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over a year ago
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"oh god political correctness gone mad  "
Ummm, actually this term has been offensive for years as it's how slave masters described their slaves. Not everything is 'political correctness gone mad' you know. There are often reasons behind it. If a term offends someone, why would you use it? (unless that is the intention of course)
Anyway, I'm sure there are mixed-race and black people on here.....you just have to look.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"oh god political correctness gone mad
Ummm, actually this term has been offensive for years as it's how slave masters described their slaves. Not everything is 'political correctness gone mad' you know. There are often reasons behind it. If a term offends someone, why would you use it? (unless that is the intention of course)
Anyway, I'm sure there are mixed-race and black people on here.....you just have to look.
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if its ment to be offensive then of course its wrong but the guys asking to meet 'coloured' ladies so there for he's obviously not intending to offend, but theres aloways got to be someone who jumps in and has to correct people, no matter what term they use its going to be wrong to some, people are people some just use different words to describe what type of person they looking for, not everything is ment in a negative way |
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Really hate it when people start on the slavery and political correctness debate - hope you realise that most slaves were actually sold by tribal leaders to traders after local battles - just go to zanzibar and look at the chieftans houses - there were also white slaves and that went on for at least 4 thousand years. Unfortunately in our big attempt to be politically correct and to dislodge certain chips from peoples shoulders we forget about the slavery that goes on now right this minute. In India today parents pay off their debts by putting their children into slavery and people in St Lucia and the Carribean work for less than a dollar a day in factories making disney toys and clothes for primark - why not stop talking about it and do something about it!! |
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"Really hate it when people start on the slavery and political correctness debate - hope you realise that most slaves were actually sold by tribal leaders to traders after local battles - just go to zanzibar and look at the chieftans houses - there were also white slaves and that went on for at least 4 thousand years. Unfortunately in our big attempt to be politically correct and to dislodge certain chips from peoples shoulders we forget about the slavery that goes on now right this minute. In India today parents pay off their debts by putting their children into slavery and people in St Lucia and the Carribean work for less than a dollar a day in factories making disney toys and clothes for primark - why not stop talking about it and do something about it!!"
Hmmm, I was merely explaining why it was offensive. That's it. I know the original poster wasn't trying to be offensive but hopefully if he doesn't use words that could be offensive, he might get a meet with a black woman! My post was just pointing out how not everything is political correctness gone mad. But you guys have fun.
And thanks for the history lesson, very enlightening ....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really hate it when people start on the slavery and political correctness debate - hope you realise that most slaves were actually sold by tribal leaders to traders after local battles - just go to zanzibar and look at the chieftans houses - there were also white slaves and that went on for at least 4 thousand years. Unfortunately in our big attempt to be politically correct and to dislodge certain chips from peoples shoulders we forget about the slavery that goes on now right this minute. In India today parents pay off their debts by putting their children into slavery and people in St Lucia and the Carribean work for less than a dollar a day in factories making disney toys and clothes for primark - why not stop talking about it and do something about it!!
Hmmm, I was merely explaining why it was offensive. That's it. I know the original poster wasn't trying to be offensive but hopefully if he doesn't use words that could be offensive, he might get a meet with a black woman! My post was just pointing out how not everything is political correctness gone mad. But you guys have fun.
And thanks for the history lesson, very enlightening ....
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sorry about that lydiah not meant to be offensive to you at all - unfortunately it just yanked our chain - sorry we didnt flush properly lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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some people just gotta fucking moan about shit that aint worth moaning about, ffs whats offencive about coloured, black people are coloured, so are white people, so are pink people. eveyone has a bit of colour in them ffs. its clear his post was not ment to be offensive to anyone, but still people have to jump on it like they the race cops. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some people just gotta fucking moan about shit that aint worth moaning about, ffs whats offencive about coloured, black people are coloured, so are white people, so are pink people. eveyone has a bit of colour in them ffs. its clear his post was not ment to be offensive to anyone, but still people have to jump on it like they the race cops. "
and also, u say dont say coloured say black, i have heard some people say i aint black i am brown lol so u cant fucking win. i think its good he says coloured that means he is open to any colour and if their are some little green woman about they know where to go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some people just gotta fucking moan about shit that aint worth moaning about, ffs whats offencive about coloured, black people are coloured, so are white people, so are pink people. eveyone has a bit of colour in them ffs. its clear his post was not ment to be offensive to anyone, but still people have to jump on it like they the race cops. "
Oh, I'm sorry naughty kitty. Was he looking for you? If so, he can offend you as much as he likes. But if he's looking for a particular group of people, then maybe the best thing is to use neutral words to describe them. What with the slavery debate and now this, this thread has turned into something it shouldn't be.
Good luck to the original poster.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some people just gotta fucking moan about shit that aint worth moaning about, ffs whats offencive about coloured, black people are coloured, so are white people, so are pink people. eveyone has a bit of colour in them ffs. its clear his post was not ment to be offensive to anyone, but still people have to jump on it like they the race cops.
