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I have been groped by a stranger on a bus I was alone and I did not enjoy it. In my opinion sexual contact has to be consensual and if someone's a stranger then I can't consent. I was young and naïve at the time so did nothing if someone did it now things would be very different. |
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"I have been groped by a stranger on a bus I was alone and I did not enjoy it. In my opinion sexual contact has to be consensual and if someone's a stranger then I can't consent. I was young and naïve at the time so did nothing if someone did it now things would be very different."
I've had the same experience including someone trying to grab me on the street. At the time I was very quiet and shy and didn't like confrontation, now though they'd get one HELL of a thrashing! Assholes. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Years ago at a music festival I had a stranger grope me, gave him what for and his reply was that because I was dancing close to him he thought I was flirting!! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Perhaps I should have been more explicit that "and enjoyed it of course" implied consent. "
in clubs, it happens too often I think. The reactions sadly are often different, the guys get lambasted and rightly so.... the d*unk females who do it, a different result... too often laughed off |
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In my 20s when I was an aupair in switzerland was walking up a hilly street in lausanne with a mate and a man walking down pretty much intentially walked straight into me with both hands firmly grabbing my breasts and squeezed,smirked and said je m'excuse and rushed off down the hill...I was more shocked than anything and yelled out asshole! |
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"Perhaps I should have been more explicit that "and enjoyed it of course" implied consent. "
But you CAN'T consent if it's a stranger that's the whole point. A fantasy scenario where someone is pretending to be a stranger is different but consent cannot be implied when it is a stranger. |
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and possibly I said "stranger" a few too many times in my last post. But this makes me quite cross and is an attitude that I come across a lot, women do not enjoy being touched in a sexual way by strangers to whom they have not given express permission. |
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"and possibly I said "stranger" a few too many times in my last post. But this makes me quite cross and is an attitude that I come across a lot, women do not enjoy being touched in a sexual way by strangers to whom they have not given express permission."
But obviously they must do, cos they are on a site like this.  (tongue in cheek before i get shot down) |
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By *ndy_sm OP Man
over a year ago
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"Perhaps I should have been more explicit that "and enjoyed it of course" implied consent.
But you CAN'T consent if it's a stranger that's the whole point. A fantasy scenario where someone is pretending to be a stranger is different but consent cannot be implied when it is a stranger. "
OK. Have you ever consented to manual sexual stimulation with a person who was previously unknown to you prior to your consenting to the aforesaid activity ?
Does that make the original question any clearer ? |
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"Perhaps I should have been more explicit that "and enjoyed it of course" implied consent.
But you CAN'T consent if it's a stranger that's the whole point. A fantasy scenario where someone is pretending to be a stranger is different but consent cannot be implied when it is a stranger.
OK. Have you ever consented to manual sexual stimulation with a person who was previously unknown to you prior to your consenting to the aforesaid activity ?
Does that make the original question any clearer ?"
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By *umsuckMan
over a year ago
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Out on a date years ago. On last bus home which was packed. Some d*unk idiot thought it would be a good idea to put his hand up my girlfriends skirt. Before I could think about intervening she swung a beaut of a punch and knocked guy spark out. I thought shiiiitt who am I with? Ended up marrying her... I didn't dare say no! |
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"Out on a date years ago. On last bus home which was packed. Some d*unk idiot thought it would be a good idea to put his hand up my girlfriends skirt. Before I could think about intervening she swung a beaut of a punch and knocked guy spark out. I thought shiiiitt who am I with? Ended up marrying her... I didn't dare say no! "
WOW, somehow I dont think thats quite the answer the OP was looking for tho lol  |
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By *umsuckMan
over a year ago
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"Out on a date years ago. On last bus home which was packed. Some d*unk idiot thought it would be a good idea to put his hand up my girlfriends skirt. Before I could think about intervening she swung a beaut of a punch and knocked guy spark out. I thought shiiiitt who am I with? Ended up marrying her... I didn't dare say no!
WOW, somehow I dont think thats quite the answer the OP was looking for tho lol "
I know,it just brought it back lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my first ever time to Reflex... revolving dancefloor, alcohol, Tiffany's 'i think we're alone now' being played and some sailor came from behind groped my tits, moved his hands down to my hips turned me around n kissed me
just one of those d*unken night out things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"(and enjoyed it of course)
Were you alone or with your partner ?
