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Anal sex ???? why ???
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over a year ago
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ok gents so why are you guys so obsessed with doing anal?? usually after four or five messages this popps up "do you do anal??" no I have done anal and will do it but it does hurt like hell there had only been one time I've had a pleasurable experience, so why do u like it when there is a yummy wet pussy to pound right there ???
and ladies any hints or tips how to make it not to hurt so much???  |
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over a year ago
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I think anal can be like an ultimate thing, if you know what I mean. Pussy and oral is maybe seen by others like vanilla (not by me), where as anal is one step further. I love giving a woman anal, and the fact that I can do it to her without causing her pain, is a big buzz. It just takes lots of preparation and no pressure. Mind you saying that I know some see it as taboo still! |
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over a year ago
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Reasonable size cock, lots of lube, take it slowly. Practice with veg if necessary, just don't dwell too long in the grocery aisle otherwise you'll receive knowing looks...
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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anal not my thing have done it before and i agree, why wld u wen thres a lovely pussy less than an inch away, for me it just felt like a tight pussy if the woman wants too and turns her on then ok otherwise pussy all the way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so how do you do it to not make it hurt ... spill the secret !  "
I REALLY don't mind showing you lol  
Lots and lots of play, tongues, fingers, and you cant use too much lube... Take her mind of it, kiss her, make her feel good, play with her clit loads and loads, all the while play with her bum, and completely relax her, show her you know what your doing... And slide into her EXTREMELY slowly, I prefer her to be on her back, so I can kiss her... Once your in, DON'T move, let her get used to you... Slow movements, tiny movements, and once she gets used to it, she will be begging you to fuck her! Tried and trusted method! A woman I was with for many years always swore she would NEVER have anal sex in her life... Needless to say, she used to prefer it after I got her into it! |
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Some women love it others don't some men like doing it others don't , it's a personal thing so if its good , do it if not don't?
As to the obsession with anal the porn industry has a lot to answer .
Years ago it was taboo and only " dirty" girls did it now its just another part of sex, no big deal, like I said some people like it others don't just the same as swallowing some like it and others don't |
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over a year ago
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"so how do you do it to not make it hurt ... spill the secret !
I REALLY don't mind showing you lol
Lots and lots of play, tongues, fingers, and you cant use too much lube... Take her mind of it, kiss her, make her feel good, play with her clit loads and loads, all the while play with her bum, and completely relax her, show her you know what your doing... And slide into her EXTREMELY slowly, I prefer her to be on her back, so I can kiss her... Once your in, DON'T move, let her get used to you... Slow movements, tiny movements, and once she gets used to it, she will be begging you to fuck her! Tried and trusted method! A woman I was with for many years always swore she would NEVER have anal sex in her life... Needless to say, she used to prefer it after I got her into it! "
ooh u want to demo for me in person ?? and all That sounds amazing xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so how do you do it to not make it hurt ... spill the secret !
I REALLY don't mind showing you lol
Lots and lots of play, tongues, fingers, and you cant use too much lube... Take her mind of it, kiss her, make her feel good, play with her clit loads and loads, all the while play with her bum, and completely relax her, show her you know what your doing... And slide into her EXTREMELY slowly, I prefer her to be on her back, so I can kiss her... Once your in, DON'T move, let her get used to you... Slow movements, tiny movements, and once she gets used to it, she will be begging you to fuck her! Tried and trusted method! A woman I was with for many years always swore she would NEVER have anal sex in her life... Needless to say, she used to prefer it after I got her into it! ooh u want to demo for me in person ?? and all That sounds amazing xxx "
Curvy, it's would a pleasure for both you and I! And I mean that!! I've look at your pics, and you have a damn fine bum!
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"ok gents so why are you guys so obsessed with doing anal?? usually after four or five messages this popps up "do you do anal??" no I have done anal and will do it but it does hurt like hell there had only been one time I've had a pleasurable experience, so why do u like it when there is a yummy wet pussy to pound right there ???
and ladies any hints or tips how to make it not to hurt so much??? "
That depends on what, exactly, hurts for you... We are all constructed differently. With one woman, it could be the guys girth which makes it painful/impossible. With another, it's the length. It also depends on what position you use to do it - some prefer/cam handle it doggie, others it's reverse cowgirl.
The variables are, to say the least, endless...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not bothered about it at all. There's plenty of other fun things to be getting on with. I'll only do it if the women really wants it and some do. I had a girl who was absolutely begging for anal and came as soon as my cock settled in place ..no thrusting whatsoever!
