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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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Perhaps a different approach could be drop in, say whatevvveer you want and then don’t give it a second thought. It feels quite liberating 
Sometimes I revisit but a lot I just leave. Yes, it’s nice to be included, it does take a while though. Eventually you dip back in and find people are talking to you rather than over you.
Hope you figure out what works
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What also puts me off is how they turn so quick. Not the people but the actual thread. Seems a lot of people just like to stir or provoke "
I honestly believe some Forumites could start an argument/fight in an empty room!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Understand this completely as have felt the same many times but now as profile is hidden I wouldn't normally make any comment, just be a lurker "
There's been a few threads I've commented on, then wish I could delete it, I know I can delete my comment within a certain time, but I mean all of it as though I've never been on there, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
Perhaps a different approach could be drop in, say whatevvveer you want and then don’t give it a second thought. It feels quite liberating
Sometimes I revisit but a lot I just leave. Yes, it’s nice to be included, it does take a while though. Eventually you dip back in and find people are talking to you rather than over you.
Hope you figure out what works
Sasha "
Thank you Sasha, I think I'll be choosy which ones I comment on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know exactly what you mean, I often end up becoming the voice of death to a thread or just get completely ignored lol
Doesn’t stop me from replying though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You should all just join in. You’re all welcome, you know. The more the merrier.
*These are my personal views and not those of any clique, official or otherwise."
Yes I know, but being ignored is not nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have actually left Fab on comments made about comments I have made in forums previously.
I am far from a snowflake but it seems that at certain times people say things as I’ve previous said to provoke a response. I always think would they really say that face to face.
I’ve only just come back Into the forums and will now stick up for myself as my skin is thick enough |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have actually left Fab on comments made about comments I have made in forums previously.
I am far from a snowflake but it seems that at certain times people say things as I’ve previous said to provoke a response. I always think would they really say that face to face.
I’ve only just come back Into the forums and will now stick up for myself as my skin is thick enough "
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I've said a few times that when I first started contributing to the Irish forums it took a couple of months before anyone really took heed of anything I said.
Around the same time I posted fairly regularly in the Lounge and Swingers chat and also went into the chatrooms a few times.
I can honestly say that it was almost 18 months before a single comment was responded to on either the lounge or swingers. Even threads I started disappeared without a reply.
If it hadn't been for the Irish forum I wouldn't be here now.
I'm still waiting on anyone to acknowledge me in any of the chatrooms so I don't go there anymore.
I've started threads here in more recent times that have never reached double figures in replies.
Then some of those forum darlings that aren't with us anymore but everyone says they miss copied and pasted my threads and they filled up within hours.
One such gent must have had his ego bruised because he insisted on copying my threads on a regular basis and kept bumping them.
I'm well aware that I don't follow trends on here and don't blow smoke up peoples arses but I'll keep on doing what I've always done
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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Yep happens a lot to us/me (Xeno) - either get ignored, a random couple will pick a fight over absolutely nothing, or the rarer option I'll actually get a nice response! |
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"Do you mean when 'the clique' start chatting amongst themselves and take over a thread?!!
You arent the only one, believe me"
It's so boring, just start a group chat somewhere else for fucks sake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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Just get involved anyway. I shove myself in, and am absolutely not part of any clique! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you mean when 'the clique' start chatting amongst themselves and take over a thread?!!
You arent the only one, believe me
It's so boring, just start a group chat somewhere else for fucks sake "
Exactly!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely not just you, often don’t bother commenting due to just being ignored
Hello and welcome to my thread 
Thank you, thanks for having me here lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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Nope as the ‘clique’ doesn’t bother me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
Just get involved anyway. I shove myself in, and am absolutely not part of any clique! "
Yeah you are |
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By *issMBWoman
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
Just get involved anyway. I shove myself in, and am absolutely not part of any clique! "
I do the same. Bulldoze my way in with a show of jazzhands and some light tomfoolery, then wander off whistling casually as if nothing ever happened. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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Post cor yourself first and for most its what I do.
If you get included great, excluded great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
Just get involved anyway. I shove myself in, and am absolutely not part of any clique!
