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ive read your profile and think im a good match
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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so you get that message ''ive read your profile and think im a good match'' and you think wow ok then you read the message and think mmm ok this is good then you get to the bottom and theres a face pic and everything floods away ..
the face pic is bearded yet its so clear on my profile that ill not meet bearded men ??
so do you get these messages and what gets conveniently missed
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"Agreed also though on the opposite side of things.
Some profiles are so negative and have so many exclusions it leaves no one to fit their profile. Lol
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Only afew fit my requirements, I can live with that as only live once, so why waste it with someone you don't really want to be with just for the sake of sex? |
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You say the chances are high that you won't meet a man with facial hair. Not the chances are zero. This does imply to me at least that if all else matches there's a minimal chance you'll meet someone with a beard. |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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"You say the chances are high that you won't meet a man with facial hair. Not the chances are zero. This does imply to me at least that if all else matches there's a minimal chance you'll meet someone with a beard. "
thats not the whole line tho is it ?? it states right at the end i simply find it a turn off |
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I Find a blinkered approach ridiculous. Writing off too many categories.
it's impossible to know who you like until you actually meet though.
Beards can be shaved. Personality is surely mire important? |
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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago
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"i dont want a guy to shave off his beard just to get a meet ? sounds a little desperate"
Not at all, if you liked everything else about him and his face, but the beard was a deal breaker, it's not unreasonable to ask. I would shave. There are no perfect matches, life is full of compromise |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Agreed also though on the opposite side of things.
Some profiles are so negative and have so many exclusions it leaves no one to fit their profile. Lol
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thats why i put my donts down so those that cant be bothered dont get in touch and i dont have to keep explaining everything to everyone i answer its there in black n white if that dont appeal to 90% of the site then its done its job ...
bearing in mind most of my meets are from off site |
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"You say the chances are high that you won't meet a man with facial hair. Not the chances are zero. This does imply to me at least that if all else matches there's a minimal chance you'll meet someone with a beard.
thats not the whole line tho is it ?? it states right at the end i simply find it a turn off "
Yep but you know that if you leave a tiny gap someone will try to squeeze through it |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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"i dont want a guy to shave off his beard just to get a meet ? sounds a little desperate
Not at all, if you liked everything else about him and his face, but the beard was a deal breaker, it's not unreasonable to ask. I would shave. There are no perfect matches, life is full of compromise"
no way im asking a guy to shave its his life his beard im not going to insult him there are plenty of hot men without beards |
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We have two things on our profile that we don't do. We get a lot of messages from people who state that both those things are vital. We also get messages from people whose profile states that bi play between the women is very important.
People take a chance. |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
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"You say the chances are high that you won't meet a man with facial hair. Not the chances are zero. This does imply to me at least that if all else matches there's a minimal chance you'll meet someone with a beard.
thats not the whole line tho is it ?? it states right at the end i simply find it a turn off
Yep but you know that if you leave a tiny gap someone will try to squeeze through it"
yep thats true indeed corrected it now no more squeezin its now blunt and to the point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Things are rarely set in stone though .
Probably half our meets the couple show as wanting m (rather than mm)
We wouldn't have met them if we hadn't tested their real requirements |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a couple of things listed as must and must not. Doesn't make any difference, they don't read it, even if they do we still get a message from them. Frustrating.... |
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Not sure how much clearer our profile could be that we're not looking for private. Meets in our local area but every weekend without fail we will get one or two guys or a couple. Idiot.
Club meets only!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having had our couples profile on here for several years now and this one for a few months I’ve come to the conclusion it doesn’t matter what you put on your profile.
There will always be those that ignore everything and message.
I sometimes question if they’ve responded to the wrong profile because their message literally contradicts everything on mine  |
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"so you get that message ''ive read your profile and think im a good match'' and you think wow ok then you read the message and think mmm ok this is good then you get to the bottom and theres a face pic and everything floods away ..
the face pic is bearded yet its so clear on my profile that ill not meet bearded men ??
so do you get these messages and what gets conveniently missed
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Maybe they did not read the profile or could not read it.
I think we are a good match..  |
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"so you get that message ''ive read your profile and think im a good match'' and you think wow ok then you read the message and think mmm ok this is good then you get to the bottom and theres a face pic and everything floods away ..
the face pic is bearded yet its so clear on my profile that ill not meet bearded men ??
so do you get these messages and what gets conveniently missed
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Daily and it's confusing as we have a small list of criteria. Apparently extremely short men generally can't read either! |
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I had some "new potential acquaintances" message me in December telling me how I ticked their boxes etc
Naturally, I replied asked nicely to meet on neutral territory such as a club (Quest) as we were all around 5 miles from the venue.
Then I am told that they don't do clubs, followed by a block!
Ironically, the club I'd suggested is rather nice! |
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You could list the details 2 hundreds of things that you like or not but someone who, based on a very rough and ready analysis may seem a possible match, will still not do it.
I say it a lot -
Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people, despite potentially being almost there.
However well described who and what you're looking for is, someone else cannot know how well they fit the billm
And, with single men here being in proliferation, we still may find that the best, closest fit out of them, even with an abundance of compromises, doesn't actually fit the bill.
Some people are naturally optimistic. Others are just so attracted to someone that they blinker and kid themselves, that it must be a mutual match. They have limited or no evidence that this is the case.
We see daily the stream of somewhat deluded or misguided thinking that goes on for some people. It probably should be no surprise that so many have unrealistic expectations  |
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