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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can anyone explain to me why I've got such urges to watch my wife getting fucked all over by another guy (or guys!)
She's the sexiest girl I've ever seen, is just ridiculously good in bed (or anywhere else she happens to have a cock or two to play with) and perhaps it's just that I can appreciate how good she is when I'm not 'distracted' by actually being involved. Kind of like porn but actually happening and with a girl I actually fancy.
If you'd asked me a few years ago what I thought the answer would have been very different but I just love it now.
Is there any real explain action for this or is it something people just have to accept and stop over thinking?
Cheers
J
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ps I'm in no way into cuckolding and neither is she. We do it as a complete joint venture and look for guys who don't try to be 'bulls'.
Just to clarify. |
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Never used to be my thing.
It was like a switch moved in my head and suddenly i loved the idea.
Got my mate to fuck her while i watched and it was great.
Sat at the top of the stairs for a while watching her ride him before finally joining in.
I don't have a jealous bone in my body and that is a must before you let anyone else near her.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ps I'm in no way into cuckolding and neither is she. We do it as a complete joint venture and look for guys who don't try to be 'bulls'.
Just to clarify. "
are you sure ! |
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Just enjoy and don't over think. It's a big turn on for both of us too and cuckold isn't something we're interested in either I want my man joining in and I'm not turned on at all by the thought of him just watching. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can anyone explain to me why I've got such urges to watch my wife getting fucked all over by another guy (or guys!)
She's the sexiest girl I've ever seen, is just ridiculously good in bed (or anywhere else she happens to have a cock or two to play with) and perhaps it's just that I can appreciate how good she is when I'm not 'distracted' by actually being involved. Kind of like porn but actually happening and with a girl I actually fancy.
If you'd asked me a few years ago what I thought the answer would have been very different but I just love it now.
Is there any real explain action for this or is it something people just have to accept and stop over thinking?
Cheers
J
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Same here. I love it too, but not in a cuckolding way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So is there an actual term for the activity described above, as in men who like to watch their wife's getting fucked by others but in a totally non-cuckolding sort of way?
Also as the op if be interested to hear from women who enjoy fucking other men in front of their husbands. Ruby completely dotes on me and this is something that would have made her feel sick a few years ago but now her feelings for me appear to e stronger than ever but she can happily ride a guy while I'm watching.
Very interested to hear how it feels from a woman's point of view..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"love watching my Fb take another cock,so horni as it slides into her and watch her moan as he fuks her ..  "
I get what your saying but surely it's different with someone you describe as as your FB? I may be getting this wrong but can't see it being the same thing as sharing your partner (wife or gf) in our case of 14 years? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Once you realise sex is just sex anything is possible."
Couldn't agree more. Also once you realise that it's impossible for another guy to recreate the feeling and intensity of the sex that you and your partner share. It's a totally different experience when she is with another guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once you realise sex is just sex anything is possible.
Couldn't agree more. Also once you realise that it's impossible for another guy to recreate the feeling and intensity of the sex that you and your partner share. It's a totally different experience when she is with another guy"
erm yes... but there's always someone else she can have fantastic if not better sex with too. She just has to like having sex with someone as unique as you to keep it special. Equally you might have better sex with another female, but if you like the sex you have with your partner best, there's no bother... is there?
Sex is still just sex if you both make it just that... regardless of ;
'intensities' or other go-fasters.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Once you realise sex is just sex anything is possible.
Couldn't agree more. Also once you realise that it's impossible for another guy to recreate the feeling and intensity of the sex that you and your partner share. It's a totally different experience when she is with another guy
erm yes... but there's always someone else she can have fantastic if not better sex with too. She just has to like having sex with someone as unique as you to keep it special. Equally you might have better sex with another female, but if you like the sex you have with your partner best, there's no bother... is there?
Sex is still just sex if you both make it just that... regardless of ;
'intensities' or other go-fasters.
Wolf
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I suppose you've just hit the nail on the head there in terms of concerns I have as the male partner. What if some guy comes along who just blows her f*cking mind to the point that nothing else will ever measure up!!!
Then I just think if we hold back in enjoying ourselves due to fears and 'what ifs' then we'd all just be vanilla and life would be safe but bland.