Yeah you are "
Which clique is that?! I think more people think I'm an asshole than you realise |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I comment on a thread if it takes my interest. I don't comment expecting anyone to respond to me. Which is good because I rarely get anyone responding to anything I say on here or in the lounge anyhow but to be honest it doesn't bother me .I've never been someone who needs to be in with the popular crew or will agree with people just to fit in. I will just say what I think if others agree then great if they don't that's fine too. I'll continue to just potter away and joining in if there is something I find interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
Just get involved anyway. I shove myself in, and am absolutely not part of any clique!
Yeah you are
Which clique is that?! I think more people think I'm an asshole than you realise "
I could name a lot
Nah they don’t think that at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
Just get involved anyway. I shove myself in, and am absolutely not part of any clique!
Yeah you are
Which clique is that?! I think more people think I'm an asshole than you realise
I could name a lot
Nah they don’t think that at all "
Are you in some secret society that talks about me...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
Just get involved anyway. I shove myself in, and am absolutely not part of any clique!
Yeah you are
Which clique is that?! I think more people think I'm an asshole than you realise
I could name a lot
Nah they don’t think that at all
Are you in some secret society that talks about me...?"
You’ll never know |
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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Depends how late I am to the thread... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be hard on a fast moving thread for the OP to reply to everyone
Also, not all OPs want to hog the thread by replying to everyone.... some forget about the post, or go to do something else (ie work) and just forget about the thread.
The evening thread tends to be very welcoming /all inclusive - i would recommend trying that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
Depends how late I am to the thread..."
Hello Phil |
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
Depends how late I am to the thread...
Hello Phil "
Hey Vixen  |
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I dip in and out, OP - if something interests me or I think I've got something to say (and quite often delete draft posts!). I do know what to mean, though, but I would say: post whenever you want to and on any thread. There will be lots of people enjoying reading your posts, even if they don't reply (he tells himself, reassuringly). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There’s always a risk of nice threads being forgotten overnight and disappearing without trace. So I thought I’d give this one a morning bump. "
And good morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi. Like everyone on this thread I have experienced being ignored by the clique. But as another poster from Ireland stated its a lot worse in the Ireland threads. Some really cliquey judgemental and a little nastymean girls/guys in those threads. Probably a bad idea saying these things in public but I rarely see them in these bigger forums they tend to stick to their smaller pools.
Hello Maturevixen. Brave lady popping her head up to start this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi. Like everyone on this thread I have experienced being ignored by the clique. But as another poster from Ireland stated its a lot worse in the Ireland threads. Some really cliquey judgemental and a little nastymean girls/guys in those threads. Probably a bad idea saying these things in public but I rarely see them in these bigger forums they tend to stick to their smaller pools.
Hello Maturevixen. Brave lady popping her head up to start this thread. "
Hello, and welcome, I don't think I was being brave, it was how I was feeling yesterday, its nice to know I'm not the only one who thinks like I do, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've said a few times that when I first started contributing to the Irish forums it took a couple of months before anyone really took heed of anything I said.
Around the same time I posted fairly regularly in the Lounge and Swingers chat and also went into the chatrooms a few times.
I can honestly say that it was almost 18 months before a single comment was responded to on either the lounge or swingers. Even threads I started disappeared without a reply.
If it hadn't been for the Irish forum I wouldn't be here now.
I'm still waiting on anyone to acknowledge me in any of the chatrooms so I don't go there anymore.
I've started threads here in more recent times that have never reached double figures in replies.
Then some of those forum darlings that aren't with us anymore but everyone says they miss copied and pasted my threads and they filled up within hours.
One such gent must have had his ego bruised because he insisted on copying my threads on a regular basis and kept bumping them.
