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Instant Turn offs?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all,
Blue Mondays almost done but to keep myself entertained I'm intrigued - what's an instant turn off on here, be it on a profile, in a message or on a meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who are hypocrites.
They have no profile pic but will only chat message back if a face photo has been sent.
Their profile description is just a big list of dislikes.
The ones that have only boobs, dicks and pussy in public album but don’t expect dick pics sent to them.
The ones who message back with two words or ask a question in reply to a question.
Women who don’t keep up with basic hygiene and smell.
Women who are willing to sleep for a 420 session.
People who I meet at clubs and are not on fab to give me a veri  |
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blank profiles, fake profiles, no photos, too many genital close ups,
messages with little content like FAF, WUU2, Hi, HRU? etc
when it's obvious they haven't read the profile and ask for single meets or can I pretend to be mum/sis/auntie
men who want to cross dress to meet us
No thanks.
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"Guys sending dick pics as an opening message. "
This is an instant turn off for me too. I also hate any profile that has just dick pics so you can’t see any body shape or anything about the person. To me that is saying ‘hi I’m nothing but a dick’. Not a great way to introduce yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all,
Blue Mondays almost done but to keep myself entertained I'm intrigued - what's an instant turn off on here, be it on a profile, in a message or on a meet?
Bonus for funny stories to match "
bad hygiene /catfish /not looking like pics/porn star moves - meets
profile is wyut dick picks - pics of them with someone copy and pasted messages,same pics sent loads times, no face pics pics with toilet in background
i met a older man who looked nothing like his pics so coped with a coffee ( we had chatted on phone and got on ) but he questioned me on my hair colour and pierced nose
he also said kinkiest thing he had done to him was a bj in the bath
lots of timewasters on here it kind of ruins it for the good ones
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"Hello all,
Blue Mondays almost done but to keep myself entertained I'm intrigued - what's an instant turn off on here, be it on a profile, in a message or on a meet?
Bonus for funny stories to match "
socks and feet, saggy anything, untidy rooms  |
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"Seeing "kissing is a must!" on profiles or words to that effect. It's someone basically trying to impose their kink onto you."
Or it’s someone just stating their preference so people can choose if the person is compatible or not with that type of play |
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Those huge, detailed fantasty stories, that go into toe curling detail.
They're sent as the first message, most likely sent to every woman who is online at the same time as the sender.
They make me heave.
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"Guys sending dick pics as an opening message.
This is an instant turn off for me too. I also hate any profile that has just dick pics so you can’t see any body shape or anything about the person. To me that is saying ‘hi I’m nothing but a dick’. Not a great way to introduce yourself.
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Maybe not. But an honest appraisal of the sitch in many cases!  |
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"Hello all,
Blue Mondays almost done but to keep myself entertained I'm intrigued - what's an instant turn off on here, be it on a profile, in a message or on a meet?
Bonus for funny stories to match "
A huge amount of usernames, it doesn't matter how good looking you are or how magnetic your personality, you're unlikely to be able to make up for having the username 'luvacumdump' or 'DominatorXXX69'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men offering sensual massages
Men saying 'meet now?'
Guys having sex still in their socks
Toilet pics
Messy bedroom pics
Bundle of messy pubes
Needy men, whingers
Genital piercings
Bad breath
Covers the most common ones  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men offering sensual massages
Men saying 'meet now?'
Guys having sex still in their socks
Toilet pics
Messy bedroom pics
Bundle of messy pubes
Needy men, whingers
Genital piercings
Bad breath
Covers the most common ones "
If this is common , Gosh don’t wanna know where you live. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men offering sensual massages
Men saying 'meet now?'
Guys having sex still in their socks
Toilet pics
Messy bedroom pics
Bundle of messy pubes
Needy men, whingers
Genital piercings
Bad breath
Covers the most common ones
If this is common , Gosh don’t wanna know where you live."
I'm not taking about my husband
I can't believe anyone on fab hasn't come across at least 5 of the above. Often in the same profile |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Seeing "kissing is a must!" on profiles or words to that effect. It's someone basically trying to impose their kink onto you.
Or it’s someone just stating their preference so people can choose if the person is compatible or not with that type of play "
I hear that, but I feel like certain actions shouldn't be imposed as a pre-condition of meeting. I can't make up my mind if I want to kiss someone or not until I'm face to face with them & assessed the situation. To me it's like someone saying "eating my ass is a must" |
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"Hello all,
Blue Mondays almost done but to keep myself entertained I'm intrigued - what's an instant turn off on here, be it on a profile, in a message or on a meet?