I guess you've just got to take chances to experience the most exciting things life has to offer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess you've just got to take chances to experience the most exciting things life has to offer"
Exactly m8, you roll the dice, take your chances and reap the whirlwind.
Have fun and stay happy 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just love watching Mrs buff getting fucked by other guys and I genuinely love it if they are bigger/better than me! (I guess it's the cuckold in me). I love watching her having an amazing time and being lost in the moment. Our own sex life is amazing and our relationship is so much more than just sex, so the better the guys, the happier we both are! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love watching her at play. For me it's about the visual watching her face breaking into a massive grin! The way her eyes close when's she having fun and for some reason I just love to see her hands at work! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Said this on another thread a week or so ago - I get really turned on watching Crackling Perky fucking another guy because I know how she is making HIM feel right at that moment.
And that's fuckin' fantastic
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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quote - So is there an actual term for the activity described above, as in men who like to watch their wife's getting fucked by others but in a totally non-cuckolding sort of way?
We, and a few others, describe it as 'hotwifing' and there are a number of web sites dedicated to the subject.
As always, there are variations on the theme, from a wife playing alone and then coming home to her husband who then 'reclaims' her, a husband watching but not being actively involved, through to the husband sharing his wife in a threesome (or more) as we do.
Where cuckolding often involves a certain amount of humiliation of the husband, we think a hotwife relationship is a matter of a shared experience based on trust, communication, and commitment to one another and the marriage. (Not that cuckolding doesn't embrace these things, but in a different way)
We see it as inviting someone in to our relationship for a time - the husband doesn't 'join in' but rather a friend joins the couple.
We've been fortunate to play with a number of men who understand the dynamics and psychology of this, but we imagine every couple works it out in a way that is particular to their relationship and desires.
Why we do it? We tried it and we liked it. It's exciting! It enhanced our sex life and gave mrs touch an uncommon (not necessarily better) type of pleasure, while giving us both a deeper insight into her sexuality.
And ... it's hot and dirty sex.
Sorry if we've gone on a bit, but after over 10 years of hotwifing that's our take on the subject.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess its different for everyone, but having a hot wife is really, well, hot.. and doesn't have to be cuckolding (though I suspect there's a little bit of a cuck in most men even the very alpha ones).
realistically, things don't have to have a name for you to enjoy them, and what you work out with your swinging partner is what counts.
"do what you enjoy, enjoy what you do." |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"quote - So is there an actual term for the activity described above, as in men who like to watch their wife's getting fucked by others but in a totally non-cuckolding sort of way?
We, and a few others, describe it as 'hotwifing' and there are a number of web sites dedicated to the subject.
As always, there are variations on the theme, from a wife playing alone and then coming home to her husband who then 'reclaims' her, a husband watching but not being actively involved, through to the husband sharing his wife in a threesome (or more) as we do.
Where cuckolding often involves a certain amount of humiliation of the husband, we think a hotwife relationship is a matter of a shared experience based on trust, communication, and commitment to one another and the marriage. (Not that cuckolding doesn't embrace these things, but in a different way)
We see it as inviting someone in to our relationship for a time - the husband doesn't 'join in' but rather a friend joins the couple.
We've been fortunate to play with a number of men who understand the dynamics and psychology of this, but we imagine every couple works it out in a way that is particular to their relationship and desires.
Why we do it? We tried it and we liked it. It's exciting! It enhanced our sex life and gave mrs touch an uncommon (not necessarily better) type of pleasure, while giving us both a deeper insight into her sexuality.
And ... it's hot and dirty sex.
Sorry if we've gone on a bit, but after over 10 years of hotwifing that's our take on the subject.
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Very well put, and pretty much sums up where we come from when meeting single men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband discovered he loved watching me with other men quite a few years ago. I used to question his motives, because to me it seemed too good to be true. It's always been my choice who we meet, and he has no jealousy when I choose fit, much younger guys.
