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"Would you fuck a pretty face but ok body? Or sexy body but ok face? For fucking, i go for body if i couldn't have both "I’m not seeing a negative in either. an okay is literally OK!
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"This is a very interesting question, for me both have got to appeal to me, along with a great personality " But it’s the OK description that’s off putting. If a woman walked up to me and she’s alright but her body is hot… compared to a lady who is not good looking but sexy body (in my opinion)?!? Different again. | |||
"Would you fuck a pretty face but ok body? Or sexy body but ok face? For fucking, i go for body if i couldn't have both
I’m not seeing a negative in either. an okay is literally OK!
But just for sex - body. "Maybe I think more like a man when it comes to fucking. I need a hot body to fuck as it really turns me on when I see one. I'm very visual in my approach. Obviously if they don't have the technique, i guide them. If they're not willing to listen and learn. I just leave | |||
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"Face everytime, I can't kiss someone I don't like to look at. Mrs " Exactly this | |||
"Would you fuck a pretty face but ok body? Or sexy body but ok face? For fucking, i go for body if i couldn't have both
I’m not seeing a negative in either. an okay is literally OK!
But just for sex - body.
Maybe I think more like a man when it comes to fucking. I need a hot body to fuck as it really turns me on when I see one. I'm very visual in my approach. Obviously if they don't have the technique, i guide them. If they're not willing to listen and learn. I just leave "But I’ve explained loads on here that a pretty girl that turns me on can have whatever body she likes. It’s pointless being okay in any department for some men if they don’t like you. | |||
"Would you fuck a pretty face but ok body? Or sexy body but ok face? For fucking, i go for body if i couldn't have both
I’m not seeing a negative in either. an okay is literally OK!
But just for sex - body.
Maybe I think more like a man when it comes to fucking. I need a hot body to fuck as it really turns me on when I see one. I'm very visual in my approach. Obviously if they don't have the technique, i guide them. If they're not willing to listen and learn. I just leave
But I’ve explained loads on here that a pretty girl that turns me on can have whatever body she likes. It’s pointless being okay in any department for some men if they don’t like you. "Not directed at you op, I’m just generalising. | |||
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"Would you fuck a pretty face but ok body? Or sexy body but ok face? For fucking, i go for body if i couldn't have both "I’m hoping someone posts a thread for an okay face and an okay body | |||
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"Face, there has to be a sparkle in her eyes " I rarely get men asking for my face pic. My last fab meet didn't even ask... I had to offer it and that's after we agreed to meet! Lol | |||
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"Neither really, not body or face. Technique is more important "How can you tell when you use fab and see profiles? You have to decide if ya wana play this game: face or body?  | |||
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"Would you fuck a pretty face but ok body? Or sexy body but ok face? For fucking, i go for body if i couldn't have both "This is a difficult one… I think either sexy body and ok face or stunning facial and ok body. As there’s always a middle ground. I definitely think there’s a middle ground and personality always plays a role subconsciously. However, if those were the only two options I’d have to say I’m leaning to agree with you OP. Someone could be facial stunning but if I didn’t find their body attractive we couldn’t fuck. | |||
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"I think most go for face because I get turned down on those grounds huh "Yep. | |||
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So body for sure. | |||
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"BOBFOC definitely..." Love this acronym | |||
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"Face body when it comes to attraction for me. I feel my face is better than my body also! "Couldn't decide what one of them so I thought why not fabb both of them x  | |||
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"Face body when it comes to attraction for me. I feel my face is better than my body also! "From what can be seen in your public pics both look appetising. | |||
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"Whole package for me! There has to be attraction! They could have the body of an Adonis but if their face and personality doesn’t appeal to me, then it’s a no! I like partners I can chat to easily and have a bit of banter with too! Mrs "Totally this. | |||
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"I go for face everytime. The body is not a deciding factor for me. " Yes, us too | |||
