in our imaginations when we go to meet a person for fun, personally i never set an age range as an important criteria , by evolution we have developed as visual creatures, its what the eye see's which grabs our attention and not a set of metrics such as age or size.
I look at the bigger picture age is no guarantee of quality or a good time, but each to their own preferance |
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"Would you pm please to discuss this.x
No"
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over a year ago
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"Would you pm please to discuss this.x
No"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any age for me, i dont mind at all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm watching this one for now "
Im in south west PM me xxx |
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When i was in my 20s i preferred women older then me in my 30s i prefer younger. But it all changes if you are attracted to some age wont matter. As long as its legal i will add |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's literally my kink so anything legal and consensual is hot as fuck in my eyes. I'd watch porn with a 19 year old guy and an older woman for example just as much as the other way around! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited? |
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I’m 51, I prefer women in their 40s 50s 60s, I just think I can relate to them better. |
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By *andSCouple
over a year ago
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Our birthdays are just 6 months apart, so the only the only experience of this we get is with others.
Like some others have said though, the age of our children is a natural emotional barrier.
Where there is someone below that barrier, we don't chase, but we will play if they are the right kind of people. That is what is most important to us.
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited? "
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't think of playing sith anyone 15-16 years youngers than me. I had my eldest at 18 and its too close to the age of her friends, and i personnaly find it a bit ick.
If age difference works for you, fine. I just have a personal proble..with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is just a number |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask yourself this, at 18 you can pay taxes, be thrown in jail with 40 year old gang leader and violent offenders, you can start a family, be allocated a council house, get credit, have a job. Join the forces and die for your country. Be held liable for any mistakes, drive a sports car, and a million other things.
So, why do people assume they are not capable of picking any person they want to fuck.
Millions of people sit in moral judgment on all of us for the sexual swinging choice we make. We know they are wrong, how dare they tell us we are all perverts etc.
STOP JUDGMENT. IF ITS LEGAL ITS FINE. You are free to make your own choi es for you only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited?
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag."
Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'm 62 and wouldn't feel bad about being with someone say 40 as you'd expect them to be a mature adult. |
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited?
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag.
Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'm 62 and wouldn't feel bad about being with someone say 40 as you'd expect them to be a mature adult. "
That’s pretty much where I’m at with it, I also wonder how many people for whom ‘age is just a number’ would be happy with their 16-18 year old daughter bringing a 50 year old man home. |
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Let me think about that one for a second,thought about it None. But I'm sure it would also be the same for a mother, if there 16-18 year son were to bring home a woman that was 50 years old. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she doesn’t know how to rewind a cassette with a pencil then she’s too young for me. |
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited?
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag.
Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'm 62 and wouldn't feel bad about being with someone say 40 as you'd expect them to be a mature adult.
That’s pretty much where I’m at with it, I also wonder how many people for whom ‘age is just a number’ would be happy with their 16-18 year old daughter bringing a 50 year old man home."
When I was 25 and on this site I met up with a 72yr single woman. We would meet once a week at least, I would even spend 2 or 3 night a week with her sometimes. She had a 42yr son at the time.
It didn’t bother me, she just wanted our “relationship” to be discreet and kept behind closed doors.
I would love to meet a older woman again |
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There’s 24 years between us.. age is just a number, as long as everyone’s of legal age, consenting, and not hurting anyone, what does it matter.
That being said we got a canny bit grief in the beginning and occasionally get a funny look but I hardly notice anymore. We’re happy, that’s all we care about. |
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"Let me think about that one for a second,thought about it None. But I'm sure it would also be the same for a mother, if there 16-18 year son were to bring home a woman that was 50 years old."
Yep, that works too. |
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By *andyh78Man
over a year ago
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"Well I'm 22 my regular fuck buddy is 53. Soooo... lol"
Lucky guy.
I consider myself very lucky in seeing someone a few times last year who was 27 years younger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a very tricky topic which ill watch |
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Half your age plus 7 is the rule is it not? |
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I see a woman from time to time who is 27/28 years older than I am.
A previous Fb of mine was about 23 years my senior.
Personally I see no issue with it, as long as everyone is happy and enjoying themselves. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
My last verification was from a lady 21 years younger than me... |
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I think if you’re just meeting for sex as long as both parties are of legal age any age gap is fine, if it’s a relationship 20-30 years if the younger is over 20 X |
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I have met some women especially in my younger days of swinging that were keen to meet someone with the biggest age gap possible. To be honest I still find this a turn on.
