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Has anyone ever met a swinging partner on fab and it turn into serious relationship
Lockdown made me realise i would prefer a long term relationship
The more i go on vanilla dating sites - I realise being able to swing is part of what makes me tick. Realise I would prefer a lady I could share with other men/women
Others found a partner thru swinging or fab? Or in the same boat as me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we have met through swinging. 18 month and going strong.
Neither of us thought we would get into a swinging relationship, but look at us now.
Wouldn't change it for the world  |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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the thing is you'll only hear from those who have be sussecful in finding love and not those who have had a disaster ..
i think if your a guy you have to open your eyes to the facts relationships are much harder than swinging as its a life partner and then add in to that how many women are on fab (not many) add in how many are looking for relationships and the percentages have just shrunk to a very small pool of women spread across the uk/ireland ..
now heres the kicker look how hard it is to find a playmate if your a man for swinging due to the fact men out number women by massive numbers then i think in truth you have your answer ..
its ok couples saying they met and are happy and it can happen but they really are the luicky few there are zillions of horror stories out there that you dont hear.
so yes it can happen but if your a man you already know how hard it is to swing so imagine what it would take to find love on here for a guy 100/200 men per woman take out all the women that are not interested and just want to swing ? then what 2000/3000 men per woman ?? maybe who knows ..
i do think fab could help with a dating section that can help others know that they are looking for love but apart from that id say socials and clubs are by far the best bet as that seems to be where most meet that do date |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it happens so stay positive and go to clubs and socials.
Have been in a relationship from fabs for well over 10 years and heard of plenty of others.
Good luck though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the thing is you'll only hear from those who have be sussecful in finding love and not those who have had a disaster ..
i think if your a guy you have to open your eyes to the facts relationships are much harder than swinging as its a life partner and then add in to that how many women are on fab (not many) add in how many are looking for relationships and the percentages have just shrunk to a very small pool of women spread across the uk/ireland ..
now heres the kicker look how hard it is to find a playmate if your a man for swinging due to the fact men out number women by massive numbers then i think in truth you have your answer ..
its ok couples saying they met and are happy and it can happen but they really are the luicky few there are zillions of horror stories out there that you dont hear.
so yes it can happen but if your a man you already know how hard it is to swing so imagine what it would take to find love on here for a guy 100/200 men per woman take out all the women that are not interested and just want to swing ? then what 2000/3000 men per woman ?? maybe who knows ..
i do think fab could help with a dating section that can help others know that they are looking for love but apart from that id say socials and clubs are by far the best bet as that seems to be where most meet that do date "
Agree its just complete luck. Me and the Mrs wasn't looking for a relationship, started off as FWB and went from there. |
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"the thing is you'll only hear from those who have be sussecful in finding love and not those who have had a disaster ..
i think if your a guy you have to open your eyes to the facts relationships are much harder than swinging as its a life partner and then add in to that how many women are on fab (not many) add in how many are looking for relationships and the percentages have just shrunk to a very small pool of women spread across the uk/ireland ..
now heres the kicker look how hard it is to find a playmate if your a man for swinging due to the fact men out number women by massive numbers then i think in truth you have your answer ..
its ok couples saying they met and are happy and it can happen but they really are the luicky few there are zillions of horror stories out there that you dont hear.
so yes it can happen but if your a man you already know how hard it is to swing so imagine what it would take to find love on here for a guy 100/200 men per woman take out all the women that are not interested and just want to swing ? then what 2000/3000 men per woman ?? maybe who knows ..
i do think fab could help with a dating section that can help others know that they are looking for love but apart from that id say socials and clubs are by far the best bet as that seems to be where most meet that do date "
Totally agree. On fab one often hears the positive stories not the much larger no of failures. What you say about fab and single men is true - its much much harder for single men and as you said, it will be even harder if you are looking for something more |
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I met my Ex on here. We had 2 single profiles when we met, then we were together 8 years with a couples profile, it was 1 hell of a ride.
Unfortunately we broke up early last year, not because of swinging but because of lockdown.
She has kept our couples profile and is obviously doing a lot better than I am on fab .