Oh, I'm sorry naughty kitty. Was he looking for you? If so, he can offend you as much as he likes. But if he's looking for a particular group of people, then maybe the best thing is to use neutral words to describe them. What with the slavery debate and now this, this thread has turned into something it shouldn't be.
Good luck to the original poster. "
neutral words to describe them.... LMAO i am sure human would be a good word ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"..aren't you adding to the 'moans' with your own contribution? "
More than likely but I didn't realise that people would misunderstand my original post so much.
The term used is offensive - you can get sacked for continuously saying it after being corrected. My advice to the poster is don't offend people you are looking to meet. That's it. Nothing more than that. All there is to it. End of point.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"..aren't you adding to the 'moans' with your own contribution?
More than likely but I didn't realise that people would misunderstand my original post so much.
The term used is offensive - you can get sacked for continuously saying it after being corrected. My advice to the poster is don't offend people you are looking to meet. That's it. Nothing more than that. All there is to it. End of point.
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sorry Lydiah, my post wasnt directed at you  But I agree with all you say, Im sure others would offer similarly sage advice if someone sought a meeting with a 'fat bird', or 'slaphead', it's not crime of the century, but there are more delicate ways of addressing things  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"..aren't you adding to the 'moans' with your own contribution? right , i,m off to NETTO for some milk ,, anyone want anything while i,m there ????"
..not chocolate milk? |
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The term used is offensive - you can get sacked for continuously saying it after being corrected. ..............
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What term used? Colo(u)red?
Surely the lead organisation for civil rights in the US is the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People  .
There seems something amiss when the term is common currency over there and is deemed offensive over here. |
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The term used is offensive - you can get sacked for continuously saying it after being corrected. ..............
What term used? Colo(u)red?
Surely the lead organisation for civil rights in the US is the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People .
There seems something amiss when the term is common currency over there and is deemed offensive over here."
Maybe they kept the name the same because they use the acronym now? They say 'The N Double A CP' in the West Wing not the actual full name. |
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The term used is offensive - you can get sacked for continuously saying it after being corrected. ..............
What term used? Colo(u)red?
Surely the lead organisation for civil rights in the US is the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People .
There seems something amiss when the term is common currency over there and is deemed offensive over here.
Maybe they kept the name the same because they use the acronym now? They say 'The N Double A CP' in the West Wing not the actual full name. "
I suspect the Yanks just use the acronym 'cos they're lazy bastards.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some people just gotta fucking moan about shit that aint worth moaning about, ffs whats offencive about coloured, black people are coloured, so are white people, so are pink people. eveyone has a bit of colour in them ffs. its clear his post was not ment to be offensive to anyone, but still people have to jump on it like they the race cops. "
couldnt have put it better myself lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Perhaps if people didn't draw attention to all this (for the most part) imagined racist shit and keep giving the P.C brigade bullets to fire, then maybe it'd cease to exist!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps if people didn't draw attention to all this (for the most part) imagined racist shit and keep giving the P.C brigade bullets to fire, then maybe it'd cease to exist!
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"Perhaps if people didn't draw attention to all this (for the most part) imagined racist shit and keep giving the P.C brigade bullets to fire, then maybe it'd cease to exist!
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I doubt it. A whole industry has grown up to support the victims of racism, perceived or otherwise  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I suspect the Yanks just use the acronym 'cos they're lazy bastards. "
thanks jim.. as a yank remind me to buy you a drink at the glasgow social!!!! 
or you can buy me one to say sorry... lol
right.... back on topic..... I hate seeing these types of posts on BOTH sides....
as Nina I think brilliantly said in the original "racism on fabswingers" thread... I find the whole topic really "de-humanising" in general....
It's not about a preference and its not about being PC... I don't want to be seen as being any different to anyone else.... I hate it being played up in peoples names, I hate people playing it up with a chip on there shoulder..
I want people to play with me for me... I am the best person I can be, and if I get the feeling I am being used for my colour... I would walk! I have enough belief and conviction in myself to know I would, and I have... |
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"Perhaps if people didn't draw attention to all this (for the most part) imagined racist shit and keep giving the P.C brigade bullets to fire, then maybe it'd cease to exist!
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I doubt it. A whole industry has grown up to support the victims of racism, perceived or otherwise "
And you can bet there's hardly a black or any other "coloured" person in that industry,only white.
Oh,and perhaps a spot of red from their bleeding hearts! |
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It's not about a preference and its not about being PC... I don't want to be seen as being any different to anyone else.... ............"
Surely the point is that we ARE all different. It doesn't mean anyone is better or worse. Diversity is a beautiful thing.
What I wouldn't want to see (and I think this is the point you're making) is a situation where people are 'ticking off' various races as they shag them - a bit like real ale drinkers working their way through the CAMRA guide or hillwalkers working their way through the Munros |
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I doubt it. A whole industry has grown up to support the victims of racism, perceived or otherwise
And you can bet there's hardly a black or any other "coloured" person in that industry,only white.
