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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How about getting no meets for ages? Am thinking it is me personally because I dont do anything out of the ordinary and am restricted by marriage and being unable to accommodate. Just want someone with somewhere to go not too far from me. Have got a couple of someones in mind but have to wait for the new year for one and the other one I could meet up now as im off work but tbh am still bit shy to ask as ive been rejected by others before. Meet requests are usually when im free and sometimes short notice. Oh well  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok just checked veris make that abt six weeks but still feels like forever. not necesarily wanting sex but if its offered wont say no to the right person |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I could do yes thanks for the advice.  "
Your welcome, sometimes the best feedback is from people you've already met as they can tell you what about your profile reeled them in tee hee  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i read your profile and it seems a tad hypercritical, you are married and meet yet you wont meet other people who are married and doing the same as you 
i think you need to look at the profile and take it from there,
only you know what you want off here not us and you have to be able to do the profile otherwise it will be not accurate to YOu
hope you have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just read your profile and verifications; you dont seem to shy to me lol
Sometime things can go a bit slow; its the nature of swinging/sex dating really - give it time things will come right soon  |
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You sound a little sorry for yourself in your profile and in this thread. People want to meet upbeat and cheerful women also as a previous poster said it's a bit hypocritical saying you won't meet married men that might put people off too. |
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"This is one of them threads that proves what a huge differance there is between m and f "
So true. A male cheat who was also a hypocrite would have been crucified on here.
Each to their own but I don't differentiate between the genders. A cheat is a cheat.
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Good luck with what your looking for but i have to agree with others regarding the hypocrisy about not meeting married men when your a bored wife!!
Make the profile more positive and state clearly what you are looking for. On the positive you've had a few meets which is more than some have had on here so you must be doing something right!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks for your replies. yes i am prob hypocrite re married men but just dont see how it would work. how if i did we could both be free at the same time. maybe i do feel sorry for myself but dont we all at some point? ok so go ahead crucify me - i am now feeling like shit anyway because for some unknown reason i have just been blocked by a guy i had one coffee with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could do yes thanks for the advice.
Your welcome, sometimes the best feedback is from people you've already met as they can tell you what about your profile reeled them in tee hee "
Off topic but Leerise you have incredible boobs!
M |
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"thanks for your replies. yes i am prob hypocrite re married men but just dont see how it would work. how if i did we could both be free at the same time. maybe i do feel sorry for myself but dont we all at some point? ok so go ahead crucify me - i am now feeling like shit anyway because for some unknown reason i have just been blocked by a guy i had one coffee with. "
Happens all the time! Try a little positivity it can work wonders also read some of the threads where married men get really hammered for what they're doing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ive rewritten profile - which prob sounds as crappy as my first one. I dont criticise anyone for what they do on here married or not because im not in a position to do so. we are all after same thing - a bit of fun. |
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"Ive rewritten profile - which prob sounds as crappy as my first one. I dont criticise anyone for what they do on here married or not because im not in a position to do so. we are all after same thing - a bit of fun. "
Hey, you need to wait a while and re-write when you feel more positive. Dont take things to heart hun, people have _iews and are entitled to them, but they dont walk in your shoes. I dont condone people who are cheating, but neither do i judge, I dont know the circumstances.
You are looking for fun, so be fun and make that be one of your attractive features.
People block for many reasons, dont take things too personally, just rise and move on.
Good luck x |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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Change the profile for a more exciting one as people won't fall over themselves to visit just because you are female, sorry if that sounds rude as its not mean't to be xx.
Put some more details about yourself e.g. likes dislikes, your personality, max distance you travel & make it sound fun & naughty as guys love naughty girls. |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I could do yes thanks for the advice.
Your welcome, sometimes the best feedback is from people you've already met as they can tell you what about your profile reeled them in tee hee
Off topic but Leerise you have incredible boobs!