Important fact though:
There's two spincters - an outer one and an inner one make sure they're both relaxed. This can be done by putting two fingers in and gently - and I mean gently - spreading them. Perhaps nibble on her clit whilst you're doing this, otherwise she might feel like a bit of a science experiment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so how do you do it to not make it hurt ... spill the secret !
I REALLY don't mind showing you lol
Lots and lots of play, tongues, fingers, and you cant use too much lube... Take her mind of it, kiss her, make her feel good, play with her clit loads and loads, all the while play with her bum, and completely relax her, show her you know what your doing... And slide into her EXTREMELY slowly, I prefer her to be on her back, so I can kiss her... Once your in, DON'T move, let her get used to you... Slow movements, tiny movements, and once she gets used to it, she will be begging you to fuck her! Tried and trusted method! A woman I was with for many years always swore she would NEVER have anal sex in her life... Needless to say, she used to prefer it after I got her into it! ooh u want to demo for me in person ?? and all That sounds amazing xxx
Curvy, it's would a pleasure for both you and I! And I mean that!! I've look at your pics, and you have a damn fine bum!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not bothered about it at all. There's plenty of other fun things to be getting on with. I'll only do it if the women really wants it and some do. I had a girl who was absolutely begging for anal and came as soon as my cock settled in place ..no thrusting whatsoever!
Important fact though:
There's two spincters - an outer one and an inner one make sure they're both relaxed. This can be done by putting two fingers in and gently - and I mean gently - spreading them. Perhaps nibble on her clit whilst you're doing this, otherwise she might feel like a bit of a science experiment "
mmm that sounds like u are a pro |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im not obsessed by anything.
if you have a partner who likes it then why not give her what she wants?
personally i feel foreplayis underrated.
a good kisser and plenty of touching in the right place works wonders. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"im not obsessed by anything.
if you have a partner who likes it then why not give her what she wants?
personally i feel foreplayis underrated.
a good kisser and plenty of touching in the right place works wonders."
I agree I love four play, kissing is my biggest turn on give me a good kisser over a huge cock any day ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im not obsessed by anything.
if you have a partner who likes it then why not give her what she wants?
personally i feel foreplayis underrated.
a good kisser and plenty of touching in the right place works wonders.
I agree I love four play, kissing is my biggest turn on give me a good kisser over a huge cock any day ha ha "
dont forget eye contact.
tells everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok gents so why are you guys so obsessed with doing anal?? usually after four or five messages this popps up "do you do anal??" no I have done anal and will do it but it does hurt like hell there had only been one time I've had a pleasurable experience, so why do u like it when there is a yummy wet pussy to pound right there ???
and ladies any hints or tips how to make it not to hurt so much??? "
Anal sex wasnt a big deal at all for me at first. My fascination with anal sex started when I met an older lady who asked me to fuck her asshole. Id done it before and it was exciting mainly due to it being taboo. But this lady absolutely loved it..she was literally shaking with pleasure and squirted from her pussy all over the bed...I was hooked after that.
Whats the difference between oral sex and anal sex?
Oral sex makes your day, whereas anal sex makes your hole weak! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im not obsessed by anything.
if you have a partner who likes it then why not give her what she wants?
personally i feel foreplayis underrated.
a good kisser and plenty of touching in the right place works wonders.
I agree I love four play, kissing is my biggest turn on give me a good kisser over a huge cock any day ha ha
dont forget eye contact.
tells everything "
I have to agree mate ...eye contact, kissing and fucking together, and I'm on another planet ...especially if she's lightly touching the right places ...ooh yeah!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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mmm that sounds like u are a pro
What the spreading fingers and clit nibbling ...who said men can't multi-task??? x"
ha ha that's a multitask and a half ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"im not obsessed by anything.
if you have a partner who likes it then why not give her what she wants?
personally i feel foreplayis underrated.
a good kisser and plenty of touching in the right place works wonders.
I agree I love four play, kissing is my biggest turn on give me a good kisser over a huge cock any day ha ha
dont forget eye contact.
tells everything
I have to agree mate ...eye contact, kissing and fucking together, and I'm on another planet ...especially if she's lightly touching the right places ...ooh yeah! "
mmm I love kisses in them unusual places too makes your hairs stand on end |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was always one of those girls that said anal sex? No way! Until I met the OH....... It's all about trust and as the others have said in their posts taking it easy and moving at your own pace. OH can fuck me so hard now its ridiculous and I honestly love it as much if not more than regular sex! Certainly adds another element of variety to your sex life x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd never ask a woman to do something that Im not prepared to do so I know both sides.
