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'BBC' - why?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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One thing I fail to understand is the obsession some people have with 'BBC'.
If it's for you - why? I've heard dumbass vaguelt racist reasons like 'its the only way to get a big cock' to more interesting ones like 'my father would hate to know I was with a black man'.
It bothers me when its the size thing because I'm bigger than many black guys on here and you hardly find people asking for 'BWC' lol.
So what's your reason? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't be obsessed, Attitude and quality are what counts here xx"
Not obsessed, just curious!
And that's kinda bollocks. That's what counts to maintain a conversation, it's got sod all with attracting people in the first place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thing is you notice it more because they advertise for said bbc , i bet for every woman/couple that are looking for bbc there's twice as many looking for bwc as you put it  they just don't state their preference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One thing I fail to understand is the obsession some people have with 'BBC'.
If it's for you - why? I've heard dumbass vaguelt racist reasons like 'its the only way to get a big cock' to more interesting ones like 'my father would hate to know I was with a black man'.
It bothers me when its the size thing because I'm bigger than many black guys on here and you hardly find people asking for 'BWC' lol.
So what's your reason? "
Boring ...look back over previous posts - this has been done to death.
Many people on here specifically say 'no blacks' ...which is fine - it's none of anybody else's business why - just crack on and find someone who wants you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thing is you notice it more because they advertise for said bbc , i bet for every woman/couple that are looking for bbc there's twice as many looking for bwc as you put it they just don't state their preference "
That's a good point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thing is you notice it more because they advertise for said bbc , i bet for every woman/couple that are looking for bbc there's twice as many looking for bwc as you put it they just don't state their preference
That's a good point!"
...and there's probably even more that don't actually care  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"bit of taboo about it ,same as the daddy thing ,adds spice that your doing something you shouldent, as seen in most peoples eyes that is "
Much like the point I made about 'what would my dad think if he knew' lol.
Black dad fantasy anyone? Ha |
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"One thing I fail to understand is the obsession some people have with 'BBC'.
If it's for you - why? I've heard dumbass vaguelt racist reasons like 'its the only way to get a big cock' to more interesting ones like 'my father would hate to know I was with a black man'.
It bothers me when its the size thing because I'm bigger than many black guys on here and you hardly find people asking for 'BWC' lol.
So what's your reason? "
1. how do you know your bigger then many on here??
2 it's called personal preference so get over yourself
3. you will never understand everyones obessions so find what you like and have fun
happy swinging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its about the skin colour and the big dick black men hv for most girls whos does like the bbc hummmmm ,tell m one thing do u find a girl with bit more tan in her skin hotter than pale skin?"
I find you hot, that's for sure |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its about the skin colour and the big dick black men hv for most girls whos does like the bbc hummmmm ,tell m one thing do u find a girl with bit more tan in her skin hotter than pale skin?"
Honestly that doesn't bother me.
I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do u find a girl with bit more tan in her skin hotter than pale skin?"
Depends on the girl for me personally, quirks like youth/maturity and skin colour are really just bonuses atop the sexual chemistry I'm already looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i find ITV crap "
Actually I thought this was going to be a rant about the British Broadcasting Corporation , apparently not and have not really got a clue what it about other than it seems controversial , Doh ? |
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"i find ITV crap
Actually I thought this was going to be a rant about the British Broadcasting Corporation , apparently not and have not really got a clue what it about other than it seems controversial , Doh ?"
Channel 4 isn't much better |
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By *lbecCouple
over a year ago
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Just find black men are very repectful to my parner and just happens are very well endowed !
The bonus is most black men are not time wasters and alwaays turn up
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Not sure why that is but works for us
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"One thing I fail to understand is the obsession some people have with 'BBC'.
If it's for you - why? I've heard dumbass vaguelt racist reasons like 'its the only way to get a big cock' to more interesting ones like 'my father would hate to know I was with a black man'.
It bothers me when its the size thing because I'm bigger than many black guys on here and you hardly find people asking for 'BWC' lol.
So what's your reason? "
I must be thick...started reading and thought why has someone got the hump at the BBC? I know the programmes are crap but... |
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"its about the skin colour and the big dick black men hv for most girls whos does like the bbc hummmmm ,tell m one thing do u find a girl with bit more tan in her skin hotter than pale skin?
Honestly that doesn't bother me.
I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger. "
Well, guess what? There are Black guys that are bigger and in most cases, they are. But why should it bother you.
It doesn't bother me when people assume that a white guy is by default smarter than I am. It is the way of the world. People have stereotypes and fortunately or unfortunately, depending on how you see it, black guys are objectified.
Dont let it bother you. Just do you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its about the skin colour and the big dick black men hv for most girls whos does like the bbc hummmmm ,tell m one thing do u find a girl with bit more tan in her skin hotter than pale skin?
Honestly that doesn't bother me.
I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger. "
I think You're the one who's reading in that assumption ...where is it stated on the profile?
Ahh... You know what? Forget it lol
Relax a little and have fun  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its about the skin colour and the big dick black men hv for most girls whos does like the bbc hummmmm ,tell m one thing do u find a girl with bit more tan in her skin hotter than pale skin?
Honestly that doesn't bother me.
I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger.
I think You're the one who's reading in that assumption ...where is it stated on the profile?
Ahh... You know what? Forget it lol
Relax a little and have fun "
You seem more bothered about my ideas than I am! |
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"its about the skin colour and the big dick black men hv for most girls whos does like the bbc hummmmm ,tell m one thing do u find a girl with bit more tan in her skin hotter than pale skin?
Honestly that doesn't bother me.
I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger.
I think You're the one who's reading in that assumption ...where is it stated on the profile?
Ahh... You know what? Forget it lol
Relax a little and have fun
You seem more bothered about my ideas than I am!"
now boys, play nice.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its about the skin colour and the big dick black men hv for most girls whos does like the bbc hummmmm ,tell m one thing do u find a girl with bit more tan in her skin hotter than pale skin?
Honestly that doesn't bother me.
