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Why are stockings, suspenders and hold ups such a turn on?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a soft spot (or should I say hard) for a woman in stockings tights or body stockings they look amazing it's the feel of nylon oooohhh
I can feel something happening better stop thinking about stockings |
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"I have a soft spot (or should I say hard) for a woman in stockings tights or body stockings they look amazing it's the feel of nylon oooohhh
I can feel something happening better stop thinking about stockings " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's something overly complex, wonderfully tactile, hints of sexuality and vintage chic, beautifully framing what nature has provided.
Nicely, poetically put "
I mean. For a visual example of why they’re so stunning, just check out _aughty50s profile pic! |
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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago
Yorkshire - but we travel a lot |
"There's something overly complex, wonderfully tactile, hints of sexuality and vintage chic, beautifully framing what nature has provided.
Nicely, poetically put
I mean. For a visual example of why they’re so stunning, just check out _aughty50s profile pic! "
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"There's something overly complex, wonderfully tactile, hints of sexuality and vintage chic, beautifully framing what nature has provided.
Nicely, poetically put
I mean. For a visual example of why they’re so stunning, just check out _aughty50s profile pic! " already have .. a few times lol |
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"There's something overly complex, wonderfully tactile, hints of sexuality and vintage chic, beautifully framing what nature has provided.
Nicely, poetically put "
Indeed. And maybe it's also the top of the stocking leading the eye in towards that which remains concealed. |
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"There's something overly complex, wonderfully tactile, hints of sexuality and vintage chic, beautifully framing what nature has provided.
I couldn't have put it any better"
Completely agree, couldn’t have phrased it any better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My generation compared to my husbands are totally different. My ex didn't care if I wore them or not. My husband grew up on sears catalogues that showed women in stockings and garters. I noticed it depends on the age. |
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"My generation compared to my husbands are totally different. My ex didn't care if I wore them or not. My husband grew up on sears catalogues that showed women in stockings and garters. I noticed it depends on the age. " I find them extremely sexy
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I think because all the action centres on the zone just near a woman's sexy parts. The upper thigh being highlighted in terms of contour, softness of her skin, softness of the sexy sheer material that accentuates the feminine shape of her legs, the suspender straps which embrace each butt cheek then highlights the waistline, then digs in to her ass as she bends over whoever invented them has highlighted women's sexiness and deserves an instant fucking knighthood! Maybe that's why I'm obsessed by them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's something overly complex, wonderfully tactile, hints of sexuality and vintage chic, beautifully framing what nature has provided."
I definitely couldn't have put it better, 100% this. |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
huddersfield/manchester |
"There's something overly complex, wonderfully tactile, hints of sexuality and vintage chic, beautifully framing what nature has provided.
I definitely couldn't have put it better, 100% this. "
Yep. Another good explanation! |
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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago
swansea |
It's sensory, the look and contrast between nylon and bare skin at the top, they offer a route map, the feel on lips and hands, soft and silky, wrapping a present to be carefully revealed, the aroma of nylon on skin.
It appeals to our base natures |
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"It's sensory, the look and contrast between nylon and bare skin at the top, they offer a route map, the feel on lips and hands, soft and silky, wrapping a present to be carefully revealed, the aroma of nylon on skin.
It appeals to our base natures"
Love this description and so true. Logan loves the feel of them on me and they make me feel unbelievably sexy!! |
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I mrs love to get dressed up in sexy lingerie for meets and fun times with hubby. My brand of choice recently is Honey Birdette. While expensive I never feel anything short of amazing wearing their stuff. |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"There's something overly complex, wonderfully tactile, hints of sexuality and vintage chic, beautifully framing what nature has provided."
Yet most women nowadays seem to be quite happy to remove their pubic hair, that's not what nature intended. And no it's not hygenic before any one pipes up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men are attracted to smooth and shiny things, it is a kind of Pavlovian response. Stockings, tights, gym leggings all are shiny and smooth. As are cars!
