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"best technique i know is a pair of jimmy choos" 
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"Hi guys/girls, whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm? whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??" Mate; if you've got to 27 and you have to ask.... | |||
"Hi guys/girls, whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm? whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!?? Mate; if you've got to 27 and you have to ask...." ASKING FOR YOUR VIEWS ON WHAT YOU GUYS THINK, NOT A SCHOOL LESSON.... | |||
"Hi guys/girls, whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm? whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!?? Mate; if you've got to 27 and you have to ask...." He's not asking how to make a woman orgasm, he's asking which is your fave way... which you enjoy the most I think  | |||
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"Hi guys/girls, whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm? whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??" I'd say - the same way that I bring a woman to orgasm - it just depends upon what species of female you've got in mind..... But the exact details are - my secret!!!! | |||
"Hi guys/girls, whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm? whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!?? I'd say - the same way that I bring a woman to orgasm - it just depends upon what species of female you've got in mind..... But the exact details are - my secret!!!! " LOL COME ON YOU CANT COMMENT ON HERE WITH A SECRET NOT TO TELL!! LOOL 
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"Hi guys/girls, whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm? whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!??" The best way to make this female orgasm is to ask me, to take time with me finding out what I like and build up slowly. Start out in the mornig with soft touches and gentle words build up slowly through the day and by evening time you might be getting there  | |||
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"Hi guys/girls, whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm? whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!?? Mate; if you've got to 27 and you have to ask.... ASKING FOR YOUR VIEWS ON WHAT YOU GUYS THINK, NOT A SCHOOL LESSON...." Haha relax | |||
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"many women are so self-conscious about taking too long that they end up faking orgasm or deciding to go without. The solution? Stop obsessing over orgasms—yours and hers. A recent brain-imaging study by Swedish researchers shows that relaxation is the single most important factor in bringing a woman to orgasm. So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not —the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Going somewhere? 2 The best sex starts long before the clothes come off. Talent—more than rugged good looks or a chiseled midsection—is a powerful aphrodisiac, according to research by my colleagues at The Kinsey Institute. (Less surprisingly, poor hygiene and a messy home are among women's biggest turnoffs.) So nail "Paradise City" during karaoke. Or make her die laughing at your self-deprecating display of atrocious dartsmanship. Yes, humor is a talent, too. 3 Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely to orgasm easily during oral sex, according to my research. And a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research suggests that women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexual experience and are less sexually assertive. Clearly, you have everything to gain with flattery. If you love the way she looks naked—and you do, right?—share the news. 4 During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You'll kickstart the bloodflow and lubrication down below, starting her slow buildup 5 One thing many women love during manual stimulation: a slow buildup. Here's how to do it: Lie next to her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. Cup the area around her clitoris with your palm to add indirect stimulation—most women are too sensitive to receive direct contact early on. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons—her pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone—and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand. 6 Play Ponce de León and explore various types of penetration to figure out what turns her on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina. This spongy region swells during arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with your fingers. A lot of women find it mind blowing. Not her thing? Just move on. 7 To maximize her pleasure, increase the amount of contact you'll have with her most sensitive parts. Here's one move that will drive her wild: Ask her to lie on her back, with her legs stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your arms around her shoulders, supporting yourself with your elbows and moving your chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the base of your penis in contact with her clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-down movement instead of in-and-out penetration. Another great trick: Move your pubic mound in a circle or up and down against her clitoris. You'll get a break from high-intensity stimulation, and she'll receive focused attention where it often matters most. 8 Ease into oral sex—don't just attack. First kiss her inner thighs and her inner and outer lips, then work your way inside using firm, broad strokes with your tongue. Watch her hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen to her gasps and moans as you experiment with different techniques. And watch for signs she's close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening in the color of her labia caused by increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscular contractions that immediately precede her orgasm. 9 Once you reach your point of no return, you'll climax even if you're interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your lady could hit the "off" switch if you stop or change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when you try new things, and it's important to vary your technique, but once you've found a winner, stick with it until she crosses the finish line. 10 Stalking the elusive tandem orgasm is an admirable goal, but many women—especially those with sensitive clitorises—respond better to a "ladies-first" strategy. If you rub the clitoris for a long time—during thrusting, for example—it can become too sore or desensitized to respond to manual or oral stimulation later. So satisfy her before intercourse. Bonus: A woman's orgasm threshold drops after her first one, so it's often easier to bring her to climax through penetration after she's already had one. How does that sound for an encore? " 'kin 'ell  how long does that take you? My missus would be snoring like a Manx Norton after 10mins | |||
