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"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??  "
Yeah, I know I'm not a lady but...
I find that guys either aren't interested in an outfit or just want generic black lacy underwear with stockings and suspenders, or...
They want the school uniform.
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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago
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"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??
Yeah, I know I'm not a lady but...
I find that guys either aren't interested in an outfit or just want generic black lacy underwear with stockings and suspenders, or...
They want the school uniform.
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I agree.
Over the years the majority only want stockings and suspenders.
Next choice is naked.
Even when we ask if they're sure they never change.
Only once did someone suggest some sexy dresses |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got a fab meet tonight and it's freezing cold so I'm going to wear crotchless body suit underneath my winter thermals and woolen jumper lol"
Brilliant |
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"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't?? "
Usually something classy and a bit teasing...  cheeky smile and red lipstick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have this thing where I ask the female to meet me for a social, dressed as if she wants me to fuck her. Most usually have high hem lines and low cut top, however there has been one or two more adventurous |
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I have to confess, much to many ladies disappointment, I don't wear the full latex on a social date!
As a guy I will put on a shirt, smart jeans and shoes. Depending on the style of meet, if it's a potential sub or lady/couple interested in exploring the world of submission I may set them a task of wearing a desired item of clothing at my request. This is never anything extreme, you don't want a lady walking in dressed like a h**ker when you are at the local Starbucks! 
For me, it begins the fun and the play, it's more for me than just the meet for play to have the mental stimulation and desire. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't??
Usually something classy and a bit teasing... cheeky smile and red lipstick. "
Love thid |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If I find out someone particularly likes something, I'm more likely to wear it. For one, it turns them on/they enjoy the sight. And I love that feeling of being desired, the way their eyes light up when you're wearing something they love.
Something I've never had that I'd love would be for someone to say Meli, I really want to see you wearing x, y or z. It would be hot to have someone tell me exactly what they'd like in that sort of way. And a big part of me would love to dress as they wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always look like I've dressed up. But I wear the fishnet stockings and suspenders even if it's just a work day with no plans afterwards. I like to feel sexy and they do it for me. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I rarely dress up for a meet. Leather trousers or black jeans usually.
I have found that men so often expect women to dress to impress, but don't make any attempt themselves."
I'm always smartly dressed for my meets. I never expect anything. If the lady has dressed up then it's a lovely bonus |
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"CFNM 
Not sure if dressing gown, stockings and suspenders count.
Haha brilliant "
TBF, I did my first proper meet in a black satin dressing gown, a basque, stockings and 4 inch heels.
He was... obviously impressed if you get my meaning... and gave me a good hard fucking.
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"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't?? "
It would be smart casual as it would be a social first |
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It depends on the kind of meet and the venue.
We tend to go for casual smart for a social and smart/sexy for clubs and sex meets.
I also expect those we meet to make an effort. Anyone who thinks joggers or work wear are acceptable will not get past first base with me.
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I will always wear classic lingerie, and always fully fashioned stockings and heels … how far I’m going to walk will determine how high!!
…..Will always wear an elegant dress … always with a back zip!
…. And always expensive perfume. Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't?? "
Always for a planned play meet. |
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Depends on the type of meet and location etc. For a 1st social meet, smart casual with a hint of sexy appropriate for a public location as 1st meet always public, usually short skirt, v neck blouse or top, heels, stockings unless it’s a heatwave!
For a 1st fun meet more sexy/risqué and we’ll know each other fairly well at this point so I’ll take into consideration their likes, which may be colour or style or “vibe” wise.
Subsequent meets depending on the person various lingerie, maybe fancy dress/role play. Rarely totally naked as I’m a little self conscious about certain areas.
“And always expensive perfume”
Well I’m not made of money! But yes nice scent is good too and makes me feel more confident.
“I have found that men so often expect women to dress to impress, but don't make any attempt themselves.”
Yes this happens rather too often. They’re all “I love your pics and that you like lingerie” etc and then they turn up in scruff order barely a comb through the hair! Guys you have FAR less effort to make in order to appear presentable, takes me a good 2-3 hours to look my very best and it’s not cheap either! So you need to make the effort too.
The people I meet more than once will be the ones that make the effort themselves and understand that’s the least they can do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes this happens rather too often. They’re all “I love your pics and that you like lingerie” etc and then they turn up in scruff order barely a comb through the hair! "
Yes! My last social, the guy was walking towards me and he genuinely looked like he’d just got out of bed. Scruffy. The rest of the night I was thinking to myself - why did I bother putting that intensive conditioner on my hair and varnish on my nails  |
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"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't?? "
Both of us always dress well for meets. Shower, change, smart sexy clean clothes. It’s amazing how some people forget the basics!
for Mrs SW: jeans, heels and a slightly see through blouse.
For Mr NH: smart shirt, belt, smart jeans.
Once we’ve met people once, we’ll know how to dress for future dates. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got a fab meet tonight and it's freezing cold so I'm going to wear crotchless body suit underneath my winter thermals and woolen jumper lol"
Hahaha love it, I always love the wonder of what might me underneath... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to look smart, polo shirt, jeans, no rips in them, I have found smelling nice is good too! In the summer I wore tailored shorts, she was impressed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"CFNM
Not sure if dressing gown, stockings and suspenders count.
Haha brilliant
TBF, I did my first proper meet in a black satin dressing gown, a basque, stockings and 4 inch heels.
He was... obviously impressed if you get my meaning... and gave me a good hard fucking.
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That's so hot.  |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
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"If I find out someone particularly likes something, I'm more likely to wear it. For one, it turns them on/they enjoy the sight. And I love that feeling of being desired, the way their eyes light up when you're wearing something they love.
Something I've never had that I'd love would be for someone to say Meli, I really want to see you wearing x, y or z. It would be hot to have someone tell me exactly what they'd like in that sort of way. And a big part of me would love to dress as they wanted."
I love that idea, that someone would find it a turn on to wear what I'd really want to see them in. I would equally find it a turn on wearing what they would like to see me in too! |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"So I'm interested to know if you lovely fab ladies like to dress up for your meets? I find there are some that love to and others that don't?? "
I would hope she'd dress up for me, certainly a dressed suit or a tailored jacket would do  |
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