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How Long Had You Been A Member On Here Before Your First Meet?
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Only realised today that I've now been on Fab for five months, and although I've spoken to one couple via messages I've yet to actually meet anyone, even for a social meet. I have to admit I'm not a constant messager, in fact I think I've only sent about ten during the time I've been here. So I was wondering what's others experiences are about how long you had been a member on here before you had your first meet, social or for fun.  |
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Originally joined years ago and got regular meets pretty quickly.
More recently it has proved more challenging but in recent weeks I’ve had a couple of really lovely meets.
Time, patience and thoughtful approach to potential partners is required. |
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over a year ago
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I joined a month after lockdown originally so not great timing but only waited 2-3 weeks before my first meet who I stayed seeing just him for many months to lower covid risks of meeting others too |
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Joined after being told about it by a lady I met on my first club visit. Can't think how long it was before I arranged a meet purely from fab.
It is all a game of luck and chance. Recently started chatting to a lovely lady after a forum post she made. Been chatting a few weeks now and looking to arrange a meet soon.
It does happen  |
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over a year ago
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Was about a month before I bumped into someone at a club that I was speaking to on fab, that night we only had a brief conversation and then met at the club about a month later, every one else I normally meet at the club first then message on here after, I've yet to actually go on a social with someone purely from fab |
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Been on here years, mainly to chat, spoke to loads of lovely people, but did have one couple that we spoke about meeting up. Sadly the mrs passed away before we could from covid, and haven't really connected with anyone else on the same level tbh.
Have been to a club once or twice, but never asked anyone for Verai's |
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over a year ago
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About 3 years now. My 1st meet was a good social couple of drinks etc x the girl was a good looking sexy girl x we flirted in the pub and we ended up going back to my house because we were both horny x i normally don't have sex on the 1st night but a standing cock has no conscience lol xxx  |
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We joined three sites four months ago. One site cut off after a month. Other is restrictive with free profile. We paid fir Silver on here as cams are not our thing. We have had a few messages that we have replied to and had replies back. No friend requests from couples.
As a couple we have been together 20 years. We have a great sex life and are not in any rush to share or swap, It is something we both want to add. |
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We were pretty quick on the first meet. Decided to try it at the beginning of the week and went to a club by that same weekend.
Took a few more weeks to meet and actually play, but we were keen to get on with it (before nerves got the better of us).
Once we got the initial meetings out the way, we went years without doing anything else though |
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Not sure, afew months for sure. After a million messages. I found a guy to meet then he let me down by cumming within seconds of touching him, took me home straight away and ghosted me...terrible. should of held out longer for a better quality meet |
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"best go to your local club , swinging is a niche activity and most people here are not swingers .. or genuine ..."
I went to two clubs. Clubs aren't even guaranteed sex. Wish people stop selling it as it's a mass orgy where everyone can get action. Not true at all |
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"best go to your local club , swinging is a niche activity and most people here are not swingers .. or genuine ...
I went to two clubs. Clubs aren't even guaranteed sex. Wish people stop selling it as it's a mass orgy where everyone can get action. Not true at all "
Your absolutely right at no club are you guaranteed sex nore should you go with the exception of having sex it's just a bonus if it does happen, but if you are social enough you can meet some great people show who you really are and what you are like in person, then down the line in the future you might just fine yourself with a great bunch of friends some you play with some you don't, organised social events also work in the same way apart from you are guaranteed not to have sex |
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over a year ago
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We’ve been on here a few months feeling our way.
We’re not in any rush to meet but may do it at some point.
We’ve enjoyed the cam sessions we have done recently. |
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