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Anyone goes through this? I create hotlists every week with the guys I chatted to and hopefully want to meet....then they say or do something that's off putting so they come off my hotlist. My hotlist is like Waterloo station atm   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you think that's because you've been on here for quite a long time, and your patience and tolerance has been pushed to the limit??
Because you've been let down so many times by guys in various ways, now the slightest misdemeanour gets them removed
If so, i think that's completely understandable
If you'd only been on here a few months, you might be more tolerant!! |
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Same here. We’ve quite a few on ours, but we tend not to approach them until we know we’ve got some free time coming up to meet. Many hot conversations have fizzled out when you’re waiting two months for a free day in the diary  |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
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My hotlist is more for couples who aren't looking for single guys, or people who's not shown any interest in messages etc. It's just so I can enjoy they're profiles... quietly in the corner.
Once chatting people migrate to friends list instead |
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"My hotlist is more for couples who aren't looking for single guys, or people who's not shown any interest in messages etc. It's just so I can enjoy they're profiles... quietly in the corner.
Once chatting people migrate to friends list instead "
 anyone i might know? Lol |
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"Do you think that's because you've been on here for quite a long time, and your patience and tolerance has been pushed to the limit??
Because you've been let down so many times by guys in various ways, now the slightest misdemeanour gets them removed
If so, i think that's completely understandable
If you'd only been on here a few months, you might be more tolerant!!"
Yes due to my experiences with an very long list of men, I have too many red flags to watch out for
Wish I was young and naïve. Would I have similar problems or more? Does make me sometimes think this  |
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Yes due to my experiences with an very long list of men, I have too many red flags to watch out for
Wish I was young and naïve. Would I have similar problems or more? Does make me sometimes think this "
Hmmm, an interesting question!!
If you were young and naive..wouldn't the reality be that eventually you'd end up where you are now anyway??
Im guessing you started your swinging journey full of hope and trust!!
Its easier for me...older, daft, not naive, but realistic, (id add desperate, but im probably best keeping that to myself) |
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"Anyone goes through this? I create hotlists every week with the guys I chatted to and hopefully want to meet....then they say or do something that's off putting so they come off my hotlist. My hotlist is like Waterloo station atm "
Yeah ours is similar, often changing. We get chatting and then it fizzles out so we move on.... |
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I’m a little bit Thumper and a little bit Littlebird.
(Hey, that could be quite a threesome …)
I put people on my hotlist if I think they’re hot and fun and I want to keep up with their photo posts (aka perv on them). Sometimes, if I’m super-lucky, we chat and end up shifting to the friends list instead.
Then there’s room on the hotlist for new hotties … |
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We tend to use ours as a maybe list for each other.
If I am browsing and think someone might be interesting to us I stick them on the hotlist so that Mrs can check them out and vice versa.
Then if we see someone on the list that we didn't add and decide we aren't keen, off they pop again.
If people stay on our list, then they have potential  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone goes through this? I create hotlists every week with the guys I chatted to and hopefully want to meet....then they say or do something that's off putting so they come off my hotlist. My hotlist is like Waterloo station atm "
Similar don't have many on mines atm |
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"Anyone goes through this? I create hotlists every week with the guys I chatted to and hopefully want to meet....then they say or do something that's off putting so they come off my hotlist. My hotlist is like Waterloo station atm "
Add me to your next list please x |
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All the time. There is only so many times you can look at the same tits and vag over and over from different angles before it becomes boring. That’s why we tend to add the couples who make an effort with pictures. You get more variety.
The mr |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
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"I’m a little bit Thumper and a little bit Littlebird.
(Hey, that could be quite a threesome …)
It's not a horrible idea...
Big vote of confidence there Thumper "
Ha, I forget there's no "tone" in text. It was meant nicer than it possibly could have been read. Honest  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hotlist comes and goes, I’d say it’s usual if it’s for people you’d like to meet.
Unless it’s for perving, then I’d add absolutely 100s to it.
At the moment it’s 2  |
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"All the time. There is only so many times you can look at the same tits and vag over and over from different angles before it becomes boring. That’s why we tend to add the couples who make an effort with pictures. You get more variety.
The mr "
I'm no longer a site supporter so haven't uploaded photos for ages. As when I tried, they asked me to delete over a 100 lol |
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Then if we get chatting they normally make it in to my friends list.
Don’t worry about it OP. There’s no limit on how many you can add and remove 