Are any older females or couples are into this? |
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Any as long as your not a nonce |
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over a year ago
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Wife is 13 years younger |
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I thought i’d share my opinion as a younger guy and in my eyes, age should not be a factor providing all parties are adults.
I’ve met and spoke to some people on here who are absolutely okay with the age gap/my age (and the fact I have a baby face). On the flip side, I’ve had others just be downright horrible about it.
As some other users have mentioned, it all boils down to connection and the maturity levels of those involved.
I think in terms of dating it’s a little bit different as societal norms/standards are the big thing that makes a lot of people choose otherwise but as long as you’re happy, who cares. |
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited?
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag.
Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'm 62 and wouldn't feel bad about being with someone say 40 as you'd expect them to be a mature adult.
That’s pretty much where I’m at with it, I also wonder how many people for whom ‘age is just a number’ would be happy with their 16-18 year old daughter bringing a 50 year old man home."
I can’t get my head around this. If you judged everything the same way We may as well go to the arranged marriages culture. You know at 16 who you want to have sex with. |
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"So what age gap is too much? What is ideal ? Does it matter ?
Have you had grief for an age gap relationship? "
I had I ‘nice one’ when I mentioned a girls age who I was going to meet, and also a ‘why would you want to meet a 20 something?’
For me, as long as I click with someone, go for it, you might have a really good time, however long that might be. thumb) |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
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These days I have to accept that there will be quite an age gap but still prefer women around my own age as sexy and experienced! |
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My last verification was from a hot meet with a 22 year old and her older partner
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These days I have to accept that there will be quite an age gap but still prefer women around my own age as sexy and experienced!"
I’m accepting that the younger generation are more likely wanting to meet to go out, and this is JUST MY EXPERIENCE lately.
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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago
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I think as long as both are legal age it doesnt matter |
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For fun I would say age doesn’t matter. For relationships I would loosely follow the rule half the age plus 7 and that tends to work for me |
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited?
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag.
Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'm 62 and wouldn't feel bad about being with someone say 40 as you'd expect them to be a mature adult.
That’s pretty much where I’m at with it, I also wonder how many people for whom ‘age is just a number’ would be happy with their 16-18 year old daughter bringing a 50 year old man home.
I can’t get my head around this. If you judged everything the same way We may as well go to the arranged marriages culture. You know at 16 who you want to have sex with. "
You think that thinking a 50 year old wanting to have sex with a 16 is predatory is the same as arranged marriage?
I’m afraid I just don’t buy into the whole ‘all grown up’, ‘wisdom beyond her years’ thing that a patriarchal society has going on about young girls.
A 50 year old man having sex with 15 years and 364 days girl means prison and a lifetime on a sex offenders register, one more day does not make it better in my eyes, despite what the law says. |
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited?
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag.
Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'm 62 and wouldn't feel bad about being with someone say 40 as you'd expect them to be a mature adult.
That’s pretty much where I’m at with it, I also wonder how many people for whom ‘age is just a number’ would be happy with their 16-18 year old daughter bringing a 50 year old man home.
I can’t get my head around this. If you judged everything the same way We may as well go to the arranged marriages culture. You know at 16 who you want to have sex with.
You think that thinking a 50 year old wanting to have sex with a 16 is predatory is the same as arranged marriage?
I’m afraid I just don’t buy into the whole ‘all grown up’, ‘wisdom beyond her years’ thing that a patriarchal society has going on about young girls.
A 50 year old man having sex with 15 years and 364 days girl means prison and a lifetime on a sex offenders register, one more day does not make it better in my eyes, despite what the law says."
I’m just saying I don’t think it’s predatory for a 50 year old to want to have sex with a 16 year old, if they both want it.
I’m not saying it’s the foundation of a good relationship, but also looking down on it as a parent I think misses the perspective of the 16 year old. Who in my opinion can make their own decisions around who they want to have sex with.
Then again I’m not a parent, I only have my own perspective and experience. |
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited?
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag.
Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'm 62 and wouldn't feel bad about being with someone say 40 as you'd expect them to be a mature adult.
That’s pretty much where I’m at with it, I also wonder how many people for whom ‘age is just a number’ would be happy with their 16-18 year old daughter bringing a 50 year old man home.
I can’t get my head around this. If you judged everything the same way We may as well go to the arranged marriages culture. You know at 16 who you want to have sex with.
You think that thinking a 50 year old wanting to have sex with a 16 is predatory is the same as arranged marriage?
I’m afraid I just don’t buy into the whole ‘all grown up’, ‘wisdom beyond her years’ thing that a patriarchal society has going on about young girls.