The first time he realised he felt this way was when I met a couple on my own, it was planned that I would be having fun with the female. When we got together it was clear her partner wanted to be part of the action, but because I hadn't discussed this happening with my husband, I didn't let things go very far with the male....I do remember him putting fingers up me while I was playing with the female, and feeling incredibly turned on, but also guilty. When I got home I had worked myself into a bit of a state, because I knew I had to confess what I had let happen, and I thought he was going to be angry and upset. To the contrary he got more turned on hearing about those stray male fingers than he ever did about the girl girl action.
Before we joined this site, he was looking for a term to describe what we do, because he is not cuckold. He kept seeing the term 'hot wife' hence our name on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's interesting as well how there are certain things I love to fantasise about but know we are not ready for. For example her going off and playing alone. She says she needs me to be there or finds it hard to get as turned on and I like to be there.
I do like the idea in a way though. And how amazing would it be if 'real-life' things such as STIs and pregnancy weren't even a consideration. She'd be getting pumped full every time coz that really gets us going. Again though this has to remain a fantasy it seems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a book (fiction) called the 'Act of Love', written by Howard Jacobsen. It's a little more than a man wanting to watch his wife with someone else.
But a good read. |
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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago
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I just love watching (and joining in with) my wife enjoy getting a real good fucking from however many we've invited for the fun. She, selflessly, enjoys the idea of me watching and joining in. Its made our sex life at home so much better, we more able to express our fantasies with fear from the others opinion etc.
We love it!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just love watching (and joining in with) my wife enjoy getting a real good fucking from however many we've invited for the fun. She, selflessly, enjoys the idea of me watching and joining in. Its made our sex life at home so much better, we more able to express our fantasies with fear from the others opinion etc.
We love it!! "
The improvement to our sex life on a personal level can't be overstated since we started playing with other people. We love to talk to each other about what we'd like to do next etc |
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Its the same for both of us: it's a huge turn on, seeing our significant others effect on another person! To see each other enjoy themselves and let themselves go, clear in the knowledge, that we totally love and adore each other and knowing its each other we share our hearts with. Total trust and strengthened our relationship. |
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Were totally not into cuckolding and i cant really explain for the Mr but we find it a huuuge turn on and it was our reason for joining the site originally. He just really gets off on thinking up things and seeing/hearing about me fucking and teasing other guys.
For me personally though i just love pleasing him and seeing him get off on it and having even more amazing sex after.
I cant deny though how much i love giving him that naughty look when ive got someones cock down my throat..  |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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John enjoys seeing me with other guys & i like to see him with other ladies, i have tried group e.g. me & a few guys & again John as been with a few ladies in a group situation.
We treat swinging as an extension of our already good sex life & we try to create the fantasies we both want, as long as you have a solid relationship swinging is a brilliant playground of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can anyone explain to me why I've got such urges to watch my wife getting fucked all over by another guy (or guys!)
She's the sexiest girl I've ever seen, is just ridiculously good in bed (or anywhere else she happens to have a cock or two to play with) and perhaps it's just that I can appreciate how good she is when I'm not 'distracted' by actually being involved. Kind of like porn but actually happening and with a girl I actually fancy.
If you'd asked me a few years ago what I thought the answer would have been very different but I just love it now.
Is there any real explain action for this or is it something people just have to accept and stop over thinking?
Cheers
J
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no idea mate, would love it if my wife was up for some extra fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Were totally not into cuckolding and i cant really explain for the Mr but we find it a huuuge turn on and it was our reason for joining the site originally. He just really gets off on thinking up things and seeing/hearing about me fucking and teasing other guys.
For me personally though i just love pleasing him and seeing him get off on it and having even more amazing sex after.