I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger.
I think You're the one who's reading in that assumption ...where is it stated on the profile?
Ahh... You know what? Forget it lol
Relax a little and have fun
You seem more bothered about my ideas than I am!"
Haha touché
Well let's both forget it then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger. "
That assumption will never go away and it is only an assumption,a myth,the same assumption that says all Blondes are dumb
Is it really anything to allow yourself to worry about in the grand scheme of things?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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",the same assumption that says all Blondes are dumb
Is it really anything to allow yourself to worry about in the grand scheme of things? "
Ha now I know this isn't true!!
And now I'm not too worried. As I said - just curious! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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",the same assumption that says all Blondes are dumb
Is it really anything to allow yourself to worry about in the grand scheme of things?
Ha now I know this isn't true!!
And now I'm not too worried. As I said - just curious!"
And I know that not all black men have big cocks,but it's never going to stop people thinking they have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just find black men are very repectful to my parner and just happens are very well endowed !
The bonus is most black men are not time wasters and alwaays turn up
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Not sure why that is but works for us
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My sentiments exactly   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I sense a little jealousy here, confirmed for me when you felt the need to state you are bigger than most black guys.
People will choose what they want here. There may not be a specific reason other than they fancy a bit of a change.
So if someone posts they want a BBC then don't get disgruntled because you're excluded from that.
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"OP I sense a little jealousy here, confirmed for me when you felt the need to state you are bigger than most black guys.
People will choose what they want here. There may not be a specific reason other than they fancy a bit of a change.
So if someone posts they want a BBC then don't get disgruntled because you're excluded from that.
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I always find it fascinating that the majority of topics about black men and the size of their cocks are started by white men.
For what it's worth I've seen several profiles that state that they are looking for VWE white males |
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By *ooo lushWoman
over a year ago
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well i only meet bbc ... my prefrence... have my reasons and dont care what anyone else thinks,i wont eva change what or who i wanna spend my time with,its called avin a choice and lets face it there is sumone to match most ppls choices on here
just for record its nothing to do with cock size either...im a senior nurse whome as ad lots of experience seeing big cocks,little ones,hairy ones,bald ones...they all do the same job !!! lol just prefrence |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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I tend to see these threads and think "another poster moaning about not getting a shag due to being excluded on the basis of some preference".
I could moan about people that don't want:
1) single guys
2) short as elves
3) not in uniform
4) black guys
Do I? I haven't got the energy to waste - much more fun meeting those that do want to meet xxx |
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There are just as many or even more women on here that state in bold letters NO BLACKs OR ASIAN then say oh but im not racist it my preference (LOL)
so its even stevens & try and find a oriental woman that wants BBC i bet you wont lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm neither jealous nor do I have an issue with it.
As I've repeatedly said... I'm just curious as to why. I also asked specifically is it just due to size (which was my point in saying I was bigger than many I'd seen and I'm not black in which case size is a dumb reason) or... Was there a more interesting reason??
But at least I just openly asked what I don't think is an outrageous question! You've no idea how many messages 'agreeing' wirh my curiousity I've got away from here since! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm neither jealous nor do I have an issue with it.
As I've repeatedly said... I'm just curious as to why. I also asked specifically is it just due to size (which was my point in saying I was bigger than many I'd seen and I'm not black in which case size is a dumb reason) or... Was there a more interesting reason??
But at least I just openly asked what I don't think is an outrageous question! You've no idea how many messages 'agreeing' wirh my curiousity I've got away from here since!"
Well I like black guys but not exclusively, to me its just a preference such as prefering brunettes to blondes.
p.s. The majority of guys Ive met that advertise themselves as "BBC" were decidedly average so its a good job Im not bothered about cock size (if you,re talking tongue length then thats different lol ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always find it fascinating that the majority of topics about black men and the size of their cocks are started by white men.
For what it's worth I've seen several profiles that state that they are looking for VWE white males"
Very true.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One thing I fail to understand is the obsession some people have with 'BBC'.
If it's for you - why? I've heard dumbass vaguelt racist reasons like 'its the only way to get a big cock' to more interesting ones like 'my father would hate to know I was with a black man'.
It bothers me when its the size thing because I'm bigger than many black guys on here and you hardly find people asking for 'BWC' lol.
So what's your reason? "
This is a topic that has gone on for years and I'm not exaggerating. It's the "what have those black fellas got that we white men haven't?" question
I feel it's pretty disrespectful that a person should choose another person from an opposite raced based on a racial rebound.
Secondly, black guys have bigger cocks than white men!!! This is pure fallacy as you have kindly taken the time to compare yourself against this bold statement!
There are some white men, that feel a little put out by certain Women's/Couples racial choices, why? Is this because of a little insecurity?Unless I really have to dig, I don't recall seeing a post "Why Do People Post NO BLACKS, NO ASIANS?" why isn't that questioned?!!! (rhetorical question, unless you feel the need to answer it)
I have no inclination to question this, so why is there a need to question people's choices when it comes to black men? Maybe you need to ask why you are curious!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Because I would like them to want to fuck me too.
I don't lose sleep over it but personally I think anyone that says they wouldn't want people to want them is lying.
You're right in what you say about the people specificying NO blacks or Asians but I don't ask because that is - generally - a preference of mine too and I think it's because I've never really known any black or Asian people in particular so I don't especially feel any connection with them so it doesn't interest me.
My question stemmed around whether people who DO specify 'BBC' had any particularly interesting reason other than the (as we've established UNTRUE) size reason. |
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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago
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"My question stemmed around whether people who DO specify 'BBC' had any particularly interesting reason other than the (as we've established UNTRUE) size reason. "
I guess its the first "B" in "BBC" that relates to the size they are after even tho the stereotypical black men are bigger is not always true. But as everyone has pointed out its NOT a racist thing so don't let it bother you, its preference, people come on here to fulfill fantasys and BBC is just one of those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So this is just a 'look at me and my big cock' thread.
Get a life!