Love giving anal because it's filthy and also tighter. Love the reaction from the fem too.
Love receiving because its filthier with pleasure and pain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so how do you do it to not make it hurt ... spill the secret !
I REALLY don't mind showing you lol
Lots and lots of play, tongues, fingers, and you cant use too much lube... Take her mind of it, kiss her, make her feel good, play with her clit loads and loads, all the while play with her bum, and completely relax her, show her you know what your doing... And slide into her EXTREMELY slowly, I prefer her to be on her back, so I can kiss her... Once your in, DON'T move, let her get used to you... Slow movements, tiny movements, and once she gets used to it, she will be begging you to fuck her! Tried and trusted method! A woman I was with for many years always swore she would NEVER have anal sex in her life... Needless to say, she used to prefer it after I got her into it! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't see why women find it hard or say it hurts, I have a 9 inch realistic cock which is thick with a sucker on and I stick it to my wall all the time and back right into it while I wank it feels so good and never hurts just lots of lube makes me cum hard.
I just take it slow then when it's right in its amazing. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so how do you do it to not make it hurt ... spill the secret !
I REALLY don't mind showing you lol
Lots and lots of play, tongues, fingers, and you cant use too much lube... Take her mind of it, kiss her, make her feel good, play with her clit loads and loads, all the while play with her bum, and completely relax her, show her you know what your doing... And slide into her EXTREMELY slowly, I prefer her to be on her back, so I can kiss her... Once your in, DON'T move, let her get used to you... Slow movements, tiny movements, and once she gets used to it, she will be begging you to fuck her! Tried and trusted method! A woman I was with for many years always swore she would NEVER have anal sex in her life... Needless to say, she used to prefer it after I got her into it! ooh u want to demo for me in person ?? and all That sounds amazing xxx
Curvy, it's would a pleasure for both you and I! And I mean that!! I've look at your pics, and you have a damn fine bum!
why thank you!!. "
Again, it's my pleasure!
Kissing is a huge part of sexy for me, and it seduces both me and my partner, and I agree, eye contact speaks a thousand words in itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im not obsessed by anything.
if you have a partner who likes it then why not give her what she wants?
personally i feel foreplayis underrated.
a good kisser and plenty of touching in the right place works wonders.
I agree I love four play, kissing is my biggest turn on give me a good kisser over a huge cock any day ha ha
dont forget eye contact.
tells everything
I have to agree mate ...eye contact, kissing and fucking together, and I'm on another planet ...especially if she's lightly touching the right places ...ooh yeah! mmm I love kisses in them unusual places too makes your hairs stand on end "
you forget increased heart rate from that moment youve been missing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"im not obsessed by anything.
if you have a partner who likes it then why not give her what she wants?
personally i feel foreplayis underrated.
a good kisser and plenty of touching in the right place works wonders.
I agree I love four play, kissing is my biggest turn on give me a good kisser over a huge cock any day ha ha
dont forget eye contact.
tells everything
I have to agree mate ...eye contact, kissing and fucking together, and I'm on another planet ...especially if she's lightly touching the right places ...ooh yeah! mmm I love kisses in them unusual places too makes your hairs stand on end
you forget increased heart rate from that moment youve been missing"
ooh I know the feeling although it's rare I get that on a meet ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im not obsessed by anything.
if you have a partner who likes it then why not give her what she wants?
personally i feel foreplayis underrated.
a good kisser and plenty of touching in the right place works wonders.
I agree I love four play, kissing is my biggest turn on give me a good kisser over a huge cock any day ha ha
dont forget eye contact.
tells everything
I have to agree mate ...eye contact, kissing and fucking together, and I'm on another planet ...especially if she's lightly touching the right places ...ooh yeah! mmm I love kisses in them unusual places too makes your hairs stand on end
you forget increased heart rate from that moment youve been missing
ooh I know the feeling although it's rare I get that on a meet ... "
cannot help the choices you make. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"im not obsessed by anything.
if you have a partner who likes it then why not give her what she wants?
personally i feel foreplayis underrated.
a good kisser and plenty of touching in the right place works wonders.
I agree I love four play, kissing is my biggest turn on give me a good kisser over a huge cock any day ha ha
dont forget eye contact.
tells everything
I have to agree mate ...eye contact, kissing and fucking together, and I'm on another planet ...especially if she's lightly touching the right places ...ooh yeah! mmm I love kisses in them unusual places too makes your hairs stand on end
you forget increased heart rate from that moment youve been missing
ooh I know the feeling although it's rare I get that on a meet ...
cannot help the choices you make."
oh i.know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im not obsessed by anything.
if you have a partner who likes it then why not give her what she wants?
personally i feel foreplayis underrated.
a good kisser and plenty of touching in the right place works wonders.