I'm well aware that I don't follow trends on here and don't blow smoke up peoples arses but I'll keep on doing what I've always done
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Hello RB I missed this yesterday, welcome |
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"I get ignored in every thread but then I talk quite a lot of shite and if accused of derailment would find it difficult to argue with  "
I’m pretty sure talking quite a lot of shite is the whole point of these forums. Carry on!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get ignored in every thread but then I talk quite a lot of shite and if accused of derailment would find it difficult to argue with
Loool. That makes two of us! "
Timely reminder to go and check out day nines photo
Anyone hear Brittany Spears?? Oops I did it again |
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"I'm well aware that I don't follow trends on here and don't blow smoke up peoples arses but I'll keep on doing what I've always done
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Even worse are the threads where the originator posts some banal question wrapped in the logical train of thought of a 12 year old, under the guise of a not-so-humble-brag, or to seek out attention. Usually followed by the thread devolving into a whole bunch of sycophantic peacockery
So yeah, i’d say keep doing what you are doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can be hard on a fast moving thread for the OP to reply to everyone
Also, not all OPs want to hog the thread by replying to everyone.... some forget about the post, or go to do something else (ie work) and just forget about the thread.
The evening thread tends to be very welcoming /all inclusive - i would recommend trying that "
My point proven  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really think people need to lighten up. This isn't an EU nation debate, it's a place where anyone can make any thread at anytime and it's your choice comment and get involved, or even read it for that matter.
Of course there's gonna be lots of shit threads, ridiculous flirting etc - but what would you want it to be?
More posts about erectile dysfunction? More how do you like your toast in the morning? Either way if you want it, start a thread about it! |
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"You should all just join in. You’re all welcome, you know. The more the merrier.
*These are my personal views and not those of any clique, official or otherwise.
Yes I know, but being ignored is not nice "
It’s not nice but if you comment on any thread beautiful you will be sure to be appreciated by me and many others. It’s an open forum for a reason and if you want to join in, if anyone wants to join in they should always be made to feel welcome. They certainly are from me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You should all just join in. You’re all welcome, you know. The more the merrier.
*These are my personal views and not those of any clique, official or otherwise.
Yes I know, but being ignored is not nice
It’s not nice but if you comment on any thread beautiful you will be sure to be appreciated by me and many others. It’s an open forum for a reason and if you want to join in, if anyone wants to join in they should always be made to feel welcome. They certainly are from me "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really think people need to lighten up. This isn't an EU nation debate, it's a place where anyone can make any thread at anytime and it's your choice comment and get involved, or even read it for that matter.
Of course there's gonna be lots of shit threads, ridiculous flirting etc - but what would you want it to be?
More posts about erectile dysfunction? More how do you like your toast in the morning? Either way if you want it, start a thread about it! "
If you are referring to the OP's original commemt, its nothing to do with the content or themes.
Its about the exclusivity of a lot of threads, and how many people when posting get overlooked or ignored...especially when certain regular forumites start their own private chat within the thread.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I really think people need to lighten up. This isn't an EU nation debate, it's a place where anyone can make any thread at anytime and it's your choice comment and get involved, or even read it for that matter.
Of course there's gonna be lots of shit threads, ridiculous flirting etc - but what would you want it to be?
More posts about erectile dysfunction? More how do you like your toast in the morning? Either way if you want it, start a thread about it!
If you are referring to the OP's original commemt, its nothing to do with the content or themes.
Its about the exclusivity of a lot of threads, and how many people when posting get overlooked or ignored...especially when certain regular forumites start their own private chat within the thread.
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You've got it in one, I don't care what the thread is, it's how people " welcome you, or ignore you" |
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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I always feel like this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
I always feel like this "
Hello, welcome to my thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just post a comment where I feel like it, I don't expect a response tbh. I would NEVER start a thread though due to seeing folk anhialated in some threads, mostly men to be fair which is a shame  |
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"You should all just join in. You’re all welcome, you know. The more the merrier.
*These are my personal views and not those of any clique, official or otherwise.
Yes I know, but being ignored is not nice
It’s not nice but if you comment on any thread beautiful you will be sure to be appreciated by me and many others. It’s an open forum for a reason and if you want to join in, if anyone wants to join in they should always be made to feel welcome. They certainly are from me
Hello gorgeous girl "
Hey beautiful. Like your thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I first joined, I was mostly not responded to. But half a year or so of consistent posting I kind of found my people and those I click with. I don't think that means some people exclude others, it's more so people who get to know each other can kind of bounce off each other... and there's lots of friendships on here too which shows in threads as the chat expands.