Don't look at it then :p"
In our experience, no matter what colour a cock is, you usually find the owner of said big member is a bigger prick!
'nuff said. |
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"its about the skin colour and the big dick black men hv for most girls whos does like the bbc hummmmm ,tell m one thing do u find a girl with bit more tan in her skin hotter than pale skin?
I find you hot, that's for sure "
hahaha tks |
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Its all down to preference I suppose but I really am (though should not be) surprised that so many people still believe that black men have huge willies. When you look at the statistics, as told on a recent sex education program on the telly, black guys are on average no bigger or smaller than white ones! There are of course exceptions in both...
Personally I think if the lady (or chap) prefers a BBC over a BWC its their choice plain and simple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ask why white girls use fake tan hahaha to look more atractive sexy for sure haha its about bit colour thats make a person hotter + atitude of course lol "
Oh hush you'd be sexy if you were white as a sheet. Look at you! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because I would like them to want to fuck me too.
I don't lose sleep over it but personally I think anyone that says they wouldn't want people to want them is lying.
You're right in what you say about the people specificying NO blacks or Asians but I don't ask because that is - generally - a preference of mine too and I think it's because I've never really known any black or Asian people in particular so I don't especially feel any connection with them so it doesn't interest me.
My question stemmed around whether people who DO specify 'BBC' had any particularly interesting reason other than the (as we've established UNTRUE) size reason. "
Why would you want to be with someone who has a preference for BBC?! Make life easy for yourself and find people that prefer 'No Blacks or Asians'
I'm not bothered about your reasons it's a preference and that is that.
As to where your question stemmed from, just take it is.
Rather than questioning other people's preferences how about demonstrating what a confident man you are and trivial things needn't be questioned. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because I would like them to want to fuck me too.
I don't lose sleep over it but personally I think anyone that says they wouldn't want people to want them is lying.
You're right in what you say about the people specificying NO blacks or Asians but I don't ask because that is - generally - a preference of mine too and I think it's because I've never really known any black or Asian people in particular so I don't especially feel any connection with them so it doesn't interest me.
My question stemmed around whether people who DO specify 'BBC' had any particularly interesting reason other than the (as we've established UNTRUE) size reason.
Why would you want to be with someone who has a preference for BBC?! Make life easy for yourself and find people that prefer 'No Blacks or Asians'
I'm not bothered about your reasons it's a preference and that is that.
As to where your question stemmed from, just take it is.
Rather than questioning other people's preferences how about demonstrating what a confident man you are and trivial things needn't be questioned."
I've a curious mind. That's where this begins and ends. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I think most people here know I hate a stereotype more than most......
so people like to play them up.... some people shy away from them...
people can't decide to play them up... and then if they then don't like any backlash at that point complain....
the stereotypes do nothing for me, and to be honest by the amount of mail I always get when it is brought up, It probably turns off as many people as it does on.....
the irony being is that the people who do use them are likely to send as may people the other way they are trying to attract...
I am not, have never been, and will never be "a stereotype"... I am the best "me" I can be... that may be good enough for some, not for others
the one thing I won't ever do is compromise my integrity for a meet... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So this is just a 'look at me and my big cock' thread.
Get a life!
Don't look at it then :p
In our experience, no matter what colour a cock is, you usually find the owner of said big member is a bigger prick!
'nuff said."
I stand by what I said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it's not about size.
The end.
So it's about?... (Which was my exact question!) lol"
well they're alot less needy than white guys are, generally more accepting that some girls will, some girls won't, and some girls don't care! They don't continually post "why" questions on forums for example. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it's not about size.
The end.
So it's about?... (Which was my exact question!) lol
well they're alot less needy than white guys are, generally more accepting that some girls will, some girls won't, and some girls don't care! They don't continually post "why" questions on forums for example."
Lol right. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"it's not about size.
The end.
So it's about?... (Which was my exact question!) lol
well they're alot less needy than white guys are, generally more accepting that some girls will, some girls won't, and some girls don't care! They don't continually post "why" questions on forums for example."
Yep, black guys tend to be a lot of fun and less likely to message you asking why you're meeting other guys. The ones on here are very much entering into the spirit of the site.
I don't meet men for their skin colour or cock size. I meet them for their personalities. People who think that black men are just big cocks and nothing else and very much misguided. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it's not about size.
The end.
So it's about?... (Which was my exact question!) lol
well they're alot less needy than white guys are, generally more accepting that some girls will, some girls won't, and some girls don't care! They don't continually post "why" questions on forums for example.
Yep, black guys tend to be a lot of fun and less likely to message you asking why you're meeting other guys. The ones on here are very much entering into the spirit of the site.
I don't meet men for their skin colour or cock size. I meet them for their personalities. People who think that black men are just big cocks and nothing else and very much misguided."
You're misguided if you think black men have big cocks? But not if you think they're all not needy, easy going, respectful etc? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've said time and time again I'm just curious why some people are so set on it!
Genuinely seems to me that the 'pro BBC' (not to say I'm anti) people are far more generalist and assumptive than I or anyone else has been.
Seems a guy can't ask a question round here! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"You're misguided if you think black men have big cocks? But not if you think they're all not needy, easy going, respectful etc?"
You misquoted my post. I wrote:
"People who think that black men are just big cocks and nothing else and very much misguided."
As your original post asked, I have given you the reason why I meet black men. You can't then say that I am lying. How would you know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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is this yet another advert for young whingy white guys who want to stop themselves getting meets by ranting on forums like a 9 year old who has been left out of the football team at school, even though he can kick a ball "really far"! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"is this yet another advert for young whingy white guys who want to stop themselves getting meets by ranting on forums like a 9 year old who has been left out of the football team at school, even though he can kick a ball "really far"! "
LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think with me if I see a profile that I
Like and would love to play with that person or couple then it says no blacks I'm disappointed at first because my body is saying damn I would love to play with them what a shame. Then I just accept that people have their preferences and are to be respected and not for me to question unless they state their reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely black people want to be seen just as people? We don't say no to white, black or asian and just like them or dislike them for the people we are.
