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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.
What he said!!
Also what _iew said too
Good luck to you!!  "
eh?- they just copied me really!!!
wheres my thanks!  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.
What he said!!
Also what _iew said too
Good luck to you!!
eh?- they just copied me really!!!
wheres my thanks! "
I agree with Paddy
OP... also never become needy |
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"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.
What he said!!
Also what _iew said too
Good luck to you!!
eh?- they just copied me really!!!
wheres my thanks! "
But I did ot with more style and a fantastic bum pick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.
What he said!!
Also what _iew said too
Good luck to you!!
eh?- they just copied me really!!!
wheres my thanks! "
And what paddy said too!!!
Luv ya paddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today  "
get on the table honeypot, prepare for a game of spin the honepot..my 5 ginger leprechaun gangbang pals are gonna pump u on rotation
still agreeable? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go to a club and/social and meet people there, it really is the best way.
What he said!!
Also what _iew said too
Good luck to you!!
eh?- they just copied me really!!!
wheres my thanks!
And what paddy said too!!!
Luv ya paddy "
bout time...hovered over the block button!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today
get on the table honeypot, prepare for a game of spin the honepot..my 5 ginger leprechaun gangbang pals are gonna pump u on rotation
still agreeable? "
I need 6 paper bags first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today
get on the table honeypot, prepare for a game of spin the honepot..my 5 ginger leprechaun gangbang pals are gonna pump u on rotation
still agreeable?
I need 6 paper bags first"
Take some spare ones, just incase! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today
get on the table honeypot, prepare for a game of spin the honepot..my 5 ginger leprechaun gangbang pals are gonna pump u on rotation
still agreeable?
I need 6 paper bags first"
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww BABE! I think ur gorgeous...u dont need a bag at all! xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im in an agreeable mood,im agreeing with everyone today
get on the table honeypot, prepare for a game of spin the honepot..my 5 ginger leprechaun gangbang pals are gonna pump u on rotation
still agreeable?
I need 6 paper bags first
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww BABE! I think ur gorgeous...u dont need a bag at all! xxxx"
I do!! I don't want to see incase one of their bags falls off too! |
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"the 3 similar pictures are a bit grim looking, the others give you a softer image ( in a non poncy way ) 
good luck tho, hope you have fun on the site"
Which ones are the most recent? The ones with facial hair or without? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"the 3 similar pictures are a bit grim looking, the others give you a softer image ( in a non poncy way )
good luck tho, hope you have fun on the site
Which ones are the most recent? The ones with facial hair or without?"
Ah this guy again. I asked him that last time and was told that he has a variety of styles and wants to show them all. Personally if I arranged to meet someone and they turned up looking like someone else I'd be a smidge miffed.
Sometimes you just got to pick a look and stick with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!
Where are we going wrong??
Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!  |
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"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!
Where are we going wrong??
Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now! "
I'm hoping to meet you in the future... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!
Where are we going wrong??
Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!
I'm hoping to meet you in the future... "
Join the queue love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!
Where are we going wrong??
Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!
I'm hoping to meet you in the future... "
Aw really?? We would like to meet you too !! |
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"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!
Where are we going wrong??
Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!
I'm hoping to meet you in the future...
Join the queue love "
Is there a queue?? Bugger... How far back am I? I live dead close tho!! Lol x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!
Where are we going wrong??
Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!
I'm hoping to meet you in the future...
Join the queue love
Is there a queue?? Bugger... How far back am I? I live dead close tho!! Lol x x "
You are no 2, we are no 1, maybe we should all get together lolxx |
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"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!
Where are we going wrong??
Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!
I'm hoping to meet you in the future...
Join the queue love
Is there a queue?? Bugger... How far back am I? I live dead close tho!! Lol x x
You are no 2, we are no 1, maybe we should all get together lolxx"
Ooh now you're talking... Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!
Where are we going wrong??
Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!
I'm hoping to meet you in the future...
Join the queue love
Is there a queue?? Bugger... How far back am I? I live dead close tho!! Lol x x
You are no 2, we are no 1, maybe we should all get together lolxx
Ooh now you're talking... Xx
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Sounds Like a very good plan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been on here for a year! And we haven't had any meets what so ever!!
Where are we going wrong??
Would have thought we would have had a sniff by now!
I'm hoping to meet you in the future...
Join the queue love
Is there a queue?? Bugger... How far back am I? I live dead close tho!! Lol x x
You are no 2, we are no 1, maybe we should all get together lolxx
Ooh now you're talking... Xx
Sounds Like a very good plan "
I love it when a plan comes together
Shall we invite Viccie along for a sympathy shag haha |
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"ok any serious comments now"
Yes, OP, some good advice here;
Don't forget verifications work both ways. If you hide yours then those you have left for others might well still be a matter of public record on their profiles, thus showing you to be somewhat disingenuous with your claims perhaps... 
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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"ok any serious comments now
Yes, OP, some good advice here;
Don't forget verifications work both ways. If you hide yours then those you have left for others might well still be a matter of public record on their profiles, thus showing you to be somewhat disingenuous with your claims perhaps...
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Just like on facebook walls |
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"how many men on here have still never had a meet on here. and feel like there stood outside the restraunt looking in at everyone else eating "
Not 'eating' just 'meeting' presumably. I'd also like to join some sort of queue....not a bus queue....I'm just a little apprehensive about being last in case the guys in front all finish but then stand back and nudge each other and snigger.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how many men on here have still never had a meet on here. and feel like there stood outside the restraunt looking in at everyone else eating
Not 'eating' just 'meeting' presumably. I'd also like to join some sort of queue....not a bus queue....I'm just a little apprehensive about being last in case the guys in front all finish but then stand back and nudge each other and snigger..... "
I wouldn't want to join a que either! I would rather just be 1st!! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"ok any serious comments now"
Id say keep your chin shaved ... it doesnt suit you.
