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Really single?

By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man over a year ago

Wilmslow

I have met a few people from fab for drinks and the occasional leisurely afternoon, and it always leaves wondering are “singles” really single. On a couple of occasions there has been a suspect tan line on a ring finger on other occasions it has been less subtle and the truth has slipped out. So now the question is really single important? Would it be preferred if people were up front and just advertised I am cheating on my partner?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe in honesty. So if you cheat it's for me to decide if i wanna be the tool.

I find it disrespectful, and rather not be a part of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We would say that 98% of the Men are either timewasters or NOT single, but the way in which we meet identifies them very easily.

We are still looking for that elusive buddy!

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man over a year ago

Wilmslow

I hope the search ends up being successful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we made a rule when we started, no cheaters

then we met somebody who wasn't single who talked us into it

his other half almost found out, it was a close run thing

don't want to get that again, more care applied now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Honesty is the best policy

Yep x

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By *inkyKittyWoman over a year ago

Swindon

The truth will come out. I do insist on my profile. And if they aren’t and they pester me, i will making efforts into making sure there partner is aware of what they are doing.

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By *iren!Woman over a year ago

leeds

I get msgs often from a guys saying something along the lines of;

'Just to let you know I am married but not getting sex at home and looking for discreet fun'

Such a turn off for me, it starts to feel like charity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honesty about marital status is very important (well to me it is anyway) I have no interest in cheaters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Honesty about marital status is very important (well to me it is anyway) I have no interest in cheaters "

This is what +90% of men don't get!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single

And I just don't get why some can't be honest about there status

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would just make us wonder what else they’ve lied about.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

In my experience of clubs many guys, women and surprisingly one or both half's of a couple are playing away. People tend to be open about it once you gain their trust in a club. In clubs it's not that taboo. I must admit it's an eye opener when you realise just how many people on the scene are playing away.

Personally I'm not single, I have the love of a fantastic woman who is in the lifestyle with me. Personallyin terms of solo adventures I prefer the term lone male rather than single male. Because for me single male is not a term I like because I'm not single and I'm proud of my relationship.

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