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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?"
Not if you enjoy it and would rather she danced naked on top of them. That’s what most of us here would prefer. |
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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?what difference does the colour make?"
Exactly this, and no it’s called enjoying yourself. If you don’t like it I think you’re in the wrong lifestyle |
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?"
general query here
do you go out to the nightclub with her.
do you dance with her
or have you been told this ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?
Where does she go out... I would dance with her and no its not cheating as its just dancing "
Mango nightclub in birmingham
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?
general query here
do you go out to the nightclub with her.
do you dance with her
or have you been told this ?"
I do dance with her when we go together she doesnt dance with others when am there but i done it twice without her noticing i was there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum"
Seems like you've got some serious trust issues to be going out and spying on her mate. Regardless of what she does you'd likely find an issue |
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum"
If you have followed her then you dont trust her.
Both of you can have your own time out as a single person as much as a couple can.
Yeah we can all dance with others, It all depends on if it involves kissing or maybe more.
Then it becomes an issue. |
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This post is all sorts of wrong.
“Is dancing with black guys cheating?”
What does race have to do with it?
Following your Mrs to a club?
Either that’s some creepy, stalker-type stuff or an attention-seeking fabrication.
Either way it’s just… well… odd. Besides, you’re a single guy on here looking for pussy.
Those in glass houses and all…
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum"
That is not healthy you followed her with her knowledge that’s creepy and you are on here talking about her and sharing her pictures. The old saying of the cheat will always accuse the non cheating partner |
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I'd definitely say you have some trust issues. Are you looking to meet behind her back or as a couple? Does she know you're in here? Also find your current status perturbing. Does she know your offering to send guys her pics? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?
Only one way to find out when she comes home lay her down and have a sniff "
I do its wet |
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum"
Sounds like shes for the streets my man. Time to move on |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?
Only one way to find out when she comes home lay her down and have a sniff
I do its wet"
Most are wet after dancing it's a bit like the forehead |
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum
Seems like you've got some serious trust issues to be going out and spying on her mate. Regardless of what she does you'd likely find an issue"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?"
Why is the word black in this question ?
If a girlfriend dances with another man is it cheating ?
depends , if dance moves are including his dick rubbing her pussy from behind , her touching him n him her
I wouldn’t be very impressed .
Does she wants to shag him ?
Is she hiding it ? If she is hiding something then is cheating … whatever it is …
I used to be in dance floors with thousands of people
I would be fucked if I got jealous of my Julie dance with other man .
If is just raving or party is not cheating . Is raving . Is dancing .
Hiding something then is .
Would u feel like cheating on your bird cause u have another sexy bum n pair of hot tits in your face dancing with you ?
I never did . I just rave and drink . I get to the sex part with my girl later ,
If I don’t get to d*unk to fuck  
Fuck cheating . See no point at all .
I understand a trapped lady in a miserable marriage ….
Some men don’t give three attention at all .
I’m a
Samaritan and I have a lot to give .
Now … if a guy is decent n good to her n loves her , I feel sorry for him and I can’t do it .
Cause that shit hurts .
And I refuse to give to the next one what was given to me in 97
Could never do that .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your girlfriend goes out clubbing and dares to dance with a guy or guys..what kind of brazen hussy do you have for a girlfriend..?!?!
Dump her immediately..!!!
FFS  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does she knows you online flashing knickers bottom ?
Is it yours or hers ?
Each one the worse to knickers show in public ?
your profile says : bla bla couple ?
Dirty , right … dirty couple … bla bla 69
how u justify the word “ dirty “ if u cry more about others near your girlfriend then me . And I’m OCD as fuck when I gets to that .
And how do u justify the word “ couple “ ?
is this “ girlfriend “ even real or just imaginary ?
Rather confusing , nonsense , whatever it is
Remedy for head fucks and paranoia :
Communication.
Talk to her and sort it out . End off .
Whatever it is , can’t live like that .
Tell her I don’t feel
Comfortable with what u saw
She will cause if of stalking her .
