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over a year ago
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"Have you considered the dynamic?
If yes, how dose it work?
Are you a cuck couple?
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Definitely something we really want but finding the right person is much harder than you think! They got to get the dynamic, be local, be able to accommodate, be someone that the wife finds really attractive and sexual chemistry too  |
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"Have you considered the dynamic?
If yes, how dose it work?
Are you a cuck couple?
Definitely something we really want but finding the right person is much harder than you think! They got to get the dynamic, be local, be able to accommodate, be someone that the wife finds really attractive and sexual chemistry too "
As above but we accept it’s unlikely. Fun looking though x |
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By *en ukMan
over a year ago
harrow London |
I was the boyfriend of a beautiful wife and a beautiful and elegant couple, we are still good friends, we chat on kik all the time, what matters is discreetness, hygiene, the conversation with that couple and the mutual attraction between wife and boyfriend. Leave it to them. to contact you when they need and don't be too insistent because they have their married life |
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By *en ukMan
over a year ago
harrow London |
I remember the first meeting with them at their home, we decided to just talk and nothing else, just to chat and nothing more, we had been talking for a long time and we decided to get to know each other personally, we arrived at their home an educated couple, mannered, it was just about seeing each other, I liked her a lot and she wanted me, I had some conversations with her husband, after 5 minutes my husband asked me if I could caress her and fuck her. It was very embarrassing the first time, all three of us were very satisfied with the first meeting |
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we do know of this with another couple we know , she is a very strong willed woman , nice dont get me wrong , her husband is older and pure cuck , they had been playing for many years as a cuck couple, she then met one guy during this time who became her long term lover , he does not stay over as he is also married , all 3 like the arrangement and it works for them |
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"Have you considered the dynamic?
If yes, how dose it work?
Are you a cuck couple?
Definitely something we really want but finding the right person is much harder than you think! They got to get the dynamic, be local, be able to accommodate, be someone that the wife finds really attractive and sexual chemistry too "
Absolutely the same as this. Still we can but dream |
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By *en ukMan
over a year ago
harrow London |
I chatted with this couple for a very long time, I think about 9 months before we met face to face, she is a very shy woman, but she really wanted to meet me but she had some reservations because she didn't know what kind of person I am, you can't to welcome all kinds of unknown people into the house, it was very difficult but I managed to prove to them that I am what they wanted to know, it was very difficult to convince them just to see each other. Be very careful who you bring home a friend mine brought a man to her home or had fun, they had sex, it was just a simple meeting after which that man was waiting for my friend to fuck her one more time and she threatened him with the police if he follows her or bothers her. BE VERY CAREFUL WHO YOU LET INTO YOUR HOMES THERE ARE MANY MEN WITH PROBLEMS ON THE SITE. Have fun |
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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago
Manchester |
Definitely something we would love .
However it is Definitely not easy to find a young suitable guy to become her regular boyfriend.
I believe she should be allowed to meet and fuck her boyfriend if and when she chooses.Nights out with him over nights with hubby.Weekends away holidays sleep overs all decided first by herself and any long term boyfriend. |
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By *en ukMan
over a year ago
harrow London |
This couple has their own private life, when they need me they contact me if I'm free and I can meet them, they are the ones who decide when to meet, I never asked what they do, what they do in their time free, and we are still very good friends, I respected them and they respected me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are looking for some regulars for us both but also so I can have a regular guy to have to my self. It’s similar, we are not a cuck couple in any way. It’s about Clyde wanting me to enjoy other guys as well as for us to share loads of sexual experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cant even get a FWB, so finding anything more serious must be so difficult.
Sounds like a lot of fun though.
Struggle to find anyone suitable "
So many guys but so difficult to find a regular that ticks the boxes. Who would have thought x |
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"Have you considered the dynamic?
If yes, how dose it work?
Are you a cuck couple?