We find people saying blacks only or no blacks as pretty offensive.
Oh and as we can judge on this rather superficial level we can state that black men just as white men have small, medium and large cocks! |
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"is this yet another advert for young whingy white guys who want to stop themselves getting meets by ranting on forums like a 9 year old who has been left out of the football team at school, even though he can kick a ball "really far"!
LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed!"
The problem on here is that people read posts and messages as they want and tend to taint them with their own traits. Never mind if its a perfectly good question or a polite message. I think it would help if people took a default position of not reading between the lines and seeing something that only they can see! Treat everyone with respect until they have shown they don't deserve it and if that is the case... ignore them and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"is this yet another advert for young whingy white guys who want to stop themselves getting meets by ranting on forums like a 9 year old who has been left out of the football team at school, even though he can kick a ball "really far"!
LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed!
The problem on here is that people read posts and messages as they want and tend to taint them with their own traits. Never mind if its a perfectly good question or a polite message. I think it would help if people took a default position of not reading between the lines and seeing something that only they can see! Treat everyone with respect until they have shown they don't deserve it and if that is the case... ignore them and move on. "
Thanks! The reaction here has been pretty weird. |
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"good. you've had lots of answers, now go away."
Ahh come on, he was only asking for peoples opinions, people are too quick to jump on threads to start arguments and be publicly petty to other users, we all have our own opinions and he was just asking for them , not to be targeted or be called a child. |
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"I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger. "
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It was a stereotype created by porn and soft porn film producers (mainly white) in such films as Mandingo.
Incidentally, if someone's seeking a "Big Black Cock" then presumably size is their pre-eminent requirement, I don't think the same 'assumption' is made with black guys with small cocks |
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"good. you've had lots of answers, now go away.
Ahh come on, he was only asking for peoples opinions, people are too quick to jump on threads to start arguments and be publicly petty to other users, we all have our own opinions and he was just asking for them , not to be targeted or be called a child. "
Haha quite!...
And to the above yes I get it's the size thing in which case why no make a big deal about 'VWE'? Hmmm!
As I've said all along, genuinely just curious! |
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"Surely black people want to be seen just as people? We don't say no to white, black or asian and just like them or dislike them for the people we are.
We find people saying blacks only or no blacks as pretty offensive.
Oh and as we can judge on this rather superficial level we can state that black men just as white men have small, medium and large cocks!"
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed!"
actually... rather than trolling... which is what you are now doing....
reverse the question...
set up another thread... and ask why people put "white guys only".... or put "no blacks or asians"...
I am sure you would get exactly the same answer... but it is interesting to see how you have perceived preference...
you attacked the once that excluded you, as opposed to the ones that embraced you...
actually it is a classic case of complaining about the things you can't have....
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It's surely the person's choice. If that's how they like it then that is how they will have it.
It's no use making someone a marmite sandwich who doesn't like it and saying 'I'm going to ram it down your throat until you say you like it'. Or alternatively that the sky has fallen in because one person/couple/whatever you will doesn't want you, or has requirements that you cannot meet.
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"I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger.
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It was a stereotype created by porn and soft porn film producers (mainly white) in such films as Mandingo.
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Its probably to do with stats aswell. For example, only around 12% of Americas population are black - this means that when it comes to American porn, you're going to see far fewer black guys percentage wise than you will caucasians (yes I'm aware that there are many races and etnicities living in America also but the bulk of these are caucasian). Porn being the business it is, of course guys with big cocks are favoured, meaning that when you do see a black guy, he'll be a black guy with a big cock, which coupled with them being rarer than whites, leads to the assumption that black guys in general have big cocks. |
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"good. you've had lots of answers, now go away.
Ahh come on, he was only asking for peoples opinions, people are too quick to jump on threads to start arguments and be publicly petty to other users, we all have our own opinions and he was just asking for them , not to be targeted or be called a child.
Haha quite!...
And to the above yes I get it's the size thing in which case why no make a big deal about 'VWE'? Hmmm!
As I've said all along, genuinely just curious!"
didn't we agree that it wasn't the size thing? I'm happy with my seven inches but I'm not going to start a thread asking why women arnt asking for average white cock. |
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"And to the above yes I get it's the size thing in which case why no make a big deal about 'VWE'? Hmmm!"
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Apologises I dont think you fully understood my point..I was addressing your comment about the assumption that black men have big cocks.
I don't think that assumption necessarily exists with people who are seeking a 'big, black cock'. As misguided as I believe they are, they wouldn't meet any man, irrespective of what colour he was if he didn't have a 'big cock'.
In other words, their fetish is for black skinned males with big cocks..not an assumption that a black male will meet all of their requirements. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed!
actually... rather than trolling... which is what you are now doing....
reverse the question...
set up another thread... and ask why people put "white guys only".... or put "no blacks or asians"...
I am sure you would get exactly the same answer... but it is interesting to see how you have perceived preference...
you attacked the once that excluded you, as opposed to the ones that embraced you...
actually it is a classic case of complaining about the things you can't have....
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I'm trolling my own thread by commenting on a response?
And because... Oh I give up. |
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I have no blacks or Asians on my profile .. each to there own I don't have to explain why I don't want that... just like people like fat skinni tall small people, you don't have to explain yourself. if we were all the same and people liked the same things we would be a very boring world of clones!!.. variety is the spice of life ! |
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"I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger.
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It was a stereotype created by porn and soft porn film producers (mainly white) in such films as Mandingo.
Its probably to do with stats aswell. For example, only around 12% of Americas population are black - this means that when it comes to American porn, you're going to see far fewer black guys percentage wise than you will caucasians (yes I'm aware that there are many races and etnicities living in America also but the bulk of these are caucasian). Porn being the business it is, of course guys with big cocks are favoured, meaning that when you do see a black guy, he'll be a black guy with a big cock, which coupled with them being rarer than whites, leads to the assumption that black guys in general have big cocks."
