Does anyone else think fab should allow you to filter out receiving messages on the basis of sexuality. I’m sick of getting unsolicited messages from gay or bi men when I have absolutely zero interest in that. It’s interesting that you can filter out Tv/TS and CD . Why not gay or bi men also?? And before the PC police have a pop I am certainly NOT homophobic in any shape or form, what peoples sexual preferences are is there prerogative. As is mine. |
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I agree on that one as well, as like you say it’s no different to our own preferences. I get messages from gay men saying something like wanna suck my cock after it’s been up a guys arse? I’m like nope, no thank you! I get that that some women like that but they should be given the option to get in contact with them. It’ll be a win win situation for all if more filters were added and at least then it’s not so much of a needle in a haystack to find someone compatible. |
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Whats the point ,80% of the single guys who contact us say there straight ,
But we are old school when it comes to fab and the lifestyle ,been around for 20 year
So you ask the question and bare in mind if a guy thinks hes going to get a meet he'll admit to what we ask
Q.." do you play bi" ? ...
So at this point the guys thinking i best say no because hubby is straight
A ." no im straight "
We reply " thats a shame "
The guys always reply back saying yes they do play bi
We reply " we dont play with bi guys "
Same as if they say there bi then we say no thank then suddenly there straight ....
Then they relise and start making all sorts of tales up ...
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"Whats the point ,80% of the single guys who contact us say there straight ,
But we are old school when it comes to fab and the lifestyle ,been around for 20 year
So you ask the question and bare in mind if a guy thinks hes going to get a meet he'll admit to what we ask
Q.." do you play bi" ? ...
So at this point the guys thinking i best say no because hubby is straight
A ." no im straight "
We reply " thats a shame "
The guys always reply back saying yes they do play bi
We reply " we dont play with bi guys "
Same as if they say there bi then we say no thank then suddenly there straight ....
Then they relise and start making all sorts of tales up ...
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Obviously you can’t legislate for liers but people do have to nail there colours from the outset when setting up there profiles. And what you are talking about is at the stage of engaging someone, however my OP is about preventing unwanted unsolicited initial messages |
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sounds good in principle but how folks are honest about their sexuality on here
we get messages from straight guys often who have verifies from other men / tv / cd etc and the veris are graphic enough to know these guys are not straight as they claim. |
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"sounds good in principle but how folks are honest about their sexuality on here
we get messages from straight guys often who have verifies from other men / tv / cd etc and the veris are graphic enough to know these guys are not straight as they claim."
I get that and that can’t be stopped. The point I am making is I must get at least 6-10 unsolicited messages a day from gay or bi men most of which have identified on there profile as such when they set them up. I should be able to filter them to prevent that surely?? |
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"sounds good in principle but how folks are honest about their sexuality on here
we get messages from straight guys often who have verifies from other men / tv / cd etc and the veris are graphic enough to know these guys are not straight as they claim.
I get that and that can’t be stopped. The point I am making is I must get at least 6-10 unsolicited messages a day from gay or bi men most of which have identified on there profile as such when they set them up. I should be able to filter them to prevent that surely??"
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"People will say just block all men which of course you can do but I want to network with likeminded straight men which I have done over the years for MFMs and gangbangs "
If you block single guys it doesn’t stop _you_ from messaging them if you want. |
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"I agree on that one as well, as like you say it’s no different to our own preferences. I get messages from gay men saying something like wanna suck my cock after it’s been up a guys arse? I’m like nope, no thank you! I get that that some women like that but they should be given the option to get in contact with them. It’ll be a win win situation for all if more filters were added and at least then it’s not so much of a needle in a haystack to find someone compatible. "
Would any woman like that?! These men sound like women-haters, trying to shock and upset you |
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"People will say just block all men which of course you can do but I want to network with likeminded straight men which I have done over the years for MFMs and gangbangs
If you block single guys it doesn’t stop _you_ from messaging them if you want."
Yes sure but I have met some good straight guys for group or MFM by them approaching me. I shouldn’t have to block straight guys! I shouldn’t have to put up with people I’m not sexually compatible with messaging me |
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"People will say just block all men which of course you can do but I want to network with likeminded straight men which I have done over the years for MFMs and gangbangs
If you block single guys it doesn’t stop _you_ from messaging them if you want.
Yes sure but I have met some good straight guys for group or MFM by them approaching me. I shouldn’t have to block straight guys! I shouldn’t have to put up with people I’m not sexually compatible with messaging me "
I totally agree and have blocked them for that reason. Before I blocked them I had personally never had a group meet set up by single guys - it it always a couple that organises in my experience - so I, personally, don’t think it is too much of a loss. |
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