I agree I love four play, kissing is my biggest turn on give me a good kisser over a huge cock any day ha ha
dont forget eye contact.
tells everything
I have to agree mate ...eye contact, kissing and fucking together, and I'm on another planet ...especially if she's lightly touching the right places ...ooh yeah! mmm I love kisses in them unusual places too makes your hairs stand on end
you forget increased heart rate from that moment youve been missing
ooh I know the feeling although it's rare I get that on a meet ...
cannot help the choices you make.
oh i.know "
well there you are.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so how do you do it to not make it hurt ... spill the secret !
I REALLY don't mind showing you lol
Lots and lots of play, tongues, fingers, and you cant use too much lube... Take her mind of it, kiss her, make her feel good, play with her clit loads and loads, all the while play with her bum, and completely relax her, show her you know what your doing... And slide into her EXTREMELY slowly, I prefer her to be on her back, so I can kiss her... Once your in, DON'T move, let her get used to you... Slow movements, tiny movements, and once she gets used to it, she will be begging you to fuck her! Tried and trusted method! A woman I was with for many years always swore she would NEVER have anal sex in her life... Needless to say, she used to prefer it after I got her into it! "
Sounds very horny I'm interested in receiving anal with a strap on so must make sure the lady does all these things  |
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By *obyorkMan
over a year ago
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Got to agree with curvy lady. My ex gf used to slip my cock up her bum from time to time, but apart from the naughtiness of it being in the 'wrong hole' it was never a patch on fucking her in her lovely pussy.
However, she loved me to rim her and I always enjoyed that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What u do is you do it with someone you trust, plenty of lube and ease it in according to the females direction, very slow up and down and again go to the females preference xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jojoba oil will do the trick !!! Is meant to relax the muscles and is a superior lubricant !!! Give it a try "
lol I only ever seen.this in shampoo !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exit only in my book!!!
gosh your a rare breed ! "
Lol Never tried it! The idea of it has never interested me to be honest. Maybe i'm a bit odd, but the arse isnt meant for that!! lol. Maybe i'm just a |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Exit only in my book!!!
gosh your a rare breed !
Lol Never tried it! The idea of it has never interested me to be honest. Maybe i'm a bit odd, but the arse isnt meant for that!! lol. Maybe i'm just a "
ha ha or maybe your a in disguise! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It really is a lot of fun. Best over an afternoon spread out with lots of toys and lube. Nothing better than finding a girl into anal and both of you having a play. Take your time, use lube and once something is inside leave it there to get used to it. You wouldn't lift the biggest weight at a gym straight off so why go for the biggest dildo. Start small and build up.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Exit only in my book!!!
gosh your a rare breed !
Lol Never tried it! The idea of it has never interested me to be honest. Maybe i'm a bit odd, but the arse isnt meant for that!! lol. Maybe i'm just a
ha ha or maybe your a in disguise!"
The proof is in the pudding... so they say..lol. Nice pics by the way! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It really is a lot of fun. Best over an afternoon spread out with lots of toys and lube. Nothing better than finding a girl into anal and both of you having a play. Take your time, use lube and once something is inside leave it there to get used to it. You wouldn't lift the biggest weight at a gym straight off so why go for the biggest dildo. Start small and build up.
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"It really is a lot of fun. Best over an afternoon spread out with lots of toys and lube. Nothing better than finding a girl into anal and both of you having a play. Take your time, use lube and once something is inside leave it there to get used to it. You wouldn't lift the biggest weight at a gym straight off so why go for the biggest dildo. Start small and build up.
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Shucks. 4 thumbs. Kinky! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It really is a lot of fun. Best over an afternoon spread out with lots of toys and lube. Nothing better than finding a girl into anal and both of you having a play. Take your time, use lube and once something is inside leave it there to get used to it. You wouldn't lift the biggest weight at a gym straight off so why go for the biggest dildo. Start small and build up.
Shucks. 4 thumbs. Kinky!"
lol ouch ! |
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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago
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"so ladies any tips on making it more pleasurable... positions etc.? "
Suprising this hasn't been mentioned.. I find that the best way to make me relaxed about anal sex is douching. I find that if I've cleaned before, it's easier for me to relax..
The initial bit is painful. First, ask the guy not to move; relax and learn to feel it without clenching. Then the guy makes slow movement while you get used to it. Then I find that the faster he does it, the less painful it is..
