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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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ok so last minute our plans for new year have changed.. we were goin out with freinds
but now its a night in with the mrs!
im gonna cook . or even cheat n get a meal for 2 from m&s ... so . nice bubble bath .candle lit . candle lit meal . few nice bottles sat at the dinner table!
heres the reason im posting . . other than a massage n a vannila shag ....... anyone got any suggestions how to make the evenin extra sexy/romantic ... i wanna do somethin she would nt expect . been married a while so its harder to suprise her....
ladies what would u like your other half to do??
fellas .. any ideas u have had success with? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whilst she is in the bath fill the bed room with tea lights, then get her out of the bath, dry her off, leader into the bedroom by the hand, lay her down and give her a massage... |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"whilst she is in the bath fill the bed room with tea lights, then get her out of the bath, dry her off, leader into the bedroom by the hand, lay her down and give her a massage..."
id kinda got that far mate...... |
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I don't really know where to go from there without it seeming OTT, If Vincent lined up surprise after surprise I would eventually turn around and ask "What have you done/broken?".
Perhaps you could buy her a new toy and once you've given her a massage, treat her to a good session of clit/oral play? Simple but effective!
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"she doesnt want to... thats why we cancelled freinds.. new years idiots around . taxi fares? . etc etc etc.... her idea not mine?"
well she sounds like a right barrel of laughs, buy her a new remote for the telly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Show her your profile
She might want more too
Good luck and happy new year "
I wasn't passing judgement, I'm on here with FB rather than husband! What I meant was surprise her with your idea's etc! |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"she doesnt want to... thats why we cancelled freinds.. new years idiots around . taxi fares? . etc etc etc.... her idea not mine?
well she sounds like a right barrel of laughs, buy her a new remote for the telly "
lol |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
harrogate |
"Why taxy fare? Stop drinking just for one night. Drive her to the nearest town to yours and have a nice meal and let her drink. You have your drink when you get back home and make love to her "
i think she wants to avoid all the new years revellers ..and all the over hyped new years carry on |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"Show her your profile
She might want more too
Good luck and happy new year
I wasn't passing judgement, I'm on here with FB rather than husband! What I meant was surprise her with your idea's etc! "
ok ... was nt so much u i was aiming at |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hints and tips :
Er....... Marriage guidence......
......... You should know what she likes........ She is your wife........
But i suggest if you want to kepp ur marriage stop coming on here....... 
Just a thought.....
No one likes being lied to..... |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hints and tips :
Er....... Marriage guidence......
......... You should know what she likes........ She is your wife........
But i suggest if you want to kepp ur marriage stop coming on here.......
Just a thought.....
No one likes being lied to....."
i know what she likes
. was lookin for other suggestions to suprise her
as for my profile.... do u all think that single guy or girl u swung with was really single just cos they told u so? |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think majority of people that are single on here are genuinely single.
As for ideas, dont have any useful ones to share"
u kiddin right?
like all the straight guys who dont message bi ones? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, whilst I don't agree with cheating the OP wasn't asking for marriage guidance or if he should be on here as he's married.
He's simply asking for ideas to suprise his wife tonight x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think majority of people that are single on here are genuinely single.
As for ideas, dont have any useful ones to share"
i have to admit i wouldnt say the majority of people on here are really single
Ive met loads of guys who claim to be single but if im honest i dont believe them
Most on here will say what they think you want to hear and to most thats that they are single
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"To be fair, whilst I don't agree with cheating the OP wasn't asking for marriage guidance or if he should be on here as he's married.
He's simply asking for ideas to suprise his wife tonight x"
thank u
... back.on track at last |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think majority of people that are single on here are genuinely single.
As for ideas, dont have any useful ones to share"
I have to disagree there, we had an add up last night wanting to meet single guys, we had about 30 replies out of all the replies only 6 could could genuinely accom us.... Most of the rest couldn't accom because their wife/partner was at home a few said they didn't want strangers in their home x |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think majority of people that are single on here are genuinely single.