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"Ohhh - Dr Chaos!!! You've just proved a suspicion that's been passing though my mind for a few years... I just KNEW that there must be some sort of "Haynes Manual" on how to please a women... So many guys seem to have read it and just go onto autopilot, convinced that if you "play with this", and then "twiddle that", followed by "lick that funny thingumabob" then a woman is automatically going to enter spontaneous orgasm.... Well, actually guys, we are all different, and we so wish that at least one or two of you would try to find out - or at least ask us.... Please..... " Why bother asking when they can Google it mid-thrust? | |||
"Ohhh - Dr Chaos!!! You've just proved a suspicion that's been passing though my mind for a few years... I just KNEW that there must be some sort of "Haynes Manual" on how to please a women... So many guys seem to have read it and just go onto autopilot, convinced that if you "play with this", and then "twiddle that", followed by "lick that funny thingumabob" then a woman is automatically going to enter spontaneous orgasm.... Well, actually guys, we are all different, and we so wish that at least one or two of you would try to find out - or at least ask us.... Please..... Why bother asking when they can Google it mid-thrust? " An ex of mine could cum just from me being behind her kissing her neck ...I knew the exact spot and it worked every time
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"many women are so self-conscious about taking too long that they end up faking orgasm or deciding to go without. The solution? Stop obsessing over orgasms—yours and hers. A recent brain-imaging study by Swedish researchers shows that relaxation is the single most important factor in bringing a woman to orgasm. So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not —the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Going somewhere? 2 The best sex starts long before the clothes come off. Talent—more than rugged good looks or a chiseled midsection—is a powerful aphrodisiac, according to research by my colleagues at The Kinsey Institute. (Less surprisingly, poor hygiene and a messy home are among women's biggest turnoffs.) So nail "Paradise City" during karaoke. Or make her die laughing at your self-deprecating display of atrocious dartsmanship. Yes, humor is a talent, too. 3 Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely to orgasm easily during oral sex, according to my research. And a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research suggests that women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexual experience and are less sexually assertive. Clearly, you have everything to gain with flattery. If you love the way she looks naked—and you do, right?—share the news. 4 During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You'll kickstart the bloodflow and lubrication down below, starting her slow buildup 5 One thing many women love during manual stimulation: a slow buildup. Here's how to do it: Lie next to her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. Cup the area around her clitoris with your palm to add indirect stimulation—most women are too sensitive to receive direct contact early on. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons—her pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone—and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand. 6 Play Ponce de León and explore various types of penetration to figure out what turns her on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina. This spongy region swells during arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with your fingers. A lot of women find it mind blowing. Not her thing? Just move on. 7 To maximize her pleasure, increase the amount of contact you'll have with her most sensitive parts. Here's one move that will drive her wild: Ask her to lie on her back, with her legs stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your arms around her shoulders, supporting yourself with your elbows and moving your chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the base of your penis in contact with her clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-down movement instead of in-and-out penetration. Another great trick: Move your pubic mound in a circle or up and down against her clitoris. You'll get a break from high-intensity stimulation, and she'll receive focused attention where it often matters most. 8 Ease into oral sex—don't just attack. First kiss her inner thighs and her inner and outer lips, then work your way inside using firm, broad strokes with your tongue. Watch her hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen to her gasps and moans as you experiment with different techniques. And watch for signs she's close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening in the color of her labia caused by increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscular contractions that immediately precede her orgasm. 9 Once you reach your point of no return, you'll climax even if you're interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your lady could hit the "off" switch if you stop or change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when you try new things, and it's important to vary your technique, but once you've found a winner, stick with it until she crosses the finish line. 10 Stalking the elusive tandem orgasm is an admirable goal, but many women—especially those with sensitive clitorises—respond better to a "ladies-first" strategy. If you rub the clitoris for a long time—during thrusting, for example—it can become too sore or desensitized to respond to manual or oral stimulation later. So satisfy her before intercourse. Bonus: A woman's orgasm threshold drops after her first one, so it's often easier to bring her to climax through penetration after she's already had one. How does that sound for an encore? " I can tell you been practicing.. Ohhh that anyone would take their time... sounds good to me | |||
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"Ohhh - Dr Chaos!!! You've just proved a suspicion that's been passing though my mind for a few years... I just KNEW that there must be some sort of "Haynes Manual" on how to please a women... So many guys seem to have read it and just go onto autopilot, convinced that if you "play with this", and then "twiddle that", followed by "lick that funny thingumabob" then a woman is automatically going to enter spontaneous orgasm.... Well, actually guys, we are all different, and we so wish that at least one or two of you would try to find out - or at least ask us.... Please..... " Communication is key. Research helps. | |||