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Hahaha, fantastic, I'd never thought to put that spin on it, but now you have it's extremely interesting and probably true...it's probably why we rarely see black women seeking this mythical 'big, black cock'...they already know black cocks are just like anyone else's! |
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over a year ago
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"I think I just don't like the assumption a black guy would be bigger.
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It was a stereotype created by porn and soft porn film producers (mainly white) in such films as Mandingo.
Its probably to do with stats aswell. For example, only around 12% of Americas population are black - this means that when it comes to American porn, you're going to see far fewer black guys percentage wise than you will caucasians (yes I'm aware that there are many races and etnicities living in America also but the bulk of these are caucasian). Porn being the business it is, of course guys with big cocks are favoured, meaning that when you do see a black guy, he'll be a black guy with a big cock, which coupled with them being rarer than whites, leads to the assumption that black guys in general have big cocks."
That was an interesting response. Thank you! |
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"I have no blacks or Asians on my profile .. each to there own I don't have to explain why I don't want that... just like people like fat skinni tall small people, you don't have to explain yourself. if we were all the same and people liked the same things we would be a very boring world of clones!!.. variety is the spice of life !
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..but you're not seeking 'variety'! "
oh I am in many different ways .. just because I don't find black or Asian people attractive to me doesn't mean that white men aren't different lol !!. Hugh Jackman... to Robert pattinson ... very different but both smoking hot ha |
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"good. you've had lots of answers, now go away.
Ahh come on, he was only asking for peoples opinions, people are too quick to jump on threads to start arguments and be publicly petty to other users, we all have our own opinions and he was just asking for them , not to be targeted or be called a child. "
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I have no blacks or Asians on my profile .. each to there own I don't have to explain why I don't want that... just like people like fat skinni tall small people, you don't have to explain yourself. if we were all the same and people liked the same things we would be a very boring world of clones!!.. variety is the spice of life !
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..but you're not seeking 'variety'!
oh I am in many different ways .. just because I don't find black or Asian people attractive to me doesn't mean that white men aren't different lol !!. Hugh Jackman... to Robert pattinson ... very different but both smoking hot ha "
maybe you should explain preference to the OP...... it would make for a disscussion...
i don't see him criticising your choice...... |
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"I have no blacks or Asians on my profile .. each to there own I don't have to explain why I don't want that... just like people like fat skinni tall small people, you don't have to explain yourself. if we were all the same and people liked the same things we would be a very boring world of clones!!.. variety is the spice of life !
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..but you're not seeking 'variety'!
oh I am in many different ways .. just because I don't find black or Asian people attractive to me doesn't mean that white men aren't different lol !!. Hugh Jackman... to Robert pattinson ... very different but both smoking hot ha
maybe you should explain preference to the OP...... it would make for a disscussion...
i don't see him criticising your choice...... "
Because as I've already explained I understand that choice. I don't need it explaining. |
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over a year ago
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"One thing I fail to understand is the obsession some people have with 'BBC'.
If it's for you - why? I've heard dumbass vaguelt racist reasons like 'its the only way to get a big cock' to more interesting ones like 'my father would hate to know I was with a black man'.
It bothers me when its the size thing because I'm bigger than many black guys on here and you hardly find people asking for 'BWC' lol.
So what's your reason? "
As long as its big im interested lol.
Hubby loves the thought of my pink pussy getting filled by a black cock. He has no interest in seeing an average size black guy fuck me. Only massively hung. |
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"I have no blacks or Asians on my profile .. each to there own I don't have to explain why I don't want that... just like people like fat skinni tall small people, you don't have to explain yourself. if we were all the same and people liked the same things we would be a very boring world of clones!!.. variety is the spice of life !
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..but you're not seeking 'variety'!
oh I am in many different ways .. just because I don't find black or Asian people attractive to me doesn't mean that white men aren't different lol !!. Hugh Jackman... to Robert pattinson ... very different but both smoking hot ha
maybe you should explain preference to the OP...... it would make for a disscussion...
i don't see him criticising your choice...... "
dunno maybe he fancied me lol 
and what is OP???  being thick ! |
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LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed!
actually... rather than trolling... which is what you are now doing....
reverse the question...
set up another thread... and ask why people put "white guys only".... or put "no blacks or asians"...
I am sure you would get exactly the same answer... but it is interesting to see how you have perceived preference...
you attacked the once that excluded you, as opposed to the ones that embraced you...
actually it is a classic case of complaining about the things you can't have....
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How on earth is the OP trolling? Its good question that has been twisted by a couple of posters for some unknown reason.
To me its as simple as personal taste nothing more. For example I only drink black coffee... does that make me milkist! I do not meant to trivialise the issue but lets keep it real and only read what is actually written and not what you think is written! |
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"I have no blacks or Asians on my profile .. each to there own I don't have to explain why I don't want that... just like people like fat skinni tall small people, you don't have to explain yourself. if we were all the same and people liked the same things we would be a very boring world of clones!!.. variety is the spice of life !
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..but you're not seeking 'variety'!
oh I am in many different ways .. just because I don't find black or Asian people attractive to me doesn't mean that white men aren't different lol !!. Hugh Jackman... to Robert pattinson ... very different but both smoking hot ha
maybe you should explain preference to the OP...... it would make for a disscussion...
i don't see him criticising your choice......
Because as I've already explained I understand that choice. I don't need it explaining. "
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Why can't you extend similar 'understanding' to the issue you raise in the OP? To me it seems like the same thing. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Because as I've already explained I understand that choice. I don't need it explaining. "
are you happy with that choice? or you going to criticise that one as well?... just curious???? |
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Because as I've already explained I understand that choice. I don't need it explaining.
are you happy with that choice? or you going to criticise that one as well?... just curious????"
I don't give a shit if you prefer bbc though... Obviously somtimes feel I'm missing out but it really doesn't matter. My question was because I wanted to understand.
Bloody hell! |
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LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed!
actually... rather than trolling... which is what you are now doing....
reverse the question...
set up another thread... and ask why people put "white guys only".... or put "no blacks or asians"...