I cant deny though how much i love giving him that naughty look when ive got someones cock down my throat.. "
hubby is a lucky guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very hard to describe in words,but it makes me so hard to see look on Louise's face as she is in ecstasy with another guy. We have a regular friend and that makes it more intense, he experiences the same beauty, softness ,wetness I feel,inside the woman I love. None of the cuckold garbage,I would punch a disrespectful person,but a guest in our sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Very hard to describe in words,but it makes me so hard to see look on Louise's face as she is in ecstasy with another guy. We have a regular friend and that makes it more intense, he experiences the same beauty, softness ,wetness I feel,inside the woman I love. None of the cuckold garbage,I would punch a disrespectful person,but a guest in our sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's one thing I'm not sure if my wife fully understands from my perspective. For all we are in this situation for fun my number one priority is her well-being. It's always in the very back of my mind as I don't think I'd react too well if someone behaved disrespectfully. All the guys we've ever met have been great though it has to be said. |
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By *rSinfulMan
over a year ago
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I think it's true love you could only trust someone enough if you knew your love was more than sex. That's when you realise sex and relationships are not the same. I'd love to se my gf get fucked by another man and woman she's hot looks like queen cersey off game of thrones hot |
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never really thought about the dynamics of watching carol getting fucked i just think its horny as hell, our own porn film in real life, fantasies fulfilled then living it over again, expectations always realised so we dont look into it just love it, oh yessss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"quote - So is there an actual term for the activity described above, as in men who like to watch their wife's getting fucked by others but in a totally non-cuckolding sort of way?
We, and a few others, describe it as 'hotwifing' and there are a number of web sites dedicated to the subject.
As always, there are variations on the theme, from a wife playing alone and then coming home to her husband who then 'reclaims' her, a husband watching but not being actively involved, through to the husband sharing his wife in a threesome (or more) as we do.
Where cuckolding often involves a certain amount of humiliation of the husband, we think a hotwife relationship is a matter of a shared experience based on trust, communication, and commitment to one another and the marriage. (Not that cuckolding doesn't embrace these things, but in a different way)
We see it as inviting someone in to our relationship for a time - the husband doesn't 'join in' but rather a friend joins the couple.
We've been fortunate to play with a number of men who understand the dynamics and psychology of this, but we imagine every couple works it out in a way that is particular to their relationship and desires.
Why we do it? We tried it and we liked it. It's exciting! It enhanced our sex life and gave mrs touch an uncommon (not necessarily better) type of pleasure, while giving us both a deeper insight into her sexuality.
And ... it's hot and dirty sex.
Sorry if we've gone on a bit, but after over 10 years of hotwifing that's our take on the subject.
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Couldn't describe our feelings better
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By (user no longer on site)
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probably is that seeing it from a distance and not being distracted by being involved. seeing from a different angle, porn but life and wih your girl involved.
long as both parties happy doesn't matter really :D |
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"Can anyone explain to me why I've got such urges to watch my wife getting fucked all over by another guy (or guys!)
She's the sexiest girl I've ever seen, is just ridiculously good in bed (or anywhere else she happens to have a cock or two to play with) and perhaps it's just that I can appreciate how good she is when I'm not 'distracted' by actually being involved. Kind of like porn but actually happening and with a girl I actually fancy.
If you'd asked me a few years ago what I thought the answer would have been very different but I just love it now.
Is there any real explain action for this or is it something people just have to accept and stop over thinking?
Cheers
J
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Its simply because you 'see' yourself as owning the very best, and allowing others to try it is same as showing off youre car.
Try and find guys with ugly wives doing the same, you'll struggle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would love to watch my girlfriend getting fucked really hard while i watch by a well endowed guy... so so horny.... just watching the pleasure on her face as he pounds her to orgasm after orgasm mmmm |
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Think your getting too caught up in what to call it! Personally I would describe it as cuckolding as thats what we would call it and we do the same as yourselves (but we arent into humiliation or anything similar). I know some people dont like it to be described as such due to a stigma or otherwise, however so long as you and your wife are having fun what difference does the name make?
You both sound really cool and so long as you love one another I would continue to explore evrything that turns you both on! |
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Back to the OP
I can see from your pics its easy to see why guys like fucking her and i think its a great turn on watching your wife being fucked ---- now what was the address again ??????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am the same as the op, I enjoy seeing the wife having fun with others from men and woman. We have only a few rules with it though. The main ones is. I am there, and the fella is protected.
And visa versa when I have fun with a lady. It is a great turn on, knowing you both share the fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When we had our first swinging experience as a couple (with another couple) it was a total surprise that I was so turned on watching the wife with another guy. Sometimes with another couple in same room situation it can be downright off putting as you want to watch but also concentrate on the other girl ( have your cake and eat it). Watching wife enjoy another guy is so hot and if you had asked me before we swung I would not have considered something I would have enjoyed.