If she uses that as excuse to grow distance n explore her freedom . Well
Maybe your best option is consider to move on .
Or she likes you and will help u to relax n feel better
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just found my partner has been messaging a old bouncer on snap...his name in her phone was rach and they have exchanged messages but I can see what I see 1 saying no filter hah hahaha when quizzed she didn't know why I was blocked and couldn't remeber the messages they sent ....help what do u think ? |
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?"
Wait... is this a real question?
What does the colour of skin have to do with it? Weird.
And why TF are you on a swinger site if you can't even cope with dancing? |
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"Just found my partner has been messaging a old bouncer on snap...his name in her phone was rach and they have exchanged messages but I can see what I see 1 saying no filter hah hahaha when quizzed she didn't know why I was blocked and couldn't remeber the messages they sent ....help what do u think ?"
I think:
1) Start your own thread
2) Start your own thread
3) Don't go through your partner's phone
4) Start your own thread |
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"I basically followed her to the club without her knowing and she was dancing with this guy and he was chattin her up also he was feeling her bum"
End the relationship.
Seriously. You two should not be together.
YOUR behaviour is extremely alarming.
What does she think of your fab profile, btw? |
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?
Only one way to find out when she comes home lay her down and have a sniff
I do its wet"
Oh...... Now I get it and it's easy: you posted this in the wrong section. It belongs in Stories and fantasies.
Btw, how does she feel about your profile? And photos?! And apparent BBC fetish? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She doesn't mind it but when u have a gut feeling like feeling something is wrong it usually is ...was just asking for help sorry"
if you're on fab and she knows she can dance with other people. 2 way street
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"She doesn't mind it but when u have a gut feeling like feeling something is wrong it usually is ...was just asking for help sorry"
I wasn't asking you. Was the repeated 'start your own thread' mot enough?! |
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So your on here as a single guy boasting about your oral skills looking to meet, but you follow your girlfriend to a bar to watch her dance which your uncomfortable with, just because your looking to cheat doesn't mean she is, don't put your guilt on her.
Dancing is dancing, had she snogged him then that's different.
Following your partner around is a huge red flag, if you don't trust her then speak about it or leave, that's not great behaviour.
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?
Only one way to find out when she comes home lay her down and have a sniff
I do its wet
Oh...... Now I get it and it's easy: you posted this in the wrong section. It belongs in Stories and fantasies.
Btw, how does she feel about your profile? And photos?! And apparent BBC fetish? "
Great minds |
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"It's not cheating if she did it with black guys but if it had been blue boys...oh boy
Them goddamn smurfs"
Hahaha this cracked me up, what about yellow banana man is he just as bad
OP your on here as a single bloke so I don't see you as being any better than your accusing your GF of. Time to have an open discussion with her |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The colour of the person she's dancing with doesn't matter but if she's going out and dancing with guys and flirting then she's not exactly loyal "
Thank you i agree |
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Seems a few issues here.
1. You are here as a single guy, looking for women? Does your gf know you are here? Does she have your permission for her pics being shown?
2. You have followed her and spied on her. How would you feel if she did this to you? Maybe checked your phone and found this account?
3. Skin colour. We are all just people, skin colour is irrelevant to this conversation.
I'd suggest a mature and open, honest conversation needs to be had to understand where your relationship goes next.
Wish you well OP.
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"Seems a few issues here.
1. You are here as a single guy, looking for women? Does your gf know you are here? Does she have your permission for her pics being shown?
2. You have followed her and spied on her. How would you feel if she did this to you? Maybe checked your phone and found this account?
3. Skin colour. We are all just people, skin colour is irrelevant to this conversation.
I'd suggest a mature and open, honest conversation needs to be had to understand where your relationship goes next.
Wish you well OP.
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I think youre looking too deeply into this
Hes just having a wank |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Seems a few issues here.
1. You are here as a single guy, looking for women? Does your gf know you are here? Does she have your permission for her pics being shown?
2. You have followed her and spied on her. How would you feel if she did this to you? Maybe checked your phone and found this account?