I am sure you would get exactly the same answer... but it is interesting to see how you have perceived preference...
you attacked the once that excluded you, as opposed to the ones that embraced you...
actually it is a classic case of complaining about the things you can't have....
How on earth is the OP trolling? Its good question that has been twisted by a couple of posters for some unknown reason.
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It's not being twisted in the slightest as far as I can see, what is just as interesting is that when black men offer an opinion on this subject (which they're perfectly entitled to given the subject matter) some posters become extraordinarily defensive about it! |
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over a year ago
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Because as I've already explained I understand that choice. I don't need it explaining.
are you happy with that choice? or you going to criticise that one as well?... just curious????
I don't give a shit if you prefer bbc though... Obviously somtimes feel I'm missing out but it really doesn't matter. My question was because I wanted to understand.
Bloody hell!"
well what i am saying is that you will get the same answer from someone who says "no black or asian" or "white guys" only... than you will to this....
no blacks... no whites.. no fatties.. no skinnies... no short people ect ect ect....
or again.. do you only query the ones that exclude you? |
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over a year ago
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LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed!
actually... rather than trolling... which is what you are now doing....
reverse the question...
set up another thread... and ask why people put "white guys only".... or put "no blacks or asians"...
I am sure you would get exactly the same answer... but it is interesting to see how you have perceived preference...
you attacked the once that excluded you, as opposed to the ones that embraced you...
actually it is a classic case of complaining about the things you can't have....
How on earth is the OP trolling? Its good question that has been twisted by a couple of posters for some unknown reason.
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It's not being twisted in the slightest as far as I can see, what is just as interesting is that when black men offer an opinion on this subject (which they're perfectly entitled to given the subject matter) some posters become extraordinarily defensive about it! "
I'm not being deliberately provocative but it seems to me that black men and especially 'bbc' women/couples have been way more defensive!
I've asked a honest question and got the most bizarre response.
Gonna drop this one now. |
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Because as I've already explained I understand that choice. I don't need it explaining.
are you happy with that choice? or you going to criticise that one as well?... just curious????
I don't give a shit if you prefer bbc though... Obviously somtimes feel I'm missing out but it really doesn't matter. My question was because I wanted to understand.
Bloody hell!"
There's always EXS Black Fantasy Condoms
Learn the horizontal bogle as well and you're sorted
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I've asked a honest question and got the most bizarre response.
Gonna drop this one now. "
The main response was 'because we like it'. I am not sure why people always question other's preferences but thats usually the response you'll get. |
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LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed!
actually... rather than trolling... which is what you are now doing....
reverse the question...
set up another thread... and ask why people put "white guys only".... or put "no blacks or asians"...
I am sure you would get exactly the same answer... but it is interesting to see how you have perceived preference...
you attacked the once that excluded you, as opposed to the ones that embraced you...
actually it is a classic case of complaining about the things you can't have....
How on earth is the OP trolling? Its good question that has been twisted by a couple of posters for some unknown reason.
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It's not being twisted in the slightest as far as I can see, what is just as interesting is that when black men offer an opinion on this subject (which they're perfectly entitled to given the subject matter) some posters become extraordinarily defensive about it!
I'm not being deliberately provocative but it seems to me that black men and especially 'bbc' women/couples have been way more defensive!
I've asked a honest question and got the most bizarre response.
Gonna drop this one now. "
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But you already knew the answer, since you said you understood why someone would articulate the opposite preference...it's just that a preference and doesn't really stand up to much scrutiny, I'd find it equally as difficult to explain my liking for pie and peas over steak.
Personally I don't like the term BBC, but I'm not about to criticise someone for using it or having a preference of any kind provided it's legal |
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But it has been twisted!
I don't know the OP from Adam, never spoke to the guy or looked at his profile so feel no need to defend him. I am sure he is capable of that himself!
He has been accused of making the post to flaunt his 'big cock', twist number one. And now it appears as though he being accused of having race issues.
I don't see either of those in anything he has said.
Likewise I was told in an aggressive manner a day or two ago that I was a 'winger' and 'bitter' at struggling to get a meet on here. Anyone who knows me will laugh at that. Its just because the person who said that only read between the lines and not what I actually said. Just like some of the replies on here! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Personally I don't like the term BBC, but I'm not about to criticise someone for using it or having a preference of any kind provided it's legal "
and people who know me on here know I am no fan of the "BBC" term either...... and the things that have sprung up around it either....
but a preference is a preference is a preference and in this conversation, the OP never criticise any of those that worked is his favour.... |
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"But it has been twisted!
I don't know the OP from Adam, never spoke to the guy or looked at his profile so feel no need to defend him. I am sure he is capable of that himself!
He has been accused of making the post to flaunt his 'big cock', twist number one. And now it appears as though he being accused of having race issues.
I don't see either of those in anything he has said.
Likewise I was told in an aggressive manner a day or two ago that I was a 'winger' and 'bitter' at struggling to get a meet on here. Anyone who knows me will laugh at that. Its just because the person who said that only read between the lines and not what I actually said. Just like some of the replies on here! "
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Have you ever seen the robust replies to threads started by black guys moaning about white folks who don't want to meet them?
My response to them would be just the same...you can't place people's preferences under any kind of scrutiny because you're not likely to enjoy the responses. This subject has been done to death here and personally I believe the OP was flawed and lazy.
There are many discussions to have about race & sex that might not have received the tone of reply that this one has but this just seemed one dimensional to me.
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"I prefer ketchup to brown sauce
I prefer salad cream to mayonnaise
I prefer marmalade to jam
I prefer bitter to lager
I prefer football to rugby
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I prefer sausage to bacon butties !
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"I prefer ketchup to brown sauce
I prefer salad cream to mayonnaise
I prefer marmalade to jam
I prefer bitter to lager
I prefer football to rugby
I prefer sausage to bacon butties !