Strange but we don't question it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems to be a popular thing, Ive had couples ask to meet me before as well but not done it yet. When I get married there is no way in hell I would be able to let my wife fuck other guys though
Each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems to be a popular thing, Ive had couples ask to meet me before as well but not done it yet. When I get married there is no way in hell I would be able to let my wife fuck other guys though
Each to their own"
If you had asked me in my 20s I would have said exactly the same thing.
Once you have a really really strong relationship then it's fun to push the boundaries and try things which your partner might really enjoy. If we could find a single girl to join us then wife would let me have fun with the girl (together) so its not just one sided.
Most couples who swing seem to be fine with swapping partners so for us it's just whether the number is even or odd |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Back to the OP
I can see from your pics its easy to see why guys like fucking her and i think its a great turn on watching your wife being fucked ---- now what was the address again ??????? "
Thanks! I know I'm obviously biased (and I apologise to the other women who disagree with this but she is just the best fuck going and watching her in action and how excited the guys get is just a ridiculous turn on. I hardly ever just watch coz I get so horny at the sight of her I end up joining in straight away!
One day I'll show a bit more self control and fulfil my fantasy of just siting back and watching her in a full session with another guy. |
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We, and a few others, describe it as 'hotwifing' and there are a number of web sites dedicated to the subject.
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Like 'hotdesking'? brilliant :D
I'm all for it as I've had a some great meets with hot wives while the husband watches or takes pics. Pretty weird the first time...
Made me think how I'd feel about it - having been cheated on a couple of years back, at the time, not such a fan..
But yeah I'd be for it now too, having been on the other end too if you see what I mean :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have been together nearly 18 years, mr30 loves to watch me play up on cam, suck cock etc.its his bag.......an im a show off lol
do we want a regular guy on hold to do this weekly................no
it is, what is is , fun.when we are in the moodxxx
theres no judge n jury to this, as a couple you do what feels rite at the time xxx |
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I think from a point of view of having swung with gf and single it is a very special thing to be able to enjoy.
as a couple gf met a guy alone a few times, and although sounds crazy was a funexperience reliving what happened when we had sex after. We basically pushed boundaries and one was to allow each other to do what we were bought upto not allow. Very hot xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think from a point of view of having swung with gf and single it is a very special thing to be able to enjoy.
as a couple gf met a guy alone a few times, and although sounds crazy was a funexperience reliving what happened when we had sex after. We basically pushed boundaries and one was to allow each other to do what we were bought upto not allow. Very hot xx"
I'd like to be able to get into the separate playing thing as the principle turns me on but I just like to be there watching and witnessing her dirty side. It seems to be quite addictive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i tried to understand why it turned me on when my wife and i did it but gave up and just enjoyed watching her getting it but the first time we were in bed and i was right at her mouth licking her nipple when the guy pushed in her the sound of her sigh as he pushed in nearly made me cum it was so erotic
just enjoy your sexy wife enjoying it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow. Can totally associate with that. It gets me going every time I think about the time she was on top of me pressed against me, face close to mine and our playmate slid into her arse from behind for a DP! The noise he made and look on her face nearly made me blow there and then!
I've never managed to just sit back and watch for more than a few minutes coz I get so excited I end up joining in but I really want to watch her for a full session next time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I must admit to my love of watching the wife getting a good fucking, think i enjoy this the most about whole swinging lifestyle. "
I have to admit when we embarked on our swinging journey I didn't for a second think I'd look forward to seeing Ruby getting fucked good and proper more than getting some action myself!
Not that I'm not a big fan of pleasing other ladies of course! |
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"Can anyone explain to me why I've got such urges to watch my wife getting fucked all over by another guy (or guys!)
She's the sexiest girl I've ever seen, is just ridiculously good in bed (or anywhere else she happens to have a cock or two to play with) and perhaps it's just that I can appreciate how good she is when I'm not 'distracted' by actually being involved. Kind of like porn but actually happening and with a girl I actually fancy.
If you'd asked me a few years ago what I thought the answer would have been very different but I just love it now.