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This is something I’ve personally had a lot of experience in and my god it is some of the most beautiful and fond memories I have to date also so if the best friends I could have ever met it’s really hard to find and it was only by the stroke of luck I found them however after multiple years of been friends we all decided and spoke in great lengths and well lets just say the holidays was amazing the weekends we are own and it was just a amazing time for all of you get that special someone or people I wouldn’t recommend ever letting them go because it hurts like shit if you loose it |
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when we play we only ever look for long term , but never one to one meets, but, the thought of the wife going out and meeting a guy on her own for sex is very appealing , the knot knowing but you know just what there getting up to and as she is on her own will she have a different outlook and be more open with him , with a wife meeting her lover i am sure she will be going home to her husband full of her lovers semen |
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By *en ukMan
over a year ago
harrow London |
Every meeting I have with this couple, they contact me 4-5 days before when I want them to meet me so that I don't make other plans with other couples, swingers club. In order for the meetings to be beautiful, there must be attraction from both sides, I had a pleasure to fuck her and she to fuck me |
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By *en ukMan
over a year ago
harrow London |
I was the boyfriend of the wife only on weekends and we only saw each other at their house and in their bed, they wanted to be very discreet so that we would not be seen in public places, we had some discussions to be discreet and I agreed to all three of us are very discreet |
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By *en ukMan
over a year ago
harrow London |
I am interested in a couple looking for a boyfriend for a wife. I live in NW London, I have a car and I can travel a maximum of 50 miles from where I live. If you are interested in my profile, I am waiting for a message. I am interested in something long term .Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This iis hot and something I’m looking for.
Why do couples find it hard to find a guy for this if there’s so many songle guys interested in the same kink?
What are the deal breakers for women/couples and what can guys do to improve their chances? |
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
Babbacombe Torquay |
We've had a few city breaks away where we masquerade as "friends", but our most successful holiday experience was in 2015 in Bodrum where we were booked for 21 nights in an adults only hotel where we had stayed a few times previously.
Due to a last minute hitch at our family business we decided that Jane would fly out alone as she was very familiar with the hotel and I was to follow a week later on the following weekend.
Her first week alone in the hotel was shall we say very memorable.....
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By *offee27Man
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
"We've had a few city breaks away where we masquerade as "friends", but our most successful holiday experience was in 2015 in Bodrum where we were booked for 21 nights in an adults only hotel where we had stayed a few times previously.
Due to a last minute hitch at our family business we decided that Jane would fly out alone as she was very familiar with the hotel and I was to follow a week later on the following weekend.
Her first week alone in the hotel was shall we say very memorable.....
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Love to hear about that week |
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I've been the regular lover for a number of fellow fab members.
One such couple asked me take the wife to a local swing club in Leeds, which I happily did. Wow, the wife was very keen and during the evening worked her way through as many men as she could.
It was so lovely to sit back and enjoy the view that night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we do know of this with another couple we know , she is a very strong willed woman , nice dont get me wrong , her husband is older and pure cuck , they had been playing for many years as a cuck couple, she then met one guy during this time who became her long term lover , he does not stay over as he is also married , all 3 like the arrangement and it works for them "
Similar to what i had although the hubbybwas more stag. Lasted for 4 amazing years....until covid hit....happy memories |
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I've had relationships with couple's that lasted for a couple of years, even lived with a couple before. Cuckold, stag and Vixen, bi-polly it's all good!
So def possible when everyone is on the same wavelength! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are trying to obtain something like this at the moment. A single guy that will be for both of us to have threesomes, for Clyde to watch me and the guy fucking, and for me to enjoy on my own when I please. We are hoping this will carry on as long as everyone is happy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s hard to say where is the border between a fb and a bf. I’ve been a third person to a married couple for over two years and still don’t know what I was, but definitely the more time you’re together the things are going on different level. |
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"Have you considered the dynamic?
If yes, how dose it work?
Are you a cuck couple?
Definitely something we really want but finding the right person is much harder than you think! They got to get the dynamic, be local, be able to accommodate, be someone that the wife finds really attractive and sexual chemistry too
As above but we accept it’s unlikely. Fun looking though x"
Absolutely this, had something briefly but hard to find and maintain unless local |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’ve spoken about it and would do it with the right guy. We’d probably need to play as a three first time to build up trust and a connection"
Great idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the hottest thread in a while. It's extremely difficult to find but never say never.
Nearest I got was a regular cuck couple I met off here. She'd refer to me as boyfriend etc.
We would meet for drinks and sometimes meals before going back to cuck.
I stayed over a few times whilst cuck had spare room. We fantasied about weekends away and even abroad holidays where me and wife were the ones physically and publicly "together" but never got to that.
