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Do you think it's rude

By *hirley OP Man over a year ago

somewhere

If you're talking to someone or announcing it on here, for instance, that you like certain physical qualities in someone. More so, put off by others/the absence of one's you like?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Rude to tell people what you find physically attractive about them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. It’s not rude. Everyone has a personal preference.

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By *iren!Woman over a year ago

leeds

Lol this makes me laugh because we are expected to all like everyone for everything. No. I have preferences and you have preferences. No judgement or hatered because everyone has freedom to like who ever they want.

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan over a year ago

Bradford

"Rude to tell people what you find physically attractive about them? "

Why is it? I’d love to know what people find physically attractive about me

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By *luttyLaylaWoman over a year ago

North West

It’s not rude to be attracted or un attracted to someone.

How you tell them, and if there’s actually a need to tell them, is what’s rude.

A polite no thanks is sometimes enough rather than listing every reason why lol

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Its never rude to say what we are looking for.

We are all different, and we are all allowed to say what we want.

If somebody has a problem with that, it's not our fault.

Move along.

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By *hirley OP Man over a year ago

somewhere

"Rude to tell people what you find physically attractive about them? "

What I mean is if you are with them in a sense that it's more than just an initial rendezvous, you're in company with intent for example. Mostly when said individual doesn't match up with whatever that is that you find ideal.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

It's only rude if you begin saying then stop or keep it to yourself

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By *hirley OP Man over a year ago

somewhere

"Rude to tell people what you find physically attractive about them?

Why is it? I’d love to know what people find physically attractive about me "

"What people", as in plural, is subjective, and more detail brings greater ambiguity I can only see

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By *hirley OP Man over a year ago

somewhere

"It’s not rude to be attracted or un attracted to someone.

How you tell them, and if there’s actually a need to tell them, is what’s rude.

A polite no thanks is sometimes enough rather than listing every reason why lol "

I strictly mean physical attributes, for me attraction is more than just that.

"How" and "if" is entirely up to you to decide, that's not saying there won't be a negative, I just want to know if you think directly discussing looks is something you think is rude or not.

Or do you feel that this is something that has a right or wrong answer?

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