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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I find it very hard to find women who will have anal sex with me.
Is it easier for small cock men to get anal sex.? "
Use enough lube and any woman would be able to peg you, regardless of the size of your cock.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dated a nurse in 2015, she openly admitted that she loved anal but when she saw the girth it was a flat 'No'
About five years later I was dating a girl who was desperate to give me her arse, try as we might with lube, relaxation, toys, fingering etc I only ever managed to get the tip of the head in.
Years and years ago I had a couple of partners who managed it, one loved it but found it uncomfortable, the other used to have several glasses of red wine in preparation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, there are downsides to having an above average cock."
Absolutely this. Even regular vaginal can hurt with an above average guy if you're not prepared.
Every girl I've proposed anal to replied with an immediate "No" which is completely understandable! |
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Always happy to play with a lady who likes anal, take my time, lot's of gentle play and stimulaton, I like to use my tongue then a finger with plenty of lube, want the lady to enjoy the feeling, not it hurt her |
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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago
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I found it hurt anything bigger than a thumb.
Men have to understand its not a clopper.
The first man who I met basically tried to ram it in and he was small.
Put me off for years but if you find a man who is latge and patient then bobs your uncle 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like lots of lube and playing first, fingers, butt plug, need to really take your time, don’t rush and enjoy the play first  then it slides in and feels great  -mrs x |
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When I was first experimenting on recurving, I found a good way was to push out (as if trying for a you know what), this opens you up slightly and you can insert a finger in much more easily and your arse closes around it, allowing you to get used to the feel of something being in there keeping it ,"open,".
Self exploration with fingers initially is the best method. It's a determined person that's going to hurt themselves that way! |
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Many woman seem to be put off by thicker than average, when it comes to Anal. Fortunately I'm Bi though, and guys seem to take my cock far easier and get far more pleasure out of it.
Even virgin guys have taken my cock without issue, but few woman have taken my cock easily.
Don't mind though because I love the rimming, fingering and slow stretching play to get them ready  |
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"I find it very hard to find women who will have anal sex with me.
Is it easier for small cock men to get anal sex.? "
Cock size is only a small part of anal sex (no pun intended). It’s a balance of the woman’s desire for a cock in her bum, the guy respecting the anus, and lube   |
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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago
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"I find it very hard to find women who will have anal sex with me.
Is it easier for small cock men to get anal sex.?
Cock size is only a small part of anal sex (no pun intended). It’s a balance of the woman’s desire for a cock in her bum, the guy respecting the anus, and lube "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve failed Anal many times despite plenty of patience and lube. However, I met someone last year on here and she took me like a pro, my first anal creampie too, what a wonderful experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to focus on what she wants rather than what I want.
True, I'd like to fuck her arse - and several women have wanted me to. But if they don't want that, it's likely because they really love having my big cock working out in their pussy. Reaching the parts that hubby can't reach. Look at it that way and it may help. |
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"I prefer to focus on what she wants rather than what I want.
True, I'd like to fuck her arse - and several women have wanted me to. But if they don't want that, it's likely because they really love having my big cock working out in their pussy. Reaching the parts that hubby can't reach. Look at it that way and it may help."
Same kind of situation with us, we find it difficult for me to do anal with Mrs ct and she uses a toy at the same time. I’m more than happy to fuck her while she has a butt plug in and it gives her unreal orgasms |
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i love anal but to be honest id not even take that in my vagina let alone my arse 