M"
Thanks for the compliment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks for your replies. yes i am prob hypocrite re married men but just dont see how it would work. how if i did we could both be free at the same time. maybe i do feel sorry for myself but dont we all at some point? ok so go ahead crucify me - i am now feeling like shit anyway because for some unknown reason i have just been blocked by a guy i had one coffee with. "
Dont take too much notice of how people respond, people offer advice in their own way, some come across as scathing but I think very few mean it in a bad way, there are always exceptions and some cant wait to criticise everything written but the majority want to offer the advice they feel appropriate. good luck you will find many to play with x |
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"Ive rewritten profile - which prob sounds as crappy as my first one. I dont criticise anyone for what they do on here married or not because im not in a position to do so. we are all after same thing - a bit of fun. "
You don't sound like you're after fun you sound like you can't be bothered. Look at your profile would you want to meet that person? |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Ive rewritten profile - which prob sounds as crappy as my first one. I dont criticise anyone for what they do on here married or not because im not in a position to do so. we are all after same thing - a bit of fun.
You don't sound like you're after fun you sound like you can't be bothered. Look at your profile would you want to meet that person?"
But isn't the OP showing her character? She already said she feels down because some guy blocked so her profile obviously reflects how she feels.
OP re-write your profile when you feel better about yourself as the above poster is correct you do sound like you couldn't be bothered. |
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"No refelction on the OP but -
Once - just once - Id love to see the same responses to a single guy with exactly the same post....
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Quite. I don't think you'd see the same sugar-coated, supportive responses if it was a man who'd posted this.
Perhaps the same supportive people could be more vocal on similar threads posted by males and redress the balance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No refelction on the OP but -
Once - just once - Id love to see the same responses to a single guy with exactly the same post....
Quite. I don't think you'd see the same sugar-coated, supportive responses if it was a man who'd posted this.
Perhaps the same supportive people could be more vocal on similar threads posted by males and redress the balance."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could do yes thanks for the advice.
Your welcome, sometimes the best feedback is from people you've already met as they can tell you what about your profile reeled them in tee hee
Off topic but Leerise you have incredible boobs!
M
Thanks for the compliment "
Very welcome you are ideal for a fantasy of ours but you are straight and not even bi-playful |
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Indeed responses are very sympathetic. I would however agree with the point on a profile sounding positive - if one is looking for fun it helps to sound like the person is fun I would have thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...yes i am prob hypocrite re married men but just dont see how it would work. how if i did we could both be free at the same time... "
You could say the same with regards to a single person - they may have a busy life and not be free at the same time as you... If you can find time to meet behind your husbands back I'm sure a guy could find time to go behind his wife's back and with some communication you could be free at the same time!? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"No refelction on the OP but -
Once - just once - Id love to see the same responses to a single guy with exactly the same post...."
Yes I will admit, I do not understand the double standards either!
Can someone explain it?  |
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OP: you've had meets even with your original profile. I for one wouldn't bother with a profile as short as yours as my question to you would be 'why is your profile so short?' and that wouldn't get me anywhere but a long visit to the blockhouse. Take the 're-write when happy' advice, be cheerful and say what you like and what you don't, and be patient. You'll never be doctor if you don't have any patience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes , said why message if u have a girlfriend , I said your on the wrong site darling "
Why would this be the wrong site 
I'm not married but I have commitments and find it hard to make time to meet.. Why is time so different from married to single people..? |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I could do yes thanks for the advice.
Your welcome, sometimes the best feedback is from people you've already met as they can tell you what about your profile reeled them in tee hee
Off topic but Leerise you have incredible boobs!
M
Thanks for the compliment
Very welcome you are ideal for a fantasy of ours but you are straight and not even bi-playful "
Sorry hun I only love cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could do yes thanks for the advice.
Your welcome, sometimes the best feedback is from people you've already met as they can tell you what about your profile reeled them in tee hee
Off topic but Leerise you have incredible boobs!
