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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?"
In this day and age, yes it does |
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?
In this day and age, yes it does "
Are you serious? |
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?"
I think it depends how it is worded but as a BBW myself I wouldn't take any offense to what it says on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?
In this day and age, yes it does
Are you serious?"
It's 2023 people get offensive about everything
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don't think so
We all have preferences of what we are and aren't attracted too. You should be allowed to state that on your profile without any negative comeback, unless it's downright nasty and disrespectful and then you'd deserve to be called out on it |
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?"
People get labelled for shit like this all the time and it's mega annoying. It's what you want form this and I'm sorry you don't have to be inclusive so to speak. Your bodies your choices. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit mad eh? I don't take offence when people don't like hairy chest or beards. I personally like a bbw as much as I like a slender woman but it's everyones personal choice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?"
Everyone have their preferences , it’s swinging life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m offended on behalf of complete strangers who don’t even know they’ve been offended against!
Down with everything and up everyone! "
Don’t panic ! Some don’t like it up ‘em  |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?
Everyone have their preferences , it’s swinging life "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?"
You both look great but would be too young for us so would that make us age phobic? |
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Absolutely you have preferences. However, phrasing what you ARE after as opposed to what you’re NOT after may be a more positive approach. “Looking for a slim female” may sound better than “No BBW please”.
Please don’t be offended by this post, just a suggestion. And TBH I don’t find your profile “Fatphobic”, sounds like someone may have overreacted to being rejected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?"
Nope!! It's a preference your attracted to or not attracted to! No different than not being attracted to someone with white or dark skin. Red, blonde or dark hair!
I'm sure you have overweight friends in vanilla life, as we do but doesn't mean we want to share intimacy with them and we shouldn't feel guilty for not wanting too!
Worlds arse upwards now days
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?"
Anything you physically say on your profile makes you anti that, surely its better to look at the said profiles and not reply thereby not insulting people or if you are type to reply to profile (some are) then just say sorry not my type  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the words of ricky gervias
"just because someone is offended, it doest mean they are right"
People are offended for the sake of being offended these days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As much as you have the right to state on your profile that you aren’t attracted to fat ppl.
Fat ppl have the right to tell you how they feel about it.
That’s the way it is.
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?"
Whatever you put you will offend someone in this day and age
Remember - you aren’t allowed to have preferences anymore
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a skill of today's modern online minority to straw man anyone's views at the drop of a hat and conflate any preference or thought difference as bigotry or intolerance. It is incredibly dishonest, childish and perfect example here where a ridiculous "fatphobic" name its used so effectively to cause fake outrage, try to pass blame and guilt and silence views and opinions.
We all have preferences, likes and dislikes and we always will. As long as everyone is decent and respectful when talking about them , everyone should be able to say them without fear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?
Whatever you put you will offend someone in this day and age
Remember - you aren’t allowed to have preferences anymore
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Oh you certainly are.
But ppl who feel excluded of those preferences have the right to say it too |
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?
Whatever you put you will offend someone in this day and age
Remember - you aren’t allowed to have preferences anymore
Oh you certainly are.
But ppl who feel excluded of those preferences have the right to say it too "
I never see the need tho. I mean if I looked at someone’s profile whom I liked and it said they were not into inked women or crazy hair colours I wouldn’t feel the need to question why or take offence to what they dislike
People just look for a reason to be offended
Scroll on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?
Whatever you put you will offend someone in this day and age
Remember - you aren’t allowed to have preferences anymore
Oh you certainly are.
But ppl who feel excluded of those preferences have the right to say it too "
But what does it achieve? Is everyone going to contact every person they see who doesn't have them as a preference and tell them they disagree and think it's a disgrace? Dating and swinging is discriminatory in its very nature and human attraction is a sub conscious natural process, it can't be constantly reasoned and changed with logic and lectures. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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"Absolutely you have preferences. However, phrasing what you ARE after as opposed to what you’re NOT after may be a more positive approach. “Looking for a slim female” may sound better than “No BBW please”.
Please don’t be offended by this post, just a suggestion. And TBH I don’t find your profile “Fatphobic”, sounds like someone may have overreacted to being rejected."
I was going to say EXACTLY this, but quite rightly assumed someone would have already said it.
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"Being called “Fatphobic” for stating “No BBW’s” in our profile is hilarious. We’re not scared of fat people, we’re just not necessarily attracted to them.
Does this make us “fatphobic”?
Whatever you put you will offend someone in this day and age
Remember - you aren’t allowed to have preferences anymore
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This was going to be my quote. Unfortunately someone is going to be offended no matter what. If you’re a good person this will horrify you and you’ll feel guilty about it. In reality however you haven’t anything to feel guilty about.
Someone said perhaps listing what you’re looking for as opposed to what you’re not. That could be one approach if you’re bothered I guess but I’m sure someone will still find something to be offended over |
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"I wouldn't give a shit to be honest...  we like what we like.
I dont find physically attractive skinny people...I love my girls curvy and guys stocky.its my choice... "
Exactly the same for me. I’d never be offended by anyone else’s preferences. Hence me preferring club nights aimed at curvy women. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't like fat eople either. Like some won't meet smokers it's a preference. If people stop beating about the Bush it is as unhealthy as smoking."
The way you have put that is a tad offensive...so you have no overweight friends/relatives are all slim?
And it's judgemental too ... People have many different reasons for becoming overweight... |
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Its rediculous. Phobic is being scared! I mean really, someone should rewrite definitions these days, especially with all the so called "woke gen":/ a preference is a preference. I prefer brown sauce to ketchup, it doesnt make me a ketchaphobe!
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"Seen plenty of profiles stating "no stick insects" so I think you're fine. "
Hahaha now now, no beastiality! Stick insects have feelings too! And yes, i do mean the actual bug, not people of a slimmer nature
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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago
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"We don't like fat eople either. Like some won't meet smokers it's a preference. If people stop beating about the Bush it is as unhealthy as smoking.
The way you have put that is a tad offensive...so you have no overweight friends/relatives are all slim?
And it's judgemental too ... People have many different reasons for becoming overweight..."
Sorry but I cannot make out what's offensive on their profile x |
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You really have to be so careful what you say these days or someone ends up telling you that you are phobic or racist and really it's just personal preference so op just block them and move on lol I did notice that you did remove any mention of it from your profile |
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