A 50 year old man having sex with 15 years and 364 days girl means prison and a lifetime on a sex offenders register, one more day does not make it better in my eyes, despite what the law says.
I’m just saying I don’t think it’s predatory for a 50 year old to want to have sex with a 16 year old, if they both want it.
I’m not saying it’s the foundation of a good relationship, but also looking down on it as a parent I think misses the perspective of the 16 year old. Who in my opinion can make their own decisions around who they want to have sex with.
Then again I’m not a parent, I only have my own perspective and experience. "
If you are the16 year old then you almost wouldn’t see it as being predatory, if I’d had a 50 year old woman want to have sex with me when I was 16 then I’d have been delighted but now I’m not 16 I don’t have the same opinion.
When I look at a 16,17, 18 etc. year old I don’t see a man or a woman, I see a child. But I do realise that is just my perspective. |
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited?
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag.
Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'm 62 and wouldn't feel bad about being with someone say 40 as you'd expect them to be a mature adult.
That’s pretty much where I’m at with it, I also wonder how many people for whom ‘age is just a number’ would be happy with their 16-18 year old daughter bringing a 50 year old man home.
I can’t get my head around this. If you judged everything the same way We may as well go to the arranged marriages culture. You know at 16 who you want to have sex with.
You think that thinking a 50 year old wanting to have sex with a 16 is predatory is the same as arranged marriage?
I’m afraid I just don’t buy into the whole ‘all grown up’, ‘wisdom beyond her years’ thing that a patriarchal society has going on about young girls.
A 50 year old man having sex with 15 years and 364 days girl means prison and a lifetime on a sex offenders register, one more day does not make it better in my eyes, despite what the law says.
I’m just saying I don’t think it’s predatory for a 50 year old to want to have sex with a 16 year old, if they both want it.
I’m not saying it’s the foundation of a good relationship, but also looking down on it as a parent I think misses the perspective of the 16 year old. Who in my opinion can make their own decisions around who they want to have sex with.
Then again I’m not a parent, I only have my own perspective and experience. "
It’s emotive and some people may have personal experience which has caused them trauma.
My view is that if both parties are consenting and informed about their decision then it’s up to them. I doubt any 16 year old would want to be with a 50 year old but if they chose to then it’s up to them provided it’s a mutual thing. Irrespective of the gender of the parties. I also think there’s huge hypocrisy for example around actors, pop stars etc. where we are encouraged to desire them, the terms Milf , Gilf, dilf etc come into this too |
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited?
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag.
Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'm 62 and wouldn't feel bad about being with someone say 40 as you'd expect them to be a mature adult.
That’s pretty much where I’m at with it, I also wonder how many people for whom ‘age is just a number’ would be happy with their 16-18 year old daughter bringing a 50 year old man home.
I can’t get my head around this. If you judged everything the same way We may as well go to the arranged marriages culture. You know at 16 who you want to have sex with.
You think that thinking a 50 year old wanting to have sex with a 16 is predatory is the same as arranged marriage?
I’m afraid I just don’t buy into the whole ‘all grown up’, ‘wisdom beyond her years’ thing that a patriarchal society has going on about young girls.
A 50 year old man having sex with 15 years and 364 days girl means prison and a lifetime on a sex offenders register, one more day does not make it better in my eyes, despite what the law says.
I’m just saying I don’t think it’s predatory for a 50 year old to want to have sex with a 16 year old, if they both want it.
I’m not saying it’s the foundation of a good relationship, but also looking down on it as a parent I think misses the perspective of the 16 year old. Who in my opinion can make their own decisions around who they want to have sex with.
Then again I’m not a parent, I only have my own perspective and experience.
It’s emotive and some people may have personal experience which has caused them trauma.
My view is that if both parties are consenting and informed about their decision then it’s up to them. I doubt any 16 year old would want to be with a 50 year old but if they chose to then it’s up to them provided it’s a mutual thing. Irrespective of the gender of the parties. I also think there’s huge hypocrisy for example around actors, pop stars etc. where we are encouraged to desire them, the terms Milf , Gilf, dilf etc come into this too "
I’m not sure I understand the last bit , how does that play into it ? |
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No younger than 45,I've got sons ,42,41 and 34 |
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"Funny how society reacts to this. Is it based on a fear that someone in the relationship is being exploited?
Almost certainly, and understandably. Although it’s perfectly legal for a 36 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, it’s a world away from a 46 year old having sex with a 26 year old.
