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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do any couples who engage in long term chastity play keep the keys in a visible place such as on a necklace? Has anyone in your normal friends circle ever noticed it and either asked what it was or knew what it was already? My wife is reluctant to wear my key openly other than when we are going somewhere no one knows us.
Also what are your favourite cages for long term use? I'm still using some old knock of versions that are ok but the lock mechanism is definitely cheap and will no doubt fail at some point. |
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By *uckjayMan
over a year ago
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My wife wears the key on a chain around her ankle for all meets she has with lovers. Also worn at other times but by no means worn on a permanent basis but she keeps it with her at all times.
In terms of long term wearing of cages, I’ve found the CB-6000 range and Holytrainer have been the best options. The most important aspect though is ensure a good fit and both of the above have good options for that in terms of both around the scrotum/ball sac and also length. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'd love to hear about anyone who has been 'found out' so to speak.
I didn't like the CB cages. I had the small one a few years ago but found it quite irritating under my balls.
Not tried the HT but heard good things. |
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i had an old gf who was domme and liked me locked for her. She loved wearing the key around her neck. Not sure we ever got clocked. The one time we generated a big eye raise was at a resturant when she decided to order for both of us and payed, that did confuse the waiter and create a big grin on his face. But we both enjoyed it.
For cages, the newer 'platic' cages are better i find and obviously metal for long term. The under ring is an issue on all cages, in my experience you must clean it as much as possible. Just run your finger around it. Otherwise chaffing occurs.
CB was bad as the knockoff version had a gap in the ring on both sides, think 'girder' shape. That not only made chaffing worse but also trapped skin overnight. Still a great cage design though for it's time, first cage i wore for a week solid was a CB. |
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Please see our profile Jess wears the key to my cock cage on a necklace , to date only one person has asked about it , obviously at clubs lots of people have asked
I have lots of diff cages , am going to get a metal one , any suggestions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Please see our profile Jess wears the key to my cock cage on a necklace , to date only one person has asked about it , obviously at clubs lots of people have asked
I have lots of diff cages , am going to get a metal one , any suggestions "
What is your favourite cage? I'm thinking of investing in the holy trainer. I actually prefer the resin style ones over metal. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always hold my husbands key, but when we meet the key belongs to the people we meet then they decide what happens with him x"
That is always fun! Nothing more exciting than seeing the keys handed over to another person.  |
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By *punky89Man
over a year ago
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"I always hold my husbands key, but when we meet the key belongs to the people we meet then they decide what happens with him x
That is always fun! Nothing more exciting than seeing the keys handed over to another person. "
It sounds so dangerous |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Having tried both a CB6000 and a Holy Trainer, the Holy Trainer wins hands down. The big issue I found with the CB6000 was trapping skin, because of its split ring design."
Completely agree regarding the CB6000. The bottom of the ring used to chafe quite a lot too. Do you have a genuine holy trainer or a knock off one? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I always hold my husbands key, but when we meet the key belongs to the people we meet then they decide what happens with him x
That is always fun! Nothing more exciting than seeing the keys handed over to another person.
It sounds so dangerous "
We had one guy refuse to give us the keys back. My wife and him has secretly agreed to do it at the end of our meet. It was fucking embarrassing trying to get him to hand it back as my wife just giggled and I looked pathetic asking a grown man for the key to my cock cage. |
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By *punky89Man
over a year ago
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"I always hold my husbands key, but when we meet the key belongs to the people we meet then they decide what happens with him x
That is always fun! Nothing more exciting than seeing the keys handed over to another person.
It sounds so dangerous
We had one guy refuse to give us the keys back. My wife and him has secretly agreed to do it at the end of our meet. It was fucking embarrassing trying to get him to hand it back as my wife just giggled and I
looked pathetic asking a grown man for the key to my cock cage. "
Jeeeeez aha I need to find a woman to try this with |
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"Having tried both a CB6000 and a Holy Trainer, the Holy Trainer wins hands down. The big issue I found with the CB6000 was trapping skin, because of its split ring design.
Completely agree regarding the CB6000. The bottom of the ring used to chafe quite a lot too. Do you have a genuine holy trainer or a knock off one?"
Both are knock-offs, but my review is based upon the basic design, whilst agreeing the quality on the genuine article is almost certainly going to be better. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s lovely knowing that they also have the power to wether he plays or not x"
Losing control is such a power trip for me. Love having no access to my cock unless my wife grants that permission |
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