"I’m all about the face. A hot body with a not-so-attractive face does absolutely nothing for me. A handsome face is a deal breaker for me "Hows mine? | |||
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"Whole package for me! There has to be attraction! They could have the body of an Adonis but if their face and personality doesn’t appeal to me, then it’s a no! I like partners I can chat to easily and have a bit of banter with too! Mrs "Totally agree with you x great comment x | |||
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"Would you fuck a pretty face but ok body? Or sexy body but ok face? For fucking, i go for body if i couldn't have both "We dont go for either as if they are not what we are after sexwise or no chemistry when we meet them they could have a beautiful face or body but it still wont happen if we dont gel. | |||
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"Definitely face over body. They can have the hottest body going, if the face isn’t for me…then I won’t meet them. But equally, I know I have a good face (with make up on) but a below average body unfortunately. " You have great both! | |||
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"The irony is how almost everyone in the thread is mostly using their body to advertise themselves on their profiles "It’s probably because a lot of people don’t want to put public face pics for privacy reasons. I’ll happily send a face pic to a guy that I find attractive and has sent me a face pic | |||
"The irony is how almost everyone in the thread is mostly using their body to advertise themselves on their profiles
It’s probably because a lot of people don’t want to put public face pics for privacy reasons. I’ll happily send a face pic to a guy that I find attractive and has sent me a face pic "
Would sacrifice alot for a heavy kissing session with you | |||
"The irony is how almost everyone in the thread is mostly using their body to advertise themselves on their profiles
It’s probably because a lot of people don’t want to put public face pics for privacy reasons. I’ll happily send a face pic to a guy that I find attractive and has sent me a face pic
Would sacrifice alot for a heavy kissing session with you "Not sure if that was meant for me or UglyBetty but if it’s for me… I’ve never seen a guy win a wet t-shirt contest til now. Sweet baby Jesus | |||
"BOBFOC definitely..." That!!! Lol, the number of time's the balloons deflated on receipt of face pics.. Apologies! However in person and a great persona has altered that position numerous times | |||
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"It’s probably because a lot of people don’t want to put public face pics for privacy reasons. I’ll happily send a face pic to a guy that I find attractive and has sent me a face pic " Which is understandable, but then if you're going to hide your face, what pics are you going to use instead? I know people surely can't be getting swept off their feet by the sparkling personalities they've gleaned off of messages & forum posts. | |||
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"It’s probably because a lot of people don’t want to put public face pics for privacy reasons. I’ll happily send a face pic to a guy that I find attractive and has sent me a face pic Which is understandable, but then if you're going to hide your face, what pics are you going to use instead? I know people surely can't be getting swept off their feet by the sparkling personalities they've gleaned off of messages & forum posts." My latest fab meet did. He didn't ask for my face pic lol | |||
"The irony is how almost everyone in the thread is mostly using their body to advertise themselves on their profiles
It’s probably because a lot of people don’t want to put public face pics for privacy reasons. I’ll happily send a face pic to a guy that I find attractive and has sent me a face pic
Would sacrifice alot for a heavy kissing session with you
Not sure if that was meant for me or UglyBetty but if it’s for me…
I’ve never seen a guy win a wet t-shirt contest til now. Sweet baby Jesus "Wanna help me dry off? | |||
"The irony is how almost everyone in the thread is mostly using their body to advertise themselves on their profiles "I would never show my face unless i want to meet the guy in person so yes my body is all i have to offer at the initial stage. If we chatted and I didn't like his attitude, I wouldn't meet regardless how hot his body was. | |||
"Face every single time No point in having a exceptional body if you've fell out the ugly tree. You can change your body you can't change your face.....but ultimately it comes to down what the person is like...if you look like Megan fox but you're a c**t I wouldn't touch you with a barge pole" I agree with what I am saying...speaking facts | |||
"You can change your body you can't change your face" Make up? If anything it's probably easier to change your face. To change your body requires either a lot of money or a lot of hard work, or both. | |||
"You can change your body you can't change your face Make up? If anything it's probably easier to change your face. To change your body requires either a lot of money or a lot of hard work, or both. " Agree and alot of women swear by this. Some of the makeup tutorials online are so transforming. Proper cat fishing lol | |||