Id say keep your hair well maintained too.
Poeple go on first impressions and as much as some people like the rock look - the majority dont. If youre looking to attract then go with the majority and tidy yourself up a bit.
Id even deleve the pics with the chin really (if you shave it that is).
It makes you look like you never left Glastonbury which, when people are looking for 'clean guys who make the effort' ya pics just dont jump out as being that way.
Just my opinion mate |
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"how many men on here have still never had a meet on here. and feel like there stood outside the restraunt looking in at everyone else eating
Not 'eating' just 'meeting' presumably. I'd also like to join some sort of queue....not a bus queue....I'm just a little apprehensive about being last in case the guys in front all finish but then stand back and nudge each other and snigger.....
I wouldn't want to join a que either! I would rather just be 1st!! "
Apparently I'm second in the queue but I can live with that!! I've not been around long x |
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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago
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For me this site seems to be a good way to pass 3 emails and build up a friends list that never talks to you. Started to wonder if a females are fakes pretending to be males. And the makes psychologists studying women's sexual behaviour would explain alot. Either that or is natures way of saying to my gene pool "as an outsider what do you think of the human race" |
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"For me this site seems to be a good way to pass 3 emails and build up a friends list that never talks to you. Started to wonder if a females are fakes pretending to be males. And the makes psychologists studying women's sexual behaviour would explain alot. Either that or is natures way of saying to my gene pool "as an outsider what do you think of the human race" "
There are plenty of blokes on here that have has lots of meets. Not always the best looking guys either. Lots of different factors go into people's selection process. Have you been to clubs? This seems to be the most popular bit of advice I've seen x |
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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago
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Nope never been to a club and that's cause I don't have anyone to go with that's why I want to make good friends at first nothing more who can give me advise and guide me.
As a total newbie to those clubs I'd be shit scared of getting anything wrong the do's and do not's
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here. Been here for over a year and still not had a meet.
Made plenty of friends but think i should stop waiting for individuals to ask me for a meet and me just ask them 'do yoy want to meet'.
Patience is a virtue and all that x
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"Nope never been to a club and that's cause I don't have anyone to go with that's why I want to make good friends at first nothing more who can give me advise and guide me.
As a total newbie to those clubs I'd be shit scared of getting anything wrong the do's and do not's
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You can go as a single male and from what I've seen if you tell them it's your first time when you get there they show you round and tell you what's what.
Unfortunately I don't think people really come on here to just make friends. I've made a few as a result of being on here but it was more as a by product (for want of a better word) and by lots of chatting in the forums. And I'm pretty sure that's the same for lots of others. X |
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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago
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"Same here. Been here for over a year and still not had a meet.
Made plenty of friends but think i should stop waiting for individuals to ask me for a meet and me just ask them 'do yoy want to meet'.
Patience is a virtue and all that x
If you get really good at patience you will be like me 4 years waiting lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Luckily i've dined a few times. It's just a case of grasping opportunity when it arises and a little bit of persistence and patience. Not to mention a bit of luck being in contact with the right people, in the right area at the right time. |
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By *rSinful OP Man
over a year ago
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As you say you can just ask outright coldly "do you want a meet" to which the reply you will get is "fuck off I don't know you we have not chatted first" then if you chat you get ignored cause your boring you can't win. Maybe sheep lovers have it right after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As you say you can just ask outright coldly "do you want a meet" to which the reply you will get is "fuck off I don't know you we have not chatted first" then if you chat you get ignored cause your boring you can't win. Maybe sheep lovers have it right after all"
I wouldn't suggest asking someone to meet on a first message, however you responses indicate that you are chatting to some, so why not ask them if they would like a meet.
Your profile is verified, so unless its a webcam/phone veri it indicates you have had a meet in the past,which differs to your opening post. |
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"ok any serious comments now
Yes, OP, some good advice here;
Don't forget verifications work both ways. If you hide yours then those you have left for others might well still be a matter of public record on their profiles, thus showing you to be somewhat disingenuous with your claims perhaps...
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...or to put it another way OP;
pants on fire! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok any serious comments now
Yes, OP, some good advice here;
Don't forget verifications work both ways. If you hide yours then those you have left for others might well still be a matter of public record on their profiles, thus showing you to be somewhat disingenuous with your claims perhaps...
...or to put it another way OP;
pants on fire! "
I'm trying here...and my maths is on fire! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One main distinguishing point to guess is the starting message. Some prefer you to talk about non-sexual things and build rappor beforehand. However there are some that find that boring and want you to get straight to the point.
The hard part is working out what the individual you're aiming for is looking for themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how many men on here have still never had a meet on here. and feel like there stood outside the restraunt looking in at everyone else eating "
I felt like that for awhile and couldn't understand what the problem was - howvever, it quickly became obvious - several major factors, in my case:
First and foremost, I'm male - this makes me a member of the overwhelming majority on here . Second but by no means least, I'm straight - thus the overwhelming majority of those constantly seeking meets - men - are going to have no luck with me ... it was a lonely few months ... but I got there in the end - you will too. One word: Patience.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its difficult.
if your nice it can mean people take advantage and treat you just as bad.
if your mean and nasty some like it some dont.
just dont give you phone number out until youve meet is planned or you'll have a texter which is going to lead to nothing.
and finally.never get your hopes up that why when your let down its not so bad.
the only right time is when they are face to face.
then you know they are genuine.
everything else is talk.
firm but fair mate. |
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