for all sorts of different reasons we find couples meets difficult to arrange which is why we tend to go to clubs
we appreciate the need for anonymity for some (including us) but just wondering why so many couples only have a picture of the female when they are only looking to meet other couples?
this isn’t a rant just an observation  |
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"for all sorts of different reasons we find couples meets difficult to arrange which is why we tend to go to clubs
we appreciate the need for anonymity for some (including us) but just wondering why so many couples only have a picture of the female when they are only looking to meet other couples?
this isn’t a rant just an observation "
Because generally the ladies are more photogenic than the men. |
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There's so many posts on this topic, done one myself in the past, it does make it hard to meet couples for me (Mrs) I want to see the man without begging for photos to be told he's shy, doesn't like having a photo taken etc so I don't bother asking, if there's no pics it's a no response from me, I don't do blind date.
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"Because generally the ladies are more photogenic than the men. "
Subjective of course 
Personally find it annoying if said couple is looking for other couples and wants their man involved. It's the equivalent of a blind date. Mrs. wants to see what she's getting  |
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We don’t understand it really. If you’re expecting people to play with you, be prepared to let them see you and have all the facts. We have a higher ratio of F:M pics because it’s predominantly Rosie that plays |
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"Because generally the ladies are more photogenic than the men.
Subjective of course
Personally find it annoying if said couple is looking for other couples and wants their man involved. It's the equivalent of a blind date. Mrs. wants to see what she's getting "
Absolutely, there’s no taking one for the team with us & I think that’s the difficulties at times finding couples that both want to enjoy.
Face & body pics of both are a must! |
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"Because generally the ladies are more photogenic than the men.
Subjective of course
Personally find it annoying if said couple is looking for other couples and wants their man involved. It's the equivalent of a blind date. Mrs. wants to see what she's getting
Absolutely, there’s no taking one for the team with us & I think that’s the difficulties at times finding couples that both want to enjoy.
Face & body pics of both are a must! "
Yesssss and kudos to y'all for being so open and awesome. Fucking love people who are cheeky and free xx Love how y'all represent   |
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We have very little of Mr on our public page (if any at present), just his personal choice but always send pics of us both attached to our messages to anyone we are interested in meeting. I don’t think many here would be up for a “blind date” we certainly wouldn’t but surely there’s some back and forth messaging going on beforehand where pics can be exchanged. |
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For us its just that our profile is to meet men for mfm or gangbang.
Also to meet ladies for ff play.
I only play with the Mrs in a group setting or to watch her play and join in.
Have no real interest in playing with another couple or fem unless invited. |
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"We have very little of Mr on our public page (if any at present), just his personal choice but always send pics of us both attached to our messages to anyone we are interested in meeting. I don’t think many here would be up for a “blind date” we certainly wouldn’t but surely there’s some back and forth messaging going on beforehand where pics can be exchanged."
agree. we always send photos of both of us when we message but its nice to see both on a profile even if faces covered to get a sense of who we would like to message |
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We don’t get this either, don’t understand for the life of me why there’s not pics of both, even just a few cheeky body pics.
We don’t prejudge though and just ask for anonymous pics in a message pretty early on in the conversation  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I don't get it either and as a straight woman who is half a couple it's frustrating.
Of course people can run their profile how they choose & if only the lady plays totally get that.
We just don't engage with the profiles full of the lady now ,as it feels like its not important that I see the male .
If a profile like that messages our joint profile we delete ,unless they've attached a pic of him .past experience has shown the harder it is to get a pic of the male ,the less likely it is for me to be attracted to him.
We have lots of pics of my other half and some of us together on our couple profile. |
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Never understood that.
If couple have joined account that means there need to be both of your pictures not only your Mrs. Both are equal in this industry. Personally I like seeing both of them face and body pictures,otherwise I won’t reply and delete.
Have no patience to “beg” someone for explanation why there is only females pictures but on profile stated as couple or other way around.
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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago
Sleaford |
We have decided to show our face pics now on public....people always ask anyway so now they can see. There has to be some physical attraction there so we know instantly the ones who are interested rather than waiting for people to message you back to say no thank you politely once you've sent them on DM  |
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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago
South Leicestershire (willing to travel) |
"for all sorts of different reasons we find couples meets difficult to arrange which is why we tend to go to clubs
we appreciate the need for anonymity for some (including us) but just wondering why so many couples only have a picture of the female when they are only looking to meet other couples?
this isn’t a rant just an observation "
It's a fair question imho. As for those that just have male pics I (rightly or wrongly) see them as suspicious.. |
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We really just started this profile so she could share sexy photos with me in a way that didn’t risk our mosey kids finding them on our phones. They alway seem to find out our passwords! Also, she saw the terrible photos I was posting and took over the picture side of our profile to show me how it is done properly ;-O
We shared the photos on our profile as it was a turn on having other people looking at them and watching the fabs go up. We never really considered selling ourselves as a couple and I felt like a creep posting images of my hairy dad bod, I never really thought anyone would want to see it. Also, she isn’t really a visual person, so has never asked for images of me to turn her on.
I’ve been working out a lot over the last 6 months, so maybe it is time to get some sexy shots of my Scottish arse out there for all you lassies to gawk at! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Not this thread again, please.
Profiles contain the photos the owners want to show, for whatever reason. If it works for them then they're happy. If it doesn't work for you that's OK with them too. You just move on to find a profile that does work for you: There are plenty to choose from. |
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It's a personal choice. We choose not to contact profiles if we can't see the man because we've learned through experience that unless they send a clear photo of him with a first message he's not interested in participating. Which is fine there are plenty of profiles with pictures of both |
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I(the husband) have absolutely no interest in playing with another lady (completely my choice) but the wife at the time was looking for a couple to play with, it was all on our write up but not actively playing at the moment so the profile has been changed, that is the reason I have no pics of me, plenty in our friends/private pics. |
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"We have very little of Mr on our public page (if any at present), just his personal choice but always send pics of us both attached to our messages to anyone we are interested in meeting. I don’t think many here would be up for a “blind date” we certainly wouldn’t but surely there’s some back and forth messaging going on beforehand where pics can be exchanged."
obviously this works well for you going on your verifications
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