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"It’s probably because a lot of people don’t want to put public face pics for privacy reasons. I’ll happily send a face pic to a guy that I find attractive and has sent me a face pic Which is understandable, but then if you're going to hide your face, what pics are you going to use instead? I know people surely can't be getting swept off their feet by the sparkling personalities they've gleaned off of messages & forum posts." So if a guy messaged me and his profile shows he has a good body and no face pics, I’ll ask for the face pic. Only if I’m attracted to his face will I continue to talk to him… Did that make sense? So, the body gets the initial interest but if his face isn’t attractive, I lose interest | |||
"The irony is how almost everyone in the thread is mostly using their body to advertise themselves on their profiles
It’s probably because a lot of people don’t want to put public face pics for privacy reasons. I’ll happily send a face pic to a guy that I find attractive and has sent me a face pic
Would sacrifice alot for a heavy kissing session with you
Not sure if that was meant for me or UglyBetty but if it’s for me…
I’ve never seen a guy win a wet t-shirt contest til now. Sweet baby Jesus
Wanna help me dry off? "If it means me getting wetter | |||
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"Agree and alot of women swear by this. Some of the makeup tutorials online are so transforming. Proper cat fishing lol" I was going to say anyone who has seen a transgender make up tutorial can attest to how skilled make-up application can work actual miracles. | |||
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"You can change your body you can't change your face Make up? If anything it's probably easier to change your face. To change your body requires either a lot of money or a lot of hard work, or both. " Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc... | |||
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"Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc..." Well no it's not going to do much for specific facial features someone has arbitrarily deemed as ugly. I personally can't imagine turning away a fit lad just because I thought his nose was 1/8 of a millimeter to big. Isn't this site called fabswingers? Lmao. I do get the sense that not every participant in this thread is answering honestly | |||
"The irony is how almost everyone in the thread is mostly using their body to advertise themselves on their profiles
It’s probably because a lot of people don’t want to put public face pics for privacy reasons. I’ll happily send a face pic to a guy that I find attractive and has sent me a face pic
Would sacrifice alot for a heavy kissing session with you
Not sure if that was meant for me or UglyBetty but if it’s for me…
I’ve never seen a guy win a wet t-shirt contest til now. Sweet baby Jesus
Wanna help me dry off?
If it means me getting wetter "Take your time with it and we will find out won't we? | |||
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"Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc... Well no it's not going to do much for specific facial features someone has arbitrarily deemed as ugly. I personally can't imagine turning away a fit lad just because I thought his nose was 1/8 of a millimeter to big. Isn't this site called fabswingers? Lmao. I do get the sense that not every participant in this thread is answering honestly "I'm not talking about a slight nose defect I'm talking about someone that is just plain ugly So if I was messaging a woman on here and she had an amazing body and we was getting on then all off a sudden she sent a face pic and her face was that of Theresa may I'm saying thanks but no thanks | |||
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"You can change your body you can't change your face Make up? If anything it's probably easier to change your face. To change your body requires either a lot of money or a lot of hard work, or both. Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc..." You need to watch these make up tutorials. Lol | |||
"So if I was messaging a woman on here and she had an amazing body and we was getting on then all off a sudden she sent a face pic and her face was that of Theresa may I'm saying thanks but no thanks" Horses for courses I guess. I could very easily overlook a Theresa May face if she has a Beyonce body without any issues. Genuinely don't think I've ever been sexually attracted to anyone by looking at their face. It just doesn't work for me in that way. Acknowledging pretty people just isn't the same thing to me. | |||
"Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc... Well no it's not going to do much for specific facial features someone has arbitrarily deemed as ugly. I personally can't imagine turning away a fit lad just because I thought his nose was 1/8 of a millimeter to big. Isn't this site called fabswingers? Lmao. I do get the sense that not every participant in this thread is answering honestly