Hope this helps.. Also, some guys are more experienced and can do it better than others. So ladies (and some men), best advice is to find a men who are experienced.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so ladies any tips on making it more pleasurable... positions etc.?
Suprising this hasn't been mentioned.. I find that the best way to make me relaxed about anal sex is douching. I find that if I've cleaned before, it's easier for me to relax..
The initial bit is painful. First, ask the guy not to move; relax and learn to feel it without clenching. Then the guy makes slow movement while you get used to it. Then I find that the faster he does it, the less painful it is..
Hope this helps.. Also, some guys are more experienced and can do it better than others. So ladies (and some men), best advice is to find a men who are experienced.. "
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As many have said because its taboo and we can't have it we go out of our way to try and get it.
Have tried to get Simone to do anal and she always says no way.
After keeping on one night and after several hours of foreplay, ok minutes, she said yes, Hold on while I get the strap on she said.
For some reason I went off the idea then. |
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"so how do you do it to not make it hurt ... spill the secret ! "
Id suggest missionary with a pillow under your bum, loads of lube go slow and see how u feel. If not maybe spooning and make sure you control penatration going at ur own pace |
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"ok gents so why are you guys so obsessed with doing anal?? usually after four or five messages this popps up "do you do anal??" no I have done anal and will do it but it does hurt like hell there had only been one time I've had a pleasurable experience, so why do u like it when there is a yummy wet pussy to pound right there ???
and ladies any hints or tips how to make it not to hurt so much??? "
iv had anal with a pregnant woman, lubed all up bare back best time of my life |
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"ok gents so why are you guys so obsessed with doing anal?? usually after four or five messages this popps up "do you do anal??" no I have done anal and will do it but it does hurt like hell there had only been one time I've had a pleasurable experience, so why do u like it when there is a yummy wet pussy to pound right there ???
and ladies any hints or tips how to make it not to hurt so much??? "
jus wish id recoreded it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The reciever needs to relax alot. Also if you ear down like your trying to push our a poo (sounds gross i know) it opens the outer sphincter muscle and allowes it to slide in MUCH easier. The giver has to go in slow jus keep sliding in until it hirts a little bit then STOP. Keep it there and dont move r edge back a bit until the reciever is comfortable then move in a bit again stop till the comfy with it etc.
Keep doing this until its all the way in and hold it all the way in until they are comfy.
Then slow strokes and i mean SLOW until they start gettin pleasure out it.
The more you do it the easier it gets. And im saying this from a bi male who has been both giver and reciever! |
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The reciever needs to relax alot. Also if you ear down like your trying to push our a poo (sounds gross i know) it opens the outer sphincter muscle and allowes it to slide in MUCH easier. The giver has to go in slow jus keep sliding in until it hirts a little bit then STOP. Keep it there and dont move r edge back a bit until the reciever is comfortable then move in a bit again stop till the comfy with it etc.
Keep doing this until its all the way in and hold it all the way in until they are comfy.
Then slow strokes and i mean SLOW until they start gettin pleasure out it.
The more you do it the easier it gets. And im saying this from a bi male who has been both giver and reciever! |
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"so how do you do it to not make it hurt ... spill the secret !
Id suggest missionary with a pillow under your bum, loads of lube go slow and see how u feel. If not maybe spooning and make sure you control penatration going at ur own pace"
Sounds good to me |
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"so how do you do it to not make it hurt ... spill the secret !
I REALLY don't mind showing you lol
Lots and lots of play, tongues, fingers, and you cant use too much lube... Take her mind of it, kiss her, make her feel good, play with her clit loads and loads, all the while play with her bum, and completely relax her, show her you know what your doing... And slide into her EXTREMELY slowly, I prefer her to be on her back, so I can kiss her... Once your in, DON'T move, let her get used to you... Slow movements, tiny movements, and once she gets used to it, she will be begging you to fuck her! Tried and trusted method! A woman I was with for many years always swore she would NEVER have anal sex in her life... Needless to say, she used to prefer it after I got her into it! ooh u want to demo for me in person ?? and all That sounds amazing xxx "
It can be amazing I live it with the tight guy xx I call it Sunday sex as when I did it with my ex was always on a Sunday after flooding the place Friday Saturday and by time Sunday came I'd come so much everything was willing and ready always lying in my back missionary style kissing then once in and comfortable a toy or fingers in my pussy playing with my clit biggest and wettest orgasms ever over and over miss that took alot of time patience and trust |
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