Anyone who thinks a 16 year old isn’t being exploited in that first instance is a walking red flag.
Yes I think you've hit the nail on the head. I'm 62 and wouldn't feel bad about being with someone say 40 as you'd expect them to be a mature adult.
That’s pretty much where I’m at with it, I also wonder how many people for whom ‘age is just a number’ would be happy with their 16-18 year old daughter bringing a 50 year old man home.
I can’t get my head around this. If you judged everything the same way We may as well go to the arranged marriages culture. You know at 16 who you want to have sex with.
You think that thinking a 50 year old wanting to have sex with a 16 is predatory is the same as arranged marriage?
I’m afraid I just don’t buy into the whole ‘all grown up’, ‘wisdom beyond her years’ thing that a patriarchal society has going on about young girls.
A 50 year old man having sex with 15 years and 364 days girl means prison and a lifetime on a sex offenders register, one more day does not make it better in my eyes, despite what the law says.
I’m just saying I don’t think it’s predatory for a 50 year old to want to have sex with a 16 year old, if they both want it.
I’m not saying it’s the foundation of a good relationship, but also looking down on it as a parent I think misses the perspective of the 16 year old. Who in my opinion can make their own decisions around who they want to have sex with.
Then again I’m not a parent, I only have my own perspective and experience.
It’s emotive and some people may have personal experience which has caused them trauma.
My view is that if both parties are consenting and informed about their decision then it’s up to them. I doubt any 16 year old would want to be with a 50 year old but if they chose to then it’s up to them provided it’s a mutual thing. Irrespective of the gender of the parties. I also think there’s huge hypocrisy for example around actors, pop stars etc. where we are encouraged to desire them, the terms Milf , Gilf, dilf etc come into this too
I’m not sure I understand the last bit , how does that play into it ?"
I’m referring to the media really, promoting certain ideas, leonardo di caprio having a 25 years old limit, supposedly, for example. |
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Iam 55 and my new fuck budy is 42 and has a girlfriend |
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17 year age gap here, together almost 11 years. If there’s a connection age shouldn’t matter (within reason). It certainly works for us |
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over a year ago
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We love an age gap and completely depends on the person not the age x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love an age gap and completely depends on the person not the age x"
Yeah I think a lot of this is person dependent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a matter of personal preference.
I’ve always enjoyed playing with people round about my own age but it’s also nice to enjoy sexy with someone much younger too.
As long as it’s legal and consensual and enjoyable what’s the problem. |
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By *eastXMan
over a year ago
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Legal, and mutual attraction. That's it ! |
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over a year ago
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We love a big age gap! As long as you're hot, we're not put off by age
Older people are more experienced which means they're often better tbh |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Whatever you’re comfortable with!
14yrs between myself and my partner barely even think about it unless I’m winding him up |
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"Whatever you’re comfortable with!
14yrs between myself and my partner barely even think about it unless I’m winding him up "
Agreed, as long as legal and consensual it shouldn't matter. |
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I did worry about age when I first joined here but have realised I'm attracted to confidence so the age isn't important. Though I do have a limit to those younger as won't meet anyone younger than my adult kids. |
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This topic always amuses me.
Obviously people are going to say as long as the age is legal then all good but people have preferences and opinions which they are entitled too so in all fairness, there is no right or wrong answer (unless someone says below the legal age) then ofcourse that is wrong on so many levels x |
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By *oding1Man
over a year ago
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"7 yrs is perfect "
Was my best one
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As many have said, the gap doesn’t worry us…but a big gap does make it feel all a bit naughtier, so we do enjoy that |
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over a year ago
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We have a pretty large, and controversial, age gap.
Prior to this relationship both of us had dated solely in our age bracket. Save that I had a stint of dating 8-10 years older than me.
When we met. Neither of us were looking for anyone. We certainly aren’t looking for an age gap.
It was a happen chance meeting. Despite the age gap we had a lot in common. Enjoyed each others company. We had a soul connection. There was a mutual physical attraction too.
We both struggled initially with the fact of the age gap and parted ways for a short time. We both had age appropriate relationships during that time which didn’t have the soul connection.
We came to realise that relationships the success or otherwise of a relationship isn’t caused by the age of the parties and decided to have another crack of the whip
We no longer have concerns about the age gap
It wasn’t why we came together at first and it isn’t why we are together now
It is a non issue
I understand that strangers hold views about it. He doesn’t understand it and thinks it is no one’s business.