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"A trip to Tiffany's in an Aston Martin to be shown the diamonds i can choose by a naked Daniel Craig ..... Yep I'm done
T xx "yup, totally agree on this one, excuse me while i wipe down the leather sofa 
although i would add a limitless credit card in my name to buy anything i wanted into that fantasy! | |||
"A trip to Tiffany's in an Aston Martin to be shown the diamonds i can choose by a naked Daniel Craig ..... Yep I'm done
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yup, totally agree on this one, excuse me while i wipe down the leather sofa
although i would add a limitless credit card in my name to buy anything i wanted into that fantasy!"oh God yep thats me gone again lol xx | |||
"Hi guys/girls, whats YOUR favorite ways and tecniques to make a female orgasm? whats your BEST ways to lick a females pussy and make her SCREAM!!?? Mate; if you've got to 27 and you have to ask.... ASKING FOR YOUR VIEWS ON WHAT YOU GUYS THINK, NOT A SCHOOL LESSON...." stop shouting for start | |||
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"so its money,handbags and shoes. "I haven't tried those yet. Maybe I am missing something. | |||
"so its money,handbags and shoes. "i wouldnt thank anybody for bags and shoes - guess im not typical female | |||
"many women are so self-conscious about taking too long that they end up faking orgasm or deciding to go without. The solution? Stop obsessing over orgasms—yours and hers. A recent brain-imaging study by Swedish researchers shows that relaxation is the single most important factor in bringing a woman to orgasm. So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not —the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Going somewhere? 2 The best sex starts long before the clothes come off. Talent—more than rugged good looks or a chiseled midsection—is a powerful aphrodisiac, according to research by my colleagues at The Kinsey Institute. (Less surprisingly, poor hygiene and a messy home are among women's biggest turnoffs.) So nail "Paradise City" during karaoke. Or make her die laughing at your self-deprecating display of atrocious dartsmanship. Yes, humor is a talent, too. 3 Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely to orgasm easily during oral sex, according to my research. And a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research suggests that women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexual experience and are less sexually assertive. Clearly, you have everything to gain with flattery. If you love the way she looks naked—and you do, right?—share the news. 4 During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You'll kickstart the bloodflow and lubrication down below, starting her slow buildup 5 One thing many women love during manual stimulation: a slow buildup. Here's how to do it: Lie next to her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. Cup the area around her clitoris with your palm to add indirect stimulation—most women are too sensitive to receive direct contact early on. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons—her pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone—and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand. 6 Play Ponce de León and explore various types of penetration to figure out what turns her on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina. This spongy region swells during arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with your fingers. A lot of women find it mind blowing. Not her thing? Just move on. 7 To maximize her pleasure, increase the amount of contact you'll have with her most sensitive parts. Here's one move that will drive her wild: Ask her to lie on her back, with her legs stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your arms around her shoulders, supporting yourself with your elbows and moving your chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the base of your penis in contact with her clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-down movement instead of in-and-out penetration. Another great trick: Move your pubic mound in a circle or up and down against her clitoris. You'll get a break from high-intensity stimulation, and she'll receive focused attention where it often matters most. 8 Ease into oral sex—don't just attack. First kiss her inner thighs and her inner and outer lips, then work your way inside using firm, broad strokes with your tongue. Watch her hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen to her gasps and moans as you experiment with different techniques. And watch for signs she's close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening in the color of her labia caused by increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscular contractions that immediately precede her orgasm. 9 Once you reach your point of no return, you'll climax even if you're interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your lady could hit the "off" switch if you stop or change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when you try new things, and it's important to vary your technique, but once you've found a winner, stick with it until she crosses the finish line. 10 Stalking the elusive tandem orgasm is an admirable goal, but many women—especially those with sensitive clitorises—respond better to a "ladies-first" strategy. If you rub the clitoris for a long time—during thrusting, for example—it can become too sore or desensitized to respond to manual or oral stimulation later. So satisfy her before intercourse. Bonus: A woman's orgasm threshold drops after her first one, so it's often easier to bring her to climax through penetration after she's already had one. How does that sound for an encore? " Top Tips Guys!!
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"Never really thought about techninques for making women orgasm to be honest - I've always found that if you have chemistry with someone, and simply enjoy the actual sex, then the orgasms for both of you will take care of themselves." If only it could be like that. I'm fairly responsive but sometimes someone you are turned on with just doesn't make it happen for you. | |||
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he takes his time, being gentle, sensual, focus's on all of my body and is just wow. Never had anyone like him for taking their time to please me before themselves. | |||
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