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By *iren!Woman
over a year ago
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"Sooo I don’t seem to get much interaction from people on here! I’m guessing it’s my profile that’s the problem. Can someone explain to me what I’m doing wrong? Or am I just an ugly tw*t  "
Well everyone picks up on different things on a profile.
The things which would make me pass on your profile are:
First picture on show (apart from profile is a dick pic.) It's a bit of an obvious boring photo.
Also some of your other photos look a bit blurred.
Secondly, you have spelling error/grammar errors.
Thirdly your bio could be more about what you like and what you would like to explore.
Happy fabbing |
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"Sooo I don’t seem to get much interaction from people on here! I’m guessing it’s my profile that’s the problem. Can someone explain to me what I’m doing wrong? Or am I just an ugly tw*t
Well everyone picks up on different things on a profile.
The things which would make me pass on your profile are:
First picture on show (apart from profile is a dick pic.) It's a bit of an obvious boring photo.
Also some of your other photos look a bit blurred.
Secondly, you have spelling error/grammar errors.
Thirdly your bio could be more about what you like and what you would like to explore.
Happy fabbing"
Thank you for your help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your bio? Work six days a week, kids stay over most weekends, sometimes during the week?... Maybe say what times you do have free? Or could free up?
Some folk seek weekday school time hours, some nights only, some weekends. |
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While I am not swamped with responses I do get messages most days and some will hopefully develop further.
Using the forums brings several contacts.
Maybe focus on the positives more, like when you can meet, what you like and can offer.
The truth is single male profiles are like lottery tickets. Everybody has one, very few are winners. The odds are long, but, you have to be in it to win it.
Good luck. |
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"Sooo I don’t seem to get much interaction from people on here! I’m guessing it’s my profile that’s the problem. Can someone explain to me what I’m doing wrong? Or am I just an ugly tw*t "
Re do the profile to focus on the positives. For instance. Busy work and family life means I have to plan ahead (rather than a full paragraph which makes it seem you’re unavailable)
Redo some photos get some good body shots not just gym shots.
Also I (mrs) defo don’t look at a squashed cock and get wet. Take a regular photo to cater for others.
Also worth noting in your bio more about your preferences. You have your straight but looking for tv/ts so maybe expand on that to ensure people don’t just look at straight and pass you by.
Good luck x |
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"While I am not swamped with responses I do get messages most days and some will hopefully develop further.
Using the forums brings several contacts.
Maybe focus on the positives more, like when you can meet, what you like and can offer.
The truth is single male profiles are like lottery tickets. Everybody has one, very few are winners. The odds are long, but, you have to be in it to win it.
Good luck."
I completely understand what you are saying there! I think single male profiles probably outweigh the female profiles |
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"Sooo I don’t seem to get much interaction from people on here! I’m guessing it’s my profile that’s the problem. Can someone explain to me what I’m doing wrong? Or am I just an ugly tw*t
Re do the profile to focus on the positives. For instance. Busy work and family life means I have to plan ahead (rather than a full paragraph which makes it seem you’re unavailable)
Redo some photos get some good body shots not just gym shots.
Also I (mrs) defo don’t look at a squashed cock and get wet. Take a regular photo to cater for others.
Also worth noting in your bio more about your preferences. You have your straight but looking for tv/ts so maybe expand on that to ensure people don’t just look at straight and pass you by.
Good luck x"
Thank you for your input, it as really made me see it from another perspective, I have amended my bio a little bit could you please have a look and tell me what you think? |
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"Sooo I don’t seem to get much interaction from people on here! I’m guessing it’s my profile that’s the problem. Can someone explain to me what I’m doing wrong? Or am I just an ugly tw*t "
You're most certainly not ugly... It takes a while to get up and running... I've found that interacting on forums get me more views on my pics and therefore more messages. Stick at it. Good luck x |
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What's wrong is you drawing attention to yourself by posting this thread. There are about 100 men to every woman so they have the advantage when it comes to choices. Best thing to do it just keep plugging away, keep your expections realistic and don't assume there's something wrong with you or your profile if you are not getting a reply. Anyone you message is not under any obligation to reply. |
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"Sooo I don’t seem to get much interaction from people on here! I’m guessing it’s my profile that’s the problem. Can someone explain to me what I’m doing wrong? Or am I just an ugly tw*t
Re do the profile to focus on the positives. For instance. Busy work and family life means I have to plan ahead (rather than a full paragraph which makes it seem you’re unavailable)
Redo some photos get some good body shots not just gym shots.
Also I (mrs) defo don’t look at a squashed cock and get wet. Take a regular photo to cater for others.
Also worth noting in your bio more about your preferences. You have your straight but looking for tv/ts so maybe expand on that to ensure people don’t just look at straight and pass you by.
Good luck x
Thank you for your input, it as really made me see it from another perspective, I have amended my bio a little bit could you please have a look and tell me what you think?"
Looks much better  sounds much more positive and you can always alter as you go explore a bit more. You may find clubs may be good for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's wrong is you drawing attention to yourself by posting this thread. There are about 100 men to every woman so they have the advantage when it comes to choices. Best thing to do it just keep plugging away, keep your expections realistic and don't assume there's something wrong with you or your profile if you are not getting a reply. Anyone you message is not under any obligation to reply."
No, I don't think there was anything wrong with him asking for other perspectives? Plus he's actually taken on board suggestions made, and been polite about it. The number of times I've seen someone post similar, & then strop because they don't want constructive criticism  |
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"What's wrong is you drawing attention to yourself by posting this thread. There are about 100 men to every woman so they have the advantage when it comes to choices. Best thing to do it just keep plugging away, keep your expections realistic and don't assume there's something wrong with you or your profile if you are not getting a reply. Anyone you message is not under any obligation to reply.
No, I don't think there was anything wrong with him asking for other perspectives? Plus he's actually taken on board suggestions made, and been polite about it. The number of times I've seen someone post similar, & then strop because they don't want constructive criticism "
This here and I have seen so many as well not taking the constructive criticism then slating everyone for helping. Also there is nothing wrong with someone asking for a bit of help with their profile it’s not a look at me thread whatsoever. So maybe think before typing |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"What's wrong is you drawing attention to yourself by posting this thread. There are about 100 men to every woman so they have the advantage when it comes to choices. Best thing to do it just keep plugging away, keep your expections realistic and don't assume there's something wrong with you or your profile if you are not getting a reply. Anyone you message is not under any obligation to reply.
No, I don't think there was anything wrong with him asking for other perspectives? Plus he's actually taken on board suggestions made, and been polite about it. The number of times I've seen someone post similar, & then strop because they don't want constructive criticism "
Or after asking for advice not doing anything once given the op has set an example  |
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As you go forward you can tweak & develop it to what reflects you best 