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Are there many couples that do these type meets?
I'm thinking it's maybe a good way to ease into swapping, we've only had meets with women previously, I'm a little male wary and as soon as the cock pics come in the inbox I'm out.
However I would like to take that leep if we found the right couple.
Just curious how many would be interested in this kind of meet?
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Been here a while we have and still are been a softswap meaning own partner penetration. We cannot see that changing, of course there are those who think we are challenge but they soon get the heave ho.
Only here for pleasure not pressure after all. |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
Biggleswade |
We started as a soft swap couple, and still to this day only Mrs T has full sex with other people.
People have always been understanding of this. Completely agree with starting where you are comfortable and then only moving the goal posts when ready |
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over a year ago
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We're also taking this approach. Neither of us need other people but we just want some extra fun. Going into it as a soft swap first is what were both comfortable with.
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We do full swap but we’d be totally happy for soft swap too. It’s just about having fun with other people and only doing what everyone is comfortable with. We like our experiences to be unique so we don’t need each meet to follow the same pattern or tick a load of boxes.
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"Are there many couples that do these type meets?
I'm thinking it's maybe a good way to ease into swapping, we've only had meets with women previously, I'm a little male wary and as soon as the cock pics come in the inbox I'm out.
However I would like to take that leep if we found the right couple.
Just curious how many would be interested in this kind of meet?
Mrs "
Myra we sift swap. As already mentioned anything bout penetration with other partners.
We have always and a great time with couples soft swapping. Not sure where you live but happy to chat. |
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"We do full swap but we’d be totally happy for soft swap too. It’s just about having fun with other people and only doing what everyone is comfortable with. We like our experiences to be unique so we don’t need each meet to follow the same pattern or tick a load of boxes.
Kx"
Pretty much the same for us...anything goes, and anything includes that. Whatever suits the moment  |
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Probably gonna throw a spanner in the works here, we went all in. Started in a club and never looked back. It's amazing watching your partner with another. But at the end of the day it's what everyone feels comfortable with.  |
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"Are there many couples that do these type meets?
I'm thinking it's maybe a good way to ease into swapping, we've only had meets with women previously, I'm a little male wary and as soon as the cock pics come in the inbox I'm out.
However I would like to take that leep if we found the right couple.
Just curious how many would be interested in this kind of meet?
Mrs "
We'd totally start with that meeting a couple... |
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lots of people do soft play only stuff I have seen advertise and had some message asking about if I was interested in that .. myself personally I wouldn't meet for soft play as I like to fully have sex if having a sex meet . |
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"Probably gonna throw a spanner in the works here, we went all in. Started in a club and never looked back. It's amazing watching your partner with another. But at the end of the day it's what everyone feels comfortable with. "
I love watching the Mr with other women I'm just not sure on full penetration with other men. |
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We are open to pretty much everything just no Anal or BB as long as it been fully discussed before we get naked so just say what you want and most will respect you and how you play.
It's more about finding a click not the sex act it's self. |
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Like other couples we started out participating in soft play. We still love those kind of meets now. Oral fun can be overlooked by the main event yet it’s most enjoyable in its own right. We love it if there are any couples who would be interested dm us. x |
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"Probably gonna throw a spanner in the works here, we went all in. Started in a club and never looked back. It's amazing watching your partner with another. But at the end of the day it's what everyone feels comfortable with.
I love watching the Mr with other women I'm just not sure on full penetration with other men."
Uhoh... I can just imagine the potential issues.. Guy watching his wife getting pounded to heaven... while you just idly wank him off while watching them hehe |
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By *9funboyMan
over a year ago
Harrogate |
For me oral is the main focus. Especially it's a bi 3 or more meet. Penetration isn't the primary goal for me. I wouldn't rule it out, but certainly not with males.
"Are there many couples that do these type meets?
I'm thinking it's maybe a good way to ease into swapping, we've only had meets with women previously, I'm a little male wary and as soon as the cock pics come in the inbox I'm out.
However I would like to take that leep if we found the right couple.
Just curious how many would be interested in this kind of meet?
Mrs "
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"I love watching the Mr with other women I'm just not sure on full penetration with other men."
I know this seems like an obvious answer but I reckon so long as you talk clearly about boundaries and wants before actually meeting other couples, then you’ll be okay. If they’re weird about having that conversation, they’re probably not for you. |
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I have a long standing house rule for myself, first meet is oral only. If I make a good impression I only move to fucking on a second meet. I love the feel of being face deep in someone, their juices running all down my face, can't beat it. Sure, a good hard fucking has it's place, but haven't failed to get a 2nd meet yet. |
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"Probably gonna throw a spanner in the works here, we went all in. Started in a club and never looked back. It's amazing watching your partner with another. But at the end of the day it's what everyone feels comfortable with.
I love watching the Mr with other women I'm just not sure on full penetration with other men.
Uhoh... I can just imagine the potential issues.. Guy watching his wife getting pounded to heaven... while you just idly wank him off while watching them hehe"
 yes this is why we've not met another couple, would be slightly awkward |
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"Probably gonna throw a spanner in the works here, we went all in. Started in a club and never looked back. It's amazing watching your partner with another. But at the end of the day it's what everyone feels comfortable with.
I love watching the Mr with other women I'm just not sure on full penetration with other men.
Uhoh... I can just imagine the potential issues.. Guy watching his wife getting pounded to heaven... while you just idly wank him off while watching them hehe
yes this is why we've not met another couple, would be slightly awkward "
actually, it would work for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All our meets from our couples profile have been soft swap.
They have been wonderful, mainly because there’s no pressure to get to the main event.
Hours of erotic play between four people can be inventive and highly rewarding.
We have agreed boundaries which occasionally some have tried to cross. If they’ve persisted we’ve cut the meet short but thankfully it’s rarely happened.
Even if we ever did decide to do full swap we’d still happily meet those that didn’t. |
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"Are there many couples that do these type meets?
I'm thinking it's maybe a good way to ease into swapping, we've only had meets with women previously, I'm a little male wary and as soon as the cock pics come in the inbox I'm out.
However I would like to take that leep if we found the right couple.
Just curious how many would be interested in this kind of meet?
Mrs "
We are still a soft swap couple. Sometimes it's just nice to share the foreplay with multiple people  |
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We began as and continue to be soft swap only. Even though we were told when we first started that we would develop to full swap, neither of us have any intention to ever do so.
It's all about comfortability |
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Plenty of people enjoy soft swap, as demonstrated on this thread. Although we are a full swap couple it’s not an essential for us. Some of our most fun and memorable meets have been soft swap and we happily engage in that if the couple we are meeting prefer that.... xx |
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We've kind of been soft swap without actually planning to be.
First meet nerves, play in clubs with ladies as opposed to men etc have meant lots of oral fun but no full swaps.
Planning on changing that soon, but it does feel like club play kinda lends itself to soft play a bit more sometimes.
It's all fun though! |
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Although we have been here over a year, we haven't got physical with anyone yet. But are hoping to meet mindful and respectful soft play couples or females as we feel and believe that at this stage this is what we are comfortable with and more than satisfied with. For us its about the connection and building a good friendship. If anyone is interested, we are London and Kent based. |
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