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How far would you travel for a meet?
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia) |
I travel the country for work so in theory have no real issue with travelling long distance for meet but it all depends on the person in question, there would have to be a good connection beforehand. |
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I'm based in Dublin. I've travelled to Belfast, Chester and Lincoln. I do have family and friends in the UK so travel over fairly regularly anyway so try to arrange a meet, even if its a first meet for a coffee. |
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I don't have transport so unfortunately it's up to the guys if they want to come seem me 
As they have to, I always make it worth their time 
Furthest was about 120 miles, from Wales, I stayed in a hotel with him overnight & it was Incredible. |
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"So then. How far is too far? Would you stay overnight just to meet someone for fun. Or do you prefer local?
Me - undecided - depends on who it was  "
Furthest was about 50 miles by train but now I prefer local meets and, generally, won't meet a guy unless he picks me up in his car and returns me home.
Also I will not stay overnight.
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By *inkn12Man
over a year ago
Nottingham |
I live in Newcastle and have family in London, I also use to follow Arsenal up and down the country to all the away games so travelling isn’t that bad of an idea to me as it’s normal.
If it’s a first time meet I wouldn’t want to travel too far but I’ve been know to take last min 4 hour train rides to meet a fwb, spontaneity over long distance can definitely work! Different strokes I suppose  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, if it’s the right person, there’s no such thing as too far."
See folk say that?... But let's also be realistic? If you're prepared to pay the flight to rocket to the moon & back for a 'shag'?... You could possibly pick someone up in your local spoons for a tenner if they were obliging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We travel all round the country! Depends though, if we get on well and they’re far away we book a hotel and go there for the Saturday night. Dirty weekend away you might say  |
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My most recent meet was 2 hours drive. From our chats the odds were it was going to be worth the effort, and it was.
Also it pays to travel more in hope than expectation generally.
I also live literally in the middle of nowhere on a mountain, so the chances of anyone coming here for a first meet are slim to none.
You just have to make the effort. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"For me, if it’s the right person, there’s no such thing as too far.
Luton airport waiting, still waiting! 
Oh god, have you been there all night? You must be freezing, you poor thing."
Yep, looking hopefully towards any and all easy jet flights in from Glasgow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Furthest was 2.5 hours for my first Fab friend (in Norwich), before that I had a lover in Ipswich, so for three years I travelled 80 miles to see her (just an hour and three quarters). Now my favourite Fab friend is within 20-30 minutes drive. |
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I prefer to accommodate, but I'm not a hotel, meaning no overnights, at least not until we got to know each other a bit. Also, as I prefer somewhat regular fun to one-offs, I'm not interested in meeting people who need to travel for hours to mine. 1h or 40 miles is about as far as I'd allow. |
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"For me, if it’s the right person, there’s no such thing as too far."
"See folk say that?... But let's also be realistic? If you're prepared to pay the flight to rocket to the moon & back for a 'shag'?... You could possibly pick someone up in your local spoons for a tenner if they were obliging "
It’s not about money though, is it? And it’s not a ‘shag’, it’s a person (or people).
I’ve made good friends on here (probably because of forum chat, let’s be honest) and when we want to get together, I’ll make the effort. |
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