Reading back we did quite well I suppose but it takes ALOT of communication and trust |
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My gf has a black fwb long term. He's been fucking her over two years and is the only other person so far she's left come in her. Fwb I can deal with but not sure I could deal with anther bf. Who knows thiugh until I try  |
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Chiming in here as I (Mr.) LOVE the idea of my wife having a regular thing but don't identify with being a cuck (we're stag/vixen).
We've talked about it but bf is the wrong term for us...we want a fwb we can be close enough to and trust that we can play bare and have a dependable local booty call for group play when we feel like it.
Only interested in sex, not relationship or poly stuff so a trusted fuck buddy is more apt in our case. |
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I used to be that boyfriend . She was hot wife and husband was a pure gentle time to time I spent weekends husband would prepare our drinks. Pity that they moved away . Husband was watching us to do sex and cuddle after . Husband was coming to clean the mess that was his job . |
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"I think we would prefer to have a married man with the wife’s consent rather than a single guy. Or better still, a wife with the husband’s consent. "
Shame you're not further North, a regular arrangement like this with consent on both side is exactly what my husband would like to find. (Not the going on holidays though! The discrete, ENM type regular fun meets rather than full poly situation) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most definitely open to being the ‘other guy’ in this kind of set up.
Fully understanding of where the line in the sand is so as not to get overly involved and utterly respectful of them being married, myself being involved on a long-term basis with just the right amount of feelings and emotions so the wife and myself can have some good nights out, some good laughs and also some great sex too 
I live in hope |
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I can't believe it's a great idea to go looking for this specifically. Few single guys will say that they're not open to a more regular arrangement.
But if you play with single guys in a way that could develop into more, then some of them will develop into more. |
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By *iggy5Man
over a year ago
Northamptonshire |
I have been a boyfriend for a hot wife with an older husband for a few years now. Spending the night at their home and enjoying their company.
I never lose sight of the fact that they are a couple first and foremost. I am the dynamic that has been introduced. But we are the best of friends. And we intimately know each other.
As has been said here, it is important to find the right person. But it can work and it can work really, really well. We have had so much fun. |
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I have been long term fwb to a couple before, not quite long term boyfriend, but it was incredibly fun.
Just turn up when they need me, chat, fuck, leave.
It only got better each time as boundaries got pushed further and further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes me and my wife have this dynamic.
I'm her primary partner, we shere finances, live together and have kids together, then she has a boyfriend who she probably sees once a week, that can sometimes be for 1 or 2 days and on the very odd occasion they go away together. I have my own thing going with another woman and go to a Swingers club when I went.
Definitely not Chuck.
Been doing it for about a year and it seems to just work.
Nick |
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By *rNightMan
over a year ago
Coventry |
Yeah my mrs has done this a few times over the years. She dated a girl from work for over a year, used to stay the night at hers every Thursday. The guys always seem to get too clingy and start thinking she’ll become exclusive to them though, so she ends it there.
Her manager at work was the longest one, he would send me pics lol. |
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We have a long term partner.
Hi is Ipslad99 when we met him it was only for a social as he was not pats type but when we met him we all got on like a house on fire.
After a few meetings she had some fine with him and she was so happy she did as he did what she wanted.
Nothing interesting in the trousers department but he makes up with it with his fingers and toung.
And pats squirts like fuck when she is with him. He is now a true friend and step father to our children. |
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My wife has been seeing her ex for the last 2 or 3 years. He comes over every couple of months on a weekday daytime and they spend 2-3 hours fucking and chatting. She always spends ages getting ready for him, buys new lingerie etc. I have to leave before he comes over and wait for her to text me that he’s gone.
He’s married with a baby and his wife doesn’t know so he’s not likely to get too clingy. His mother in law works in the same building as my wife though. It’s worked well so far. It’s infrequent enough to keep it fresh. |
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"My wife has been seeing her ex for the last 2 or 3 years. He comes over every couple of months on a weekday daytime and they spend 2-3 hours fucking and chatting. She always spends ages getting ready for him, buys new lingerie etc. I have to leave before he comes over and wait for her to text me that he’s gone.
He’s married with a baby and his wife doesn’t know so he’s not likely to get too clingy. His mother in law works in the same building as my wife though. It’s worked well so far. It’s infrequent enough to keep it fresh."
What a lovely arrangement their is something so poignant for the new hubby about a wife continuing to offer herself for the use oh her ex |
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"My wife has been seeing her ex for the last 2 or 3 years. He comes over every couple of months on a weekday daytime and they spend 2-3 hours fucking and chatting. She always spends ages getting ready for him, buys new lingerie etc. I have to leave before he comes over and wait for her to text me that he’s gone.