I'm not talking about a slight nose defect I'm talking about someone that is just plain ugly
So if I was messaging a woman on here and she had an amazing body and we was getting on then all off a sudden she sent a face pic and her face was that of Theresa may I'm saying thanks but no thanks"I get that often here with men....such a big cock wasted lol | |||
" Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc..." You underestimate some women's abilities my friend. Give me a contour pallet and I could transform someone’s facial structure and appearance of their nose in no time | |||
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"Would you fuck a pretty face but ok body? Or sexy body but ok face? For fucking, i go for body if i couldn't have both "Both of your options sound great. Only issue for me would be an ugly face | |||
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"You can change your body you can't change your face Make up? If anything it's probably easier to change your face. To change your body requires either a lot of money or a lot of hard work, or both. Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc... You need to watch these make up tutorials. Lol" heavy contour is hilarious at altering a face shape visually for most peoples glances | |||
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"So if I was messaging a woman on here and she had an amazing body and we was getting on then all off a sudden she sent a face pic and her face was that of Theresa may I'm saying thanks but no thanks Horses for courses I guess. I could very easily overlook a Theresa May face if she has a Beyonce body without any issues. Genuinely don't think I've ever been sexually attracted to anyone by looking at their face. It just doesn't work for me in that way. Acknowledging pretty people just isn't the same thing to me." Fair play...each to their own | |||
" Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc... You underestimate some women's abilities my friend. Give me a contour pallet and I could transform someone’s facial structure and appearance of their nose in no time "So could you make Theresa may look like Megan fox with Make up? | |||
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"So could you make Theresa may look like Megan fox with Make up?" A skilled make-up artist can make Lewis Hamilton look like Megan Fox. | |||
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" Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc... You underestimate some women's abilities my friend. Give me a contour pallet and I could transform someone’s facial structure and appearance of their nose in no time
So could you make Theresa may look like Megan fox with Make up?"Easy | |||
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"Woo this is a good one. As a bbw (not the fabulously curvy kind) its difficult. Not boasting, i get told i have a pretty face, but i know my body lets me down. Each to there own, i do like a good dad body mind. Like a brick shot house of a man "bet you have a lovely body | |||
"Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc... Well no it's not going to do much for specific facial features someone has arbitrarily deemed as ugly. I personally can't imagine turning away a fit lad just because I thought his nose was 1/8 of a millimeter to big. Isn't this site called fabswingers? Lmao. I do get the sense that not every participant in this thread is answering honestly "Because they disagree with you?
People can have personal opinions that differ. And on your argument that facial features are subject to fashion whilst body shape is timeless, I adduce Rubens, the Venus of Willdorf, most of the Nigerian and Ethiopian art traditions...for many cultures, what we would now call an obese body was hugely desirable for its indications of wealth and status.
On the other hand, look at Michaelangelo's David, or statues of Bellerophon (both with cocks much smaler than modern taste would deem attractive, but seen as more aesthetically pleasing by the Greeks), or Aphrodite...Cupid's bow lips, clear cheekbones, well-separated, large, bright eyes, strong, even, white teeth, and lustrous hair have been prerequisites of facial beauty for 1,000s of years. Fashions for piercings or no, 'fierce' or 'passive' attitudes, etc are certainly fashionable. But the physical features I list are universal. | |||
"Make up doesn't change someone facial structure,big ears , big nose, bad teeth etc... Well no it's not going to do much for specific facial features someone has arbitrarily deemed as ugly. I personally can't imagine turning away a fit lad just because I thought his nose was 1/8 of a millimeter to big. Isn't this site called fabswingers? Lmao. I do get the sense that not every participant in this thread is answering honestly
Because they disagree with you?
People can have personal opinions that differ. And on your argument that facial features are subject to fashion whilst body shape is timeless, I adduce Rubens, the Venus of Willdorf, most of the Nigerian and Ethiopian art traditions...for many cultures, what we would now call an obese body was hugely desirable for its indications of wealth and status.