How did it happen ?
technically you do know that is sexual assult.... just making sure...."
thinking the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my 20s when I was an aupair in switzerland was walking up a hilly street in lausanne with a mate and a man walking down pretty much intentially walked straight into me with both hands firmly grabbing my breasts and squeezed,smirked and said je m'excuse and rushed off down the hill...I was more shocked than anything and yelled out asshole!"
This is classic 'Frottage' some pervs have turned it into an artform in some places of Europe.. usually on the Paris Metro. Dirty buggers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some bloke was riding a bike down the street one day and he thought he would grab my boobs.........called police, got the fecker prosecuted. simples.
No one has the right to do it unless youve indicated they can.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been groped by a stranger on a bus I was alone and I did not enjoy it. In my opinion sexual contact has to be consensual and if someone's a stranger then I can't consent. I was young and naïve at the time so did nothing if someone did it now things would be very different."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and the last guy that did it I nearly broke his jaw!!!
I swung round so fast and connected with his jaw as a reflex action (I go to the gym a lot!)he staggered back and his friends had to catch him.
Slimy little twat!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I play in a cinema type play situation I do get groped by people I won't even see. I do enjoy it.
Also once at a track day I was supporting a guy I knew and was leaning over the pit wall. And I felt a hand own my bum. I didn't want to cause bother so didn't say a word.
Yes I enjoyed it.
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My initial reaction to the OP is the same as any of the many comments posted by the ladies and guys already, in that an unwarranted "grope" of a woman (or a man) just because you happen to be on the bus/in the street/at a pub etc is totally wrong, and certainly would be assault.
However, thinking of it in terms of swinging and the various clubs and cinemas that exist, then that would change things a little.
In many clubs whom operate a dark room, then everyone who enters that area knows they are going to be touched or "groped" by stangers. That's the reason couples or single ladies go into that area, and the consent to touch uninvited is given simply by entering that part of the club, the same would be true of grope boxes etc where for those that enter the fun is not knowing whom is touching you.
Similarly, and I have seen this just once in a club, where a lady is blindfolded and is touched, with consent, but is unaware whom is doing the touching, again a very acceptable form of "groping by starngers".
Any other form of touching in a club, without consent, is ofcourse wrong and there's been numerous threads in the past about this.
Perhaps if the OP had asked if ladies enjoy having stranger sexual contact whereby they can't see or simply don't know the name of the person touching them, but where consent has been effectively given as in the above scenarios, the responses on the thread may have been different and more revealing.
Ofcourse many ladies/couples would never enter a darkroom or grope box precisely because of stranger contact, but for those that do, they certainly seem to enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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had a guy try to put his hand up my skirt while i was out shopping one day. Unfortunately for him, he really did pick the wrong girl. Turned round punched him with a very clean jab to the nose and broke it. Dont think that asshole would try it again on anyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"had a guy try to put his hand up my skirt while i was out shopping one day. Unfortunately for him, he really did pick the wrong girl. Turned round punched him with a very clean jab to the nose and broke it. Dont think that asshole would try it again on anyone else"
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Years ago i was in a nightclub and when i went to the loo a group of guys stood by the toilets one of them thought it funny to touch me up, so i took my heels of and bashed each of his ears with one |
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By *araidWoman
over a year ago
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I once had my butt groped by an older man who came striding up behind me on a sunday morning stroll to the newsagents. I was startled but burst out laughing as he said "excuse me" and strode on ahead of me into the shop. Still laughing as I followed him, the newsagent asked what was so funny - so I loudly told all five people in the shop what had just happened. Needless to say, he slunk out with a very red face. I have to say, I didnt feel like I had been secxually assaulted, although I now understand that was what it was - I just thought he was an ignorant toad who mistakenly thought I might have been flattered.
Like seeing a flasher and you point and laugh loudly. That was my equivalent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had my boobs felt by a wierdo with a cagoule on while staggering home very d*unk many years ago.
He had the hood up and tied tightly round his face.
I was that d*unk i just carried on trying to walk home and didnt even say a word to him.
The next morning it suddenly hit me what had happened and got me thinking i could have been in serious trouble. 
Never put me off walking anywhere alone and god help anyone if i was unlucky enough to have it happen again!!!But made sure i didnt ever get in that state again and kept away from men in cagoules!!! |
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