I'm sure there are people who do exclude others, but it's not something I've noticed often. If you hide yourself away in fear of an imaginary clique, you'll gain nothing from it. Be yourself, post where you want, and those who like you will like you. If you get left out the chances of that being done to you intentionally is very low.
You've got tits anyway so you definitely won't be ignored by everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just post a comment where I feel like it, I don't expect a response tbh. I would NEVER start a thread though due to seeing folk anhialated in some threads, mostly men to be fair which is a shame "
Yes, ive noticed that a lot recently.
Usually when a thread title is misinterpreted, or some people just read it how they want to read it...then the judgements and criticism starts...no rationality.
Its like a pack of Hyenas circling a wounded Gazelle
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"When I first joined, I was mostly not responded to. But half a year or so of consistent posting I kind of found my people and those I click with. I don't think that means some people exclude others, it's more so people who get to know each other can kind of bounce off each other... and there's lots of friendships on here too which shows in threads as the chat expands.
I'm sure there are people who do exclude others, but it's not something I've noticed often. If you hide yourself away in fear of an imaginary clique, you'll gain nothing from it. Be yourself, post where you want, and those who like you will like you. If you get left out the chances of that being done to you intentionally is very low.
You've got tits anyway so you definitely won't be ignored by everyone. "
I was totally like you Lemon. But I was a prolific poster on the forums when I was on here before and I loved them. I honestly just comment on what I’m interested in. Mostly saucy stuff  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When I first joined, I was mostly not responded to. But half a year or so of consistent posting I kind of found my people and those I click with. I don't think that means some people exclude others, it's more so people who get to know each other can kind of bounce off each other... and there's lots of friendships on here too which shows in threads as the chat expands.
I'm sure there are people who do exclude others, but it's not something I've noticed often. If you hide yourself away in fear of an imaginary clique, you'll gain nothing from it. Be yourself, post where you want, and those who like you will like you. If you get left out the chances of that being done to you intentionally is very low.
You've got tits anyway so you definitely won't be ignored by everyone. "
I might have tits, funny enough that's the Threads I get ignored on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I might have tits, funny enough that's the Threads I get ignored on lol"
Have you got the wrong sort of tits? Unverified tits?
Is there an Elite Tit Clique we are unaware of?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really think people need to lighten up. This isn't an EU nation debate, it's a place where anyone can make any thread at anytime and it's your choice comment and get involved, or even read it for that matter.
Of course there's gonna be lots of shit threads, ridiculous flirting etc - but what would you want it to be?
More posts about erectile dysfunction? More how do you like your toast in the morning? Either way if you want it, start a thread about it!
If you are referring to the OP's original commemt, its nothing to do with the content or themes.
Its about the exclusivity of a lot of threads, and how many people when posting get overlooked or ignored...especially when certain regular forumites start their own private chat within the thread.
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But if that happens it's only cause no one else is joining in. Also so many people post comments which probably aren't gonna get a reply. If you're number 54 in the thread, haven't made an effort with anyone, and reply 'yes' to a question and that's it, you can't really expect a reply can you?
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"I've said a few times that when I first started contributing to the Irish forums it took a couple of months before anyone really took heed of anything I said.
Around the same time I posted fairly regularly in the Lounge and Swingers chat and also went into the chatrooms a few times.
I can honestly say that it was almost 18 months before a single comment was responded to on either the lounge or swingers. Even threads I started disappeared without a reply.
If it hadn't been for the Irish forum I wouldn't be here now.
I'm still waiting on anyone to acknowledge me in any of the chatrooms so I don't go there anymore.
I've started threads here in more recent times that have never reached double figures in replies.
Then some of those forum darlings that aren't with us anymore but everyone says they miss copied and pasted my threads and they filled up within hours.
One such gent must have had his ego bruised because he insisted on copying my threads on a regular basis and kept bumping them.
I'm well aware that I don't follow trends on here and don't blow smoke up peoples arses but I'll keep on doing what I've always done
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Having smoke blown up my arse is not a fetish of mine unfortunately - but if it was you’d be the guy I’d want doing it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really think people need to lighten up. This isn't an EU nation debate, it's a place where anyone can make any thread at anytime and it's your choice comment and get involved, or even read it for that matter.