Is there any real explain action for this or is it something people just have to accept and stop over thinking?
Cheers
J
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It's the most mindblowing, sexy experience ever! When my wife and I used to swing, I used to love watching her with a guy- or more!
I suppose that's why I enjoy threesomes so much now- though seeing your own wife having sex with someone else is always something very special. |
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"Think your getting too caught up in what to call it! Personally I would describe it as cuckolding as thats what we would call it and we do the same as yourselves (but we arent into humiliation or anything similar). I know some people dont like it to be described as such due to a stigma or otherwise, however so long as you and your wife are having fun what difference does the name make?
You both sound really cool and so long as you love one another I would continue to explore evrything that turns you both on! "
Agree with this one i think, it is all fun in various ways and trying to describe it is not easy. Mainly agre with most and also not into the sissy stuff though |
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It's the most mindblowing, sexy experience ever! When my wife and I used to swing, I used to love watching her with a guy- or more!
I suppose that's why I enjoy threesomes so much now- though seeing your own wife having sex with someone else is always something very special."
It's weird that many guys would think we were just crazy for having these opinions - nowadays I think they are crazy for never experiencing it themselves!
The deep feelings of love and pure desire it stokes up when we play like that are just incredible |
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It's the most mindblowing, sexy experience ever! When my wife and I used to swing, I used to love watching her with a guy- or more!
I suppose that's why I enjoy threesomes so much now- though seeing your own wife having sex with someone else is always something very special.
It's weird that many guys would think we were just crazy for having these opinions - nowadays I think they are crazy for never experiencing it themselves!
The deep feelings of love and pure desire it stokes up when we play like that are just incredible "
Yes, even my wife used to think it was a little weird, but as you say- until you've experienced that intense feeling that sweeps over you, you just don't understand, or know what you're missing.  |
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It's the most mindblowing, sexy experience ever! When my wife and I used to swing, I used to love watching her with a guy- or more!
I suppose that's why I enjoy threesomes so much now- though seeing your own wife having sex with someone else is always something very special.
It's weird that many guys would think we were just crazy for having these opinions - nowadays I think they are crazy for never experiencing it themselves!
The deep feelings of love and pure desire it stokes up when we play like that are just incredible
Yes, even my wife used to think it was a little weird, but as you say- until you've experienced that intense feeling that sweeps over you, you just don't understand, or know what you're missing. "
a fantasy of mine used to be with two women, but my biggest now would be to see my wife with a guy or two. ... Or more  |
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"I'd love to see our lass being fucked. But so far no luck 
The thought of it is such a turn on."
The key I think is making sure she feels totally amazing, sexy, confident and that there is a pure trust in the relationship.
Doesn't seem like the best if starts if your on here without her knowledge. If you spent all the effort you do on here making your girl feel great you'd probably massively increase your chances.
I'm not judging by the way, people can do what they like, just offering advice from someone who now has a wife who does things I only dreamed of before.
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"quote - So is there an actual term for the activity described above, as in men who like to watch their wife's getting fucked by others but in a totally non-cuckolding sort of way?
We, and a few others, describe it as 'hotwifing' and there are a number of web sites dedicated to the subject.
As always, there are variations on the theme, from a wife playing alone and then coming home to her husband who then 'reclaims' her, a husband watching but not being actively involved, through to the husband sharing his wife in a threesome (or more) as we do.
Where cuckolding often involves a certain amount of humiliation of the husband, we think a hotwife relationship is a matter of a shared experience based on trust, communication, and commitment to one another and the marriage. (Not that cuckolding doesn't embrace these things, but in a different way)
We see it as inviting someone in to our relationship for a time - the husband doesn't 'join in' but rather a friend joins the couple.
We've been fortunate to play with a number of men who understand the dynamics and psychology of this, but we imagine every couple works it out in a way that is particular to their relationship and desires.
Why we do it? We tried it and we liked it. It's exciting! It enhanced our sex life and gave mrs touch an uncommon (not necessarily better) type of pleasure, while giving us both a deeper insight into her sexuality.
And ... it's hot and dirty sex.
Sorry if we've gone on a bit, but after over 10 years of hotwifing that's our take on the subject.
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