"someone being themselves and not being what someone else has been advised"
3 This.
Also, for me personally, some indication that they've at least started to read the profile and an idea of why they think we'd be compatible beyond 'but my penis'. |
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I feel I should elaborate on my initial question.
So for me personally if I come across a profile I like and I wish to interact with!
I read the profile and look at the pics ect ect, when I go to message said profile I’m always stuck with how to start a conversation up! I usually put something like “hi there”.
In the 1st box then proceed to usually commenting on there profile in a positive manner and or pics and asking how they are, I just feel that is not doing me much favours lol |
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"I feel I should elaborate on my initial question.
So for me personally if I come across a profile I like and I wish to interact with!
I read the profile and look at the pics ect ect, when I go to message said profile I’m always stuck with how to start a conversation up! I usually put something like “hi there”.
In the 1st box then proceed to usually commenting on there profile in a positive manner and or pics and asking how they are, I just feel that is not doing me much favours lol "
If it's too bland it could be applied to anyone as a cut and paste that'll count against you.
"Hey how are you I really like your pictures and profile I think we could have a lot of fun" to me says that they haven't bothered to read or make an effort. |
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"I feel I should elaborate on my initial question.
So for me personally if I come across a profile I like and I wish to interact with!
I read the profile and look at the pics ect ect, when I go to message said profile I’m always stuck with how to start a conversation up! I usually put something like “hi there”.
In the 1st box then proceed to usually commenting on there profile in a positive manner and or pics and asking how they are, I just feel that is not doing me much favours lol
If it's too bland it could be applied to anyone as a cut and paste that'll count against you.
"Hey how are you I really like your pictures and profile I think we could have a lot of fun" to me says that they haven't bothered to read or make an effort."
I understand that what you are saying! I’m not saying all message openings are like that I was giving a generic type of how it goes! I’m trying to better my opening messages so any advice is fully taken onboard |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"I feel like that was a little gripe on my thread  "
??? you ask a question i answered its well known women couples just want guys to be themselves not what people tell them to be ...
you joined the site you must have known why ? you only know you nobody else does you only know what you want and seeking nobody else does so its you that has to open the talking if you cant do that then theres very little on this site for you bearing in mind the shear number of men on here .. so no no jibe same thing i say to anyone else nobody knows you only you can sell you |
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