Of course there's gonna be lots of shit threads, ridiculous flirting etc - but what would you want it to be?
More posts about erectile dysfunction? More how do you like your toast in the morning? Either way if you want it, start a thread about it! "
I don't think she is moaning about the quality of the content of the threads, rather that she fears she will be ignored if she were to reply on any of them ... . So she has made her own i
'inclusive' thread.. And proceeded to do exactly what she is accusing others of  |
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"When I first joined, I was mostly not responded to. But half a year or so of consistent posting I kind of found my people and those I click with. I don't think that means some people exclude others, it's more so people who get to know each other can kind of bounce off each other... and there's lots of friendships on here too which shows in threads as the chat expands.
I'm sure there are people who do exclude others, but it's not something I've noticed often. If you hide yourself away in fear of an imaginary clique, you'll gain nothing from it. Be yourself, post where you want, and those who like you will like you. If you get left out the chances of that being done to you intentionally is very low.
You've got tits anyway so you definitely won't be ignored by everyone.
I might have tits, funny enough that's the Threads I get ignored on lol"
Me too lol, I always think right I'll tuck my 38k's away then - Xeno |
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"I really think people need to lighten up. This isn't an EU nation debate, it's a place where anyone can make any thread at anytime and it's your choice comment and get involved, or even read it for that matter.
Of course there's gonna be lots of shit threads, ridiculous flirting etc - but what would you want it to be?
More posts about erectile dysfunction? More how do you like your toast in the morning? Either way if you want it, start a thread about it!
I don't think she is moaning about the quality of the content of the threads, rather that she fears she will be ignored if she were to reply on any of them ... . So she has made her own i
'inclusive' thread.. And proceeded to do exactly what she is accusing others of "
I have tried to message everyone, sorry I missed you out
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"When I first joined, I was mostly not responded to. But half a year or so of consistent posting I kind of found my people and those I click with. I don't think that means some people exclude others, it's more so people who get to know each other can kind of bounce off each other... and there's lots of friendships on here too which shows in threads as the chat expands.
I'm sure there are people who do exclude others, but it's not something I've noticed often. If you hide yourself away in fear of an imaginary clique, you'll gain nothing from it. Be yourself, post where you want, and those who like you will like you. If you get left out the chances of that being done to you intentionally is very low.
You've got tits anyway so you definitely won't be ignored by everyone.
I might have tits, funny enough that's the Threads I get ignored on lol
Me too lol, I always think right I'll tuck my 38k's away then - Xeno"
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"No, say what you got to say. So what if no one responds to you, you’re only giving your opinion on said thread. Most people disagree with mine anyway still doesn’t stop me from saying it.
The mr "
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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Mårnie, don't succumb to trepidation. The fora 'belongs' to everyone and no one. If you wish to post, post. Just keep going!
When I joined the fora I was alone and solitary and felt unable to understand the 'in jokes', but I still carried on regardless. It can be soul-destroying, I admit, but I still advocate perseverance. |
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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Mårnie, don't succumb to trepidation. The fora 'belongs' to everyone and no one. If you wish to post, post. Just keep going!
When I joined the fora I was alone and solitary and felt unable to understand the 'in jokes', but I still carried on regardless. It can be soul-destroying, I admit, but I still advocate perseverance."
Thank you Nero, most now I just read the comment's, but I do comment on the odd one or 2 |
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"I like reading the Threads on here, and commenting on some of them, some I'd like to comment on but won't because I know I'd get "left out".
Does anyone else feel like this.
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Mårnie, don't succumb to trepidation. The fora 'belongs' to everyone and no one. If you wish to post, post. Just keep going!
When I joined the fora I was alone and solitary and felt unable to understand the 'in jokes', but I still carried on regardless. It can be soul-destroying, I admit, but I still advocate perseverance.
Thank you Nero, most now I just read the comment's, but I do comment on the odd one or 2 "
Hey beautiful! I hope your thread has treated you well? I’ve enjoyed it and think it has been very thought provoking at times. Just be you. Always |
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