On the other hand, look at Michaelangelo's David, or statues of Bellerophon (both with cocks much smaler than modern taste would deem attractive, but seen as more aesthetically pleasing by the Greeks), or Aphrodite...Cupid's bow lips, clear cheekbones, well-separated, large, bright eyes, strong, even, white teeth, and lustrous hair have been prerequisites of facial beauty for 1,000s of years. Fashions for piercings or no, 'fierce' or 'passive' attitudes, etc are certainly fashionable. But the physical features I list are universal."I always gone for tall althetic types as i love the feel of the bodies and how they take charge in bed throwing me about for hours so my answer still remains as I choose body over face when it comes to a fuck. | |||
"….or Aphrodite...Cupid's bow lips, clear cheekbones, well-separated, large, bright eyes, strong, even, white teeth, and lustrous hair have been prerequisites of facial beauty for 1,000s of years. Fashions for piercings or no, 'fierce' or 'passive' attitudes, etc are certainly fashionable. But the physical features I list are universal." Which pub does she drink in? She sounds hot. | |||
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"Because they disagree with you?" Well no, it's because nearly everyone in this thread, including you, are using primarily images of their bodies to advertise themselves. So evidently, there are 2 types of respondents to the OP; people who are answering honestly, and people who are just saying what they think the females want to hear. "People can have personal opinions that differ. And on your argument that facial features are subject to fashion whilst body shape is timeless, I adduce Rubens, the Venus of Willdorf, most of the Nigerian and Ethiopian art traditions...for many cultures, what we would now call an obese body was hugely desirable for its indications of wealth and status." But the one thing it is not is an indication of optimal physical conditioning "On the other hand, look at Michaelangelo's David, or statues of Bellerophon (both with cocks much smaler than modern taste would deem attractive, but seen as more aesthetically pleasing by the Greeks), or Aphrodite...Cupid's bow lips, clear cheekbones, well-separated, large, bright eyes, strong, even, white teeth, and lustrous hair have been prerequisites of facial beauty for 1,000s of years. Fashions for piercings or no, 'fierce' or 'passive' attitudes, etc are certainly fashionable. But the physical features I list are universal." The one thing those features are not is universal. They're dictated by which geographical region they're originating from, and in what period of time they existed in. 500 years ago people (in Europe) thought the Mona Lisa was the most beautiful woman in the world. Ask people now if they feel the same way about the Mona Lisa, and then ask them if they would ideally like to shed a few pounds | |||
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"Would be interesting to see the difference in success rates on here if you couldn't show your body or describe it and the only picture you could have was of your face..." Yes I wonder how many men get by with face and personality alone lol | |||
"Would be interesting to see the difference in success rates on here if you couldn't show your body or describe it and the only picture you could have was of your face... Yes I wonder how many men get by with face and personality alone lol" Was on about men and women | |||
"Face grabs the attention, body turns it to lust....personality keeps the interest." Body grabs men to message me and personality...who really knows. They just instantly ask to meet without even talking to me first or wanting to see my face pic. My latest meet just based me on my profile and the fact I wanted to meet him! Lol he chose wizely though as we get on really well in reality and have quite alot in common! Lol but our convo was very brief considering I normally grill them first | |||
"Would be interesting to see the difference in success rates on here if you couldn't show your body or describe it and the only picture you could have was of your face... Yes I wonder how many men get by with face and personality alone lol Was on about men and women "I rarely refer to women as I don't speak to many women on fab, only what i read about them on forum...so my opinions will always be about men I'm afraid! The only topic i have experience in | |||
"Would be interesting to see the difference in success rates on here if you couldn't show your body or describe it and the only picture you could have was of your face... Yes I wonder how many men get by with face and personality alone lol Was on about men and women
I rarely refer to women as I don't speak to many women on fab, only what i read about them on forum...so my opinions will always be about men I'm afraid! The only topic i have experience in "That's fair enough | |||
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"Because they disagree with you? Well no, it's because nearly everyone in this thread, including you, are using primarily images of their bodies to advertise themselves. So evidently, there are 2 types of respondents to the OP; people who are answering honestly, and people who are just saying what they think the females want to hear. " I have MASSES of pictures of my face on my profile. I've often used a face pic as my main profile pic. And the reason I have fewer than I used to is because of people telling me they preffered fewer face pics. "But the one thing it is not is an indication of optimal physical conditioning." No, and I never claimed it was. Who cares about 'optimal physical conditioning?' Are we starting a eugenics programme? | |||
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"I have MASSES of pictures of my face on my profile. I've often used a face pic as my main profile pic. And the reason I have fewer than I used to is because of people telling me they preffered fewer face pics." Well you're the exception to the rule and even then you acknowledge that people have told you to put less mugshots up " No, and I never claimed it was. Who cares about 'optimal physical conditioning?" We ALL do, albeit subconsciously. I'm glad you said the "E" word because I was half tempted to make the point in one of my earlier posts that observing physical vitality plays a big part in human sexual attraction for obvious reasons. I didn't want to actually say it though in case it got misinterpreted. | |||
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