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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"Anyone like to be teased and humiliated?"
I have teased and humiliated a guy who acted as my cuck for a few years and shocked myself how I enjoyed it. Also shocked that when meeting Dom people I adore it being done to me |
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"Anyone like to be teased and humiliated?
I have teased and humiliated a guy who acted as my cuck for a few years and shocked myself how I enjoyed it. Also shocked that when meeting Dom people I adore it being done to me"
Yes been humiliated many times by a BULL |
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"As someone who doesn't understand what either party get from humiliation I would genuinely love to hear what it is that is pleasurable "
Okay, I’ll try to explain why I enjoy this when I’m in the mood for it.
I work hard, I constantly have to be the one everyone else can depend on. I have to make the decisions others don’t want to make, or say this things people shy away from saying out loud. All this falls on me. I do it because it’s all I have ever known from being a child.
How does this fit into being humiliated? Well, sometimes I don’t want to be the one everyone relies on. Sometimes I like the idea of someone else being that person, mix that with my competitiveness and humiliation plays perfectly into that for me.
I can be told there’s someone better, how worthless I am, how little my cock is, how I’m lucky to be even doing what I’m doing. The list is endless.
It’s a release for me, I get to not have to make the decisions. I can submit in that moment. But in a weird way, it also motivates me to carry on once the session is over. It’s simply just getting that little thing out of my system for a while.
We’re complex creatures. Maybe it comes from some childhood trauma? maybe I’m just wired different? Maybe I’m just looking for an excuse to live out my fantasies. Who knows!  |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"As someone who doesn't understand what either party get from humiliation I would genuinely love to hear what it is that is pleasurable
Okay, I’ll try to explain why I enjoy this when I’m in the mood for it.
I work hard, I constantly have to be the one everyone else can depend on. I have to make the decisions others don’t want to make, or say this things people shy away from saying out loud. All this falls on me. I do it because it’s all I have ever known from being a child.
How does this fit into being humiliated? Well, sometimes I don’t want to be the one everyone relies on. Sometimes I like the idea of someone else being that person, mix that with my competitiveness and humiliation plays perfectly into that for me.
I can be told there’s someone better, how worthless I am, how little my cock is, how I’m lucky to be even doing what I’m doing. The list is endless.
It’s a release for me, I get to not have to make the decisions. I can submit in that moment. But in a weird way, it also motivates me to carry on once the session is over. It’s simply just getting that little thing out of my system for a while.
We’re complex creatures. Maybe it comes from some childhood trauma? maybe I’m just wired different? Maybe I’m just looking for an excuse to live out my fantasies. Who knows! "
Thanks for taking the time to explain - it's really insightful. I completely understand why you would want to assume a more submissive role: I am very similar in that regard as it sounds like our personal circumstances are similar but as soon as I feel humiliated or degraded in any way the turn off switch is flicked. As you say, we are all complex and different and life would be very dull if we were all the same! |
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Started to get into humiliating cuck, just never too sure if going to overstep the mark so to speak. Have made him watch me have fun, cleaning, caged in front of other guys, little bit of verbal and made him drink own pee once too!!!! |
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By *rangarCouple
over a year ago
Bromsgrove |
As a Dom I love to dish it out…best was probably playing with a pro sub that another chap had paid for in front of a packed club…and making her cum like a train and ask me for more….he didn’t look too impressed to say the least…. |
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i love humiliation play now, wsn't interested when i first started dressing. But over time discovered it gets me into a subbie headspace very quickly and really gets me turned on.
That being said, it has to be done right. Like many kinks, you need to build up and find your limits (both receiver and giver), reflect and have after care. |
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"i love humiliation play now, wsn't interested when i first started dressing. But over time discovered it gets me into a subbie headspace very quickly and really gets me turned on.
That being said, it has to be done right. Like many kinks, you need to build up and find your limits (both receiver and giver), reflect and have after care. "
Basically this  totally agree.
I love it.  |
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Absolutely love being humiliated.
Ordered around.
Serving couples as they make love.
Golden showers on me at times.
My dream is to have a bukake with guys spunking all over me, preferably with women ordering them to cum on me. |
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We love a little bit. Has to be sprinkled lightly and then it is shocking enough to turn us both the f on!
As my attractive Hotwife looks on her podgy small dicked older husband in the naked flesh (Either just us or when playing) Sometimes its just an open goal! |
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"Anyone like to be teased and humiliated?"
Possibly, have been tempted and enjoyed giving teasing and humiliation before. Guess it depends on the Woman and if it’s being hot and filthy enough lol xxx |
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"What people outside of the lifestyle wouldn't get is that I would never tease, humiliate and cuck a guy I didn't actually like and respect outside of the bedroom.
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Absolutely this. It’s play, not an opinion or prejudice, something both parties should enjoy or find erotic.
I love being helpless and humiliated by someone who I know, and knows what I’m getting from the humiliation. Trust and respect is what counts.  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
One of the key aspects of humiliation play is sensitivity…if you’re not emotionally intelligent enough to really connect with someone, you won’t be humiliating them in a way that gets them off, you’ll just be turning them off. So it can be an extremely erotic experience for people who understand how to play with each others minds, as well as their bodies. |
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"One of the key aspects of humiliation play is sensitivity…if you’re not emotionally intelligent enough to really connect with someone, you won’t be humiliating them in a way that gets them off, you’ll just be turning them off. So it can be an extremely erotic experience for people who understand how to play with each others minds, as well as their bodies. "
totally agree |
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"One of the key aspects of humiliation play is sensitivity…if you’re not emotionally intelligent enough to really connect with someone, you won’t be humiliating them in a way that gets them off, you’ll just be turning them off. So it can be an extremely erotic experience for people who understand how to play with each others minds, as well as their bodies. "
Well said.. we don't consider ourselves into humiliation but we do love some degradation play when alone. The bond, intimacy, and respect we share makes it an intensely hot experience.
Even the thought of engaging in that okay with relative strangers is a big turn off |
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