I also think it is no one’s business but if perfect strangers wish to comment on our relationship in matters which don’t concern them I would be delighted if they would also help me out with paying my credit cards down whilst they are rooting around in matters that don’t concern them |
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No problem with any age gap. Age is just a number . |
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On here we put an age range as this is typically the ages we find attractive. However, when in Clubs we do not ask people their ages, it comes down to attraction only, however we are both generally attracted to over 30’s |
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over a year ago
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I see nothing wrong with big age gaps. Who has the right to say anything against it. If it is two consenting adults and it is neither morally or ethically wrong, people should leave others be to what makes them happy  |
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I think im getting more horny in the idea of a 20+ couple than a couple in my age |
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Never really thought much about age gaps until recently. My last partner was 18 years younger. Bit of an ego boost to be honest and loved being out with her |
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"There’s 24 years between us.. age is just a number, as long as everyone’s of legal age, consenting, and not hurting anyone, what does it matter.
That being said we got a canny bit grief in the beginning and occasionally get a funny look but I hardly notice anymore. We’re happy, that’s all we care about."
Our age gap is 22 years and yes like you got lots of looks when we first went out together but never bothered us and 29 years later our sex life is still amazing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any gap is fine if both/all are into what they are doing with all others. Informed consent is informed consent, anyone else's ‘morals’ are irrelevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually go for people 40 +
But met people in clubs, assumed they were in their 30s and actually were 28 and the connection was there. So from 28 "
Ffs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think old people deserve sex too x |
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For me I think for a relationship then probably upto 10 years either way
Just for one off casual sex well it’s just based on physical attraction so any age 18+ as most likely meet once , fuck then never meet again . |
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over a year ago
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As long as it is all consenting adults then it's all fine. I don't judge, I have slept with older and younger. I would find probably lower than 20 too low for me. No higher than 60 but it would really depend on vibe, attraction etc. |
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We are all adults so as all ok and click any age is ok with me |
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By *zlakMan
over a year ago
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Does age matter if you adults and get along with eachother |
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I think the age gap naturally sorts itself out us oldies will be heading to bed while the youngsters are heading out to play.
Lucky Sods. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Whichever one you are comfortable with - my partner is 14yrs older than me and I find I have so much more in common with him than men I have met around my own age. There’s less hang ups or need to be following a crowd when older you seem to find yourself and have a comfortableness with who you are - that in itself is attractive. I find he grounds me but excites me at the same time, I can be exactly who I am around him xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what age gap is too much? What is ideal ? Does it matter ?
Have you had grief for an age gap relationship? "
Had a play with ladies 40 and 25 on a few occasions, gf was 10 years younger but we looked the same age. Nobody commented. |
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Around 40 our kids are that ir roundabouts just feels wrong.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tend to stick with 10 years either way.
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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I’m currently in a series of hot chats with a woman who is 15 years younger than me. That gap doesn’t bother me and apparently doesn’t bother her!
Gbat |
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For a relationship I'd say 10 years, for fab I'd say she is isn't important |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are old enough to be their parent it’s just creepy and weird. Dress it up all you like but some people on this are seriously disturbed. Ask yourself why you like someone that’s close to teenage years |
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As long as you're both of a legal age and consenting then any age gap is fine surely |
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I would say it really is situational but I think anything beyond 15 years is a bit far |
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All age gaps are fine, so long as both (or all) parties are old enough to fully consent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mrs loves older men |
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Older the better for myself but wouldn't mind a twink fuckin me like a rabbit,a cock is a cock |
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Love age play.. enjoyed a 27 year old naughty girl one week 65 year old the following week love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what age gap is too much? What is ideal ? Does it matter ?
Have you had grief for an age gap relationship? "
Don’t matter to be fair. Great pics btw x |
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Any age gap, as long as its legal and consensual is fine |
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I honestly don't understand why anyone gets annoyed with age gaps.
If 2 people find each other attractive and enjoy sex with each other, how is that anyone else's business?
Obviously legalities apply but if an 18 year old and a 60 year old have sex, both consented, both enjoyed it, what's the problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are old enough to be their parent it’s just creepy and weird. Dress it up all you like but some people on this are seriously disturbed. Ask yourself why you like someone that’s close to teenage years "
I had a long term relationship with a man 20yrs younger than me (he was 38, I was 58) and assure you theres nothing creepy or disturbed about me! Maybe ask yourself why you 1. Think as you do and 2.automatically think of teenagers. |
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"So what age gap is too much? What is ideal ? Does it matter ?
Have you had grief for an age gap relationship? "
They're hot! Why do you ask op |
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over a year ago
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My mother in law is only 21yrs older than me! Love to have her! |
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