Oh,and perhaps a spot of red from their bleeding hearts! "
I think you'll find the head honcho and chief cheerleader of the industry is Trevor Phillips. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I doubt it. A whole industry has grown up to support the victims of racism, perceived or otherwise
And you can bet there's hardly a black or any other "coloured" person in that industry,only white.
Oh,and perhaps a spot of red from their bleeding hearts!
I think you'll find the head honcho and chief cheerleader of the industry is Trevor Phillips."
Which surprises us as most black or Asian people seem to be as sick and tired of all this racist P.C thing as the rest of us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The man was only asking a simple question and many of you have turned this into something racist...I saw no offence intended by the person in his post so why make out there was ??
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By (user no longer on site)
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The world has gone to pot.
It would be a better place if we never had the PC offended at everything health & safety obsessed lunatics jumping on the offending bus at every opportunity.
Get a life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The man was only asking a simple question and many of you have turned this into something racist...I saw no offence intended by the person in his post so why make out there was ??
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Cant agree more!!
I have been following this post and it is totally obvious to anybody with half a brain that the guy isnt racist and he didnt set out to offend anybody when he put post up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as this is my topic and i started it then i should finished it i'm sorry if i offened any body WAS NOT MY INTENTION so i'm truely sorry if i have i come from a large family and with in this family i have an indian sister in law whom have children and a chinese brother in law with 2 children. so i never ment any offence at all "
I don't see why you have to say sorry??
What have you done wrong??
Its the offending brigade that's the problem, not you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Erm, to the original OP.......any joy?
As seems to happen a lot on here, a seemingly innocuous and innocent posting, within two follow up posts, has turned into a racial debate AGAIN!!!!
Boring!!!!!!!
We're all made different, we're all human beings, we're all amazing in our own ways and we're all here to try and have fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"want to thank all the ppl who understand that i ment no offence and never want to start such a heated debate and wish i could take it off here now. Looking back now perhaps i could have worded it better, but never ever ment to offend "
Anyone can see you didnt mean to offend..
Good luck sam xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i started a near riot over fishcakes.......
such is the nature of the site offence can be taken at everything!! good luck to u anyway xx"
Fishcakes? If you're going to bring controversy like that into the forums then I'm not surprised you nearly caused a riot! Troublemaker!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"want to thank all the ppl who understand that i ment no offence and never want to start such a heated debate and wish i could take it off here now. Looking back now perhaps i could have worded it better, but never ever ment to offend
Anyone can see you didnt mean to offend..
Good luck sam xx"
Here,here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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a hi jacked post, a regional difference, a dispute over public /private forum posts n someone with issues the end result chaos!! there a time and a plaice boom boom!! xx |
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Haha this is the silliest thread I've ever read on fab, if this guy was being racist I'm certainly sure he wouldn't be asking to meet up and enjoy the company of "colored" people!
I've been "colored" most of my life! lol! And I have family that are much darker than I, and I'll tell you all now if they read this silly thread, they'd just laugh at how all you guys are taking this so seriously as there are way more hurtful words to choose from than to call a person "colored"
And the only people I've noticed making a fuss are white people!
Oh sorry I meant people of Caucasian descent, silly me |
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"Haha this is the silliest thread I've ever read on fab, if this guy was being racist I'm certainly sure he wouldn't be asking to meet up and enjoy the company of "colored" people!
I've been "colored" most of my life! lol! And I have family that are much darker than I, and I'll tell you all now if they read this silly thread, they'd just laugh at how all you guys are taking this so seriously as there are way more hurtful words to choose from than to call a person "colored"
And the only people I've noticed making a fuss are white people!
Oh sorry I meant people of Caucasian descent, silly me "
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"Haha this is the silliest thread I've ever read on fab, if this guy was being racist I'm certainly sure he wouldn't be asking to meet up and enjoy the company of "colored" people!
I've been "colored" most of my life! lol! And I have family that are much darker than I, and I'll tell you all now if they read this silly thread, they'd just laugh at how all you guys are taking this so seriously as there are way more hurtful words to choose from than to call a person "colored"
And the only people I've noticed making a fuss are white people!
Oh sorry I meant people of Caucasian descent, silly me "
Thats the best post of the thread !!!  |
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"Haha this is the silliest thread I've ever read on fab, if this guy was being racist I'm certainly sure he wouldn't be asking to meet up and enjoy the company of "colored" people!
I've been "colored" most of my life! lol! And I have family that are much darker than I, and I'll tell you all now if they read this silly thread, they'd just laugh at how all you guys are taking this so seriously as there are way more hurtful words to choose from than to call a person "colored"
And the only people I've noticed making a fuss are white people!
Oh sorry I meant people of Caucasian descent, silly me "
pmsl we prefer to be called honkies |
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