He’s married with a baby and his wife doesn’t know so he’s not likely to get too clingy. His mother in law works in the same building as my wife though. It’s worked well so far. It’s infrequent enough to keep it fresh.
What a lovely arrangement their is something so poignant for the new hubby about a wife continuing to offer herself for the use oh her ex"
Yes. They share something older than the connection I have with my wife. He always turns up when he says he will and is very grateful to her. If he started to mess her about then he’d be gone but for now it works fine. |
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We would love to find a regular for the wife, but it seems a lot of men lie, say that is what they are looking for just to get that first shag, then it's excuses galore. It's a shame as it is truly something we would both like. |
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Been seeing a guy for a couple of years now and gained trust over that period of time.
I enjoy evenings out with him on my own plus he has come to my hotel while iam away with work while hubbie is at home.
All three of us get on very well but finding him took ages…. |
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"We would love to find a regular for the wife, but it seems a lot of men lie, say that is what they are looking for just to get that first shag, then it's excuses galore. It's a shame as it is truly something we would both like. "
As a cuckold couple we struggle to find regular ‘boyfriends’ for her, as you say most guys aren’t really up for it and are just after a quick fuck. |
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Yes we have indeed and something we have dabbled with previously. It is now something we ourselves have agreed upon and are actively seeking.
We have a guy who appears to be seeking the same also so we will see if it goes well and how it works out. |
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"Have you considered the dynamic?
If yes, how dose it work?
Are you a cuck couple?
Definitely something we really want but finding the right person is much harder than you think! They got to get the dynamic, be local, be able to accommodate, be someone that the wife finds really attractive and sexual chemistry too
As above but we accept it’s unlikely. Fun looking though x"
We definitely would and have been looking using several sites. Hopefully it will be happening soon.  |
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"Have you considered the dynamic?
If yes, how dose it work?
Are you a cuck couple?
Definitely something we really want but finding the right person is much harder than you think! They got to get the dynamic, be local, be able to accommodate, be someone that the wife finds really attractive and sexual chemistry too
As above but we accept it’s unlikely. Fun looking though x
We definitely would and have been looking using several sites. Hopefully it will be happening soon. "
Wish i was in the age range to build this relationship with you guys |
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From my experience it's a very exciting arrangement which adds more meaning into sex and relationship in general. But I understand it's not for everyone.
Always open to connect with couples who look for something similar, though. Feel free to reach out x |
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"From my experience it's a very exciting arrangement which adds more meaning into sex and relationship in general. But I understand it's not for everyone.
Always open to connect with couples who look for something similar, though. Feel free to reach out x"
This...had the same before covid with a fabulous couple. Became amazing friends too....was not just about the sex....used to pop round for coffee and a bacon sarnie and a chat with zero expectation of sex. But that was incredible too...one on one and mmf....due to regularity and our 'friendship'...no hang ups whatsoever. Good to all who achieve this fabs versionnof eutopia |
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This is the kind of relationship im looking for, meet a couple I can get to know and develop a bit of chemistry with. Regular meets without pressure. I have some great friends on here already but would love to expand that circle. Finding the right people is the hard thing. |
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Whore has been seeing her boyfriend for several years. The frequency of meets varies but usually they’re overnight and there have been a couple of weekends away.
When they meet up she is totally submissive to him and some of the play is much more degrading than she’d get at home! |
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By *iclassyCouple 25 weeks ago
Manchester |
"Definitely something we would love .
However it is Definitely not easy to find a young suitable guy to become her regular boyfriend.
I believe she should be allowed to meet and fuck her boyfriend if and when she chooses.Nights out with him over nights with hubby.Weekends away holidays sleep overs all decided first by herself and any long term boyfriend. "
Still looking x |
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Boyfriend is a funny term that can mean a lot of things.
But generally yes I'm good with her having a "BF". The sex gets better as she becomes more comfortable with a man and that opens up a lot of things between all three of us.
We did have one guy around for 8 years that you could call her bf. That ended poorly though. |
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"Whore has been seeing her boyfriend for several years. The frequency of meets varies but usually they’re overnight and there have been a couple of weekends away.
When they meet up she is totally submissive to him and some of the play is much more degrading than she’d get at home!"
Sounds wonderful for all parties polycouple |
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