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Buttered or plain lol?? |
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"I prefer ketchup to brown sauce
I prefer salad cream to mayonnaise
I prefer marmalade to jam
I prefer bitter to lager
I prefer football to rugby
I prefer sausage to bacon butties !
Buttered or plain lol?? "
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LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed!
actually... rather than trolling... which is what you are now doing....
reverse the question...
set up another thread... and ask why people put "white guys only".... or put "no blacks or asians"...
I am sure you would get exactly the same answer... but it is interesting to see how you have perceived preference...
you attacked the once that excluded you, as opposed to the ones that embraced you...
actually it is a classic case of complaining about the things you can't have....
How on earth is the OP trolling? Its good question that has been twisted by a couple of posters for some unknown reason.
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It's not being twisted in the slightest as far as I can see, what is just as interesting is that when black men offer an opinion on this subject (which they're perfectly entitled to given the subject matter) some posters become extraordinarily defensive about it!
I'm not being deliberately provocative but it seems to me that black men and especially 'bbc' women/couples have been way more defensive!
I've asked a honest question and got the most bizarre response.
Gonna drop this one now. "
Do your research, though not your fault, you've asked a question that I can only say puts black men under the microscope and people who like black men being questioned for about their preference.
If you'd done some research, you'll find this has been asked numerous times and not just on this site. I understand your curiosity but also understand this, your question has been asked so many times before you and am sure if the tables were turned you may get a little annoyed too.
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"it's not about size.
The end.
So it's about?... (Which was my exact question!) lol
well they're alot less needy than white guys are, generally more accepting that some girls will, some girls won't, and some girls don't care! They don't continually post "why" questions on forums for example.
Yep, black guys tend to be a lot of fun and less likely to message you asking why you're meeting other guys. The ones on here are very much entering into the spirit of the site.
I don't meet men for their skin colour or cock size. I meet them for their personalities. People who think that black men are just big cocks and nothing else and very much misguided."
Couldn't have said it better..it's about attitude!
Stereotypes are destroying and they don't make anyone smarter but ignorant. Whoever started this stupid stereotype that Black men have bigger cocks is long dead and gone yet here we are!
Black men tend to take life as it comes and accepting. That's probably why people find us attractive. Maybe that's all there is to it.. |
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"is this yet another advert for young whingy white guys who want to stop themselves getting meets by ranting on forums like a 9 year old who has been left out of the football team at school, even though he can kick a ball "really far"!
LOL!
WTactualF?
I asked a genuine and honest question and this is the kind of response I get?
Actually pretty miffed!"
Seems to me like there is an actual underlying issue to all of this that will probably rear it's head sooner or later, I, for one, can't wait!
Going through the posts, there is a lot of insecurity there and maybe something far more sinister. But what else is new. |
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over a year ago
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"Most of the answers you need will probably be in the other 200 threads on BBC...
I think theres even one as far back as about. 2 weeks ago..."
My thoughts exactly. This topic has been beaten to death over and over again and the cynic in me is beginning to think it's a ploy to easily out couples and women who like black so those who are so inclined will have a targeted pool to market to
My _iew on this has always been that it is a racial preference is one people are free to have, whatever the colour is.
Although I came across a female profile the other day that said: "No, blacks, Asians, Irish, Scottish, Welsh & ginger haired guys!"
I still don't know what to make of the person behind that profile xx |
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HAHA this whole thing really made me laugh this website is a way for everybody to enjoy fetishes fantasys and what ever the hell they want when they want usually something they couldnt encounter in there everyday life. So be that a gangbang, a black white or alien fellow if they can arrange it safely and happily then what is the problem? I can possibly understand a small part of what he is saying as when it comes to some profiles i have seen that are interested in bbc they do have small indirects that make out as if it is only black men that are good at sex or have big cocks but as most people Know this is not true as it completly depends on the person no matter of race. I have a big cock and im white and if someone refuses a meet on that fact i dont really care we cant have sex with every single person we want to that is just unatainable as not everyone is compatable. If a female or couple is interested in only black men then count it as a loss and move on quistening there reasons just seems as in a way to make out as if it is wrong everyone has there own prefernces and intentions on this site so leave them too it. Its as if u want to find out why so u can then put a counter statement as to why u would be better stop worrying about them and just concentrate on the people that do actually want to meet you if u say ur well hung then u should be ok that is a big plus on here and if u still really cant get over it just paint ur cock black and go to a glory hole find out for urself lol |
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"Just find black men are very repectful to my parner and just happens are very well endowed !
The bonus is most black men are not time wasters and alwaays turn up
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Not sure why that is but works for us
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thats weird i have had probably the opposite experiance. Amy has a soft spot for black and asian guys and quite a few black guys we messaged that she was possibly gonna meet solo would hit out with things like "cant wait to see you work my black cock, you want this cock i want you to beg for a BLACK cock" and "cant wait to take pics of you sucking on a REAL mans cock"
etc etc. We have found that the single black guys we have spoke to have been very disrespectful towards me, and see this BBC thing as they are just that much better than us poor lowly whites and my partner or other white girls sayign they want BBC is because us poor white men arnt men enough to pleasure our mrs
i didnt have any feelings towards it good or bad before the site but almost ALL single black guys we have talked to have almost just automatically went to try and cuck me which is no the point in us meeting solo.
Its a shame really I see alot of black guys that act normal and respectful in these forums but any we try and message become dicks especially to / about me |
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"But it has been twisted!
I don't know the OP from Adam, never spoke to the guy or looked at his profile so feel no need to defend him. I am sure he is capable of that himself!
He has been accused of making the post to flaunt his 'big cock', twist number one. And now it appears as though he being accused of having race issues.
I don't see either of those in anything he has said.
Likewise I was told in an aggressive manner a day or two ago that I was a 'winger' and 'bitter' at struggling to get a meet on here. Anyone who knows me will laugh at that. Its just because the person who said that only read between the lines and not what I actually said. Just like some of the replies on here!
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Have you ever seen the robust replies to threads started by black guys moaning about white folks who don't want to meet them?