3. Skin colour. We are all just people, skin colour is irrelevant to this conversation.
I'd suggest a mature and open, honest conversation needs to be had to understand where your relationship goes next.
Wish you well OP.
I think youre looking too deeply into this
Hes just having a wank"
Judging by the arrow it's not deep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies??
The green arrow is so good on here! 
So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing "
So are all 3 of his pictures fake? We've never used reverse image search? |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies??
The green arrow is so good on here!
So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing
So are all 3 of his pictures fake? We've never used reverse image search? "
Profile picture deff is! The cock picture probably is his lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies??
The green arrow is so good on here!
So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing
So are all 3 of his pictures fake? We've never used reverse image search?
Profile picture deff is! The cock picture probably is his lol"
dont u have something better to do |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies??
The green arrow is so good on here!
So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing
So are all 3 of his pictures fake? We've never used reverse image search?
Profile picture deff is! The cock picture probably is his lol dont u have something better to do"
No too many fake profile on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this a follow on from your post in stories and fantasies??
The green arrow is so good on here!
So is reverse image search lol. Seems his post isn’t the only fake thing
So are all 3 of his pictures fake? We've never used reverse image search?
Profile picture deff is! The cock picture probably is his lol dont u have something better to do"
Ha ha ha, called you out has she? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?"
1. This is a joke! Right?
2. You are aware of the type of site you are on aren't you? ie you "don't like seeing her with anyone", yet here you are?
3. Does she know you are on here?
4. Just because a woman goes out a lot and dances having a good time doesn't mean she's cheating regardless of colour!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?"
Are they naked or dressed? Because this could influence my answer. |
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"yes, it is cheating if your gf did not communicate it with you from the beginning.  "
Dancing with other people is never cheating because dancing isn't a sexual act!
Doing something your partner doesn't like isn't automatically cheating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?
Are they naked or dressed? Because this could influence my answer. "
dressed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?"
I've decided this is a wind up, registered as a man, with a couples username, with what I'm assuming(could be wrong (highly unlikely)) female profile pic.....something isn't adding up! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Green arrow
Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists"
Jealous much |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your girlfriend goes out clubbing often and dances with black guys is that cheating?
I've decided this is a wind up, registered as a man, with a couples username, with what I'm assuming(could be wrong (highly unlikely)) female profile
pic.....something isn't adding up!"
You still replying |
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"Green arrow
Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists
Jealous much"
Not jealous at all..... just calling you out |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Green arrow
Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists
Jealous much"
What could they possibly be jealous of? An imaginary girlfriend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Green arrow
Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists
Jealous much
What could they possibly be jealous of? An imaginary girlfriend "
Once these fantasists have been caught out via the green arrow and reverse image highlighting stol3n pictures on the profile they really should be banned for the good of the site imo
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Green arrow
Yep, definitely Green Arrow..... I would say this also belongs in the fantasy section and question whether the "girlfriend" actually exists
Jealous much
What could they possibly be jealous of? An imaginary girlfriend
Once these fantasists have been caught out via the green arrow and reverse image highlighting stol3n pictures on the profile they really should be banned for the good of the site imo
KJ"
Been reported |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry, you’ve followed your gf TWICE? That’s stalking, and an invasion of her privacy. She can dance with who she wishes to. Can I ask why you’re on here if attention of others isn’t welcome? We all have boundaries and I’d suggest you communicate with your gf what yours are
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no, doing something your partner is not okay with IS cheating. Where is the communication? no communication and doing things behind your partner's back is cheating and is a red flag. Period. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes, it is cheating if your gf did not communicate it with you from the beginning.
Dancing with other people is never cheating because dancing isn't a sexual act!
Doing something your partner doesn't like isn't automatically cheating "
no, doing something your partner is not okay with IS cheating. Where is the communication? no communication and doing things behind your partner's back is cheating and is a red flag. Period. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you're partner is going out without you and dancing with other men making herself available putting herself in a position to be touched caressed and more and knowing what men are like it's definitely not innocent and any ladies saying it is might have to realign their morals or their ideas of what a good partner is   |
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