As for ideas, dont have any useful ones to share
i have to admit i wouldnt say the majority of people on here are really single
Ive met loads of guys who claim to be single but if im honest i dont believe them
Most on here will say what they think you want to hear and to most thats that they are single
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amen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You won't win mate, you are just being judged. 
c above post"
If you want to cheat mate then cheat. At least you are honest . I am sure you have you're reasons for being on here like all other married men. There is more married men and men in relationships on here than single men they are just good liars . Its not right that you are being judged |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"You won't win mate, you are just being judged.
c above post
If you want to cheat mate then cheat. At least you are honest . I am sure you have you're reasons for being on here like all other married men. There is more married men and men in relationships on here than single men they are just good liars . Its not right that you are being judged "
let em judge... i dont care |
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cook her fav meal... then get a dessert that you can use in the bedroom such as a chocolate moouse which can be licked off.. scatter rose petals on the bed and serve champagne to her...
I don't know the reasons you are on fab I don't really care but just do something she will least expect.. turn your front room into a resturant for 2... soft music playing candles make her feel special... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think it's great that you want to do something special for your wife today.....lots of men don't bother even if they aren't having fun elsewhere and just because you are having fun with others doesn't mean you don't love or care about someone.....we all do what we do for various reasons....so many women in on about cheating....seriously girls.....married men are often so much more fun than single men and at least if they admit to.being married then they will admit to almost anything.
My advice is.....everything you have suggested and make her feel special, think about her pleasure, give her lots of sensual kissing, touching, lots of oral, fingers and tongue together and nice and gentle, tease her and give her a night to remember....Happy New Year x |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"Personally I think it's great that you want to do something special for your wife today.....lots of men don't bother even if they aren't having fun elsewhere and just because you are having fun with others doesn't mean you don't love or care about someone.....we all do what we do for various reasons....so many women in on about cheating....seriously
girls.....married men are often so much more fun than single men and at least if they admit to.being married then they will admit to almost anything.
My advice is.....everything you have
suggested and make her feel special, think about her pleasure, give her lots
of sensual kissing, touching, lots of
oral, fingers and tongue together and nice and gentle, tease her and give her a night to remember....Happy New Year x "
given the house a good post xmas spring clean..
and doin so found an eye mask/blindfold thing..... like top cat wears at the end .. lol
given me ideas |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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she dont wanna go out... hence why im lookin for ideas for a nite in.... ok
shoppin done .. food wine beer mixers. tealights 100 of
bathrobes washed n dryed .. mmm cosy!
house all tidy
fresh sheets
bedside draw empty of general crap .
(now just has lube . vibe. mask. etc)
lady freindly porn in bedroom dvd (she got it with a rabbit years ago) |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"How about a little card with a written promise to provide the same night at least once a month for the rest of the year x
nice!!"
Mind you, if it was me Id say you can sod the tea lights and Ill just have the cleaning up part.... |
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"How about a little card with a written promise to provide the same night at least once a month for the rest of the year x"
Oh that is a good idea....plus all the good ideas above. Light the whole house with candles. Make sure your house is warm so you can both wear very little and shag in every room. |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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"How about a little card with a written promise to provide the same night at least once a month for the rest of the year x
nice!!
Mind you, if it was me Id say you can sod the tea lights and Ill just have the cleaning up part.... "
due to being a night worker n the mrs workin long days i do 90% of the household chores anyway..... so she gets that already.... romance night or whatever u wanna call it may go down better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Write her something nice. A poem or just why you love her. It's great to hear it but I still have a poem I was written about how special I am that I carry with me everywhere
It may sound silly but that to me was worth more than an gift
Good luck for tonight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were hoping to do something special for our 25 th wedding anniversary but spent the night on loving each other .
We were hoping to something special tonight but are naked together on the sofa , watching a crappy film drinking lots of wine we were given by appreciative customers and are very happy .
A very happy new year to all of you and we hope all you find what you are looking for in 2013 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I don't want to hi-jack your thread, at least no more than it has already been, but I've just done a wee calculation the result of which was interesting!
Of the ladies I've met, 66.6% of them have been married! So to the relevant trolls here, 'put that in your pipes and smoke it'!!
Happy New Year everybody, and I hope you're already having a good night OP.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it's the morning after.....just wondering how it went for the op?
Didn't go well for me....stockings, suspenders, killer heels, baby doll etc got me a few strokes of the leg and then he was fast asleep....not the best start to the year! |
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By *udiguy OP Man
over a year ago
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it went well
bath candles then she bathed me ... we jumped into bed for
.... a while
then ate drank n saw in the new year
seems i did nt need to do a great deal aftr all... im still in the good books two days later |
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