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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Have any couples ever met with a girl/guy/couple that only one of them fancied? Asking for a friend..."
Met? As in proactively arranged to meet because either or both of us fancied half a couple? God no.
Seen? Pretty much every time we've gone clubbing.
But no. We wouldn't. We mainly meet single guys anyway but when we have played with couples it's always a case ofneveryone being attracted. Which is statistically much harder given you have four people involved.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Nope ,if one of us isn't attracted to the opposite person,we wouldn't even meet socially .Hence why my partner and I rarely meet these days.
It would feel pretty crappy to find someone's taken one for the team with me to get to my partner or vice versa. |
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We've talked about this a lot. No, we don't...
ultimately consent = enthusiasm in our book. So if one of us isn't enthusiastic then its off the cards.
Having said that, we look for a 4way connection ideally and its never as black and white as that. Naturally there will be some sparks that are just supercharged, but as long as the other person is also really into it too the attraction doesn't have to be 100% equal.
We have also had socials before because one of us has an attraction and the other doesn't, unsure where it's going to lead. Sometimes the less interested person doesn't click with the new person/couple. Other times they get to know them and then can't wait to get into bed.
Good communication (all round - including with the other person/people) is obviously vital as it always is 
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"Nope ,if one of us isn't attracted to the opposite person,we wouldn't even meet socially .Hence why my partner and I rarely meet these days.
It would feel pretty crappy to find someone's taken one for the team with me to get to my partner or vice versa."
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Not pre arranged but I've messed around with guys I had no Interest in because my mate really fancied someone they were with.
It's harmless fun & one of my friends is still together & having their first child with a guy we met like that  |
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Met as a social yes because I don't know sometimes until we meet, met and had sex with no.
I'd never take one for the team, I'd feel absolutely awful if I thought someone had taken one for the team by sleeping with me.
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We’ve been for socials and met people that we were attracted to one and not the other.
But we’ve never taken it further and taken one for the team - even if the woman was the hottest woman on FAB, I wouldn’t enjoy the experience if C wasn’t enjoying it too.
All in or nothing 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’ve been for socials and met people that we were attracted to one and not the other.
But we’ve never taken it further and taken one for the team - even if the woman was the hottest woman on FAB, I wouldn’t enjoy the experience if C wasn’t enjoying it too.
All in or nothing
K"
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By *andJDubaiCouple
over a year ago
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We have, but it’s a bit of a fantasies, J playing with a guy she is not fussed by so M can play with a fem he is very into.
It addresses a kink for Sub and Dom play and to some extent Cuckqueen play. |
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I get it all the time when MM profiles message me. There's always really handsome well hung guy who with, sorry to say, pretty average looking guy in comparison, as his tag team mate. Sorry I just duno if I could do MMF if that's the set up  |
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"It's a common thing clubbing. Being honest, if we click with a couple in a club, the other guy hits a jackpot called jess, and the other woman gets an old bloke as a booby prize haha "
This is so us pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have any couples ever met with a girl/guy/couple that only one of them fancied? Asking for a friend..."
Nope. A no from either of us us a no for both of us. It's one of our ground rules
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