We send a wink usually and if they wink back then follow up with a message. I have sent the odd message to someone on here if they’ve really caught my eye but usually it’s just to tell them they look amazing.

C x

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By *assunachWoman over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

I message people all the time.

But winks are pointless.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple over a year ago

Southampton

Id wink first...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good to see people lying

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By *ittlebirdWoman over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Good to see people lying "

You ok hun?

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By *.L.0460.Woman over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I'd probably just Fab their pics. I don't have a huge amount of self-esteem & I would most likely be turned down if I messaged first!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good to see people lying

You ok hun?

On the process of looking to escape the matrix

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd probably just Fab their pics. I don't have a huge amount of self-esteem & I would most likely be turned down if I messaged first!"

You look fine to me. If its tough for you as a lady then you should see what life like for single straight guys lol!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I've maybe messaged two people out of the blue on here over the years because they looked genuinely interesting and attractive.

Most times I'm too tired after clearing the inbox to browse properly. And as I'm almost never actively seeking there's rarely a drive to change that.

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By *uenevereWoman over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If I'm actively looking to meet, I would message.

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By *sexyHCouple over a year ago

Leicester

"If you liked the look of someone on here, regardless to whether it was a single guy,single woman or couple.

Would you message them first or would you just wink them and hope they would message you? "

Wink them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Im only using the forums right now. So I'd not message. Don't wish to waste anyone's time

Blimey Spiderwoman. What amazing photos. Sorry to be a perv

I would message, OP. Carpe diem!

I agree with the above statement spiderwoman.

I’m confused about the last part of comment though lol. Carpe diem towards spiderwoman or just a statement? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you liked the look of someone on here, regardless to whether it was a single guy,single woman or couple.

Would you message them first or would you just wink them and hope they would message you? "

I usually do the messaging, sometimes Mr does. But if we are interested in someone and we match their criteria I will happily message first.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a profile catches my eye I will message.

What’s the worst that can happen? They don’t reply or they say they’re not interested.

I wouldn’t be offended, you can’t be all things to all people and sometimes something lovely comes out of it!

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By *dfabMan over a year ago

Dunboyne

Wink and hope for a response.

I'm shy to start but then it all goes haywire

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By *REEPALESTINEMan over a year ago

derby

Looking for marriage

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If a profile catches my eye I will message.

What’s the worst that can happen? They don’t reply or they say they’re not interested.

I wouldn’t be offended, you can’t be all things to all people and sometimes something lovely comes out of it!

I couldn’t agree with you more x

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