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Reason we came on here
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Initially I joined to explore. Apart from my husband I’d only had sex with one other person before I joined Fab, he wanted me to be able to discover more of myself sexually. He enjoys the thought of me being fucked by other men, enjoys me telling him about my encounters and likes to reclaim me. I took things slowly initially, met one guy then a month or two later another. Stuck with that one for a year, with only one brief encounter in the middle when we weren’t meeting. Would have happily stayed meeting man number two, but covid and feelings  Anyhoo, since August this year I’ve added a couple more so have just reached double digits. I use fab at the moment mainly for the chat rooms and to post pictures. Of the past 5 men I’ve met only one has been from this site; the others I’ve met all from Townhouse. I stay on the site to explore, to carry on using the chat rooms as I love seeing and hearing men cum, and hopefully I’ll find some other people to meet in future. It’s been interesting to say the least. |
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By *ate_BMan
over a year ago
London |
Honestly…..I came here for hot, x-rated, NSA fun but after a while I found the forum as a great place to understand wider opinions of society. Nowadays I use dating apps to meet ladies as it’s easier being ‘open’ on those platforms than it is here. Oddly enough, I appreciate FAB for the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sad because things didn't work out with a girl. I'm not ready for a relationship but I have a high sex drive so I came on here.
It's working out really well so far. |
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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago
the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia) |
I had just taken up open water swimming back in the early 2000s and was told to search for Fab-SWIMMERS dot com. My fat fingered typing got a bit muddled up and obviously when I first logged on to this site I was positively outraged but I mean I had to have a good look around didn't I and here we are all these years later... Kicked the swimming into touch a long time ago yet still have the same account on here... Funny how things work out eh!  |
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"Honestly…..I came here for hot, x-rated, NSA fun but after a while I found the forum as a great place to understand wider opinions of society. Nowadays I use dating apps to meet ladies as it’s easier being ‘open’ on those platforms than it is here. Oddly enough, I appreciate FAB for the forums "
But your profile seems pretty closed on here. But you say very open on dating apps. Are the women you meet on dating apps ok about having casual sex with you? As for me and probably most women who use dating apps, are to find something more romantic than a quick fuck. |
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I use dating apps to meet people with common interests, to have fun with and potentially have something romantic and meaningful together.
Where I joined fab because I wanted to realise my fantasy and kinks knowing it just always be short lived |
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"Was simply to have a threesome, wether it was a mmf or mff. What was your reason and have you fulfilled it
Ps we have fulfilled everything "
I wanted to explore and enjoy sex, to explore and understand swinging. As an intro to swinging, here was a great help understanding swinging and more importantly with me trying to embrace a sexually liberated life as a signal guy, which was both positive and negative. I wouldn’t change it for anything though x |
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Mainly for the forums, information (clubs, parties etc) and keeping in contact.
Simular to be fair with the couples account. That's aimed at our joint adventures but generally it's more for the same reasons as above. We generally just meet new people at clubs and parties rather that on here. |
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"Was originally to find a voyeur but we have ended doing almost everything.
Sex is like a drug..you want more and more and want to try nre things
That doesn't sound like such a fun journey "
Have done mfm, ff, mmf, mmmmf, mmmf. |
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"Was originally to find a voyeur but we have ended doing almost everything.
Sex is like a drug..you want more and more and want to try nre things
That doesn't sound like such a fun journey
Have done mfm, ff, mmf, mmmmf, mmmf. "
I meant your analogy |
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"Was originally to find a voyeur but we have ended doing almost everything.
Sex is like a drug..you want more and more and want to try nre things
That doesn't sound like such a fun journey
Have done mfm, ff, mmf, mmmmf, mmmf.
I meant your analogy "
Oh..ok sorry.
Sex is so addictive, sometimes you cant get enough.
We have had meets a few times with different men over a week. A new guy every day. |
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When we met we had these free ranging chats about sex and fantasies. My wife knew I had dabbled in swinging and she wanted to experience being fucked by 2 guys.
We both knew from our chats that if we took that first step and had a mmf threesome it was going to lead on to some pretty extreme stuff.
It did  |
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By *isFabMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I joined partly out of curiosity, I've always had a high sex drive and wanted to explore my sexuality/experiences more
I've been on here on and off for a good number of years and have satisfied most of my desires, the site has changed over this time and I find it more difficult to find like-minded fabsters to explore and enjoy more now, that's just the way it is, mostly now use the site to explore others profiles and enjoy the forums, not so hung up about meeting, if that happens it happens .... |
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I joined because I experienced the lifestyle for a while in my 20’s and enjoyed the social aspects as well as the sexual experiences.
Mostly I was looking to try new things with regards to sex and have tried most of what I wanted to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was Mrs O whom triggered our journey. She mentioned one night that ‘ it’s odd to think that, itll be only you I’ll ever fuck, until I die’ and also the only person to ever make her orgasm.
The we found Fab that evening and haven’t looked back, it’s brought us even more closer together and made our already ace sex life even better. We’ve both got into shape and now posses a wardrobe to be proud of. It’s only done positive things for us 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby opened up to me about some of his fantasies, one of which was to be fucked by another man so we joined for him to be able to experience it and haven't looked back. Been on and off from time to time but it has helped to us discover what we like  (hotwife and a little bit of cuck) x |
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We met 20 years ago. A few years later we tried a party and enjoyed it. We then had kids. We have discussed what we both want and decided we would join a few sites to see if we could push our boundaries as a couple. We gave still not met anyone yet but are prepared to wait and get it right
Lets see what Christmas brings us? |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Was simply to have a threesome, wether it was a mmf or mff. What was your reason and have you fulfilled it
Ps we have fulfilled everything "
Ok so you can go now?  or are you staying because you have another fantasy to fulfill? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came on because I was single and just thought that I'd try my luck and see what happened.
Turned out that my first meet would be an MFM, and I've been chasing that high since |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I was just being nosey to begin with didn't know what to expect slowly fulfilling my bucket list, made some fantastic friends.as well as chats its been an eye opener for something that I may have always wished for |
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By *ate_BMan
over a year ago
London |
"Honestly…..I came here for hot, x-rated, NSA fun but after a while I found the forum as a great place to understand wider opinions of society. Nowadays I use dating apps to meet ladies as it’s easier being ‘open’ on those platforms than it is here. Oddly enough, I appreciate FAB for the forums
But your profile seems pretty closed on here. But you say very open on dating apps. Are the women you meet on dating apps ok about having casual sex with you? As for me and probably most women who use dating apps, are to find something more romantic than a quick fuck."
Regarding the app, I’ve selected a ‘casual’ setting explaining the reason I’d prefer that and there’s much more to my profile there, which details interests, preferences, hobbies, the lot! Women I’ve met through that app have similar interests to me so it works out. If I applied the same effort here maybe I would’ve formed a connection (fwb) but c’est la vie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined to continue enjoying my favourite scenario which is mmf. I was on some other sites but not impressed. Now I've found my perfect couple, and sampled a few more. Definitely enjoying life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just came on here to have a browse really, find it better than any porn sites looking at the public photos. Also found this is a good community on the forums |
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