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By *iss Kink OP Woman over a year ago

North West

Would you ever go on an overnight social

Meet? So dinner, hotel etc but with no guarantee of fun unless the lady initiates it? Thoughts.

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By *eadjeyecMan over a year ago

Bucks/London

With the right woman I would as I enjoy “dating” and meeting new people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah sure it’s something different. I’d give it a try and see how the evening plays out

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Sure it's a great way to build up a connection find some common ground

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is there ever a guarantee anyway? In any meet? Social or not always the option that one or both just aren’t feeling it.

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By *aximum_funMan over a year ago

West Herts

I would, but after a bunch of chat to make sure there was a connection, otherwise it could be disappointing all round

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By *iredhandMan over a year ago

Manchester

As meets are never guaranteed to end up with any sexual activity taking place then why not? I expect it would depend on whether you got along though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ain't we awful? What's the question?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh yes, sure!

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Would you ever go on an overnight social

Meet? So dinner, hotel etc but with no guarantee of fun unless the lady initiates it? Thoughts. "

What like a slumber party?, yes long as there's cakes and other surgery snacks and we don't have to talk about boys all night.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, if I was reasonably confident we'd hit it off and enjoy the time together. Though I'd make sure she knew I was "available"...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would you ever go on an overnight social

Meet? So dinner, hotel etc but with no guarantee of fun unless the lady initiates it? Thoughts. "

No not for me…X

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By *iss Kink OP Woman over a year ago

North West

Ive had such a situation but the guy got gropy so I left ( I did make it clear before there would be no fun unless I wanted too)

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By *bsolutley FabMan over a year ago

Fareham

It’s not all about the nooky, connection and a sense of humour a must

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would, yes.

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By *nicornExplorersCouple over a year ago

north east

"Ive had such a situation but the guy got gropy so I left ( I did make it clear before there would be no fun unless I wanted too) "

From a male go female perspective, unless there's a vibe or body language given out (other than verbal) it's no touching or expecting, enjoying someone's company is just as rewarding.

Anyone who gets feely without consent dangers on a very tread lightly situation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely. Nap dates should be normalised as a thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep

My age need my sleep

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By *eeds fun guyMan over a year ago

yorkshire

Absolutely yes love the social and anticipation of no guaranteed fun, would definitely make me try harder x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would you ever go on an overnight social

Meet? So dinner, hotel etc but with no guarantee of fun unless the lady initiates it? Thoughts. "

I mean yeah course can't just expect to get laid all about both feeling it, and being safe plus when you have sex with somebody that doesn't really want it the sex is terrible

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

Yes. There's no guarantees of anything happening.

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan over a year ago

edinburgh

Yes of course , as long as both party’s agree on it and the ground rules were laid out ,,,, a social is a social unless both want more

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By *iss Kink OP Woman over a year ago

North West

"Absolutely. Nap dates should be normalised as a thing

Totally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As I babysit at nights whilst her parents work, no chance unfortunately. Would if I was free

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Would you ever go on an overnight social

Meet? So dinner, hotel etc but with no guarantee of fun unless the lady initiates it? Thoughts. "

A “date”? Yes!

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I know I'm not who this is aimed at but as a woman I wouldn't go on an overnight first social as I think it would lead to expectations of more happening. The only exception is if we both had separate rooms booked somewhere .I wouldn't go to someone's home.I did that once for what was meant to be just a chat and a coffee he expected more though.

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

Chesterfield

"he expected more though. "

This is a very good point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd do this for sure but definitely with some guys you'd need to be very clear on the expectations

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