We have stayed good friends thankfully and go out every couple of months for a drink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think Fab should have a dating section  "
Great idea! But pretty sure most of the guys on fab would just include them self's in that section too, just hoping to increase their chances |
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"Has anyone ever met a swinging partner on fab and it turn into a serious relationship
Lockdown made me realize I would prefer a long-term relationship
The more I go on vanilla dating sites - I realize being able to swing is part of what makes me tick. Realize I would prefer a lady I could share with other men/women
Others found a partner thru swinging or fab. Or in the same boat as me"
You need to be proactive and go to socials actually meet individuals! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn’t have a normal relationship after discovering swinging. I want a partner, an other half, a team. But we play together and separately, in a trusting and secure relationship. I’m not sure it’s achievable but I’ll keep dreaming. In the mean time I’ll stick to awesome fab couples and learn the dynamics of a swinging relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met an ex on here and we were a couple for a few years. For all the good times, it was also toxic looking back. My choice is to focus on the positives because there were a few there and use the rest as a learning experience. Gone, forgiven but not forgotten x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think Fab should have a dating section
Great idea! But pretty sure most of the guys on fab would just include them self's in that section too, just hoping to increase their chances "
Exactly this  |
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"Has anyone ever met a swinging partner on fab and it turn into a serious relationship
Lockdown made me realize I would prefer a long-term relationship
The more I go on vanilla dating sites - I realize being able to swing is part of what makes me tick. Realize I would prefer a lady I could share with other men/women
Others found a partner thru swinging or fab. Or in the same boat as me
You need to be proactive and go to socials actually meet individuals!"
Thats a good point - will do that in 2023 |
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"Has anyone ever met a swinging partner on fab and it turn into a serious relationship
Lockdown made me realize I would prefer a long-term relationship
The more I go on vanilla dating sites - I realize being able to swing is part of what makes me tick. Realize I would prefer a lady I could share with other men/women
Others found a partner thru swinging or fab. Or in the same boat as me
You need to be proactive and go to socials actually meet individuals!
Thats a good point - will do that in 2023"
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"the thing is you'll only hear from those who have be sussecful in finding love and not those who have had a disaster ..
i think if your a guy you have to open your eyes to the facts relationships are much harder than swinging as its a life partner and then add in to that how many women are on fab (not many) add in how many are looking for relationships and the percentages have just shrunk to a very small pool of women spread across the uk/ireland ..
now heres the kicker look how hard it is to find a playmate if your a man for swinging due to the fact men out number women by massive numbers then i think in truth you have your answer ..
its ok couples saying they met and are happy and it can happen but they really are the luicky few there are zillions of horror stories out there that you dont hear.
so yes it can happen but if your a man you already know how hard it is to swing so imagine what it would take to find love on here for a guy 100/200 men per woman take out all the women that are not interested and just want to swing ? then what 2000/3000 men per woman ?? maybe who knows ..
i do think fab could help with a dating section that can help others know that they are looking for love but apart from that id say socials and clubs are by far the best bet as that seems to be where most meet that do date
Totally agree. On fab one often hears the positive stories not the much larger no of failures. What you say about fab and single men is true - its much much harder for single men and as you said, it will be even harder if you are looking for something more"
I'll beg to differ.
Life on here isn't harder for all single men at all. Plenty are living the dream and having a successful Fab life. They're just too busy doing so to spend time in the forums, although there are plenty of single guys in here too who have no problems getting meets and engaging with others.
Oh. And having met Fox a decade ago and been married seven years now there's no reason why Fab should be seen as different to any other means of finding a partner, be that vanilla dating sites, the pub, work or anywhere else, including the middle aisle at Aldi
If something is meant to be it will happen.
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I want a partner who enjoys swinging.
Better chance to meet someone on fab than vanilla dating sites.
Though I'm lucky to have been introduced to a woman who may be perfect for me, by a mutual friend.
Hoping to get her a gang bang on new year's eve. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"I think Fab should have a dating section
100% maybe we should set a section up on here where you can date aswell "
Their already is one it's called the messages that leads anywhere the site is already doing well as it is as it's whether folk connect well enough to want to form anything else |
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"I think Fab should have a dating section
100% maybe we should set a section up on here where you can date aswell
Their already is one it's called the messages that leads anywhere the site is already doing well as it is as it's whether folk connect well enough to want to form anything else "
Ah...don't know that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is no different to any form of meeting people site, there will be bad experiences & good ones. Considering everyone's dating history includes failed relationships until they find 1 that lasts, then yes fab reflects life - the majority will fail & rare ones will last. Doesn't mean its any worse of a place to try. At least the swinging/ sexual openness element is something you can have as a shared experience. I met my now husband here 7 years ago, & we started out as FWBs.
Just be open, honest (with yourself) & good luck to you!
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"Fab is no different to any form of meeting people site, there will be bad experiences & good ones. Considering everyone's dating history includes failed relationships until they find 1 that lasts, then yes fab reflects life - the majority will fail & rare ones will last. Doesn't mean its any worse of a place to try. At least the swinging/ sexual openness element is something you can have as a shared experience. I met my now husband here 7 years ago, & we started out as FWBs.