The sexual connotation comes from the the media and porn. That's is why a lot wowen will not wear stockings as they see them as sexual rather than just an item of clothing. |
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By *aviniaCDTV/TS
over a year ago
Leeds (close to GAP) |
DAILY! wearer of stockings or holdups and always worn with suspenders, either a belt, body, waspie, corset or basque etc and very regularly multistrap. The play value is enormous, trust me. Check out my gallery x x |
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"There's something overly complex, wonderfully tactile, hints of sexuality and vintage chic, beautifully framing what nature has provided."
this - although I would argue that its more than a hint of sexuality! (Mr) |
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It’s definitely the colouring for me
Tanned legs and white stockings make a lovely contrast
Black stockings and suede heels elongate the leg and get the stockings colour right is a wonder of the world
And I love the feel of them over a toned leg
Apart from that I don’t think about them much … |
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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago
moved to cuckold land |
Its the feel whether you running your hands over them across a shapely leg knowing that with stockings that if go higher eventually come to the touch of bare skin above the tops.
For anyone male or female not worn them they just feel sensational against the skin especially over freshly shaved smooth skin.
as someone else said it just makes you feel so much more sexy in stockings
My wife wore stockings in her younger years always but after kids turned to tights.
now she started going outjust wearing open crotch tights under skirt/dress & no knickers.
The thought she sat in a bar with her pussy bare and uncovered under her dress beside me keeps me so horny.
Thoughts of wondering if anyone else in bar may notice even more sexually intoxicating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something about then … having worked in an office, and Ahmad a sexy Lady who loved to tease … one day she came to office, whispered in my ear she had no panties on… I looked, she had, tight skirt above the knee just, black tights/ stockings, tight blouse, unbuttoned to show just enough to make it into img … but the thought of no panties above those stockings !!
Well… I just had to find out for sure … and she didn’t … best office fun I had! |
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They are such a turn on as they work the same way as wrapping paper works on a present. It gives what the marketeers call "the sizzle" and leads to a sense of anticipation.
We are as humans naturally driven to procreate and, being lucid, we have harnessed that desire for (often) purely pleasure only. Thus we are conditioned in our society to be triggered that lingerie "promises" sexual fulfilment, same as we wish to open our pressies eager to see what the actual gift is. A driving desire given the green light. Lingerie simply fulfils this purpose.
And does it VERY well.
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Why in particular on woman though? Its very simple: Because although everyone does it men especially are initially attracted visually. They instantly assess the "potential mate" of every woman they see. Its a natural, literally instant, process. Therefore if they see the added visual of her wearing lingerie than, as we are conditioned to think this, the "Yep! I wish to mate with this female" response is almost always triggered more strongly.
Hope that answers your actual question OP? |
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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago
Newferry, wirral |
"Stocking and supenders are great but can be a pain get in the way .open crotch tights give the same esthetic but give full access and don't get in the way ." how do stocking s get in the way, I think you are thinkng of tights
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It's different reasons for different people.
For some, it is the feel of the fabric. For others, the framing of the legs. The idea that the lady is embracing her sexuality and declaring it. The suggestiveness of it. For some they associate their memories of first becoming aware of lingerie at a time of their sexual development, which create powerful memories and thoughts.
For me, it's the anticipation, especially when it involves foreplay on a first meet - running a hand under a dress, up a stocking clad leg and the transition between the nylon and then warm bare flesh with anticipation of what will the next touch reveal - more lingerie, an exposed pussy, will it be smooth, will it be trimmed, etc? |
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Besides how fantastic it looks, the smoothness and sleekness you feel while getting close to your partner while they wear lingerie is exhilarating. Moving hands around their body with a multitude of textures. Like others, I'm a very visual person and having areas other than those most intimate places covered brings stronger desire to the bedroom
The additional modesty it provides too and the act of revealing more as you get more intimate is so exciting. The slight expression of restriction is very attractive, tight and taught. The right outfit can work as a great anchor point if things are getting a little rougher too |
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"Why are stockings, suspenders and hold ups such a turn on? Can anyone answer such a question???"
Yes they look good but a pain after a while perfer open crotch tight less hassle and stay in place look and dont get in the way |
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