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Do no verifications turn you off?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd be a touch more cautious but I wouldn't write someone off for not having veris."
I thought so but interestingly it wouldn't put you off. I suppose only a meet is a guarantee? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be a touch more cautious but I wouldn't write someone off for not having veris.
I thought so but interestingly it wouldn't put you off. I suppose only a meet is a guarantee?"
A guarantee of what?
I’ve met non verified people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Considering the amount of ppl that join and within minutes have veris , I don't pay any attention to it.
Let me chat. Then I'll see what goes from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also don't ask for veris after meet, thanks for a great night can you verify me pls lol
Also don't show as who I meet is my business not the rest of fab, imo
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met a couple of men without verifications, it's doesn't put me off as such. We all have to start somewhere. "
I met women and couples who did this thing first time. They all are lovely people.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't put me off, it's the chatting, finding out what they like, do I think this has potential, etc that works for me when deciding if we should meet x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't put me off, it's the chatting, finding out what they like, do I think this has potential, etc that works for me when deciding if we should meet x"
Cool thanks.. more for not too worried about them. It's just me then lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No it wouldn't put me off x sometimes seeing too many verifications put me off x i mean by that lots and lots x does that sound weird x  "
No definitely not.. I get that x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No it wouldn’t put us off. If they refuse to share face pics before an arranged meet then it’s a no from us  "
Something wrong in that case.. I wouldn't meet them tbh x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chat, see what happens and then arrange a social if they sound promising. I've met guys with great veris and they've still been a let down in some way."
Proof of nothing then? There is someone for everyone, I wait to find her x |
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
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"Would someone messaging you with no verifications put you off or would you chat and see what happens?"
Not put me off though May be bit more cautious. I got my first verifications through cam and would advise others to do the same if possible. Of course it only shows you are real but does not guarantee you will turn up at a planned meet |
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Of course not, we all have to start somewhere. I don’t have any Veri’s since I closed down my account then rejoined.
I’ve had a couple of very enjoyable meets since then. We had sex, didn’t discuss Veri’s. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on how long they've been here. If they've been here over a year and no verifications then I would be very dubious. I would perhaps chat but with caution. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on how long they've been here. If they've been here over a year and no verifications then I would be very dubious. I would perhaps chat but with caution."
I hope it's not that long or I'd be more than dubious..
It's more finding the right people than anything else, if there are any clubs near me I would love to go so people can really see you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the profile is photo verified and its fairly new then I would give them a chance but over a year without a meet and only cam veris would definitely make me wonder! |
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"Depends on how long they've been here. If they've been here over a year and no verifications then I would be very dubious. I would perhaps chat but with caution."
I’ve been back on this site for 10 months, one (non-fab) gf for 5 months of that, 2 meets since - no Veri’s. Verifications mean nothing. |
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I’d chat and see what happens.
Because personally, when I had no verifications I was threatened with physical violence by an idiot on here who seemed to think ‘no Veris’ meant I’m a timewaster who he’d ‘hunt down and beat the shit out of’.
Turned out he was a keyboard warrior, but I very nearly had the police involved. Reported and banned (apparently), but I (carefully) tend to give new users the benefit of the doubt still, because I was misjudged myself.
I’m not looking for men, so I’ve no idea why he had a problem in the first place. |
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"If the profile is photo verified and its fairly new then I would give them a chance but over a year without a meet and only cam veris would definitely make me wonder! "
You can't get a meet verification without getting a meet.
A lot on here won't meet people without a meet verification.
It's a catch 22 situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The idea of veris is nice, but really, chat is always a better gauge.
And we agree, who we see/meet isn’t anyone elses’ business and this isn’t tripadvisor (writing reviews of people). |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"The idea of veris is nice, but really, chat is always a better gauge.
And we agree, who we see/meet isn’t anyone elses’ business and this isn’t tripadvisor (writing reviews of people). "
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"Non-verified looks as dodgy as blank profiles..
What I find dodgy is single men who have females in their profile/public photos .."
You can find whatever you like dodgy.
Some of us ain't single. It's just a solo male account.
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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I personally don't like the whole verification thing.. owe in the swinging Life stile so of course people are going to meet and play with others.. I get it gives a little bit of information on how good the person is in bed.. but for me you can't beat a phonecall and a social meeting with the person to get a real opinion |
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We always look at how long they been on here, if it’s 2or weeks or even months than we would chat and see what happens but if it’s a year or more and no verification than it’s probably a dreamer or a pic collectors. We don’t show most of our veris as it’s got names |
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You ll get lots of that as your new to the site and your pictures look hot….sadly 90 percent of the time them Profiles turn out to be single men hiding behind couples profiles…we had a similar issue when we first came on so went on the cams for a verification to prove we were real |
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"We don’t have veris and get allot of woman abruptly accusing and refusing to talk as they think we are a single male, don’t give us the chance to prove otherwise
We are happy to send proof "
^^ Thats for you ^ |
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"We don’t have veris and get allot of woman abruptly accusing and refusing to talk as they think we are a single male, don’t give us the chance to prove otherwise
We are happy to send proof "
https://m.fabswingers.com/photoverification |
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"Not at all, we all have to start somewhere.
Absolutely.
Too many Veri’s put me off, though "
We have many verifications but that’s because we like socials and meeting people. Doesn’t mean we have played with them. Please don’t let large numbers of verifications put you off! |
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"Not at all, we all have to start somewhere.
Absolutely.
Too many Veri’s put me off, though
We have many verifications but that’s because we like socials and meeting people. Doesn’t mean we have played with them. Please don’t let large numbers of verifications put you off! "
Exactly this.
During almost five years on Fab. I've probably enjoyed 100+ swingers club nights, in six different venues. That's not counting attending organised socials in Swindon, Bristol, Gloucester, Tewkesbury, Amesbury...
So, shock surprise, I have received quite a few verifications. I'd guess, though - I've never bothered to check - around 5% to 10% of those veris could be purely social, rather than from playing.
Meeting 250+ people - 50+ singles, 100+ couples - in five years is hardly excessive. It equates to meeting two new couples and a new lady during a five-hours club visit, just once monthly.
As in so much of life, context is everything.
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Who people have met previously is of no concern to me. What matters is whether they match what I am looking for both in personality and appearance.
Given that you’re unlikely to exhibit a poor review they neither tell you what they are like in a meet, or how many people they have actually met in total.
They aren’t even a guarantee that they are a real person as fake profiles manage to obtain verifications.  |
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