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"i think all web cam and phone verifications are for is to prove that someone looking as a female is a female What i would like to know is why can't someone who has'nt been verified, verify someone else? if there are two new couple to the site that neither have met anyone off this site befor so there for have no verification meet each other they can't verify each other to prove each other are genuine to other users!!! i just don't get that!!! To me thats almost like the sites telling you who to meet, because in order to get a verfication you HAVE to meet a verified person *looks confused* lol" Simply because if that was an option then everyone would be verified, it would be easy enough to create two profiles and verify both that way. W  | |||
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"So what about people who are on here for different things than you are? We are not swingers in the sense that we don't swop partners. We also don't feel the need to go to socials to prove we are who we say we are, as the people we look for don't seem to care if we meet you "proper swingers " to get the seal of approval and to be honest, we don't need "real swingers" approval either. Not showing verifactions is down to choice, we don't all need to show them to get what we are after from this site. Just because people go to socials or to the clubs you promote , doesn't mean they are any less "genuine" as the "real swingers"" Nobody is saying you HAVE to be verified most are like us, we like to see verifications it helps us eliminate timewasters and it helps us decide on who to meet, but we don't use it as the only barometer, we use it as part of our process, though if you don't consider yourself swingers I don't see why you would care if you were verified or not, none swingers don't meet people ? The verification system is designed to help out timewasters and liars not to be the be all and end all of personal checks. | |||
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"I totally agree, and why we don't use the verifications as an indication that people who are verified are somehow "elite". I did say in my post that we are not swingers as in we don't swop partners, I am sure you read that bit. From what the "real swingers " of this site have told us, we are not "real" swingers.....and why I said "we are not swingers in the sense that we don't swop partners" I don't care if we are verified or not, and why we don't show it. No where did I say we don't meet anyone......we just don't meet the way you do. It doesn't make us any less genuine than anyone else. *sorry, edited my post as I left out the word don't *" Why do you think you are not swingers? | |||
"Just for curiosity......how did the first people of the site ever get verified "good point | |||
"Just for curiosity......how did the first people of the site ever get verified "I'd like to know the answer too! | |||
"I totally agree, and why we don't use the verifications as an indication that people who are verified are somehow "elite". I did say in my post that we are not swingers as in we don't swop partners, I am sure you read that bit. From what the "real swingers " of this site have told us, we are not "real" swingers.....and why I said "we are not swingers in the sense that we don't swop partners" I don't care if we are verified or not, and why we don't show it. No where did I say we don't meet anyone......we just don't meet the way you do. It doesn't make us any less genuine than anyone else. *sorry, edited my post as I left out the word don't * Why do you think you are not swingers?" So it seems we got told we were not "real" swingers because we only meet for 3somes. I did ask on the forums once is this the case, but got no reply. So not really sure if we are classed as it or not....not that it matters much to be honest...as we don't care what we are called as long as we are having fun | |||
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"I totally agree, and why we don't use the verifications as an indication that people who are verified are somehow "elite". I did say in my post that we are not swingers as in we don't swop partners, I am sure you read that bit. From what the "real swingers " of this site have told us, we are not "real" swingers.....and why I said "we are not swingers in the sense that we don't swop partners" I don't care if we are verified or not, and why we don't show it. No where did I say we don't meet anyone......we just don't meet the way you do. It doesn't make us any less genuine than anyone else. *sorry, edited my post as I left out the word don't *" sorry guys but you are swingers lol, you just enjoy one aspect of swinging, where verificatons help us if someone is verified by someone we know, that always helps as we can check if we need to, bu again only in person, pretty pointless anything else | |||
"Just for curiosity......how did the first people of the site ever get verified "A lot of cpls have been on other sites before fab and have been verified in that way it is in fact from meeting a cpl from another site that we heard about fab. And as far as verifications go I do think they are a good indicator of gen ppl, how many profiles have you come across been members for over a yr a list of friends a mile long but NO verifications sorry but we tend to avoid those ones. | |||
"Just for curiosity......how did the first people of the site ever get verified
A lot of cpls have been on other sites before fab and have been verified in that way it is in fact from meeting a cpl from another site that we heard about fab.
And as far as verifications go I do think they are a good indicator of gen ppl, how many profiles have you come across been members for over a yr a list of friends a mile long but NO verifications sorry but we tend to avoid those ones."yup us too, but what time limit would you say is reasonable to give benefit of doubt | |||
"I totally agree, and why we don't use the verifications as an indication that people who are verified are somehow "elite". I did say in my post that we are not swingers as in we don't swop partners, I am sure you read that bit. From what the "real swingers " of this site have told us, we are not "real" swingers.....and why I said "we are not swingers in the sense that we don't swop partners" I don't care if we are verified or not, and why we don't show it. No where did I say we don't meet anyone......we just don't meet the way you do. It doesn't make us any less genuine than anyone else. *sorry, edited my post as I left out the word don't * sorry guys but you are swingers lol, you just enjoy one aspect of swinging, where verificatons help us if someone is verified by someone we know, that always helps as we can check if we need to, bu again only in person, pretty pointless anything else" Thanks
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"Just for curiosity......how did the first people of the site ever get verified
A lot of cpls have been on other sites before fab and have been verified in that way it is in fact from meeting a cpl from another site that we heard about fab.
And as far as verifications go I do think they are a good indicator of gen ppl, how many profiles have you come across been members for over a yr a list of friends a mile long but NO verifications sorry but we tend to avoid those ones.
yup us too, but what time limit would you say is reasonable to give benefit of doubt"I think as we don't look for the same as most people, we don't seem to have as many problems as some do with fakes and I can understand why people like to be guided by the feedback intially. Up to now ( touch wood) we have only had one person not turn up and not let us know, and that is from the two sites we use, so we are either lucky or our gut instinct works well...and to be honest as we only look for men, most didn't have feedback anyway. | |||
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"Let's face it - you can't win whatever you do. If you have too many it's showing off or something or other... If you want to keep your private life private then you must be hiding something... If you just have one to show someone else knows/has meets you and you are who you say then it must be fake because you only have one... If you get verifiied too quick it's dodgy... If you have been on the site for a while and not been verified you are dodgy... Fuck it - suss people out for yourself! lol" rofpml...... | |||
"Let's face it - you can't win whatever you do. If you have too many it's showing off or something or other... If you want to keep your private life private then you must be hiding something... If you just have one to show someone else knows/has meets you and you are who you say then it must be fake because you only have one... If you get verifiied too quick it's dodgy... If you have been on the site for a while and not been verified you are dodgy... Fuck it - suss people out for yourself! lol" Our thoughts exactly | |||
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