Just be open, honest (with yourself) & good luck to you!
Sin xo"
I’m on a few dating sites and I do actually find Fab better, at least on here you know the intention and if something more develops then it’s an added bonus. |
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"Fab is no different to any form of meeting people site, there will be bad experiences & good ones. Considering everyone's dating history includes failed relationships until they find 1 that lasts, then yes fab reflects life - the majority will fail & rare ones will last. Doesn't mean its any worse of a place to try. At least the swinging/ sexual openness element is something you can have as a shared experience. I met my now husband here 7 years ago, & we started out as FWBs.
Just be open, honest (with yourself) & good luck to you!
Sin xo
I’m on a few dating sites and I do actually find Fab better, at least on here you know the intention and if something more develops then it’s an added bonus. "
Think as single man - vanilla dating sites are better as many more women. So get many more dates - Tinder is clearly more sexualised and clearly more focused on ONS .. |
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"Fab is no different to any form of meeting people site, there will be bad experiences & good ones. Considering everyone's dating history includes failed relationships until they find 1 that lasts, then yes fab reflects life - the majority will fail & rare ones will last. Doesn't mean its any worse of a place to try. At least the swinging/ sexual openness element is something you can have as a shared experience. I met my now husband here 7 years ago, & we started out as FWBs.
Just be open, honest (with yourself) & good luck to you!
Sin xo
I’m on a few dating sites and I do actually find Fab better, at least on here you know the intention and if something more develops then it’s an added bonus.
Think as single man - vanilla dating sites are better as many more women. So get many more dates - Tinder is clearly more sexualised and clearly more focused on ONS .."
Thats not entirly true theres plenty of fake accounts on dating sites as much as there is on here.
As goes for a dating site well it already has them here.
Its the organised events/meets that the site organises.
Whilst you might not hit it off with a screen persona you might hit it off when you meet them face to face.
As goes for the dating sites with both men and the ladies you dont know there history.
Theres many men and ladies on here, That is also on there.
Whilst many might crib a persons history on here, On other sites you know nothing and yet could be the same.
The same can be said with one night stands you dont know there history.
you might get a peak at there sexual history on here but really it has nothing to do with you.
Whilst on other sites there history has nothing to do with you.
It really makes no difference until both worlds clash between vanila and the swinging/bdsm or other.
As the person wants to keep friends with them. |
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"the thing is you'll only hear from those who have be sussecful in finding love and not those who have had a disaster ..
i think if your a guy you have to open your eyes to the facts relationships are much harder than swinging as its a life partner and then add in to that how many women are on fab (not many) add in how many are looking for relationships and the percentages have just shrunk to a very small pool of women spread across the uk/ireland ..
now heres the kicker look how hard it is to find a playmate if your a man for swinging due to the fact men out number women by massive numbers then i think in truth you have your answer ..
its ok couples saying they met and are happy and it can happen but they really are the luicky few there are zillions of horror stories out there that you dont hear.
so yes it can happen but if your a man you already know how hard it is to swing so imagine what it would take to find love on here for a guy 100/200 men per woman take out all the women that are not interested and just want to swing ? then what 2000/3000 men per woman ?? maybe who knows ..
i do think fab could help with a dating section that can help others know that they are looking for love but apart from that id say socials and clubs are by far the best bet as that seems to be where most meet that do date "
In a nutshell. Little large but still just about in a nutshell. |
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"Has anyone ever met a swinging partner on fab and it turn into serious relationship
Lockdown made me realise i would prefer a long term relationship
The more i go on vanilla dating sites - I realise being able to swing is part of what makes me tick. Realise I would prefer a lady I could share with other men/women
Others found a partner thru swinging or fab? Or in the same boat as me"
You've got no chance mate give it up. Try out for prime minister, that's simple by comparison. The other candidates are all piss easy to beat. |
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We found each other on here…wasn’t looking of course.
It’s been a perfect place to find someone as meeting your equal sexually is hard to find. Finding this a soul mate is even tougher…but we’ve been lucky 
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"I think Fab should have a dating section
100% maybe we should set a section up on here where you can date aswell "
Agree 100pc. There is a good few of us looking for more than and I would join the forum |
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"I think Fab should have a dating section
100% maybe we should set a section up on here where you can date aswell
Agree 100pc. There is a good few of us looking for more than and I would join the forum "
We been asking for years...still nothing...just an virus section lol |
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"We found each other on here…wasn’t looking of course.