My response to them would be just the same...you can't place people's preferences under any kind of scrutiny because you're not likely to enjoy the responses. This subject has been done to death here and personally I believe the OP was flawed and lazy.
There are many discussions to have about race & sex that might not have received the tone of reply that this one has but this just seemed one dimensional to me.
Merry Xmas!"
there are also more white single males than black or asian males, couples and females put together on this site so unfortunatly most moaning threads are made by white males, but they do make up over 50% of the userbase so its not fair to point out how many black guys make these threads as there are so LITTLE black guys compared to white guys
and also more looking for BBC than NO BLACKS profiles
chances are your gonna get more white males moaning about it for this reason so dont make it out to be a white male thing its just the nature of this site an the numbers of white males on it |
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We have found this to be our experience; the black gentlemen (and gentlemen they always are) we have met at parties have always been able to perform, are very respectful and can always find ways to impress! Now, that's not to say that BWC isn't any good, just in comparison the meets we have had with BBC are always good..... |
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"OP I sense a little jealousy here, confirmed for me when you felt the need to state you are bigger than most black guys.
People will choose what they want here. There may not be a specific reason other than they fancy a bit of a change.
So if someone posts they want a BBC then don't get disgruntled because you're excluded from that.
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"Just find black men are very repectful to my parner and just happens are very well endowed !
The bonus is most black men are not time wasters and alwaays turn up
!!!!
Not sure why that is but works for us
thats weird i have had probably the opposite experiance. Amy has a soft spot for black and asian guys and quite a few black guys we messaged that she was possibly gonna meet solo would hit out with things like "cant wait to see you work my black cock, you want this cock i want you to beg for a BLACK cock" and "cant wait to take pics of you sucking on a REAL mans cock"
etc etc. We have found that the single black guys we have spoke to have been very disrespectful towards me, and see this BBC thing as they are just that much better than us poor lowly whites and my partner or other white girls sayign they want BBC is because us poor white men arnt men enough to pleasure our mrs
i didnt have any feelings towards it good or bad before the site but almost ALL single black guys we have talked to have almost just automatically went to try and cuck me which is no the point in us meeting solo.
Its a shame really I see alot of black guys that act normal and respectful in these forums but any we try and message become dicks especially to / about me"
This was the point i made on a thread a while back.The fact that so many black guys act up to this false sterotype thats been put upon them..
We should feel privaledged that they're shagging our wifes,because we're all wimpy useless little white men that can't manage the job. |
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over a year ago
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This was the point i made on a thread a while back.The fact that so many black guys act up to this false sterotype thats been put upon them..
We should feel privaledged that they're shagging our wifes,because we're all wimpy useless little white men that can't manage the job."
I don't think it is the majority that play up to it... I think it is a small but vocal minority that do, and as you know it is something the repels me...
a lot of people play it up because they think it is the quickest way to get a meet... so I don't think it is just the fault of the guys...
if couples stop put BBC and again reinforcing the stereotype on the profiles I bet you would find it would stop sharpish...... |
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This was the point i made on a thread a while back.The fact that so many black guys act up to this false sterotype thats been put upon them..
We should feel privaledged that they're shagging our wifes,because we're all wimpy useless little white men that can't manage the job.
I don't think it is the majority that play up to it... I think it is a small but vocal minority that do, and as you know it is something the repels me...
a lot of people play it up because they think it is the quickest way to get a meet... so I don't think it is just the fault of the guys...
if couples stop put BBC and again reinforcing the stereotype on the profiles I bet you would find it would stop sharpish...... "
I agree we know many nice black guys,but like you say its the minority.
I think the women can sometimes take the blame also in this. There are many women on here or generally in the scene that wouldn't get a second look from some of the fore mentioned guys normaly.Because on here they get the attention its flaterring and the guys use this to their advantage.. Why not who could blame them ? Many white guys on here would do the same if they were in their shoes.. |
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"But it has been twisted!
I don't know the OP from Adam, never spoke to the guy or looked at his profile so feel no need to defend him. I am sure he is capable of that himself!
He has been accused of making the post to flaunt his 'big cock', twist number one. And now it appears as though he being accused of having race issues.
I don't see either of those in anything he has said.
Likewise I was told in an aggressive manner a day or two ago that I was a 'winger' and 'bitter' at struggling to get a meet on here. Anyone who knows me will laugh at that. Its just because the person who said that only read between the lines and not what I actually said. Just like some of the replies on here!
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Have you ever seen the robust replies to threads started by black guys moaning about white folks who don't want to meet them?
My response to them would be just the same...you can't place people's preferences under any kind of scrutiny because you're not likely to enjoy the responses. This subject has been done to death here and personally I believe the OP was flawed and lazy.
There are many discussions to have about race & sex that might not have received the tone of reply that this one has but this just seemed one dimensional to me.
Merry Xmas!
there are also more white single males than black or asian males, couples and females put together on this site so unfortunatly most moaning threads are made by white males, but they do make up over 50% of the userbase so its not fair to point out how many black guys make these threads as there are so LITTLE black guys compared to white guys
and also more looking for BBC than NO BLACKS profiles
chances are your gonna get more white males moaning about it for this reason so dont make it out to be a white male thing its just the nature of this site an the numbers of white males on it"
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Forgive me, but where have I made out it's a 'white male thing'?
You've construed a meaning from my post that wasn't intended.
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"One thing I fail to understand is the obsession some people have with 'BBC'.
If it's for you - why? I've heard dumbass vaguelt racist reasons like 'its the only way to get a big cock' to more interesting ones like 'my father would hate to know I was with a black man'.
It bothers me when its the size thing because I'm bigger than many black guys on here and you hardly find people asking for 'BWC' lol.
So what's your reason? "
i just dont like big cocks, regardless of the colour of the owner |
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I guess this is why there is inter racial porn?
Also when they put BBC they mean a black cock that is on the large side for a black guy. Not the smaller black guys, so in other words the jumbo cocks that make u look small |
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