Bonus for funny stories to match "
Profile - literacy that look like it was written by a five-year old; racial/regional discrimination.
Message - as above for literacy.
Meet (home) - kids at home, even if they're sleeping in their bedrooms
Meet (anywhere else) - d*unkenness, arrogance, conspiracy theorists/anti-woke brigade. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad decor or dirty/untidy rooms in the background of photos  "
Absolutely. Not the 'hotel room, clothes everywhere' untidy.
But the rooms at home where tidiness/cleanliness obviously isnt a priority.
Unhoovered carperts, lots of crumpled clothes on the floor.
And some people just look....well...dirty/unhygenic.
Also, reading certain peoples attitudes/comments/beliefs in the Forums.
As quite a few people say, "this thread is a great filter".
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello all,
Blue Mondays almost done but to keep myself entertained I'm intrigued - what's an instant turn off on here, be it on a profile, in a message or on a meet?
Bonus for funny stories to match "
Filthy houses on pics! Sky remotes next to cocks, a million cock pics on profile. |
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"Men offering sensual massages
Men saying 'meet now?'
Guys having sex still in their socks
Toilet pics
Messy bedroom pics
Bundle of messy pubes
Needy men, whingers
Genital piercings
Bad breath
Covers the most common ones "
Absolutely the ‘sensual massage’ thing, why are so many men obsessed with wanting to give everyone a massage? |
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Hidden profiles I give no credence to.
“Club meets only”…… 
Those who message “Hi x” then never speak again.
Those who reply with “lol x”
“Black cock only” instant block.
“VWE only/must be at least 8 inches” etc, instant block.
“Quality not quantity” then has 4 meets per week average in their veris…..
“Not meeting” self explanatory….. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men offering sensual massages
Men saying 'meet now?'
Guys having sex still in their socks
Toilet pics
Messy bedroom pics
Bundle of messy pubes
Needy men, whingers
Genital piercings
Bad breath
Covers the most common ones
Absolutely the ‘sensual massage’ thing, why are so many men obsessed with wanting to give everyone a massage?"
Right?!
They're just asking would you like a creepy massage? Umm no I'm fine thanks. If I wanted a massage I'd go to a nice spa. If I wanted a creep I'd go to a bad bar. |
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Graphic pictures. Urgh. It turns something beautiful and sensual into a circus side show. I don’t want to see your foof being ‘ruined’.
What’s a million times worse is when said gaping foof is being stimulated by the mankiest dirty fingernails in history. *shudders* |
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Absolutely the ‘sensual massage’ thing, why are so many men obsessed with wanting to give everyone a massage?
Right?!
They're just asking would you like a creepy massage? Umm no I'm fine thanks. If I wanted a massage I'd go to a nice spa. If I wanted a creep I'd go to a bad bar. "
My guess it's just a creepy way for sad losers to see a woman naked (probably the only hope for them to do so), and hope that their "wandering hands" will persuade them that they want something more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely the ‘sensual massage’ thing, why are so many men obsessed with wanting to give everyone a massage?
Right?!
They're just asking would you like a creepy massage? Umm no I'm fine thanks. If I wanted a massage I'd go to a nice spa. If I wanted a creep I'd go to a bad bar.
My guess it's just a creepy way for sad losers to see a woman naked (probably the only hope for them to do so), and hope that their "wandering hands" will persuade them that they want something more."
Yeh but it's weird because we're on a swinging site, I'd understand if they were randomly asking in the supermarket. But if we arrange to meet someone from here there's already a good chance we're going to get naked together! |
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"Yeh but it's weird because we're on a swinging site, I'd understand if they were randomly asking in the supermarket. But if we arrange to meet someone from here there's already a good chance we're going to get naked together!"
Exactly this, the site is about sex, the ultimate point to most meets is sex. If we’re not going to fuck you before a massage the we’re not going to fuck you after a massage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeh but it's weird because we're on a swinging site, I'd understand if they were randomly asking in the supermarket. But if we arrange to meet someone from here there's already a good chance we're going to get naked together!
Exactly this, the site is about sex, the ultimate point to most meets is sex. If we’re not going to fuck you before a massage the we’re not going to fuck you after a massage."
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Apathy.
Arrogance.
Hubris.
Poor hygiene.
Point blank genitalia shots.
Text speak lol .
Pour speling.
A lack of decorum.
The list is quite long actually but those mentioned are probably at the top.
And we wonder why we don't meet many people...
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