It’s been a perfect place to find someone as meeting your equal sexually is hard to find. Finding this a soul mate is even tougher…but we’ve been lucky
K"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have in the past off here sadly we finished due too distance issues, would love another swingpartner/lover lots chat laughs fun together and the romance and cuddles times xx |
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Yep, I've met several people I've had relationships with through the scene - remember, the scene is NOT Fabswingers. This is just one website/way of contacting and connecting with people, so this myth that Fab is somehow the 'gateway' to recreational sex, is simply not true.
I met my ex through here, and prior to that I met someone through SDC - current partner (also on Fab) we met through Feeld so there are many other options and it's also extremely common for people to meet via sex sites/apps. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"the thing is you'll only hear from those who have be sussecful in finding love and not those who have had a disaster ..
i think if your a guy you have to open your eyes to the facts relationships are much harder than swinging as its a life partner and then add in to that how many women are on fab (not many) add in how many are looking for relationships and the percentages have just shrunk to a very small pool of women spread across the uk/ireland ..
now heres the kicker look how hard it is to find a playmate if your a man for swinging due to the fact men out number women by massive numbers then i think in truth you have your answer ..
its ok couples saying they met and are happy and it can happen but they really are the luicky few there are zillions of horror stories out there that you dont hear.
so yes it can happen but if your a man you already know how hard it is to swing so imagine what it would take to find love on here for a guy 100/200 men per woman take out all the women that are not interested and just want to swing ? then what 2000/3000 men per woman ?? maybe who knows ..
i do think fab could help with a dating section that can help others know that they are looking for love but apart from that id say socials and clubs are by far the best bet as that seems to be where most meet that do date
Totally agree. On fab one often hears the positive stories not the much larger no of failures. What you say about fab and single men is true - its much much harder for single men and as you said, it will be even harder if you are looking for something more
I'll beg to differ.
Life on here isn't harder for all single men at all. Plenty are living the dream and having a successful Fab life. They're just too busy doing so to spend time in the forums, although there are plenty of single guys in here too who have no problems getting meets and engaging with others.
Oh. And having met Fox a decade ago and been married seven years now there's no reason why Fab should be seen as different to any other means of finding a partner, be that vanilla dating sites, the pub, work or anywhere else, including the middle aisle at Aldi
If something is meant to be it will happen.
A"
ok i totally agree there are men on here who make the swingoing scene work totally agree with that but i was talking about the majority ..
i also totally agree with your second point anyone can fall in love anywhere as that is life and i said that in what i wrote but for the majority of men on this scene who cant get meets / fun will have even less luck in finding a relationship via the scene ...i not being negative just realistic ...
let be honest if more singles with open minds towards sex were to meet and fall for each other then this lifestyle would be busting at the seems and more people would be happy but the facts still remains men seriously in big numbers out number women so the numbers are just not there for 10000s of relationships ...if you take all the couples off the list including all there singles accounts the the pool of true single women is even smaller and even then if you took all the married men / guys in relationships off of here say 60% there will still be a very very high number of men compared to a tiny amount of single women ...
also everyone who been on this scene and does socials and clubs also know that those lucky ones who make things work are very few compared to those that dont work ..and lets also bear in mind those solid couples who have been married for years who dip there toes into swinging only for swinging to rip them apart .... swinging is not alway a success story far from it for alot of people ...
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Yes. K and I met up at a social event in Manchester and we've been stuck to each other since  I'd suggest putting something about wanting a relationship somewhere in your profile so that others know you're open to it too. Maybe start or join in one of the dating threads too... is swinger speed dating a thing?
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Yep, it happens OP
a random hunk sent me a message one morning, we started bantering back and forth, arranged to meet... fast forward and we've now been together 4 years. he's my best friend, and still the best sex i've ever had 
neither of us were looking for anything, nor was it meant to be more that a one-night thing.
funny how things work out. Px |
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"Yep, it happens OP
a random hunk sent me a message one morning, we started bantering back and forth, arranged to meet... fast forward and we've now been together 4 years. he's my best friend, and still the best sex i've ever had
neither of us were looking for anything, nor was it meant to be more that a one-night thing.
funny how things work out. Px "
There is hope !
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"Has anyone ever met a swinging partner on fab and it turn into serious relationship
Lockdown made me realise i would prefer a long term relationship
The more i go on vanilla dating sites - I realise being able to swing is part of what makes me tick. Realise I would prefer a lady I could share with other men/women
Others found a partner thru swinging or fab? Or in the same boat as me"
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