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Spanking cane floggers etc
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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I mainly top and occaisionally dom.
From a top perspective I am into sensation and experiencing and experimenting with the bottom's reactions, and connecting to them in that way.
Different people process sensation differently, which is why I am not fond of the word "pain" and its negative connotations. Someone I tie likes my rope because she gets reduced to calling me a "f@cking asshole" but she loves the constriction and painful placement. The same with impact.
Not all people want light sensuous play. Even people who may initially have a hard limit against intense sensation may, if the intense sensation card is just left on the table may decide down the line to pick the card up. However, intense sensation is not for everyone and hard and soft limits and even unspoken limits are to be respected.
I would mention that as you know but others may not caning and flogging can be sensual and does not need to be corporal punishment. I have in my colletion silk floggers and very light canes.
Which is why prior discussion in an open and non directive way is essential, as is full consent. Also a sense of the person you are entering into play, and not imposing a stereotype or the top's wish fulfilment onto the person. The point of the scene is that both parties are satisfied with it physically, emotionally and psychologically whether sensual play, professional play or intense play.
Sorry for going on a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mistress absolutely loves spanking. We have a few riding crops her current favourite is a pink star one. I have also made a few from various items, like inner tubes, kitchen utensils, large rubber chew toys etc. We keep them in an 'artists tube'  |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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"Yes where can i buy a good one from?"
There are good retailers online that I would suggest.
However, I would recommend either going to the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar the third Sunday of the month or the slightly smaller London Alternative Market on the first Sunday, both can be Googled. You can see and touch before you buy and discuss with the retailers who make themselves or made by trusted craftsman and not churned out cheaply on an industrial level. Some will do custom models of floggers and paddles.
Both rvents have afterparties in the evening (non-sexual) where toys can be tried out if you bring a sub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spanking The cane floggers etc yes or no take or give
Me Yes to all and love to give and find /push there boundaries"
Adore caning (giving) never been much good at spanking, and flogging really doesn't do a great deal for me. Quirts and twases can be fun too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been into spankings since teens. I can take a very decent spanking and have had hand belt paddle bath brush flogger riding crop. Wont take the cane again. I'm switch and also really enjoy turing ass red |
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"Also I'll be giving all my bdsm stuff away at the end year .if I've not got an aprentist to take over the practist .
If you're looking to donate them? I'm also not far from you..."
If Im used them or found aprentist by all means you can have them . |
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