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By *indathird OP Couple
over a year ago
west midlands |
Is it best to be vague about yourself and what you want or be honest and open And descriptive?
Also, do you think when posting events, lots of notice ( which gives people the opportunity to forget or change plans etc ) or do last minute meets.
Been on for a while and there never seems to be a steady trend
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Is it best to be vague about yourself and what you want or be honest and open And descriptive?
Also, do you think when posting events, lots of notice ( which gives people the opportunity to forget or change plans etc ) or do last minute meets.
Been on for a while and there never seems to be a steady trend
All opinions welcome "
always be vague but honest, show honest pics and turn up smelling good well dressed and showered  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"What will being vague achieve?
I notice a lot of people are wary of actually saying what they want and I don't understand why. I wouldn't go into a coffee shop and just ask for 'a drink'."
you give to much detail youre giving opportunity to put them off, dont you think? |
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"Is it best to be vague about yourself and what you want or be honest and open And descriptive?
Also, do you think when posting events, lots of notice ( which gives people the opportunity to forget or change plans etc ) or do last minute meets.
Been on for a while and there never seems to be a steady trend
All opinions welcome "
Just be open with who you are and what you want. |
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"What will being vague achieve?
I notice a lot of people are wary of actually saying what they want and I don't understand why. I wouldn't go into a coffee shop and just ask for 'a drink'.you give to much detail youre giving opportunity to put them off, dont you think? "
If they don't want the same as we want there's not much point meeting. |
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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago
plymouth/chesterfield |
"Is it best to be vague about yourself and what you want or be honest and open And descriptive?
Also, do you think when posting events, lots of notice ( which gives people the opportunity to forget or change plans etc ) or do last minute meets.
Been on for a while and there never seems to be a steady trend
All opinions welcome
Just be open with who you are and what you want."
Got it in 1  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give as much detail as you want. We always message with what we want as soon as a meet could be potentially on the cards too. Saves any undue time wasting |
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In my opinion, it's always best to be honest and straight to the point on here, leaves hardly anything open to interpretation. Also, don't assume that people who have "can travel" ticked can actually drive or are happy to drive to you (if you are happy to accommodate).
I personally don't like a lot of chatting before arranging to meet (if we seem to get on) as it's not easy to maintain people's interest on here, without camming/cybersex. |
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We’ve fallen victim to vague once, chatted for a couple of days on WhatsApp, arranged a social and it was a cuck couple with very specific instructions to what they wanted, all fine but wasn’t what was on profile , or discussed in WhatsApp and ultimately not what we wanted. They were good company so no time wasted but a tad frustrating. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
It's up to you if you want to do last minute meets ,they wouldn't be for me as I chat for a good while before I'd meet someone.
In regards to being open ,it's always best to say what you're looking for /interests are else you risk wasting others and your own time. |
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