Yes! will always happen at some point, if you are with understanding playmates, you will all work it out. If they don't/won't then it's a good indication they are not the best playmates.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think it happens to everybody sometime or other. A great partner will understand and work through it with you.

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By *nked_coupleCouple over a year ago

Durham

It's happened a couple of times, and it's happened to every guy I've spoken to in the lifestyle at some point or other. Just got to try and not let it get to you, you can still have fun.

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By *irty_DeedsMan over a year ago

Teesside

Yup, it happens

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By *b72Man over a year ago

Nottingham

Whilst not initially of the person I'm giving it to doesn't do any thing back then it just gets board on its own no matter what I do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As Rachel said to Ross when they split up in Friends "Its not that common, it doesnt happen to everyone and it IS a big deal!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First time for me was early 40s with a new GF. We had been out a few times but I was taking things slowly. Went back to hers and were kissing and fondling and she went upstairs and came back down "undressed to kill". Went for it but Little Harry failed to turn up regardless of what we did. She was fine about it but I was gutted!

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By *melia DominaTV/TS over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Who's suffered from stage fright...

Yup - hogmany DJ gig in front of 2000 people. Followed the band. Proper butterflies moment.

Didn't last. Stonker of a gig.