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Do people still get nervous before a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have a meet tonight and I'm very nervous....

Any tips which could help!!

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By *irthy-HornMan over a year ago

dronfield

shower and dress smart and just be yourself is best way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"shower and dress smart and just be yourself is best way "

Be your self and respectful

It’s all you can do

But yea ,, I’m always nervous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always. Without question nerves are there. But they are cunningly disguised behind shite humour and banter.

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By *onynickiCouple over a year ago

Bournemouth

God yes!

Always have pre meet nerves . Normally have a stiff drink but as soon as the first guest arrives and we have our first kiss……. Nerves go!

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m always nervous haha

But being nervous is good go with the flow and have fun.

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By *idsAndyMan over a year ago

Worcestershire

Dress smartly and enjoy mate, I like the horny nervous feeling.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

Don't worry mate, you'll be fine. I still get nervous before meets, but once you're with the other person and it's all going well you'll wonder what you were worried about.

Hope you have a fun time

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By *itvclaireTV/TS over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes, but in a good way. Sometimes I get the shakes too,but I thats a lot more to do with an adrenaline rush.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

O always get nervous before meets lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I definitely get nervous before meets. It’s good nerves mostly and does lessen. Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always get nervous but good nerves… xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Urmm, sometimes yeah i still get nervous. but mostly it's just excitement

you'll be fine OP. Enjoy

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By *ortyairCouple over a year ago

Wallasey

I always get nervous, the thought that they may not like what they see in the flesh gives me butterflies... x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always don’t think anything could change it part of the experience we think

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks all.... Wearing Jay-Z Gold aftershave...

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Like the ladies above just said - these are good nerves. Enjoy the butterflies in your stomach. They’re part of the anticipation and build-up.

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By *oppet22TV/TS over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes but soon go when your there

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By *arried-BBW-LookingWoman over a year ago

Truro

Yes every time nervous excitement and thrill, I love it X

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By *MCMan over a year ago

London/EA

Hope it went well for you OP.

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By *lipandSlide777Couple over a year ago

Bideford

I always get nervous before a meet. Doesn't seem to bother J though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I definitely do

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By *aizyWoman over a year ago

west midlands

Everytime, the nerves never last tho. Have a good meet op.

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By *eyeYCouple over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I have a meet tonight and I'm very nervous....

Any tips which could help!! "

Very honest! Full kudos..

Go meet some people who are of the same mindset and enjoy.. That's all we can do

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By *ull English with teaMan over a year ago

London

I’m more nervous before a social to be honest! Good luck OP

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By *tsJustKateWoman over a year ago

London

"I have a meet tonight and I'm very nervous....

Any tips which could help!! "

Still do after all these years, not sure it's a bad thing really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, always.

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By *hicDragon08Man over a year ago

Woodbridge

I still do, 100%

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By *ollys69Man over a year ago

hampshire

Of course, shower, pre meet wank! And be yourself.

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By *ris GrayMan over a year ago

Dorchester

"I have a meet tonight and I'm very nervous....

Any tips which could help!! "
spray yourself with female feramones

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By *N4funCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Yes which is why we like a social with no strings. We've found blind hotel meets cause more anxiety, always prefer somewhere familiar

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By *heBlowinsCouple over a year ago

West Cork

Pre-meet jitters are always there.. we're all human

They most likely feel it too OP. Good luck, you've got this

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By *nusualpairCouple over a year ago

Preston

We both still get nervous but also excited!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have an anxiety disorder, I'm nervous all the time lol

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I have an anxiety disorder, I'm nervous all the time lol"

I was going to say similar.

I do distracting and breathing techniques before meets. Lol!

My first trip to a club in an uber I felt like throwing up and had to Dr. Weil 4-7-8 breathe my way out of it.

My life is never boring.

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By *ynda1978Woman over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool

I get extremely nervous. I need to sort it out as it's stopping me from meeting at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. If it wasn't exciting what is the point?

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