M
Thanks for the compliment
Very welcome you are ideal for a fantasy of ours but you are straight and not even bi-playful
Sorry hun I only love cock "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could do yes thanks for the advice.
Your welcome, sometimes the best feedback is from people you've already met as they can tell you what about your profile reeled them in tee hee
Off topic but Leerise you have incredible boobs!
M
Thanks for the compliment
Very welcome you are ideal for a fantasy of ours but you are straight and not even bi-playful
Sorry hun I only love cock "
The ones we want always only do lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi OP,
I am local (Bournemouth) and would love to meet but just under your age preference so cannot message you.
Feel free to say hello, sure youll be pleasantly suprised despite my age xx |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"I could do yes thanks for the advice.
Your welcome, sometimes the best feedback is from people you've already met as they can tell you what about your profile reeled them in tee hee
Off topic but Leerise you have incredible boobs!
M
Thanks for the compliment
Very welcome you are ideal for a fantasy of ours but you are straight and not even bi-playful
Sorry hun I only love cock
The ones we want always only do lol"
Tee hee hopefully you will find someone to live out your fantasy with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To Jezebel - thanks for your support. yes id like to see a response to a single guy who was feeling down about something. He would have all the support in the world. I do have a single guy on my list who cant get anyone he is a nice guy too and a genuine guy he wont muck women about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As someone said not meeting married men is a personal thing. said person agreed with me so thank you.
If i wanted a gangbang it would be requested on my profile. I dont want multiple men inside me thanks. personal preference also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found it hard to start with on here, i was chatting to 4 or 5 girls who were always busy when i was free and free when i was busy but after a while you find a time thats right for both. I also found posting meets came in handy.
The one thing i would say about your profile (i know mine is pants) is that there are no pics, not even friends only. Maybe one or two would help and a bit more about what you like. Most female profiles sound like tgey were written by the most angry people on the planet, so a nice friendly one would stand out.
Fingers crossed it works out for you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you. I put pics in private when I had a wobble the other day because of something that happened on here but is sorted out now. I forgot to put them back for friends. Ill go do it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah your profile is dreary, it's fairly clear you've just thought of it on the spot and not made a massive effort, for example a lot of it is missing the first word of the sentence - read it, you'll see.
Also if I mulled it over and waited to contact individual people in case of rejection I'd be on here YEARS with no meets.
You need to energise yourself and go at this from a new angle if you want any more meets. |
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"To Jezebel - thanks for your support. yes id like to see a response to a single guy who was feeling down about something. He would have all the support in the world...."
I think you misunderstood that post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To Jezebel - thanks for your support. yes id like to see a response to a single guy who was feeling down about something. He would have all the support in the world....
I think you misunderstood that post "
LOL. Just A bit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To Jezebel - thanks for your support. yes id like to see a response to a single guy who was feeling down about something. He would have all the support in the world....
I think you misunderstood that post "
i thought that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why meet Eeyore when you could have fun with Tigger  "
Best reason to avoid writing these posts I've heard on a long time, from someone who went out with an Eeyore for many years! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why meet Eeyore when you could have fun with Tigger
Best reason to avoid writing these posts I've heard on a long time, from someone who went out with an Eeyore for many years!"
also if your asking for advice on a forum this this. would you believe everything they say or would you be able to make your own decison! |
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"...yes i am prob hypocrite re married men but just dont see how it would work. how if i did we could both be free at the same time...
You could say the same with regards to a single person - they may have a busy life and not be free at the same time as you... If you can find time to meet behind your husbands back I'm sure a guy could find time to go behind his wife's back and with some communication you could be free at the same time!?"
Very true I have trouble meeting with long term dates as I am on call often as a operations response manager and work days or nights at any time of the week..... But at short notice or planned and booked ahead I can be available as flexible as when I was married I also met a married woman who lived 100 miles away so anything can be possible.......she also blocks men who are even the same age as her so is limiting her choice there |
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